This is similar to walking across the bridge you want to jump off
of everyday to stare into the water and become familiar with the location as
a place to fight your demons.  You survive that hard place, and really there
isn't anywhere but up after that.  He visited his bridge with with a bungee
cord (disabled gun), therefore taking the full potential away... Disarming
the warhead.  I can't understand how this could work with truly chemically
fucked people because they forget thier bungee cord.  Case by case eh? I'm
for it - it can work.


On Sun, Dec 21, 2008 at 10:13 PM, Liz Purkrabek <[email protected]>wrote:

>
> I would also add that the method used was steeped in personal importance
> and
> symbolism, and the method's effectiveness may reflect that.  Other people
> volunteering to participate in a study relating to this one man's methods
> may likely find that the method is essentially useless to the volunteer
> unless the gun and particular thoughts and actions taken were also
> significant to them in similar ways.  That would certainly be difficult to
> ascertain.
>
> I am somewhat skeptical of the long term effectiveness of his method for
> dealing with depression, but I realize I must be careful not to let my own
> struggles intrude upon my objectivity toward another person's.  I can't
> imagine that any ritual or thought process would have changed the way I
> felt
> physically and mentally when I was at my worst.  If it were possible, I
> would have done it.  I tried everything I could think of and many things I
> didn't.
>
> Liz
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: [email protected]
> [mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf Of Jason
> (Memphis)
> Sent: Sunday, December 21, 2008 4:03 PM
> To: Memphis Freethought Alliance
>  Subject: Re: Unconventional Approach to Coping with Depression
>
>
> The problem is that if this treatment is very effective even more so
> than any other treatment : 1) it would be hard to get it through a
> human rights/ethics review board to run the experiment; 2) it would
> also be hard to recruit participants once you described the treatment
> to them and 3) once you got participants, attrition (drop out) rates
> would likely be high because the treatment is inherently aversive and
> troubling to the individual and society at large.
>
> On Dec 21, 3:33 pm, "Liz Purkrabek" <[email protected]> wrote:
> > That's great if it worked for the guy.
> >
> > Liz
> >
> > -----Original Message-----
> > From: [email protected]
> >
> > [mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf Of Jason
> > (Memphis)
> > Sent: Sunday, December 21, 2008 2:58 PM
> > To: Memphis Freethought Alliance
> > Subject: Unconventional Approach to Coping with Depression
> >
> > Here is a story of an unconventional approach to dealing with
> > depression.  This is a adult diagnosed with bi-polar from California.
> > I don't know the long-term consequences (that is, decades) but this
> > person claimed that it worked for a least the few years that I knew
> > him.
> >
> > This is his approach.
> >
> > PROBLEM:  He had a problem getting out of bed in the morning and had
> > frequent "comfortably numb spells," which eventually led to a job loss
> > and other issues that accompanied the job loss especially relationship
> > (martial and divorce) challenges.  That is not atypical for mental
> > health patients.  So the following "solution" is his unproven,
> > extreme, unconventional approach that worked for him as far as getting
> > himself back into his life.  He thought his problem was that he lacked
> > energy each morning to get out bed and contemplated suicide on a
> > number of occasions.  He allegedly would "drown" himself in thoughts
> > such as "it is not worth it,"  "....it is too much effort...,' "nobody
> > care. i am nobody", " or "this is too overwhelming"...."life will
> > never get better what's the point..."  etc etc. or just cried.
> >
> > SOLUTION: He bought a 9mm semi-automatic pistol but didn't buy any
> > bullets and damaged the barrel so it wouldn't work without a
> > replacement.  Each morning he would reach under his bed, point the
> > defective 9mm to his temple, think about killing himself and slowly
> > apply pressure to the trigger.  When he heard the click from the empty
> > chamber, he forced himself to imagine that he was dead and contemplate
> > the worthless of his life and how his death did not matter to the
> > people in the world around him--his insignificance.  He would engage
> > in this "self-therapy" each more for about 30 minutes.  If he got
> > depressed or was depressed, he would force himself to deliberately
> > embrace and repeat these negative thoughts.  Then he would force
> > himself to state the direct opposite of this negative statements for
> > the next 30-min but still occasionally think about the negatives.   He
> > then would get out of bed (when it worked), embrace these negative and
> > positive thoughts and spend the rest to the day distracting himself
> > with life.  He claims that he also frequently felt overwhelmed with
> > negative feelings so in order to learn to embrace these out of control
> > overwhelming feelings, he would hold his breath and just accept that
> > he was going to die by suffocation and kept holding his breath and
> > accepting his death until he passed out (and he always woke up).  He
> > used this as an analogy for his strategy for his negative emotions and
> > reported that it helped.  These techniques did not always work, but he
> > claimed that it was the best self-treatment that he came across so far
> > that worked for him.  And he still relied on some (albeit less)
> > medications.
> >
> > That is was just the oddest story from a mental health patient.
> > However, he seemed to work for him so who am I to criticize.  When
> > Jeff was talking about unconventional mental health approaches, it
> > reminded me of this patient.
> >
> > Jason
>
>
> >
>


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