Damn Nick!

That is one enormously disarming and persuasive argument! Good luck with your distraction... I have a small clutch of freshly fledged Ravens in my trees acting up right about now... they made me think of you (and your interests, not your nature)!

Most if not all of you will be relieved that I just composed and deleted (relieved at the last part) a longwinded response to Marcus' original contribution.

The only thing I was motivated to rescue from that diatribe is the following tangent off of Marcus' own tangent:

Marcus.. who is looking forward to an introverted president and not a 
narcissist.   They are not the same thing.
I hope you aren't planning on holding your breath on this one? Neither of the Duopoly candidates comes close on either count as far as I can tell. I give both Gary and Jill lower points on the narcissist scale than the first two, but that may only be because they haven't had the microphone or the limelight for long enough yet? Are any of them introverted? It has been suggested that Nixon and Coolidge were the only card carrying introverts with Jefferson and Madison being functionally introverted because of there extreme scholarly nature. Adams (senior, not JQ) also gets a nod. The rest are pretty likely not particularly introverted. It doesn't seem to fit the nature of becoming a candidate for and then securing the office?

Pew did their own study of the level of Narcissism in the Oval Office:

http://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2013/11/14/the-most-narcissistic-u-s-presidents/

suggesting that US presidents were more narcissistic than the average American. Guess where some of your favorite love-to-hate and love-to-love figures land on that scale?

I appreciate your distinction between Introvert and Narcissist.
In an article from Psychology Today, it is pointed out that not all introverts are narcissists, but when they are:

// they/"may have a way of influencing others around them to feel off-balance and/or insecure." / https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/communication-success/201601/7-signs-covert-introvert-narcissist

Steve


On 8/1/16 4:08 PM, Nick Thompson wrote:
Dear Friammers,

As often happens, this list again  throws up an interesting thread just when I 
am trying to concentrate on something else, and so cannot properly  
participate.  This thread is about communication, which I spent my career 
studying, and communication in writing, in particular, which I spent my career 
doing.  It raises for me the fascinating question about the force of talking 
about the self as a way of communicating universal understanding.  This 
technique is the hall mark of the E.B. White essay, which often begins with 
some scene observed from a sharply personal point of view, but reaches out 
rapidly to the [hypothetical] reader's experience.  The writer of an E.B.White 
essay always skates on the edge of narcissism because s/he assumes that his own 
experience is the same as that of everybody else. That error, the egocentric 
fallacy, is the deep core of narcissism.  And yet, when done well, such essays 
can be enormously disarming and persuasive.

I cannot say more at the moment, but do want to thank you for airing this, and 
hope you continue.

Nick

Nicholas S. Thompson
Emeritus Professor of Psychology and Biology
Clark University
http://home.earthlink.net/~nickthompson/naturaldesigns/

-----Original Message-----
From: Friam [mailto:friam-boun...@redfish.com] On Behalf Of Marcus Daniels
Sent: Monday, August 01, 2016 4:29 PM
To: The Friday Morning Applied Complexity Coffee Group <friam@redfish.com>
Subject: Re: [FRIAM] Narcissism and Mass Shootings

I don't think a reader should be forced to choose between (1) or (2), but I 
would prefer that the writer be aware enough to refer to context rather than 
restating it as if it were their invention.   How is this agent different than 
the environment which the reader is already equipped to assess?    The 
pseudo-profound bullshit is debatable, but reasonable people know it is.  It's 
just a placeholder (in spite of the Portlandians) to get on to more interesting 
unique details -- the stuff not in the compression dictionaries that represent 
the prevailing culture.

-----Original Message-----
From: Friam [mailto:friam-boun...@redfish.com] On Behalf Of glen ?
Sent: Monday, August 01, 2016 2:00 PM
To: The Friday Morning Applied Complexity Coffee Group <friam@redfish.com>
Subject: Re: [FRIAM] Narcissism and Mass Shootings


Well, sure, competence in communication involves both abilities: 1) to compress/abstract 
out detail so as to state your point clearly and 2) to place such a point inside a use 
case, a narrative.  And although I think of abstraction as one of my skills (at least I 
tend to do it all the time, perhaps badly), I'm wary of the inscribed _bias_ that comes 
with pre-[compressed|abstracted] morals-of-the-story.  This is, I think, why that paper 
on "pseudo-profound bullshit" was interesting.  Any compression of someone's 
experience will be very helpful _if_ accompanied by the very boring type of facts of 
interest to a private investigator.  But all compressions of someone's experience are 
merely pseudo-profound bullshit in the _absence_ of those tedious details.  If forced to 
choose between (1) xor (2), I much prefer (2).

This is pretty much the only reason I'm willing to vote for Clinton.  (willing 
but not yet decided... I may still go for Stein or Johnson ... or maybe 
Cthulhu: https://cthulhuforamerica.com/)  She's a bit of a wonk, much less 
capable of the vacuous, warm and fuzzy platitudes Obama gives us, but much more 
credible sounding than Trump because she articulates (at least some of) the 
details.

On 08/01/2016 10:12 AM, Marcus Daniels wrote:
One may or may not find this distasteful, depending on the situation, but my real 
complaint is not with the exploiters, it is with the tendency of people to seek and 
expect relationships but without offering any "terse and present context-less" 
analysis of their experience.    Write a novel, paint a picture.    Capture the concept 
to express somehow so that individuals can exchange information in the space of ideas and 
not in the space of (all of our) tedious and highly-replicated personal problems.

Marcus.. who is looking forward to an introverted president and not a 
narcissist.   They are not the same thing.
--
☢ glen

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