Fw: 'educated' women

2002-05-15 Thread S.J.F.ELECTRICAL.




- Original Message - 
From: S.J.F.ELECTRICAL. 
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
; Lynne Staff 

Sent: Wednesday, May 15, 2002 8:00 AM
Subject: Re: 'educated' women

Dear Lynn
I was wondering if Selangor's website was up and if 
so what is the address??As on Monday at a function for international 
nurses  midwives days at Sydney private hospital 
I asked the DCS/DON had she contemplated offering a 
midwifery option of care for at least the client's of some 
understanding/knowledgeable obs at this hospital (Phillip Coocks  Andrew 
Pesce were cited as possibiles).

She has and will look at it 
again!!So all you midwives in Private hospitals do not loose 
heart!!
All of you everywhere make a 
suggestion at least once a year, month, week toward a midwfery form/option of 
care!Or join Maternity Coalition ACMI and get pushing through 
them

Denise 
in 

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Lynne Staff 
  
  To: Debby M 
  Cc: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  Sent: Friday, May 14, 2010 8:53 AM
  Subject: Re: 'educated' women
  
  Dear Debbie - I was saddened to read your posting 
  but also so pleased you turned your experience into a positive learning one 
  for yourself and others, as you shared with this list. Some years ago I had to 
  do an assignment for uniwhere we had to choose a group of disadvantaged 
  women and prepare a resource package for them, to make available for them in 
  order to "maximise" their chances of a good birth (that means so many things 
  to different people doesn't it?). Anyway, I chose privately insured women as a 
  disadvantaged group andbased my arguments on the high operative 
  outcomes, that cannot be explained away by 'risk', and strengthened that 
  argument using the way in which , and what information is 
  provided to women by obstetricians (as women with Private Health insurance 
  would get the majority of their information from their ob with that ever 
  pervasive medical perspective).
  
  I would love to talk to you more about this if 
  you would be willing. Also I do agree that we (in Oz) need, as you say, some 
  leaflets like the informed choice leaflets thatare available in the UK. 
  However, I was looking through them againh, the other day, and thinking that 
  there are still some of the brochures which subtly (and some not-so-subtly) 
  lead a woman 'that' way, and lead them away from listening to, believing 
  in and acting on theirown bodily knowledgeand what it tells them at this time.
  
  Just my two cents worth - regards, 
  Lynne
  
- Original Message - 
From: 
Debby 
M 
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 

Sent: Sunday, May 12, 2002 7:32 
PM
Subject: Re: 'educated' women



I consider myself an educated woman. Two degrees and post graduate 
studies would certainly indicate such however it is only since the birth of 
my first child that I came to realise how difficult it is for a medical lay 
person to obtain information that truely allows them to make an informed 
choice.
My first birth was the classic cascade of intervention leading to a csec 
and I was led down that path by my obstetrician. It wasn't until some 
months after the birth and a lot of reading, that I discovered there were 
many many aspects of the decisions made by myself that were far from 
informed. On almost every aspect related to my "care" my obstetrician 
presented me with advice and information that could only lead me to conclude 
and agree that his advice for the recommended intervention was right. 
I later found there were a whole range of risks and options that I was not 
told about and on one piece of intervention he actually out and out lied to 
me.
I can only presume that he thought he was doing the right thing, but I 
also get the feeling that often we, the woman, are only told what our carer 
wants us to hear. Whilst we may think we are informed at the time it 
is not until we get our noses into some good medical research papers and 
text books that we discover how much wider the risks and options are. 

This in itself presents a couple of problems. The first being time, 
and what do you teach women? There is obviously a lot to learn or 
obstetric and midwifery training wouldn't take so long. Some of the 
concepts I have read about I have had to bounce of my husband (a 
radiographer) to fully grasp what is being discussed and its implications, 
indicating that those with a lesser education than I may have even more 
difficulty in grasping some of the risks or benefits of different ideas 
related to labour management.
I am very pro informing the woman. I think one of the best ways 
this could be done would be to have a series of little brochures that talk 
in simplified terms that most women could understand what the causes, 
treatments and consequences of the myriad of bi

Re: 'educated' women

2002-05-13 Thread Lynne Staff



Dear Debbie - I was saddened to read your posting 
but also so pleased you turned your experience into a positive learning one for 
yourself and others, as you shared with this list. Some years ago I had to do an 
assignment for uniwhere we had to choose a group of disadvantaged women 
and prepare a resource package for them, to make available for them in order to 
"maximise" their chances of a good birth (that means so many things to different 
people doesn't it?). Anyway, I chose privately insured women as a disadvantaged 
group andbased my arguments on the high operative outcomes, that cannot be 
explained away by 'risk', and strengthened that argument using the way in which 
, and what information is provided to women by obstetricians 
(as women with Private Health insurance would get the majority of their 
information from their ob with that ever pervasive medical 
perspective).

