Heel Nipping

2003-08-14 Thread Radha Iyengar
Dear L'ers,
I am having a bit of an issue with my dog Smokey.
Background: Smokey is an 18mo old neutered male. I
have
had him since he was 8 weeks and got him from a
breeder. He has done basic training and has passed the
Canine Good Citizen test.
Problem: Smokey tends to be nervous around new people.
 Usually this is not a problem as he just keeps to
himself, occasionally stopping to smell people. But he
does sometimes, on walks, bark at people who come too
close and sometimes tries to chase runners.  A quick
correction usually does the trick. Yesterday a man
stopped to say hello. Smokey had his tail up and was
wagging and sniffed the man and let him scratch his
chin. Then as the man turned to go, Smokey crouched
down in the front (but and tail in the air), tail
still up and wagging but ears down and started to
bark. Then he sort of hopped/jumped forward to try to
nip the man's heel. I had him on a leash and quickly
returned him to a sit position but the whole thing had
me startled.  He has never done anything like this and
I am not sure if he was playing or what.  Does anyone
have any thoughts about what this means?  Suggestions
on how to make sure this doesn't happen again?

Thanks a lot for any help,
Radha and Smokey 

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Berners in Stores

2003-07-10 Thread Radha Iyengar
Dear L'ers,
Please don't flame me for asking this. I have only
known about puppy mills for about 2 years, when I
started research bernese mountain dogs. I think they
are terrible and I fully support efforts against them.
 

It sounded from the things that camping store said
that they required quite a lot from breeders.  So, I
was wondering what is it that is so bad about selling
pups in this store?  I have this gut feeling it is
wrong but if someone asked me why I wouldn't know what
to say.  

As I said, I am just learning about this so please
don't attack my ignorance.  I just want to understand
if the issue is bad breeding or bad buyers or what.

Thank you,
Radha Iyengar

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Re: Lancaster County National

2003-06-08 Thread Radha Iyengar
I am very new to the world of bernese mountain dogs
and purebreds in general and until I started
researching berners I did not know anything about
puppy mills.  So perhaps those of you who know more
about this could answer questions that many some
newbies like myself have.
1. Exactly what makes Lancaster uniquely responsible
for the puppymill industry relative to other places? 
Aren't there mills all over the place?  
2. How does the having the Specialty there help the
puppy mill industry?
3. Is it possible to go to the Specialty without
giving much money to Lancaster county? For example,
staying in hotels just on the otherside of a border
with another county.  Having sales at the specialty in
other places, etc.  
4. Is there other industry in Lancaster that might be
supportive of this cause but that could also benefit
from the Specialty being in town? This might be a good
ally in a protest or something like that.

I was also thinking, perhaps this is just naieve and
silly, that maybe the Specialty could be used, in
part, as a tool to get some recognition of the problem
in the area on a much larger scale.  Perhaps an actual
protest, not a boycott, before or after the specialty
to draw attention to the problem.  I think, given the
large number of people the specialty attracts, and the
cuteness of the dogs that a large scale protest/march
or something like that could get some press and
attention.  Perhaps there could be fliers and posters
as well as means of contacting responsible breeders. 
I was just thinking that for those who want to go,
this might be an option.

Like I said, I don't know how feasible this is, but
just a thought.  If some people know more about this
and think it is a good idea, I don't mind working on
organizing a protest, at least with some help from
others.

Radha Iyengar (and Smokey)
Princeton, NJ  

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Samoyed w/ Colon Cancer

2003-05-31 Thread Radha Iyengar
Sorry to post a non-berner topic.  My boyfriend's dog
is a Samoyed who is now 13 years old.  He has colon
cancer and seems to have a lot of discomfort going to
the bathroom (he cries and shrieks). They have taken
him to the vet but the cancer is inoperable and I was
wondering if anyone had any experience w/ anything
that would ease the pain of going to the bathroom
(drugs or otherwise) that wouldn't just make the dog
sleep all the time.  He is in pretty good spirits
other than when he has to go to the bathroom (still
loves his 3 mile hikes) so we are just looking for
something that might make him more comfortable. 

Thanks,
Radha

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The bulb is gone

2003-04-01 Thread Radha Iyengar
Well, Smokey is now lightbulb free.  I will spare
everyone the gory details but needless to say, he is
still the light of my life--but won't be able to
literally light up which all for the best.  

Thanks to everyone on the list.  As I said, I would
not have been able to react as calmly (not that it was
really all that calm) as I did had it not been for all
the wonderful people who emailed me suggestions and
stories about their dogs.  You don't realize just how
much these guys are part of your life until something
like this happens.  Well, we are happy and healthy and
lightbulbs are now going on the TOP SHELF of the
cabinet.

