And here is the solution: I had to explicitely tell the smtp proxy to NOT use tls by specifying
-o smtpd_use_tls=no -o smtp_use_tls=no -o smtpd_tls_security_level=none -o smtp_tls_security_level=nonewhere it seems that simply setting smtpd_use_tls and smtp_use_tls to no was not enough! The additional smtp_tls_security_level set to "none" was also necessary
Thank you for your patience and help! Regards Dietrich