--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "feste37" <feste37@...> wrote: > > Does anyone know why she would do such a thing? I had > never heard of her, but I just looked at her Facebook > page. Self-immolation -- wtf?
Based on reports on the Web that she used to regularly cut and burn herself to "prove" to her devotees that she was beyond pain, and was covered with scars as a result, might I suggest that the following list of "criteria for sociopathy" might be a good place to start when trying to figure out "why?" The woman sounds crazier to me than Ravi was when he first showed up here. * Glibness and Superficial Charm. * Manipulative and Cunning. They never recognize the rights of others and see their self-serving behaviors as permissible. They appear to be charming, yet are covertly hostile and domineering, seeing their victim as merely an instrument to be used. They may dominate and humiliate their victims. * Grandiose Sense of Self. Feels entitled to certain things as "their right." * Pathological Lying. Has no problem lying coolly and easily and it is almost impossible for them to be truthful on a consistent basis. Can create, and get caught up in, a complex belief about their own powers and abilities. Extremely convincing and even able to pass lie detector tests. * Lack of Remorse, Shame or Guilt. A deep seated rage, which is split off and repressed, is at their core. Does not see others around them as people, but only as targets and opportunities. Instead of friends, they have victims and accomplices who end up as victims. The end always justifies the means and they let nothing stand in their way. * Shallow Emotions. When they show what seems to be warmth, joy, love and compassion it is more feigned than experienced and serves an ulterior motive. Outraged by insignificant matters, yet remaining unmoved and cold by what would upset a normal person. Since they are not genuine, neither are their promises. * Incapacity for Love. * Need for Stimulation. Living on the edge. Verbal outbursts and physical punishments are normal. Promiscuity and gambling are common. * Callousness/Lack of Empathy. Unable to empathize with the pain of their victims, having only contempt for others' feelings of distress and readily taking advantage of them. * Poor Behavioral Controls/Impulsive Nature. Rage and abuse, alternating with small expressions of love and approval produce an addictive cycle for abuser and abused, as well as creating hopelessness in the victim. Believe they are all-powerful, all-knowing, entitled to every wish, no sense of personal boundaries, no concern for their impact on others. * Early Behavior Problems/Juvenile Delinquency. Usually has a history of behavioral and academic difficulties, yet "gets by" by conning others. Problems in making and keeping friends; aberrant behaviors such as cruelty to people or animals, stealing, etc. * Irresponsibility/Unreliability. Not concerned about wrecking others' lives and dreams. Oblivious or indifferent to the devastation they cause. Does not accept blame themselves, but blames others, even for acts they obviously committed. * Promiscuous Sexual Behavior/Infidelity. Promiscuity, child sexual abuse, rape and sexual acting out of all sorts. * Lack of Realistic Life Plan/Parasitic Lifestyle. Tends to move around a lot or makes all encompassing promises for the future, poor work ethic but exploits others effectively. * Criminal or Entrepreneurial Versatility. Changes their image as needed to avoid prosecution. Changes life story readily. * Does not perceive that anything is wrong with them. * Authoritarian. * Secretive. * Paranoid. * Only rarely in difficulty with the law, but seeks out situations where their tyrannical behavior will be tolerated, condoned, or admired. * Goal of enslavement of their victim(s). * Exercises despotic control over every aspect of the victim's life. * Has an emotional need to justify their crimes and therefore needs their victim's affirmation (respect, gratitude and love). * Ultimate goal is the creation of a willing victim. * Unable to feel remorse or guilt. * Extreme narcissism and grandiose. * May state readily that their goal is to rule the world.