Say does anyone have a good way of dog-proofing their
cubbards. I  know this sounds crazy but Smokey can
open things that don't have latches.  He just keeps
pawing them and eventually they open.  In this way he
has stolen loads of cereal, ripped open a box of raw
pasta (which apparently is the only thing he has ever
tasted that is not worth actually eating), and
finished many a box of dog treats.  I think there are
things that one uses to baby proof but since I rent
right now I can't deface the cabinets or anything--and
so the ones that I saw you have to screw into the
outside of the cabinets wouldn't work.  Any
suggestions would be great.

Thanks again to everyone on the list.  You are
wonderful people.

Love,
Radha and Smokey (mom--now that I'm better, I am going
to dig--my friend told me about this place called
China and I hear if you dig a lot you can get there!!!)

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Re: Berner tails-- deadly weapons

2003-04-01 Thread Radha Iyengar
You might think hanging picture would be safe--I mean
hung high off so even a tall jumping dog (much like
Smokey) wouldn't be able to affect them.  You would be
wrong.  Now these berner tails--not only do they have
a long reach but they pack a punch.  One day after I
was coming out of my shower (I must have been in for a
devastatingly long 15 mintues) Smokey, ecstatic at my
return wagged furiously as I pet him--berner hair
sticking to me, tail thumping the wall when all of a
sudden a painting hung down the hall fell off the
wall.  The tail-wacking had shaken the wall so much it
fell off it's hanging thing.  Well--Smokey took it all
in stride and continues to what anything and
everything he can with his tail.  

My suggestion to berner proof your house--you know
those inflatable things they put in the gutters of
bowling alleys during kids parties so the balls just
bounce off them?  I was wondering if they make wall to
wall carpeting out of that stuff.  Inflate it, and you
china falls from some wagging and it can just bounce
right back into the cabinet.  Viola!

Radha


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sheesh, no kidding.  You may be safe hanging pictures
high up on the 
walls.

I remember a few years back we had a thread about how
high up doors you
could find toenail marks.  I have a new one on the
back door, 64 1/2 
inchs
from the floor.

jane & the boys of iowa




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We're Okay

2003-03-27 Thread Radha Iyengar
THANK YOU!!! This is just wonderful.  All of the
advise about cotton balls was right on the ball. 
After writing the list, the answering service at my
vet's had a vet call me and I brought Smokey in. 
After an X-ray and some examination it turns out that
smokey swallowed the bulb whole!!! That's right--it is
one of the those small vanity mirror bulbs and he just
swallowed it in tact (you can actually see it on the
X-Ray-- I have saved it and when I make a webpage I am
going to scan it in!).  Anyway, long story short, the
vet said to give him soft foods and cotton balls
soaked in cream--just in case there are a few
splinters.  

For future reference to anyone else, the vet also said
that it is very, very important to go in right away if
a dog swallows glass.  The reason is the shards can
cause internal bleeding and serious damage to the
stomach and esophogus.  Cotton balls soaked in cream
or milk as well as soft, solid foods (like soaked
bread) can stave off the impact and should be given
immediately (which I did based on the list advise). 
But if the bulb is only half crunched out surgery may
be necesarry as the pieces will be too large to pass
without injury.  If the bulb is mostly intact or
thoroughly crunched up it can be passed but the dog
must be watched.  This was quite the heart attack.  I
never imagined a dog would eat a lightbulb!! Why? 
Well thank goodness it was whole so that surgery
wasn't necessary.  Smokey is uncomfortable (but more
from eating the cotton it seems than from the bulb). 
And it seems like everything will be okay but I am to
watch his stools for the next few days and then take
him back.  If it doesn't pass, then we need surgery to
remove it but it looks to be a reasonable size and
shape that it will pass (what luck he chose that
lightbulb to eat and not a standard 60W bell-shaped
bulb).

>From the bottom of my heart thank you to everyone who
responded to me.  It really made a big difference both
to know what to do, to hear that this has happened
before, and to just keep me from panicking while I
waited for the vet to call back!!

Love to all,
Radha and a very guilty Smokey
Princeton, NJ

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Help (ASAP)

2003-03-27 Thread Radha Iyengar
Smokey at a lightbulb.  It was on the counter and he
just ate it when I went downstairs to do laundry.  I
called the vet's office but they are gone for the
night.  He seems fine right now but should I take him
to the emergency room?  Should I give him something to
eat?  Should I make him throw up--I worry about the
glass.

Please help.  

Radha

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Re: Backtalk

2003-03-27 Thread Radha Iyengar
I am not that experienced so I am sure other people
will have more suggestions but Smokey is a backtalker.
 I mean he in general is a talker and when we first
started training he was quite upset at the idea he had
to listen to me.  Basically what the trainer told me
is the following:
1.  He must always obey backtalk or not.  So if you
give him a command and he wants to talk back, he needs
to do the command too!

2. If he doesn't get into his space.  Move towards the
dog, and enforce your command and your leadership role

3. There is no reward for backtalk but lots of reward
for quiet obedience.  So, if your pup obeys with a lot
of noise, a gentle good dog is in order.  But if you
dog obeys quietly, praise as if he just invented the
theory of relativity.  And some smelly treats always
help.  

