On Mon, May 12, 2008 at 6:59 PM, Bob La Quey <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> On Mon, May 12, 2008 at 4:36 PM,  <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>  > On Mon, May 12, 2008 at 01:33:09PM -0700, Robert Donovan wrote:
>  >  > I've long ago stopped going to friends' houses wherin the practice is
>  >  > to leave the TV on with nobody watching it.
>  >
>  >  Acquaintance friend of mine told me they leave the TV on 24/7.
>  >  He can't go to sleep unless the TV is on.

I wouldn't be going over during sleeping hours in most cases. As to
while they were awake, I go, do what I came there to do, and get out
of there.

>
>  It is just an electronic fire. Muttering away in the background.
>  Why should it bother one?
>
>  I guess it may depend upon how you were raised. I grew up in a
>  loud and cantankerous environment. By the time I was four or
>  five years old I had learned to simply ignore a lot of what
>  was going on around me. I find this ability has served me well
>  in later life. I feel sorry sometimes for people who seem unable
>  to concentrate unless circumstances are "just right."
>
>  Indeed I find it easier to concentrate when their is a continuous
>  stream of activity around me.
>
>  I do though always maintain a background awareness that is
>  checking for potential explosions.
>
>  And you?

Perhaps I should have said I long ago stopped voluntarily going to
friends' houses wherein the practice was to have the TV on with nobody
watching it, unless I had some strong reason for going. I have worked
on projects at places where CNBC or some other far mor inane nonesense
was blaring away on a TV right next to me, and beng paid attention to
by no one. I have done the same thing in friends homes. I can tune it
out fine. I simply consider it a waste of energy to avoid an
unnecessary distraction and choose not to be bothered with that. I
certainly would never tell somebody they shouldn't turn a TV on in
their own house or business, if that's what they like or find
necessary to help focus their concentration, but if they have any
desire for me to stay after I accomplish the purpose of my visit, the
odds drop precipitously if the TV is always on, particularly if it's
something really vapid, a la Jerry Springer or a panel of stock market
analysts. On the other hand, if they want me to leave under the same
circumstances, there are few better ways in my case.

Robert Donovan


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