Hi Nick,

Thanks for the reply -- and sorry about the tooth.

I wasn't intending to re-open the question of subjective experience in
general -- and certainly not about whether we can be sure about
understanding someone else's. It just struck me that intimacy as I
understand that term depends on an assumption of subjective experience, and
I wondered whether that ruled out intimacy in your view. Now that I read
what you've written, I'm not even sure that I understood your position on
subjective experience.

I hope that the (subjective experience of) pain from the tooth recedes.

-- Russ

On Sat, Feb 20, 2016 at 8:11 PM Nick Thompson <nickthomp...@earthlink.net>
wrote:

> Hi, Russ,
>
>
>
> You wrote:
>
>
>
> *Intimacy is … not about just about knowing something about someone that
> isn't generally known, e.g., where the person went to elementary school or
> her mother's maiden.* *Intimacy has to do with the kinds of things that
> are known, in particular with knowing about the subjective experience of
> another person. At least that's how I would describe it -- and that's why I
> raised the question.*
>
>
>
> Oh, I don’t have a lot of trouble agreeing  with the first part of this
> statement.  Some unknowns are inherently more intimate than others.
>
>
>
> But what is it to know the subjective experience of another ?  You ask me
> about my experience, and I tell you?  Do you have to trust my account?
> Well, if you ask *me*, I assert that I, for one, DON’T.  One answer to
> this quandary is to simply assert that Russ Abbot has subjective experience
> and Nick Thompson does not!  Perhaps ,N.T. is the victim of a form of
> autism that deprives him of that self-conscious that for you defines the
> human condition.  And there’s an end to it, eh?  At this point, one of my
> most dedicated opponents in this discussion, a former graduate student,
> always say, “So it’s OK to kill you eat you, right?”
>
>
>
> I am going to invoke the academic Scoundrel’s Defense here, and attach  a
> link to another paper
> <http://www.clarku.edu/faculty/nthompson/1-websitestuff/Texts/1990-1994/The_many_perils_of_ejective_anthropomorphism.pdf>.
> “Ejective anthropomorphism” is the idea that we come to know animal mental
> states by seeing an isomorphism between some feature of an animals behavior
> and some behavior of our own and then, since we know infallibly the
> internal causes of our behavior, inferring the internal causes of the
> animal’s.   The whole argument hangs, of course, on the notion that we know
> why we do things by some special direct knowledge… “privileged access”.
> The article is a bit of a slog, but if skim judiciously until you get to
> the section on “privileged access”, 67, then you might have enough energy
> to read the argument against that notion and be convinced.
>
>
>
> Russ, I think in our correspondence before you have perhaps taken the
> position that it simply is the case that each of us has a private
> consciousness.  That is a position taken by another FRIAMMER and I find it,
> oddly, the most winning argument.  “I choose to start here!”
>
>
>
>
>
> Nick
>
>
>
> Nicholas S. Thompson
>
> Emeritus Professor of Psychology and Biology
>
> Clark University
>
> http://home.earthlink.net/~nickthompson/naturaldesigns/
>
>
>
> *From:* Friam [mailto:friam-boun...@redfish.com
> <friam-boun...@redfish.com>] *On Behalf Of *Russ Abbott
> *Sent:* Friday, February 19, 2016 10:33 PM
>
>
> *To:* The Friday Morning Applied Complexity Coffee Group <
> friam@redfish.com>
> *Subject:* Re: [FRIAM] Subjectivity and intimacy
>
>
>
> Intimacy is not necessarily about sex, but it is also not about
> just about knowing something about someone that isn't generally known,
> e.g., where the person went to elementary school or her mother's maiden
> name. It's more than just being able to answer the sorts of questions web
> sites ask as a way to establish one's identity. Intimacy has to do with the
> *kinds *of things that are known, in particular with knowing about the
> subjective experience of another person. At least that's how I would
> describe it -- and that's why I raised the question.
>
>
>
> On Fri, Feb 19, 2016 at 3:39 PM Nick Thompson <nickthomp...@earthlink.net>
> wrote:
>
> Dear John and Russ,
>
>
>
> Well, you question is an example of itself.  Who is best qualified to
> explain the basis of Nick's denial of subjectivity?  Is this a question
> about etiology: I.e., the causal history of Nick's coming to deny
> subjectivity?  Or is it a question of what rational arguments Nick might
> make for his denial of subjectivity.  Note that there is nothing
> particularly private about either of those forms of the question.  FRIAM
> could get to work on answering them and Nick could stand aside and wonder
> at the quality and perspicacity of your answers.  My own most recent and
> condensed and approachable attempt to answer both versions of the question
> can be found in the manuscript that is attached.  I can’t find cc of the
> published vsn at the moment.
>
>
>
> I will think about the intimacy issue.  I think it’s about having some
> others who know things about you that are not generally known.  I would
> argue that when you get into bed with somebody naked, it’s a metaphor.  But
> then, I am old.
>
>
>
> Nick
>
>
>
> Nicholas S. Thompson
>
> Emeritus Professor of Psychology and Biology
>
> Clark University
>
> http://home.earthlink.net/~nickthompson/naturaldesigns/
>
>
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Friam [mailto:friam-boun...@redfish.com] On Behalf Of John Kennison