I have found that Smokey largely grew out of this as I
kept up on obedience.  The basic trick is just to get
him to realize you are in charge and his best bet is
to listen to what you have to say quietly.  But,
Smokey still has some talk, especially when it
involves walks or sitting while I am eating dinner. 
Still vast improvements.

I hope that this helps.

Radha

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Re: Fun Survey

2003-03-24 Thread Radha Iyengar

1 --- Do you live in
a) city
b) suburbs
c) country
d) on Planet Berner
***(B) but soon approaching (D) as we look for a new
place to house my growing addiction to berners

2 --- Where does your dog spend the night?
***This is a bit like where does an elephant sit? 
Anywhere he wants--right?  Well Smokey sleeps on the
floor, on a couch, sometimes nestled between us on the
queen sized bed (we need to get a king--that will be
part of the move!)

3 --- What is your dog's favorite toy?
Smokey loves, I mean loves, this stuffed squeaky
lamb thing.  He doesn't chew it (which he does with
all other toys) just hugs it and holds it.  If he
doesn't have it when he sleeps he is restless and
won't settle down until he gets it!  There is also an
old, chewed up football (american) which we used to
play with Smokey and now has a large hole where the
front should be when Smokey tried to strip my
boyfriends of the ball one afternoon.  Smokey still
chases it, and will only play with it if he sees it
outside.

4 --- Your dog's most remarkable feature is 
his ability to give backtalk.  Yes, I am sure
there are others here who have a rambunction pup who
while he will obey commands has a mouthful when doing
it.  Also when not getting food, treats, or when not
being attended to.  Smokey has a large range of sounds
and I SWEAR he thinks he is speaking the same language
as me.  Sometimes he even waits for me to respond and
then interrupts with more!!!

5 --- You bought a new car for your dog(s)
In process...

6 --- Your dog participates in (feel free to list any
titles your dog
has won)
(g) training classes
actually we are just starting obedience training in
may.  That should be fun (any advise or suggestions
from folks is welcome)

***(i) My own category--table surfing.  Now I don't
know what your dogs are like but when I say this I
mean my boy will get up on tables counters, etc. to
eat things and when I say get up, I mean all 4 feet,
and 117lbs of berner boy on top of whatever he is
after.  I believe that he learned this from the cat,
but with his long legs he sure can jump high! 

7 --- The naughtiest thing that your dog has done
is.
eaten my cellphone, and coffee table, and rug,
and...
he went on a rampage but has been could recently (I
knock on wood to get some spliters from the chewed up
edges). 
Still, he's a good boy (he smiles at me wondering what
dog I am writing about!)

Radha and Smokey
Princeton, NJ

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Riding in Cars with Berners

2003-03-18 Thread Radha Iyengar
So, I currently have a 1996 Toyota Rav4 which I
thought would be a fine sized SUV for me, my boyfriend
and my dog, Smokey.  Turns out we have decidied this
car is far too small, especially if we intend to add
something else (baby or puppy) to our lives.  So we
have decided to buy a new SUV, to replace our aging
Rav.  Now we have been thinking about getting the
Honda Element, or the Toyota Highlander.  I was
wondering if anyone had experiences with either of
these cars.  

Also, currently I do not have any restraint system in
my car for my dog (no flames please--I am working on
it).  I used to have this doggie seatbelt but Smokey
can't sit comfortably on the seat so the belt is
really not working. I can't fit a crate that Smokey
could fit so that's out.  So I was wondering if anyone
had any suggestions.

Thank you,
Radha

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leg injuries

2003-03-13 Thread Radha Iyengar
I have a question for the list.  Smokey has once again
hurt his leg.  This is about the 4th time something
like this has happened.  I am worried that there may
be something I (and my vet) are missing so here's the
story:

Smokey is 1 year and has twisted his ankle, broken one
of his toes, and now done something to his ankle
again.  It usually happens when we are on our off
leash walks and he is running about.  He has no other
health problems and heals quickly after getting some
anti-inflammatory medicine and some rest.  What I am
worried about is that something else (like a problem
with hips or elbows) is causing him to be off balanced
and making him get injured.  Is this likely?  How
would I know what to do about this?  Or maybe it is
just clumisness as Smokey still grows into his body. 
Oh, he is about 27" and weights 120lbs.

Any advise or references about where to look about
this is greatly appreciated.

Radha (and Smokey--now on houserest and unhappy about it!)

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Was: Had Enough -- Now: How to be a breeder

2003-03-11 Thread Radha Iyengar
As a pet owner myself and being very new to berners I
think that this discussion is a little one sided.  I
had absolutely no problem answering basically any
questions a breeder would ask me.  I know that, as I
said in my post, I needed to prove myself to them and
I felt that there are perfectly good, in fact
necessary reasons to do this.  BUT that does not mean
that when I ask questions I expect to be treated as a
criminal and nor do I expect to treated as if I
purposely ill-intentioned.  And it is the case that
breeders do this.  

