Why do list members want to ban topics or postings when feelings get hurt.
This stuff is great entertainment and shouldn't be discouraged.

On Wed, Jul 7, 2010 at 3:59 PM, Noah Sematimba <[email protected]> wrote:

>
> And yes.. I acknowledge that James said this is his final word but since he
> mentioned me by name and I am supposedly the cause of his choosing to keep
> silent on this topic.. I think its only fair I respond to this assertions:
>
> On Jul 7, 2010, at 9:44 PM, Wire James wrote:
>
>  Members
>
> this happens to be my final say on this .UG issue because the trend of
> emails that I have been reading have been getting more and more personal. I
> find it a fallacy that when one offers their position on an issue and
> strongly defends it, he/she is labelled all sorts of names. I was shocked to
> the marrow by the statement made by Noah Sematimba in his posting where he
> states:
> ***** begin quote *****
> I remember clearly this discussion being raised not just once but
>
> multiple times and there being no traction. Now once again it is being  
> raised and made to appear as something all the community is pushing  when 
> there has never actually been any such consensus from what I have  seen from 
> previous discussions.
> This makes me begin to question the motives of the people involved in  this 
> and whether they are as altruistic as they try to make them seem.
>
>  ***** end quote *****
>
>
> And why would you reserve the right to "strongly" defend your stand while
> denying others the same right to "strongly" defend their stand? I believe
> this list is meant to encourage free and open expression of one's views.
> Should we thus muzzle freedom of expression of one's perceptions because
> those views may offend others?
>
> Frankly my questioning the motives motives of those pushing this argument
> does not mean that I am accusing you or anyone else of anything. Others made
> posts questioning the motives of UCC on this issue and I didn't see UCC
> people going up in arms over their statements. If someone else were also to
> question my motives on my stand, I would simply defend my views and explain
> why I think they are wrong in their conclusion, not withdraw from the
> discussion. However, NOT acknowledging that people are not always as
> altruistic as they may appear would be burying our heads in the sand.
>
> I stand by my statement. If this statement is a fallacy then prove it by
> showing how the whole internet community in Uganda has been behind this
> before and gotten frustrated by a few as was being insinuated by others in
> this thread. Just a good count of previous discussions to show who was for
> and against, and even this particular discussion can easily show whether
> there has been consensus from the broader community on this or in my very
> personal opinion a small bunch of crusaders trying to give the appearance of
> consensus by making the loudest noise.
>
> <On a personal note>
>
> I am surprised that as someone who has been a pillar in the internet
> community of Uganda for very many years and someone  I have worked with for
> quite a good bit of that time both in and outside of the ICT area you can
> show such a thin skin. I am sure you have been active in many internet
> mailing like the IETF, the various NOGs, and you know the candour and often
> heated arguments that characterizes such discussions yet the members thereof
> do not take things personal. A friend once told me that if I couldn't take
> the heat I should get out of the kitchen when I was complaining about some
> responses I had gotten on a public mailing list when I asked a question. I
> never left the kitchen. I learned how to handle the heat!
>
> As someone who at some point I am sure was told to RTFM on some mailing
> list earlier in your career like all of us have; How is it that you stood it
> then but now quickly begin claiming that someone questioning your motives
> has "superstitious insinuations"?
>
> </personal note>
>
> However for the sake of allowing this discussion to continue lest I appear
> to be stifling your right to express your views, I will refrain from
> questioning yours and anyone else's motives when it comes to this particular
> discussion.
>
> Noah.
>
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