I would love to talk to you more about this if you 
would be willing. Also I do agree that we (in Oz) need, as you say, some 
leaflets like the informed choice leaflets thatare available in the UK. 
However, I was looking through them againh, the other day, and thinking that 
there are still some of the brochures which subtly (and some not-so-subtly) lead 
a woman 'that' way, and lead them away from listening to, believing in and 
acting on theirown bodily knowledgeand what it tells them at this time.

Just my two cents worth - regards, 
Lynne

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Debby 
  M 
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  Sent: Sunday, May 12, 2002 7:32 PM
  Subject: Re: 'educated' women
  
  
  
  I consider myself an educated woman. Two degrees and post graduate 
  studies would certainly indicate such however it is only since the birth of my 
  first child that I came to realise how difficult it is for a medical lay 
  person to obtain information that truely allows them to make an informed 
  choice.
  My first birth was the classic cascade of intervention leading to a csec 
  and I was led down that path by my obstetrician. It wasn't until some 
  months after the birth and a lot of reading, that I discovered there were many 
  many aspects of the decisions made by myself that were far from 
  informed. On almost every aspect related to my "care" my obstetrician 
  presented me with advice and information that could only lead me to conclude 
  and agree that his advice for the recommended intervention was right. I 
  later found there were a whole range of risks and options that I was not told 
  about and on one piece of intervention he actually out and out lied to me.
  I can only presume that he thought he was doing the right thing, but I also 
  get the feeling that often we, the woman, are only told what our carer wants 
  us to hear. Whilst we may think we are informed at the time it is not 
  until we get our noses into some good medical research papers and text books 
  that we discover how much wider the risks and options are. 
  This in itself presents a couple of problems. The first being time, 
  and what do you teach women? There is obviously a lot to learn or 
  obstetric and midwifery training wouldn't take so long. Some of the 
  concepts I have read about I have had to bounce of my husband (a radiographer) 
  to fully grasp what is being discussed and its implications, indicating that 
  those with a lesser education than I may have even more difficulty in grasping 
  some of the risks or benefits of different ideas related to labour 
  management.
  I am very pro informing the woman. I think one of the best ways this 
  could be done would be to have a series of little brochures that talk in 
  simplified terms that most women could understand what the causes, treatments 
  and consequences of the myriad of birth related problems and procedures are, 
  eg.
  Understanding Fetal Distress
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Re: 'educated' women

2002-05-13 Thread Ms Elizabeth McCall



Lynne
Interesting that you cite the (I presume) MIDIRS 
Informed Choice leaflets. I Mavis Kirkham's attended presentationat the 
ICM Congress in Vienna regarding the analysis of the effectiveness of the 
leaflets. Very big study. From memory the results have been published in the BMJ 
. Unfortunately, once again the findings were not positive as the analysis 
indicated that women continue to believe the MO rather than evidence based 
leaflets. Mavis concludesthat auhtorative knowledge ( that is the dominant 
ideology) is all and thatdecisions are made in a climate ofblame 
 manipulation and control  fear. This is not to say don't use them, 
develop your own etc. Just to be aware that they are not necessarily going to be 
as influencing on decision making as we may think ( or hope)!
Liz McCall

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Lynne Staff 
  
  To: Debby M 
  Cc: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  Sent: Friday, May 14, 2010 8:53 AM
  Subject: Re: 'educated' women
  
  Dear Debbie - I was saddened to read your posting 
  but also so pleased you turned your experience into a positive learning one 
  for yourself and others, as you shared with this list. Some years ago I had to 
  do an assignment for uniwhere we had to choose a group of disadvantaged 
  women and prepare a resource package for them, to make available for them in 
  order to "maximise" their chances of a good birth (that means so many things 
  to different people doesn't it?). Anyway, I chose privately insured women as a 
  disadvantaged group andbased my arguments on the high operative 
  outcomes, that cannot be explained away by 'risk', and strengthened that 
  argument using the way in which , and what information is 
  provided to women by obstetricians (as women with Private Health insurance 
  would get the majority of their information from their ob with that ever 
  pervasive medical perspective).
  