Now, to preface the rest of this I want to say that on
the whole I had a positive experience of research the
breed.  I met a lot of people who knew a lot and were
very helpful and kind. But there were a few
experiences that if they had been my only ones (for
example if I hadn't grown up with dogs/dog people all
my life) might have turned me off for good. For
instance, when I asked one breeder at a club event
(not a show mind you, more like a gathering) if I
could talk to her about her kennel she informed me
that breeding was very complicated and I shouldn't
expect to understand it from a short conversation (as
if I thought I could) and then reamed me out about
trying to breed dogs without proper knowledge (as if I
would) without ever once pausing to let me interject. 
In another instance, a breeder was asking me about my
lifestyle and I was explaining that I was a graduate
student.  And he was naturally concerned with my
financial ability so I was explaining that I do have
some other non-income money sources.  He then
proceeded to call me a liar--and I don't me insinuate
it--and then yelled at me about trying to get a dog
without having appropriate means to support it.  Now
there were also less extreme cases (especially when I
was very new to researching the breed) when people
would lecture at me, not explain to me, why getting a
bernese was so difficult and required a very special
type of owner, one that I clearly could never be. 
Perhaps all of these seem reasonable to people on the
list.  

The reason I am providing these specific examples is
that they are not out of the ordinary.  From even
speaking to new people from this list as well as
people I have met at other berner events I have found
many similar stories.  And the truth is, just because
you are a breeder and have the right to ask questions
of potential owners does not mean that you have the
right to do so at the expense of basic courtesy.  I
think that what many pet owners object to is being
treated as if no matter what we do, we are inferior
beings and we are trying to steal some berners.  I
also think that when people don't really know about
puppymills (as I didn't) except that they are supposed
to be bad, and then have these experiences with
responsible breeders--they start to look for less
confrontational ways to find a pup.  That's when
newpaper ads, pet stores and the like can really suck
them in.  I think that if you want a berner, it can
feel like a desperate need and feeling totally
rejected by the bernese community only makes you want
to go somewhere else to get a dog.  If we want to stop
that we need to both let PPO's know what is really
going on at petshops AND start treating them like they
care.  Because I think, if every person who researched
the breed met someone who was kind and trying hard to
understand what they needed from a dog as well as what
the could provide to a dog then we could do a lot in
both placing pets and preventing puppymill business.
But let's not be blind to the reality that it is not
just PPO's being oversensitive--there is a problem.

Flame me if you must.

Radha and Smokey (Princeton, NJ)

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Re: Had Enough (long response)

2003-03-09 Thread Radha Iyengar
Dear Berner-Lover,

I am sorry I cannot respond to you by name, but you
didn't sign your email.  I wanted to respond to you as
some one who has not been involved in the breed for
very long and who not too long ago went through the
process you are going through right now. 

So to start--it sucks.  There is no reason to sugar
coat it.  You know, probably as I did, that you could
care for a dog, that you are responsible, and that you
would have the love and devotion that would make a
good home.  The trouble is, in this world, there is no
way for other people to know that.  There are so many
people who, not with malice or evil intents, want dogs
and shortly after give them up (after puppyhood--when
it is too much work, etc.), too many people who
neglect the dogs they have, and way, way too many
people who simply don't have the where-with-all to
care for a dog.  The sad fact is that breeders need to
screen closely not just to see who you are today but
whether who you are today will accurately reflect the
person you will be for the next 10 years.  When you
put on top of that that these breeders are giving you
these babies that they spend endless nights caring for
and are the children of the dogs in their family--it's
easy to see why they can be so protective. I think
that seeing it like this makes it easier to understand
why some breeders seem so unfriendly.  Have you tried
going to some local club events?  I found that meeting
breeders and talking to them about their dogs and
after finding a friendly one who had nice dogs then
asking about pups was a much better way to get
friendly responses.

Now I do want to say that there is a tendency in the
berner community to be a little, how shall I say this,
insular and worse yet snobbish.  It is true that
people involved in the breed for years know it better
than you or I ever will.  But I vividly recall feeling
a little bit like some breeders thought I wanted a
puppy for the sole purpose of torturing it by locking
in a tiny crate for 18hrs in a 100degree room with no
water.  And since so many people are so taken with
berner's looks, it seemed to me that many breeders
make a point of emphasizing (ad nauseum) the drawbacks
of the bernese (health, size, etc.).  In truth you are
not the first person, nor do I suspect you will be the
last, who has been browbeaten by some breeders when
all you want is a little pup to love.   It sounds to
me like you are having a combination of bad luck and
failed expectations. Like I said, you know you but a
breeder doesn't so maybe the next time you talk to one
and the conversation starts to go south you can ask
what they are looking for, what you seem to be
missing.  In truth it could partly be communication
issues (you not realizing what they want to know, them
not understanding what you are trying to tell them),
and it could partly be that this is just not the
breeder for you. The long and short of it is it will
be frustrating. It will take phone calls, long
conversations, and time.  But, once you find a breeder
who is for you, their questions will feel those of a
protective parent and not an investigating officer. 

