RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: "What we have here.... is a failure to communicate."

2008-02-08 Thread Rick Archer
 

From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
On Behalf Of george_deforest
Sent: Friday, February 08, 2008 8:13 PM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: "What we have here.... is a failure to
communicate."

 


this whole exchange has been kinda hilarious.

i have this idea for Rick, that maybe he should re-write 
the introductory welcome on the front page
explaining how -in fact- this group works, to prevent 
this kind of misunderstanding for future "newbies".
i think in light of the headlines on maharishi passing, 
there will be alot more of the curious, old-time TMers
sniffing around here.

Many have joined in the last few days. Give me some suggestions on how you
would amend the description. We’re limited to 2,000 characters. Right now
it’s written to include a lot of keywords that’ll help all sorts of people
find the group. There’s also the guidelines that get sent to new members,
and to everyone once a month. Those could be updated. 


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[FairfieldLife] Re: "What we have here.... is a failure to communicate."

2008-02-08 Thread george_deforest

this whole exchange has been kinda hilarious.

i have this idea for Rick, that maybe he should re-write 
the introductory welcome on the front page
explaining how -in fact- this group works, to prevent 
this kind of misunderstanding for future "newbies".
i think in light of the headlines on maharishi passing, 
there will be alot more of the curious, old-time TMers
sniffing around here.



--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Rick Archer" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> 
> On Behalf Of srijim1
> 
> Finally, someone who is actually willing to explain the situation
without
> feeling the need to 
> insult me. Now, was that so difficult to accomplish? Rick, here I
thought
> you were some 
> "true believer" and now it is apparent you are anything but. My
apologies. I
> am obviously 
> in the wrong forum talking to the wrong people. You have your own thing
> happening here 
> and I'll intrude no further. Good luck to you all.
> 
> SriJim
> 
> I hope you stick around. I'm sure you'd have a lot to contribute.
It's often
> a rough and tumble atmosphere here. Maybe those who make it that way
like it
> that way. If you don't, don't contribute to it, ignore those who
insult you
> and try to pull you into nastiness, and pick out the good stuff. In
other
> words, "Take what you need and leave the rest."







[FairfieldLife] Re: "What we have here.... is a failure to communicate."

2008-02-08 Thread lurkernomore20002000

-- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ben Gilberti <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
wrote:
  Dear Srijim,
They called me an asshole for a good while, they were right actualy, I
was also clueless. I shut up and learned something. We don't know yet if
it worked, however.


Ben,  you are loveable.  No doubt about it.



[FairfieldLife] Re: "What we have here.... is a failure to communicate."

2008-02-08 Thread Alex Stanley
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Rick Archer" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
> Hey Nabby, are you paying attention? 

Speaking of Nabby, he hasn't posted in several days. I wonder if he
made a pilgrimage to Vlodrop to see MMY one last time. 



Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: "What we have here.... is a failure to communicate."

2008-02-08 Thread Vaj


On Feb 8, 2008, at 11:29 AM, srijim1 wrote:

Finally, someone who is actually willing to explain the situation  
without feeling the need to
insult me. Now, was that so difficult to accomplish? Rick, here I  
thought you were some
"true believer" and now it is apparent you are anything but. My  
apologies. I am obviously
in the wrong forum talking to the wrong people. You have your own  
thing happening here

and I'll intrude no further. Good luck to you all.



I believe most TB's avoid FFL or have even been told (in FF) that it  
is "off the program" to participate here. I suspect the only TMO TB's  
you'll find here are "lurkers". But there are a lot of TM/TMSP TB's  
here.

RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: "What we have here.... is a failure to communicate."

2008-02-08 Thread Rick Archer
 

From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
On Behalf Of srijim1
Sent: Friday, February 08, 2008 10:29 AM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: "What we have here.... is a failure to
communicate."

 

Finally, someone who is actually willing to explain the situation without
feeling the need to 
insult me. Now, was that so difficult to accomplish? Rick, here I thought
you were some 
"true believer" and now it is apparent you are anything but. My apologies. I
am obviously 
in the wrong forum talking to the wrong people. You have your own thing
happening here 
and I'll intrude no further. Good luck to you all.

SriJim

I hope you stick around. I’m sure you’d have a lot to contribute. It’s often
a rough and tumble atmosphere here. Maybe those who make it that way like it
that way. If you don’t, don’t contribute to it, ignore those who insult you
and try to pull you into nastiness, and pick out the good stuff. In other
words, “Take what you need and leave the rest.”


