Brenda wrote: > On 5 Jan 2002, at 1:40, colin wrote: > > > both. However, my concern is with Soon Yi. No matter how old she was, he was her > > father for many years. To then form a sexual relationship with her is abusive. > > bw colin > > > > This is where it gets complicated to me.... >
yes it was complicated but still inappropriate. It has to do with boundaries and power and lots of stuff that would need a book to explain!(i am sure you know that anyhow) bw colin