So why not just take the short route and go to a
puppymill.  I won't reiterate that moral issues of
puppymills because you surely have heard about them.
They are just horrible, and if I start to write about
it I will just be a blubbering mess.  But when I was
deciding it was not that cruelty of puppymills that
deterred me (I truthfully didn't know that much about
them) but what these breeders can offer you that won
me over.  They get to know you, not just your wallet,
and they can match a dog to your lifestyle and
personality.  Me, I am young active and have a very
flexible schedule so Smokey was meant for me. What
"puppy mill" could have done that?  When I had trouble
with his food, his housetraining, anything, his
breeder was able to consult with me and give me
recommendations.  I know that if I ever have any
questions about anything I could call him.  That is
just not something that can be overlooked.  So, my
advise is to stick it out. I know that it is tempting
to just grab one of those puppies at the local pet
store but your life will be the worse for it--and in
the greater scheme of things isn't an extra six months
of work worth a pup that can be happy and healty for
its life?

Good Luck to you,
Radha and Smokey (Mom--the sun is out--why are you at
your computer?!!)

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I am an avid dog lover and always dreamed of welcoming
a berner into my 
family.  However, the experiences I have encountered
in speaking with 
breeders is discouraging.  I am a professional,
successful woman, 
mother of 
three healthy, well taken care of children and am
looked at 
questionably by 
the "interviews" I've held so far.

RE: where did you get your dog?

2003-03-01 Thread Radha Iyengar
I wanted to add a little to this topic.

Smokey is my first BMD.  His breeder, Rui Rosa, was a
very, very kind man who not only trusted me with this
wonderful puppy but also trusted me given that I am
only 22 and was just starting out.  I assured him that
I had the money, space, and love for a berner and he
was uncertain and interviewed me carefully.  To be
honest, the extra care he took in meeting me, getting
to know me, and making sure I was worthy of getting
one of his dogs made me certain that this was a
breeder who I wanted to get my dog from. Smokey is the
light of my life.  When I first joined the list,
before I had Smokey I would always think how odd it
was all these people calling their dogs their
soulmates, children, etc.  Don't get me wrong, I grew
up with dogs, I LOVE them.  They are part of my family
and always have been.  But the kind of love and
connection I have with Smokey is unlike that of any
other animal I have ever met (save perhaps my pony
when I was a child but that's a story for another
day).  Smokey is indeed a dog that I am thankful for
everyday. 

The point is that even though it was hard to convince
Rui to trust me, it was worth it.  And winning that
trust I believe was an important part of what got me
to Smokey.  So for those on the list who are waiting
for their puppies, have had a long difficult trip to
getting their dogs, or are frustrated with these crazy
breeders and their zillions of questions and concerns
about your fitness as an owner know this: it was worth
it.  Shortly after getting Smokey, a friend gave me a
little plaque that says "My goal is to be as wonderful
as my dog thinks I am".  Sometimes I think that is
could say as "as my dog's breeder thinks I am". So
thanks Rui and to all the breeders out there who work
so hard to place their dogs.

Radha and Smokey 

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Re: To Berner or not to Berner??

2003-03-01 Thread Radha Iyengar
Dear Kenny,
I also live in a townhouse and backyard isn't even
fenced.  We have put up a dog run but that is barely
sufficient.  My dog, Smokey, is now 11 months (closing
in on a year in just a few weeks) and he is pretty
well adjusted to the situation.  Something important
to consider is that you need to be really willing to
take your dog out no matter what.  I live in New
Jersey and this winter has been snowy, cold and
terrible.  Regardless smokey always, every single day
rain or shine gets at least one long walk and 1 hour
of off leash play time in a suitable place (often our
dog park--which is privately owned so has many fewer
of the problems of dog parks discussed previously). 
It is just important to keep in mind that especially
when they are puppies, dogs need a good deal of
exercize.

Other than that, I think it sounds like BMD is your
kind of dog.  Smokey is pretty vocal but not a
constant barker.  He more barks to communicate (He has
a log of different "barks" he can make to say all
kinds of things).  This is a lot of fur, but I find
that regular brushing makes the furriness of the house
quite tolerable--but I do quite often find fur in my
food, etc.

Good luck with everything and drop a line so we know
how things are going--okay?

Radha (and Smokey)
Princeton, NJ

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From: "Kenneth L Babcock" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
To: "Bernese Mountain Dog Mailing List"
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Subject: To Berner or not to Berner?? 
Date: Fri, 28 Feb 2003 22:11:09 -0500 



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Greetings to all the expert Owners of Bernese Mt.
Dogs!

My name is Kenny and I reciently fell in love with
the BMD!  I am
seriously considering, no...no,  I mean I'd love to
own a BMD!! However 
I
have a few concerns:
Shedding/is my home large
enough/temperment/barking/and will the breed 
fit
into my lifestyle?