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[FairfieldLife] Re: "What we have here.... is a failure to communicate."

2008-02-08 Thread Duveyoung
Sri Jim,

Hey, I've seen quite a few folks barge in here since, well, since I
barged in here about a year ago with my tude going full blast, and
just about all of the newbies have had to fight their way into this
gang.  Gotta take a thousand kicks from us -- that's how we see if you
go away or stick around and surrender to the abuse that is available
here -- it can be as much fun as snowball fighting, and as dangerous.

I post these long rants and lectures and sermons and get almost
nothing back, but I look at it as my archiving for posterity the
ruminations of a newage cud chewer.  I pride myself that as long as
the Internet lasts, I'll be googlable.  Scant immortality, but where
else can an ego invest these days?  

Prepare to have King Lear's feelings on a regular basis if you try to
lay down some truth here.  Points of view are mercilessly scathed and
I count it as a nice sandpapering of one's egoic sculpture to get a
group to refine one's projections.

That said, hey, I really like you.  I really really like you.  Keep
posting.  Something ya gots resonates over here.

If you post some biographical info, that sometimes mellows the folks
out -- otherwise, a stranger has come to town and we're all putting
our hands next to our holsters.

And get that damned stair-stepping format fixed.

Edg


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, srijim1 <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
>  
> > You are incorrect on both counts. I am NOT
> > a good guy, and I call you an asshole because
> > you're acting like one. Your assessment of me
> > is as off as your initial assessment of who
> > Rick Archer is and what his intention was in
> > reposting an announcement.
> > 
> > You're clueless. Either shut up and learn 
> > something, or go away.
> >
> 
> TurquoiseB,  LOL!!! Okay, have it your way... you are a jerk and
probably a complete 
> asshole as well. I won't dispute that with you. I wanted to give you
the benefit of the 
> doubt... but, oh well. You say I'm clueless, while at the same time
offering absolutely 
> nothing to back up your statement. What do I have to do?... pay some
kind of initiation fee 
> to become privy to this secret knowledge you claim to possess.  Rick
Archer's posting of 
> that TM Movement superlative clap-trap seemed a bit moronic to me,
but if you possess 
> some higher wisdom on the subject hit me with your best shot.
I'm an adult... I can take 
> it. But, if all you can do is regurgitate insults and patronizingly
say, "Learn something" ... 
> then spare me. Who the hell made you pope of this thread... you
servile arrogant prick. 
> This is a public forum open to anyone who wants to participate. You
say you left the TM 
> Movement years ago... and yet you seem to exhibit the same kind of
haughty imperious 
> attitude the TM Movement is so famous for. What is it with you &
Judith? ... do you think 
> just because you hurl some supercilious insults in an intimidating
manner, I'm supposed 
> to take it on faith you have any clue what you're talking about?  I
certainly haven't seen any 
> evidence of it. All I've seen is some pompous guy who is verbose...
and yet does not 
> persuade. If you have a legitimate point of view that can be backed
up... state it like an 
> adult. If it has any merit, I'll listen. But, enough of this acerbic
nonsense you keep 
> spouting.
>




[FairfieldLife] Re: "What we have here.... is a failure to communicate."

2008-02-08 Thread srijim1
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Rick Archer" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
>  
> 
> From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> On Behalf Of srijim1
> Sent: Friday, February 08, 2008 8:46 AM
> To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
> Subject: [FairfieldLife] "What we have here is a failure to
> communicate."
> 
>  
> 
> "What we have here is a failure to communicate."
> 
> I see your point and you are correct that I was under the impression that I
> was 
> corresponding with forum members currently living in Fairfield and involved
> in the 
> activities of the TM Movement. My initial response was to some guy named
> Rick Archer 
> and the subject of the thread was/and is: Special Broadcast on Maharishi
> Channel. If you 
> read my initial response, you should see that my response was in no way
> directed towards 
> people who had actually left the TM Movement. Quite to the contrary, I
> applaud you for 
> having the good sense to do so. When I read your responses, it was my
> assumption that 
> they were targeted to the thread subject matter as initiated by Mr. Archer.
> The purpose of 
> a subject line in a thread is to keep responses within an overall context in
> order to stay on 
> point. You actually sound like a pretty good guy, so I won't take serious
> offense at you 
> repeatedly calling me an asshole, but I don't mind pointing out that you are
> actually the 
> one responding on the wrong thread with regard to the subject topic and it's
> initiation. It's 
> an honest mistake on both of our parts. I was responding to a thread
> initiated by a "true 
> believer," Rick Archer, 
> 
> Hey Nabby, are you paying attention? I've been anointed a "true believer."
> Cool! Do I get a crown with that?
> 
> Jim, for the record, many things I post here are forwarded. I post them
> because I consider them significant and potential stimulants for discussion.
> They don't necessarily reflect my opinions. People who've been around a
> while know this, so I don't preface every post with a disclaimer.
> 
> 
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>
Finally, someone who is actually willing to explain the situation without 
feeling the need to 
insult me. Now, was that so difficult to accomplish?  Rick, here I thought you 
were some 
"true believer" and now it is apparent you are anything but. My apologies. I am 
obviously 
in the wrong forum talking to the wrong people. You have your own thing 
happening here 
and I'll intrude no further. Good luck to you all.