  I would love to talk to you more about this if 
  you would be willing. Also I do agree that we (in Oz) need, as you say, some 
  leaflets like the informed choice leaflets thatare available in the UK. 
  However, I was looking through them againh, the other day, and thinking that 
  there are still some of the brochures which subtly (and some not-so-subtly) 
  lead a woman 'that' way, and lead them away from listening to, believing 
  in and acting on theirown bodily knowledgeand what it tells them at this time.
  
  Just my two cents worth - regards, 
  Lynne
  
- Original Message - 
From: 
Debby 
M 
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 

Sent: Sunday, May 12, 2002 7:32 
PM
Subject: Re: 'educated' women



I consider myself an educated woman. Two degrees and post graduate 
studies would certainly indicate such however it is only since the birth of 
my first child that I came to realise how difficult it is for a medical lay 
person to obtain information that truely allows them to make an informed 
choice.
My first birth was the classic cascade of intervention leading to a csec 
and I was led down that path by my obstetrician. It wasn't until some 
months after the birth and a lot of reading, that I discovered there were 
many many aspects of the decisions made by myself that were far from 
informed. On almost every aspect related to my "care" my obstetrician 
presented me with advice and information that could only lead me to conclude 
and agree that his advice for the recommended intervention was right. 
I later found there were a whole range of risks and options that I was not 
told about and on one piece of intervention he actually out and out lied to 
me.
I can only presume that he thought he was doing the right thing, but I 
also get the feeling that often we, the woman, are only told what our carer 
wants us to hear. Whilst we may think we are informed at the time it 
is not until we get our noses into some good medical research papers and 
text books that we discover how much wider the risks and options are. 

This in itself presents a couple of problems. The first being time, 
and what do you teach women? There is obviously a lot to learn or 
obstetric and midwifery training wouldn't take so long. Some of the 
concepts I have read about I have had to bounce of my husband (a 
radiographer) to fully grasp what is being discussed and its implications, 
indicating that those with a lesser education than I may have even more 
difficulty in grasping some of the risks or benefits of different ideas 
related to labour management.
I am very pro informing the woman. I think one of the best ways 
this could be done would be to have a series of little brochures that talk 
in simplified terms that most women could understand what the causes, 
treatments and consequences of the myriad of birth related problems and 
procedures are, eg.
Understa

Re: 'educated' women

2002-05-13 Thread Lynne Staff



Hi Liz Kirkham
Mavis gave the Oration at the ACMI Fellows 
Investiture last year, and I enjoyed her presentation thoroughly. I would love a 
copy of her full paper, so must peruse BMJ. No, I was thinking about the way in 
which the leaflets were put together, not only in actual terminolgy used but in 
the way some of the sentences were construced as well. The messages still come 
through in some of them (even though they are evidence based),that 
birthis a potential disaster.Yes, lurking on the fringes, and it is 
these veiled meanings, I guess you could call them, that I was particularly 
referring to. 

I do think it is wonderful the 
leafletsareavailable (and wasn't it about time, too) and they 
are a positive step for women, and I know Rome wasn't built in a day (but these 
leaflets do lay a good foundation).These are just somethoughts 
I have after reflecting a bit on them. 


(and I am sure there are many midwives out there 
who are ready to throttle me for my posting to Debby and the list!! But, as I 
said,the comment is meant to be a constructive one, and not destructive, 
and based on my own musings/observations - whatever you like to call them.) 


This is entirely separate from what Mavis Kirkham's 
study is about. I interpreted the content of her orationas 
meaningthe way in which midwives used the leaflets, and in the 
ways midwivesprovided women with"packages of dense information" 
without actually ascertaining what women's individual information needs were, or 
hearing what the women were telling them their needs were.