I live in a 3 floor townhome with a fenced in back
yard (20' X35"),
hopefully daily walks and the small yard will please
the breed? Last 
week I
dog sitted my sisters 70Lb. Golden Retriever to
experience life with a 
large
dog (although 20 or 30Lbs < a Berner). The first two
days were 
difficult in
that he was heavly shedding and the hair was a
nusance! However I 
seemed to
adjust by day three and just vacummed and brushed
daily! By the end of 
the
week I and my family were attached to this beautiful
dog. "Bernie" 
filled
our home with a special warmth and love with his laid
back temperment. 
He is
missed, as he went home 3 days ago and my children,
(3boys, 20,12,9) 
enjoyed
him greatly. I'm told the berners are similar in
temperment to the 
Golden?
Finally barking, neighbors have a Sheltie and a
besicon that are cronic
barkers and is quite unplesant at times! I prefer a
controlled to
non-existent barker. You may ask, why not get a
Golden? I just loved 
the
look and size of the BMD
I met a few breeders and found one I am comfertable
with. I met her and 
her
BMD's and loved playing with all of them.
I guess I'm seeking advice or reassurance that my home
and lifestyle 
will
accomidate a Berner.

Thanks for any possible advice!

Kenny B.



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Berner in Belle Meade

2003-02-10 Thread Radha Iyengar
I could help but I don't know exactly what to do.  I
live in Princeton which is about 15 min. away from
Belle Meade, so if someone can email me privately on
what to do, I am happy to do it.

radha
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how could a dog like this end up roaming around and
then in a shelter.
wonder who the breeder is. i would think they would
want to know about 
him.
i actually might have a home for him.
andrea

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Subject: Berner in Shelter


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This is a link to Animal Alliance of Belle Meade, NJ
which is currently
caring for Teddy, an 8-mo-old male Berner.  Hopefully
a nearby List 
member
can check him out and help find a home for this
gorgeous young lad.

Carrie Nobles



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Rehome in Westchester

2003-01-30 Thread Radha Iyengar
In the Pennysaver in Westchester there is an add for
an 8yr old bernese mtn dog.  I was wondering if anyone
knew how to help or who the local club was I could
maybe call and talk to these folks and lend a hand.

Radha

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Kennel Help

2003-01-13 Thread Radha Iyengar
Hi Everyone.
I was wondering if anyone had any experience with
Kennels in the Princeton (central Jersey) area.  I am
going away for a long weekend at the end of January
and the only boarding place I know (smokey's trainers
run a dog sitting service for their clients) can't
take him then.  I didn't just want to pick a place out
of the phone book and so if anyone has any suggestions
can you please let me know.  It will be from january
24-27 if that is relavent.

Thank you,
Radha and Smokey (what--you are going without me?!!)

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Re: BERNER-L digest 4183

2002-12-28 Thread Radha Iyengar
Hi everyone. Took Smokey out in the snow today with
his Samoyed friend.  We had a smashing time and it got
me thinking...Are there any in the berner world out
here in Westchester that would be interested in
meeting up sometime this week to have a good old
berner romp.  

Email me and let me know,
Radha And Smokey
Yorktown, NY (parent's house on holiday--usually we're
in Princeton NJ)

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Rescue in NY

2002-12-02 Thread Radha Iyengar
I came across this boy who looks more like a berner
than a newfie or rotweiller.  The picture is probably
not good enough to tell though.  Is there someone
around Huntington NY to look?


http://www.petfinder.org/pet.cgi?action=2&pet=1180824&adTarget=468petsgeneral&SessionID=3deb4783651ae03f-app2&display=&preview=1&row=0

Radha


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Chewing--Please help

2002-11-22 Thread Radha Iyengar
Okay.  I love my dog.  I will do nearly anything for
him.  But when he eats a $200 cellphone, all of the
television remotes and rips newspapers to shreds, I
get to my wits end.  Smokey is in his crate when I am
not home (he *loves* his crate and the stinky bone he
gets when he is in it).  But when I am upstairs doing
something he can wander freely--or at least he could
until the above instances.  The thing is I have tried
to puppyproof.  But he is so tall now that anything he
wants he jumps up and gets.  He has even figured out
how to open the cabinet that has his treats in it, so
I had to move the treats to a random drawer (the
drawer changes periodically so he won't find them--I
hope).  What can I do?  how can I stop this?  he has
lots of toys and a bone.  I try giving him a kong,
which when he has he is fine.  But any spare time
alone and he shreds or destroys something.  

For background--he is 8 1/2 months old, neutered and
has gone through basic obedience.  He is just starting
clicker training. He does not rip things up when I am
there in the same room, but will if I am out of sight.
 Please help me.  I can't afford to replace literally
everything in my house!

Thanks,
Radha and Smokey (whoa mom, I think this cord to your
computer would be great to chew on too!)

