Whether you agree with their reasoning or not, you should consider Modifying the tone of your emails.
Those folks are not getting paid to help you out, they don't know you, or owe you anything. The least you can do is put for an extra effort to be polite and friendly when they tell you you're emails are coming off as Well... neither. A lot of folks seem to think that being a computer nerd talking to other nerds means they don't have to "waste time" on being Civil. That they can behave as Trollishly as they like, as on anonymous lists. This is not one of those situations. Eric- From: [email protected] [mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf Of Joe Brockhaus Sent: Monday, February 07, 2011 4:40 PM To: [email protected] Subject: Re: [nhusers] Re: HOWTO: one to many, simple entity collection mapping. I'm sorry, but that's not true Alec. FK in my entity is a requirement. It's not a deal-breaker for NHib to function. (And if it is, everyone is really bad at giving a reason, as not ONE has been given.) I haven't been asking to be spoon-fed. I've been through the (limited) documentation that pertains to my problem over and over. I've perused the hailed S.O. discussions, weeding through YEARS-OLD advice for my problems. I've given examples of people doing it with the auto-mapping, yet can't have the 'oh-so-polite and all-knowing' community explain how to duplicate that in manual mappings. I've been asking WHY or HOW, and have been given WHAT in response. as I said to James before: if you can't tell me that what i'm trying to do (map a read-only field that just so happens to be a FK property that NHib otherwise knows nothing about) BREAKS Nhib, then ALL you're telling me is that YOU don't like how i'm doing it, and thus you won't help. that's not ME having an attitude. that's not ME wanting to be spoon fed. ------ Joe Brockhaus [email protected]<mailto:[email protected]> ------------ On Mon, Feb 7, 2011 at 5:31 PM, Alec Whittington <[email protected]<mailto:[email protected]>> wrote: You've been getting very solid advice from the FNH group, it actually was your attitude that pushed the FNH project leader and founder to finally call you on your attitude, still offering to help you if you would just drop the attitude. -- You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "nhusers" group. To post to this group, send email to [email protected]. To unsubscribe from this group, send email to [email protected]. For more options, visit this group at http://groups.google.com/group/nhusers?hl=en. -- You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "nhusers" group. To post to this group, send email to [email protected]. To unsubscribe from this group, send email to [email protected]. For more options, visit this group at http://groups.google.com/group/nhusers?hl=en.