I am truely an academic novice, and haven't got the 
words to say what I mean yet,but I have this thing about information and 
the ways in which it is provided (not hard to pick THAT!!! I wonder if it is 
obsessive compulsive disorder, and what I should do with it!!).

By the way, I love Kirkham and Perkins' 
"Reflections on Midwifery" Recommended reading for all midwives, GPs and 
obstetricians involved in maternity care.

Regards, Lynne

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Ms Elizabeth McCall 
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  Sent: Tuesday, May 14, 2002 10:23 
AM
  Subject: Re: 'educated' women
  
  Lynne
  Interesting that you cite the (I presume) MIDIRS 
  Informed Choice leaflets. I Mavis Kirkham's attended presentationat the 
  ICM Congress in Vienna regarding the analysis of the effectiveness of the 
  leaflets. Very big study. From memory the results have been published in the 
  BMJ . Unfortunately, once again the findings were not positive as the analysis 
  indicated that women continue to believe the MO rather than evidence based 
  leaflets. Mavis concludesthat auhtorative knowledge ( that is the 
  dominant ideology) is all and thatdecisions are made in a climate 
  ofblame  manipulation and control  fear. This is not to say 
  don't use them, develop your own etc. Just to be aware that they are not 
  necessarily going to be as influencing on decision making as we may think ( or 
  hope)!
  Liz McCall
  
- Original Message - 
From: 
Lynne Staff 

To: Debby M 
Cc: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 

Sent: Friday, May 14, 2010 8:53 
AM
Subject: Re: 'educated' women

Dear Debbie - I was saddened to read your 
posting but also so pleased you turned your experience into a positive 
learning one for yourself and others, as you shared with this list. Some 
years ago I had to do an assignment for uniwhere we had to choose a 
group of disadvantaged women and prepare a resource package for them, to 
make available for them in order to "maximise" their chances of a good birth 
(that means so many things to different people doesn't it?). Anyway, I chose 
privately insured women as a disadvantaged group andbased my arguments 
on the high operative outcomes, that cannot be explained away by 'risk', and 
strengthened that argument using the way in which , and 
what information is provided to women by obstetricians (as 
women with Private Health insurance would get the majority of their 
information from their ob with that ever pervasive medical 
perspective).

I would love to talk to you more about this if 
you would be willing. Also I do agree that we (in Oz) need, as you say, some 
leaflets like the informed choice leaflets thatare available in the 
UK. However, I was looking through them againh, the other day, and thinking 
that there are still some of the brochures which subtly (and some 
not-so-subtly) lead a woman 'that' way, and lead them away from listening 
to, believing in and acting on theirown bodily 
knowledgeand what it tells them at this 
time.

Just my two cents worth - regards, 
Lynne

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Debby 
  M 
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  Sent: Sunday, May 12, 2002 7:32 
  PM
  Subject: Re: 'educated' wome

Re: 'educated' women

2002-05-12 Thread Debby M

I consider myself an educated woman. Two degrees and post graduate studies would certainly indicate such however it is only since the birth of my first child that I came to realise how difficult it is for a medical lay person to obtain information that truely allows them to make an informed choice.
My first birth was the classic cascade of intervention leading to a csec and I was led down that path by my obstetrician. It wasn't until some months after the birth and a lot of reading, that I discovered there were many many aspects of the decisions made by myself that were far from informed. On almost every aspect related to my "care" my obstetrician presented me with advice and information that could only lead me to conclude and agree that his advice for the recommended intervention was right. I later found there were a whole range of risks and options that I was not told about and on one piece of intervention he actually out and out lied to me.
I can only presume that he thought he was doing the right thing, but I also get the feeling that often we, the woman, are only told what our carer wants us to hear. Whilst we may think we are informed at the time it is not until we get our noses into some good medical research papers and text books that we discover how much wider the risks and options are. 
This in itself presents a couple of problems. The first being time, and what do you teach women? There is obviously a lot to learn or obstetric and midwifery training wouldn't take so long. Some of the concepts I have read about I have had to bounce of my husband (a radiographer) to fully grasp what is being discussed and its implications, indicating that those with a lesser education than I may have even more difficulty in grasping some of the risks or benefits of different ideas related to labour management.
I am very pro informing the woman. I think one of the best ways this could be done would be to have a series of little brochures that talk in simplified terms that most women could understand what the causes, treatments and consequences of the myriad of birth related problems and procedures are, eg.
Understanding Fetal Distress
1. What is fetal distress 2. Some examples of what can cause it 3. How is it diagnosed - intermittent, continuous, fetal scalp monitoring, fetal ph testing, fetal stimulation test- pros and cons of these (maybe referring to another brochure for the monitoring)
3. Alleviating fetal distress by - changing positions, oxygen, turning of interventions (oxytocin, epidurals etc), operative delivery (referring to another brochure), csec (referring to another brochure) - pros and cons of these.
As you can see even a simple approach can prove complex - there would be a lot of different brochures - and unfortunately most women will take the "it will never happen to me" approach, and being in labour is probably not the best time to be reading a document - although having such information available would mean that at least the support person would be aware if the woman had been given all the options.
I don't know that there is a solution to this. Whilst early birth education may be useful there will always be the problem of information retention as women wait for longer and longer after finishing school to have their babies. The only way I can see to help women is to make the information as widely available as possible, it is then up to them if they choose to absorb the facts or if they choose to rely on other people for the information - which of course carries the risk I encountered during my first delivery of being told what they want you to hear.
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Re: 'educated' women