SriJim



[FairfieldLife] Re: "What we have here.... is a failure to communicate."

2008-02-08 Thread geezerfreak
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, srijim1 <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
> an honest mistake on both of our parts. I was responding to a thread 
> initiated by a "true 
> believer," Rick Archer, with the hope that I might stir up a dialog with 
> either him or people 
> who share his convictions. Probably wishful thinking on my part. Instead, I 
> was preaching 
> to the choir without being aware of it. It's a shame really because right now 
> TM Movement 
> members have what appears to be a real opportunity to throw off the chains of 
> tyranny 
> people like you had the wisdom to recognize years and even decades ago. 
> 
> And to any other Ex-TMers out there, please understand that all of my 
> postings have been 
> directed to what I believed was a TM Movement yahoo group in the context of a 
> TM 
> Movement staff member's press release.
>
Dude, you still need to chill out and watch for a while. Rick Archer is NOT a 
TM Movement 
true believer (TB). He, like a lot of us, was once deeply involved in the inner 
workings of the 
TM organization. He is actually banned from certain inner TM activities now. 
(Dome)

You're way off trying to categorize him as a movement zombie.





[FairfieldLife] Re: "What we have here.... is a failure to communicate."

2008-02-08 Thread srijim1
 
> You are incorrect on both counts. I am NOT
> a good guy, and I call you an asshole because
> you're acting like one. Your assessment of me
> is as off as your initial assessment of who
> Rick Archer is and what his intention was in
> reposting an announcement.
> 
> You're clueless. Either shut up and learn 
> something, or go away.
>

TurquoiseB,  LOL!!! Okay, have it your way... you are a jerk and probably a 
complete 
asshole as well. I won't dispute that with you. I wanted to give you the 
benefit of the 
doubt... but, oh well. You say I'm clueless, while at the same time offering 
absolutely 
nothing to back up your statement. What do I have to do?... pay some kind of 
initiation fee 
to become privy to this secret knowledge you claim to possess.  Rick Archer's 
posting of 
that TM Movement superlative clap-trap seemed a bit moronic to me, but if you 
possess 
some higher wisdom on the subject hit me with your best shot. I'm an 
adult... I can take 
it. But, if all you can do is regurgitate insults and patronizingly say, "Learn 
something" ... 
then spare me. Who the hell made you pope of this thread... you servile 
arrogant prick. 
This is a public forum open to anyone who wants to participate. You say you 
left the TM 
Movement years ago... and yet you seem to exhibit the same kind of haughty 
imperious 
attitude the TM Movement is so famous for. What is it with you & Judith? ... do 
you think 
just because you hurl some supercilious insults in an intimidating manner, I'm 
supposed 
to take it on faith you have any clue what you're talking about?  I certainly 
haven't seen any 
evidence of it. All I've seen is some pompous guy who is verbose... and yet 
does not 
persuade. If you have a legitimate point of view that can be backed up... state 
it like an 
adult. If it has any merit, I'll listen. But, enough of this acerbic nonsense 
you keep 
spouting.   

 



RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: "What we have here.... is a failure to communicate."

2008-02-08 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
On Behalf Of Ben Gilberti
Sent: Friday, February 08, 2008 9:56 AM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: "What we have here.... is a failure to
communicate."

 

Rick.  I never heard the "mustard belly" reference before, but couldn't find
a definition for it when I googled it.  What does it mean?

 

-- Ben

I remember hearing once that when sailors crossed the equator for the first
time, they would undergo a hazing that sometimes involved spreading spicy
mustard on their bellies, among other unpleasant yet non-lethal things.


