"PS to Ravi: sorry for taking it all out on you. " Yaay - I'm happy again !!!
On Tue, Nov 13, 2012 at 9:05 AM, Share Long <sharelon...@yahoo.com> wrote: > ** > > > Hey, Alex I enjoy just about all your posts and I remember our Waking Down > days with a little smile. But I am not anti Robin. I am anti whatever it > is in him that still blocks and distorts his gifts. Whatever it is in him > that then contributes to his group becoming so polarized against everyone > else. It's that black and white thinking again in them: that unless one > thinks he's wonderful all the time, then one is supposedly out for his > blood and wanting to crucify him, both phrases that Judy used. > > BTW Raunchy, this kind of language from Judy is what I mean by enabling in > this context. Obviously in an online situation no one is supplying a > physical fix. Not only is such language enabling of an unhealthy dynamic, > it's also extreme thus creating more polarity. And yes, the Robin group is > very loyal. But it doesn't seem balanced to me. It's as if he's right all > the time and so is his group. And anyone who disagrees with him or it is > all wrong. And yes Emily you did accuse me of enabling Barry. No big > deal. It's such a preposterous idea. > > Of course Robin himself uses extreme language as when he attributed the > jezebel and termagant labels for Judy to his questioners. And several > labels to them about himself: reprobate, not changed one iota, etc. This > is a double whammy. > > Anyway, I'm not about to use DSM IV labels or talk about demons, etc. I > won't even mention jyotish or some of the info in the Epilogue of Cult. > I've seen that Ann thinks Robin is very changed. And that her friendship > with LK is over. LK who has been concerned about her. > > I'm sure that Robin is changed and in a good way. I'm also sure that I > want Robin to be completely healed and happy. Because he is so > intelligent and intuitive, he knows it too. But if he and his group want > to continue to call me anti Robin, then so be it. I know he has many > supporters including me on FFL outside of his group. Maybe someday he'll > be both willing and able to see that. > > PS to Ravi: sorry for taking it all out on you. > ------------------------------ > *From:* Alex Stanley <j_alexander_stan...@yahoo.com> > *To:* FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com > *Sent:* Monday, November 12, 2012 4:27 PM > *Subject:* [FairfieldLife] Re: The day hysteria, paranoia, mayhem reigned > supreme on FFL > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "raunchydog" <raunchydog@...> wrote: > > > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long <sharelong60@> wrote: > > > > > > dear Ravi, Thank you SO MUCH for FINALLY putting me at the top of the > list. You Robinites are always calling Barry the Number One Bad Person and > I'm actually FED UP with that. The guy is a cupcake compared to me! A > cupcake I say! FWIW, I still love you. Tee hee. > > > > > > As for your topic in the Subject line above, I say: so just another > day on FFL (-: > > > BTW, I have not read your EIGHT posts of this morning yet. Hope I > haven't missed > > > something important. If I did, apologizing in advance. And feeling > guilty because I think I've been neglecting my apologizing duties lately. > What with exposing wts, etc. > > > > > > Next topic: who is this Siri hussy and why the heck are you trysting > with her?! Look, I didn't want to have to be the one to tell you, but I'm > pretty sure I just saw her at the FF in spot, Revs. With You Know Who. No > silly, not THAT You Know Who. That OTHER You Know Who. > > > > > > Anyway, keep up the good work there in the Outer Circle with bull, er > ox cart. You guys are doing an excellent job of maintaining the perimeter > for The Inner Ones and JJ NOE the Number One Enabler. > > > > > > > Share, I'll ask the same question that Emily asked that you still > haven't answered: "ENABLING WHAT?" Exactly what is Judy enabling? Judy > defends Robin (and rightly, so) from unceasing attacks on his character and > integrity from those who have difficulty dealing with an occasional stiff > dose of honesty that necessitates taking a hard look at themselves. > > > > Codependents enable addicts. Friends stick up for each other. Robin > earned Judy's friendship, as he has others, and mine for being the caring, > sensitive, intelligent and courageously honest person that he is. It's not > a mystery why people like Robin. On FFLife, as in real life, honesty earns > respect and dishonesty earns distain and mockery. > > > > The beauty of FFLife, where you live and die by your words on the > record, bullshitters don't get to dodge a bullet. If you make yourself a > target, someone will always take the shot. It's nothing personal, it's just > that Judy and Robin happen to have very good aim. > > > > I second the question: Enabling what? In real life, Share's a friend of > mine from Waking Down, and watching her glom onto this bizarre and > malevolent anti-Robin polarity is both strange and disappointing. The > person I'm most impressed with is Ann, who appears to have actually > discovered grace, despite having done the Robin trip, 25 years ago. > > > > >
