--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "shanti2218411" <kc21d@...> wrote: > > I agree.I am a psychologist and after having seen > thousands of clients, I have no doubt that one of the > most fundamental mistakes people make is thinking > reality should be than what it is at this moment. > Denial of what IS invariably results in the > perpetuation of suffering.
Just a quick clue: thinking reality should be other than what it is at this moment is *not* equivalent to *denial* of what it is at this moment.