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Shock Collars

2002-11-14 Thread Radha Iyengar
Just for the record, shock collars are not all bad. 
There are 2 versions approved the the Humane society
as superior correction methods to choke collars.  When
I was researching training methods for smokey I
considered taking him to a training company that used
this.  The trainers were APDT trainers and very
knowledgable. The explained the pros and cons of the
collar, and force everyone who is considering using it
on there dog to hold it in their hand while they did
the "shock".  Frankly until they cranked it up, I
couldn't even feel it.  In addition, they carefully
interview each dog and determine if that dog is a good
candidate for this type of collar (Smokey was not).  I
do believe that if he was I would have used it.  They
also do the leave your dog for a week training and
they allow you to sit in on the training sessions with
other dogs prior to choosing them (you can't with your
own dog it is too distracting).  They also do clicker
training and positive reward training for other dogs
(which is what we went with).  The key thing here is
that these trainers were tailoring their training
method to the needs of the dogs.  I got references
from people who used all the different methods and was
very, very impressed.  A "shock" collar is no
different than any other type of training collar
(choke, prong, harness) provided it is used by someone
who knows how to use it on the right dog.  

I wanted to correct the knee jerk reaction against it,
as in many cases, as I said, it is preferrable to a
choke collar.  In addition, the sending your dog away
again can be necessary depending on the specific dog.

Still this situation sounded terrible!  I also
volunteered my help and so hopefully the owner will be
in touch.  I am hoping to talk to her about all the
training methods I came across and the different
trainers in the area in hopes that she will come
around.  

Radha
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To: "'Berner l'" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
Subject: RE: Rescue Berner -- foster home needed ASAP!

Date: Thu, 14 Nov 2002 08:29:46 -0600 



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UNBELIEVABLE!! This is crazy!!! The poor dog!!! I am
so against this
"drop your dog off" for training method. I hear
something similar is
also big in the Western US -- where you get a puppy,
drop it off to a
trainers for a few weeks/months OVERNIGHT, and get it
back trained
(including house trained) -- of course, you have NO
IDEA what your baby
is put through!!! Seems to me you'll get back a dog
that may or may not
only listen to the trainer ... Where were YOU in the
education?? How on
earth can you know what your dog knows ... To ME, the
main purpose of
taking a dog to training is to BOND -- to establish a
RELATIONSHIP -- 
on
common grounds.

SHOCK COLLAR!!!??? SHOCK COLLAR!!!??? SHOCK
COLLAR!!!??? SHOCK
COLLAR!!!??? I thought that was an OPTION for dogs
that wouldn't listen
... What happened to getting a dog to do things
because they were
REWARDED! 




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Berner Walk

2002-11-05 Thread Radha Iyengar
Hi everyone, 
Is the Allaire State park walk on Saturday or Sunday?

Thanks,
Radha

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Re: Cooper Comes Home

2002-11-05 Thread Radha Iyengar
Lindsay,
Congrats on your new boy!!!  I got Smokey a short 8
months ago and I know how exciting it is.  I am a
graduate student so I do most of my work from home.  I
was worried that Smokey would be really upset and
noisy when I left and since i live in a duplex, I was
worried about our neighbor.  Well, somebody on the
list suggested that I try giving him something he only
gets when I am out (say a Kong filled with peanut
butter, etc.)  It worked like a charm.  

I introduced it by putting him in his crate with his
toy and just going out of site while he was
distracted.  Now it is gotten to the point where he is
actually excited when I am going, and by the time I
get home he is done with his treat and happy to see
me. 

Saves me a lot of guilty feelings!!