2002-05-12 Thread Nikki Macfarlane



Debby,

You rightly point out one of the dilemnas of 
childbirth education - how much do we teach and what perspective do we teach 
from? How on earth to get across the myriad of information so women can make 
truly informed choices?

If we tried to teach even a tenth of all the 
possible things that could happen in their pregnancy, labour, birth, postpartum 
or with breastfeeding, it would take hundreds of hours of childbirth education 
or piles and piles of brochures. Then the problem that all women you are working 
with have a different knowledge base to start with, a different level of 
interest and motivation, and a different capacity to absorb and understand the 
information. So how do we tackle it at all?

I work at this from two perspectives. Firstly, 
teach NORMAL pregnancy, NORMAL birth, NORMAL neonatal issues, NORMAL 
breastfeeding. For example, I don't talk about pain relief options. Why not? 
Because my clients do not need me to cover anything they can read for themselves 
in a pregnancy book or a women's magazine. We talk about pain. How pain is 
normal. Why labour hurts. What it is telling us. How will it benefit the woman 
and her baby. How she has everything within her capacity to deal with it. How 
her body will utilise amazing hormones to work with her pain. How she has so 
many options available to her to help her deal with it. Pain is normal. Labour 
will hurt. I don't try and talk about ways to make it go away. I do the same 
with normal labour. I don't talk about fetal distress. Only one women in twenty 
that I teach might even experience this problem. So how do I make sure that if 
she is the one in twenty that she has some way of making informed choices? 


This is the second aspect of my classes. I teach 
her skills that she can utilise in ANY situation where labour does not take the 
path she had deemed the most optimal one. Decision making tools. Questioning and 
communication tools. Techniques for determining the type of caregiver she had 
chosen and how to go about exploring other options if she decides she has the 
wrong one for her needs. These skills are not only helpful for gaining further 
information when a doctor tells her he thinks her baby is in distress. They will 
also help her to explore her options if she has gestational diabetes diagnosed. 
Or her membranes rupture before the onset of contractions. Or if her labour is 
not progressing as quickly as her caregiver would like. Or her baby is thought 
to have jaundice and the caregiver has suggested testing. Or if she is 
experiencing problems with breastfeeding. Or even 5 years later when she is 
trying to resolve a problem with her son or daughter related to their school 
classroom. TRhese are life skills. They are not unique to labour. They do not 
require a massive accumulation of knowledge on every single possibility. 


Teach simple tools that develop skills for 
communication, decision making and questioning. Teach effective listening 
techniques by example. Teach assertiveness by example. Really beieve in what you 
teach and then practice it yourself. Your clients will follow your lead - not 
every time but for those who are in a place on their own journeys where they are 
ready to do so, they will see your example of "walking your talk" and develop 
those same skills themselves.

A long way to not say very much I 
think!

Nikki Macfarlane
Singapore


  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Debby 
  M 
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  Sent: Sunday, May 12, 2002 5:40 PM
  Subject: Re: 'educated' women
  
  
  
  I consider myself an educated woman. Two degrees and post graduate 
  studies would certainly indicate such however it is only since the birth of my 
  first child that I came to realise how difficult it is for a medical lay 
  person to obtain information that truely allows them to make an informed 
  choice.


