An old story to many on the list but one that may help: The Royal Princess Kitty Katt knew me most of her life. She had decided to live with my parents after a few months of living feral. Unfortunately I was the one who took her to the vet's, cut her nails etc. But she knew me and liked me sort of part of the time. My father died and, until then, he was her favorite person. It was just Kitty and Mom for a number of years. Then Mom decided she could not take care of Kitty and sent her to me to live the rest of her life. Kitty was ballistic. Her job was taking care of Mom and she was moved to a city from the country, to a house that was considerably different in terms of neighbors, heating, air conditioning, street noises .......................you name it, it was different. Including a working person as opposed to a person who stayed home with her all the time. Talk about major trauma. I spent 3 months sleeping on the floor near the couch she hid under. Gradually she came out and finally slept with me on the floor. Life did get a lot better. This was a perfectly tame, wonderful little calico cat who was moved to someone she knew and who had access to an animal communicator. Caroline has been thrown out of a home and "given" to someone who is a total unknown with unknown everything that goes with it. If you have access to an animal communicator, you might ask her to reassure Caroline.
If you have men who will exclude any of God's creatures from the shelter of compassion and pity, you will have men who will deal likewise with their fellow man. St. Francis ----- Original Message ----- From: Kelley Saveika To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Friday, December 29, 2006 4:27 PM Subject: Re: OT - Help, aggressive cat Poor thing, her name is Caroline. I was thinking of Charlottes web... She had two cats, but found a home for the other. So Caroline is in a strange place, without her kitty friend. On 12/29/06, Rosenfeldt, Diane <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: Poor Charlotte. Her exmommy should have insisted on Claritin.... Diane R. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto: [EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Kelley Saveika Sent: Friday, December 29, 2006 4:17 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: OT - Help, aggressive cat Her story is the dreaded moving in with the allergic boyfriend one. She didn't even bring her over - a friend of hers did. So Charlotte was clearly tame enough for the friend to get into a carrier (which is more than I could do at this point). Charlotte didn't go ballistic until she saw me...lol. On 12/29/06, Jennifer Phaewryn O'Gwynn <[EMAIL PROTECTED] > wrote: Welcome to the world of Owner Surrenders! What one says is certainly usually NOT what one gets! It's common for a "sweet kitty with no problems" to actually arrive to you as "kitty from hell about to gouge out your eyeballs in a fit of rage". That being said, you do sometimes get a cat in that really was a good cat in it's own home, and is just so totally freaked out by the change and new surroundings and strangers that it will just freak out and seem completely feral. My suggestion is to keep her as you are, in a smaller room, and give her lots of hiding places, like boxes nested inside each other, baskets, and a kennel with an open door (or the door removed). When you are in with her, move very slowly; NEVER make eye contact, always keep your shoulders angled away from her, never face her straight on, as that is threatening body language. When you HAVE to look at her, squint your eyes, but keep your face relaxed, as narrowed eyes are a sign of friendliness in cats. Don't try to approach her or touch her. Sit down on the other side of the room and don't face her, but sit in there quietly while she eats, just so she gets used to your presence. Move slowly, be quiet while you are in her room. She may come around. Or maybe not, and the owner might have completely made up the fact that she is tame, just so you would take her. It happens. Phaewryn Donations Needed for Whitey's emergency Vet Care! http://ucat.us/Whitey.html DONATE VIA PAYPAL: https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_xclick&business=seething%40vtlink%2enet&item_name=DONATION%20to%20Whitey%20Veterinary%20Bill%20Fund 12/24/06 Whitey Pictures: http://ucat.us/Whitey/WhiteyNewPics.html Whitey Models on Ebay: http://cgi.ebay.com/Cleos-Catnip-ORGANIC-2-ounces-cat-nip-KITTY-YUMMY_W0QQitemZ140067996154QQihZ004QQ -- Rescuties - Saving the world, one cat at a time. http://www.rescuties.org Vist the Rescuties store and save a kitty life! http://astore.amazon.com/rescuties-20 This electronic mail transmission and any attachments are confidential and may be privileged. They should be read or retained only by the intended recipient. If you have received this transmission in error, please notify the sender immediately and delete the transmission from your system. In addition, in order to comply with Treasury Circular 230, we are required to inform you that unless we have specifically stated to the contrary in writing, any advice we provide in this email or any attachment concerning federal tax issues or submissions is not intended or written to be used, and cannot be used, to avoid federal tax penalties. -- Rescuties - Saving the world, one cat at a time. http://www.rescuties.org Vist the Rescuties store and save a kitty life! http://astore.amazon.com/rescuties-20