> Sent: Friday, February 19, 2016 2:30 PM
> To: The Friday Morning Applied Complexity Coffee Group <friam@redfish.com>
> Subject: Re: [FRIAM] Subjectivity and intimacy
>
>
>
> One thing I wonder about (or perhaps have forgotten) in this discussion
> and Nick's denial is what the denial is based on. Is the absence of
> subjectivity supposed to be a scientific fact? If so, we should be
> discussing the experimental foundations of this fact. I have read of some
> experiments which seem to indicate that subjectiviity is not exactly what
> we (or what I) used to think it is --but which do not seem to disprove
> subjectivity.
>
>
>
> --John
>
> ________________________________________
>
> From: Friam [friam-boun...@redfish.com] on behalf of Russ Abbott [
> russ.abb...@gmail.com]
>
> Sent: Friday, February 19, 2016 3:27 PM
>
> To: The Friday Morning Applied Complexity Coffee Group
>
> Subject: [FRIAM] Subjectivity and intimacy
>
>
>
> We've had discussions on and off about subjectivity -- with me getting
> frustrated at Nick's denial thereof (if I understood him correctly).
>
>
>
> It occurred to me recently that intimacy is defined -- as I understand it
> -- in terms of subjectivity, i.e., the sharing of one's (most private)
> subjective experiences with another.
>
>
>
> I'm wondering what Nick thinks about this and whether anyone else has
> something to say about it. In particular, if there is no such thing as
> subjective experience, does that imply in your view that the same goes for
> intimacy?
>
>
>
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>
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>
> Clark University
>
> http://home.earthlink.net/~nickthompson/naturaldesigns/
>
>
>
> *From:* Friam [mailto:friam-boun...@redfish.com] *On Behalf Of *Russ
> Abbott
> *Sent:* Friday, February 19, 2016 10:33 PM
>
>
> *To:* The Friday Morning Applied Complexity Coffee Group <
> friam@redfish.com>
> *Subject:* Re: [FRIAM] Subjectivity and intimacy
>
>
>
> Intimacy is not necessarily about sex, but it is also not about
> just about knowing something about someone that isn't generally known,
> e.g., where the person went to elementary school or her mother's maiden
> name. It's more than just being able to answer the sorts of questions web
> sites ask as a way to establish one's identity. Intimacy has to do with the
> *kinds *of things that are known, in particular with knowing about the
> subjective experience of another person. At least that's how I would
> describe it -- and that's why I raised the question.
>
>
>
> On Fri, Feb 19, 2016 at 3:39 PM Nick Thompson <nickthomp...@earthlink.net>
> wrote:
>
> Dear John and Russ,
>
>
>
> Well, you question is an example of it self.  Who is best qualified to
> explain the basis of Nick's denial of subjectivity?  Is this a question
> about aetiology: I.e., the causal history of Nick's coming to deny
> subjectivity?  Or is it a question of what rational arguments Nick might
> make for his denial of subjectivity.  Note that there is nothing
> particularly private about either of those forms of the question.  FRIAM
> could get to work on answering them and Nick could stand aside and wonder
> at the quality and perspicacity of your answers.  My own most recent and
> condensed and approachable attempt to answer both versions of the question
> can be found in the manuscript that is attached.  I can’t find cc of the
> published vsn at the moment.
>
>
>
> I will think about the intimacy issue.  I think it’s about having some
> others who know things about you that are not generally known.  I would
> argue that when you get into bed with somebody naked, it’s a metaphor.  But
> then, I am old.
>
>
>
> Nick
>
>
>
> Nicholas S. Thompson
>
> Emeritus Professor of Psychology and Biology
>
> Clark University
>
> http://home.earthlink.net/~nickthompson/naturaldesigns/
>
>
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Friam [mailto:friam-boun...@redfish.com] On Behalf Of John Kennison
> Sent: Friday, February 19, 2016 2:30 PM
> To: The Friday Morning Applied Complexity Coffee Group <friam@redfish.com>
> Subject: Re: [FRIAM] Subjectivity and intimacy
>
>
>
> One thing I wonder about (or perhaps have forgotten) in this discussion
> and Nick's denial is what the denial is based on. Is the absence of
> subjectivity supposed to be a scientific fact? If so, we should be
> discussing the experimental foundations of this fact. I have read of some
> experiments which seem to indicate that subjectiviity is not exactly what
> we (or what I) used to think it is --but which do not seem to disprove
> subjectivity.
>
>
>
> --John
>
> ________________________________________
>
> From: Friam [friam-boun...@redfish.com] on behalf of Russ Abbott [
> russ.abb...@gmail.com]
>
> Sent: Friday, February 19, 2016 3:27 PM
>
> To: The Friday Morning Applied Complexity Coffee Group
>
> Subject: [FRIAM] Subjectivity and intimacy
>
>
>
> We've had discussions on and off about subjectivity -- with me getting
> frustrated at Nick's denial thereof (if I understood him correctly).
>
>
>
> It occurred to me recently that intimacy is defined -- as I understand it
> -- in terms of subjectivity, i.e., the sharing of one's (most private)
> subjective experiences with another.
>
>
>
> I'm wondering what Nick thinks about this and whether anyone else has
> something to say about it. In particular, if there is no such thing as
> subjective experience, does that imply in your view that the same goes for
> intimacy?
>
>
>
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>
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