Good luck and take LOTS of pictures!
Radha

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Date: Tue, 05 Nov 2002 12:14:31 +0100 
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Hi everyone!
Before I tell you all the details of the new addition
to the family, I 
must
say that I have been religiously reading the list now
(every day) for 
at
least a month and a half!  This, of course, has given
me great insight 
to
the world of the BMD and it really is great to hear
experiences from 
such
wonderful, caring owners that you all are!  I can tell
you that I am 
sure
that I will have many, many questions to ask and in
addition to asking 
our
breeders for answers, just know in advance, that I
will consult all of 
you,
too! :)  Your help and advice will be greatly
appreciated throughout
"Cooper's" life!
So, with that said...I have wonderful news!  My 10
week old "bouncing 
baby
berner" came home this Sunday!
My husband and I moved to Switzerland at the end of
June from Florida 
(BIG
change!!) and we have always loved the BMD's!  We
decided before we 
moved to
Switzerland permanently, that because we were finally
in the heart of 
'BMD
land', now was a perfect opportunity to have a new
addition to our 
little
family!  
We did SO much research before selecting the perfect
breeders!  Thanks 
to
the help of our German and English speaking friend and
several trips 
around
Switzerland, we found the most wonderful Swiss-German
breeders just 
outside
of Bern!  (Luckily their daughter acted as a
translator, too!) They are 
the
best I've ever seen...so loving to their dogs, so
professional and so 
very
responsible.   Their dogs were extremely well behaved,
loyal and HAPPY,
HAPPY, HAPPY!!!  
Once the puppies were born, hubby and I went to visit
each weekend and
really got to know their personalities.  It was
absolutely amazing at 
how we
just kind of "picked" each other!  His registered name
is in 
German...I'm
really not sure how to say it or even write it, but
they nicknamed him
"Yonko"   (You can see why we liked Cooper better,
right?)  His mother 
and
father and well, heck, his whole family, are very-well
decorated and 
very
sweet Berners but they all have tough names!  Anyway,
Cooper would come
running out first ahead of his siblings each time we
came to see him 
and
greeted us with several kisses and tail wags that
seemed to almost 
knock him
off balance!  We really bonded with him as well as his
whole family!
On Sunday when we took him home, he was so good.  I
sat in the back 
with him
just to comfort him and he slept the whole way.
Little Cooper seems to miss the company of this
brothers and sisters as 
well
as his mom and grand mom right now.   He cries a
little at night-time 
and
also when he "thinks" he's alone.  My husband (good
man that he is) 
took the
day off from work yesterday to help with his new
"son"!   We are really
working hard at trying to establish a daily routine
for Cooper.  He is 
our
first Berner and I truly can say he is unbelievably
smart already!
This is day 2 and he just walked right into the crate
to take a nap.  
He
seemed a little unsure of the crate the first
day...I'm sure it was all 
the
confusion of new surroundings and smells.  Probably
some separation 
anxiety
as well.  
Speaking of separation anxiety, I know and understand
that it is very, 
very
early and that he is still getting used to his new
home, but will this
eventually subside?  I will be staying home with him
everyday which I 
know
is fantastic for him.  I guess my biggest fear is that
he will get so 
used
to me being here that when I go to the store or to
take hubby to the
airport, he will hate being alone.  What is the best
method of training 
him
to be by himself for these short trips without crying.
 (The Swiss are 
VERY
aware of all their neighbors and value their
"quiet-time!")
We are going outside to "do business" about every 2 to
3 hours so 
far--even
at night we take turns.  I have to get used to the
"non-Florida" 
weather
here!  Last night I groggily got out of bed and when I
opened the door, 
was
blasted with 40 degree "wow-that-

Stuffed Berner

2002-11-01 Thread Radha Iyengar
Can anyone PLEASE send me 2 stuffed berners (one will
do if that is necessary).  My cousin has taken to
naming all dogs Smokey and I would love to get her a
stuffed berner for her two year old birthday.

Thank you in advance.
Radha and Smokey (Mom--are you gettin' me a new chew toy?!!)

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Virus

2002-10-21 Thread Radha Iyengar
I got this email today and it had an attachment with a
virus.  I guess I just wanted to give a heads up.

Radha


>Date: Mon, 21 Oct 2002 09:46:26 -0700 (PDT) 
>From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] | This is not Spam | Add to
>Address Book 
>Subject:  To Julie Mott 
> 
> 
>
>
>I am truly sorry for your loss. Though not yet a
>Berner-parent, I do 
>have
>an affection furry-girl of my own.  And I can not
>imagine the 
>heartbreak
>of losing her. 

>Hugs and prayers
>Lisa Clark
>Conroe, TX
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Thank you

2002-10-11 Thread Radha Iyengar

> 
> Everyone thanks for the ideas.  
> A lot of times on this list we point out when some
> one
> is being elitist, snobby, etc. and I wanted to do
> the
> opposite.  This post by Ruth was not only full of
> useful suggestions but also a way of thinking about
> shy dogs.  It was a shining example of how someone
> with an enormous amount of knowledge can share it
> with
> a newbie in way that is kind, understanding, and
> useful. Ruth, your a gem.
> 
> Radha
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Shy Dog help

2002-10-10 Thread Radha Iyengar

I need help.  Smokey has become really afraid of new
people in the house. He is fine with people outside
(on the street, the dog park, etc.) but inside the
house he is simply terrified of new people.  He likes
women better than man, and often just eyes women
suspiciously for awhile and eventually will greet them
cautiously.  But with men, he will bark and back away
if they try to approach him.  Usually he just goes
upstairs and sits in the bedroom away from the guests.
 Obviously I don't want  to force him to meet people,
but at the same time, I don't want him to be stressed
out whenever anyone comes to the house.  The thing is,
he is fine with my boyfriend and dad.  And I
socialized him extensively all his life.  I have tried
having dog savvy male friends come over, sit on the
floor and offer treats. But Smokey (chow hound that he
is) will sneak over steal the treat and run away, but
he will not stay anywhere near the man.  What is going
on?  Is this a show?  He sure does look scared.  What
can I do about this?

For background, Smokey is 7 months, recently neutered.
 I have had him since he was 8wks, and got him from a
breeder.  He has been in doggie daycare, goes to the
dog park daily and has never shown any aggression.  He
doesn't try to bite the people he is afraid of, just
barks and and backs away.  
HELP ME PLEASE!

Thank you,
Radha and Smokey (I'm friendly, I swear)


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