Re: 'educated' women

2002-05-12 Thread Kleimar
yes, those too. marilyn


educated women

2002-05-12 Thread PaulTracy



I believe it is absolutely vital that birthing 
education is given in schools as it is during these years that most of your 
values and beliefs are instilled.

Recently I was talking to one of our GP/Obs who is 
Dutch. She was discussing the system in Holland (which I so envy) where 
only midwives or Obstetricians partake in pregnancy and birth. She herself 
had three beautiful homebirths and it was so lovely to see her face light up and 
the absolute joy she experienced with her own births.She discussed 
the normality of this whole process over there and how frustrating she finds our 
present system within the hospitals-as does many of us.

The Dutch are raised believing birth to 
besuch a normal event in life and don't get bogged down in the "pain 
issue" as appears to be a major crux in our society does.

I truly believe for things to really change in 
Australia is must begin with the education of our children, the birthing parents 
of the future. Lets get to it!

Tracy


Re: 'educated' women

2002-05-11 Thread Janelle Lyndon Webb




I too have thought for sometime that perhaps the 
education on birth should begin in school - it seems to often be too late once a 
woman is pregnant! For some women though there must be emotional issues I think. 
I have also wondered whether evolutionary theory has led to the belief that we 
can further improve on nature - that our bodies have a fault that has to be 
bypassed by an abdominal incision!




'educated' women

2002-05-10 Thread Jo Dean Bainbridge



I have always thought that education on birth would 
be very beneficial at senior high school and universities.I think I have 
said it before, we should really educate the women doing feminist studies, 
gender studies and so forth. The ones who believe strongly in their 
rights over their bodies. 
I know that one private hospital that 
EVERYONE wants to go to here in Adelaide offers 'pre-birth' education to couples 
planning babies...and knowing that the cs rate at this hospital is up around the 
60%, then I am sure this 'education' contains all the benefits and pros of safe 
easy surgeryone comment was overheard "the spinal in at 9am, the baby born 
at 9.15 and the champagne flows at 10am" (this was said by a client, not 
staff). 
vacating the soap box once more
Jo Bainbridgefounding member CARES SAemail: 
[EMAIL PROTECTED]phone: 
08 8365 7059birth with trust, faith  love...


Re: 'educated' women

2002-05-10 Thread DebSlater
In a message dated 5/10/02 8:05:56 PM W. Australia Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:


I have always thought that education on birth would be very beneficial at senior high school and universities. 

Here in Perth we have the Birthplace Support group which give school talks about childbirth.

I cannot tell you much more about the results of their work, as I have no direct experience, but I am sure that it is very effective. I have volunteered to help out, and will tell you more when I have more information.

Debbie Slater
Perth, WA


Re: 'educated' women

2002-05-10 Thread Kirsten Blacker



so long as we also play pre op tapes to people 
having breast reduction, breast enhancements, face lift, tummy tucks...etc 
etc.
Kirsten

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] ; [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  Sent: Friday, May 10, 2002 7:36 AM
  Subject: Re: 'educated' women
  I really think all 
  women considering elective cesareans should be shown graphic videos of the 
  operation and exactly what will be done to their body. As a midwifery student 
  I was quite interested to witness my first c/s and it was nothing at all like 
  the pre-op videos I had seen in CBE classes or at school and certainly not at 
  all like the birthday TV shows. Also, since there is quite a lot of variety in 
  the length of time to perform the surgery etc., I think several such videos 
  should be shown to those requesting elective c/s for non obstetric/medical 
  reasons. I think this would be true informed consent. Having been with a few 
  friends lately who have had necessary surgeries for a variety of conditions, I 
  was shocked at how the body trauma of the surgery was minimised to these 
  women. I was also shocked at the response I received when I tried to inform 
  one family of the help their mum would need after such a major operation (she 
  nee! ! ded a complete hysterectomy after torsion of her fallopian tube and her 
  ovary becoming a 5 pound mass). The surgeons had really minimised the post-op 
  recovery etc.. presumably to get my friend to have the surgery, which 
  incidently I totally agreed she needed. Anyway, I think people need reality 
  checks every now and again. marilyn