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RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: "What we have here.... is a failure to communicate."

2008-02-08 Thread Ben Gilberti
Rick.  I never heard the "mustard belly" reference before, but couldn't find a 
definition for it when I googled it.  What does it mean?
   
  -- Ben

Rick Archer <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
  
  From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf 
Of Ben Gilberti
Sent: Friday, February 08, 2008 9:12 AM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: "What we have here is a failure to 
communicate."


  
  Dear Srijim, 



They called me an asshole for a good while, they were right actualy, I was 
also clueless.  I shut up and learned something.  We don't know yet if it 
worked, however. 
  




  It’s a rite of passage. A sort of virtual mustard belly.


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[FairfieldLife] Re: "What we have here.... is a failure to communicate."

2008-02-08 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, srijim1 <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> I was responding to a thread initiated by a "true 
> believer," Rick Archer

No, you weren't. Rick started this group because
he was *not* a True Believer. Barry already
explained this to you. You just aren't paying
attention.


> And to any other Ex-TMers out there, please understand that all
> of my postings have been directed to what I believed was a TM 
> Movement yahoo group in the context of a TM Movement staff
> member's press release.

Everybody who's read your posts here understands
you were operating on the basis of this mistaken
assumption; it could hardly have been clearer.

Again, that's why I suggested you go back and
read some of the earlier traffic from before MMY
died. If you had done so, your mistake would have
become obvious to you.

A few other points, since you appear to be listening
now:

This group is *open* to True Believers; theoretically
they're welcome here, although in practice that isn't
always the case, and they're distinctly in the minority.

Not all the members of the group live in Fairfield.
Not sure of the percentages, but I'd guess more don't.

A lot of people are members of the group but don't
usually post. Some read the group regularly; some
don't. Some are True Believers; some aren't. When MMY
died, a bunch of these lurkers came out of the woodwork
to express their feelings about the event. In many 
cases, these were people who still admire, or even
revere, Maharishi. So if you read any of the traffic
beyond Rick's post, you did see many more posts from
True Believers than you would in a normal week.

A lot of the people here have *mixed feelings* about
MMY. Don't assume that because someone says something
positive about him, therefore they're a True Believer;
or if they post something negative, therefore they
agree with your perspective on all points.

This forum is, among other things, a source for news
and gossip about the TM movement. Most of us are
interested in following what's going on, whether we're
still part of the movement or not (or whether we ever
were or not). Movement press releases and other
"official" material is frequently posted here simply
to keep us informed of what's happening. That someone
posts a piece of TMO material by no means indicates
that they "believe" what it says.

It's a standard recommendation for people joining
electronic forums that they take some time--at least
a week--to read the traffic before they start posting.
The reason this recommendation is made is to help
people *avoid* making the kind of mistakes you've made
and looking like a fool.

So you may want to take that piece of advice to
heart for the future.




RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: "What we have here.... is a failure to communicate."

2008-02-08 Thread Rick Archer
 

From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
On Behalf Of Ben Gilberti
Sent: Friday, February 08, 2008 9:12 AM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: "What we have here.... is a failure to
communicate."

 

Dear Srijim, 

 

They called me an asshole for a good while, they were right actualy, I was
also clueless.  I shut up and learned something.  We don't know yet if it
worked, however. 

 

It’s a rite of passage. A sort of virtual mustard belly.


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[FairfieldLife] Re: "What we have here.... is a failure to communicate."

2008-02-08 Thread Alex Stanley
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, srijim1 <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
> I was responding to a thread initiated by a "true believer," Rick
> Archer, with the hope that I might stir up a dialog with either him
> or people who share his convictions. 

That is yet another incorrect assumption and example of why you would
do well to spend some serious time, reading the archives and getting
to know the participants here. Rick Archer is NOT a TM "true
believer". Rick Archer was kicked out of the dome. Rick Archer ditched
his TM mantra and instead uses a mantra given to him by Ammachi. Rick
Archer is the one who posted an email discussion about allegations
that MMY was sexually involved with women. These are all facts that
can be found in the FFL archives.

There's a reason why it's common netiquette for newbies to a forum to
lurk for a while and get a feel for the forum and its participants
before participating. You barged in here, completely ignorant of what
FFL is about and the people who post here, and started making a
complete ass of yourself. Barry's right: "You're clueless. Either shut
up and learn something, or go away."




Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: "What we have here.... is a failure to communicate."

2008-02-08 Thread Ben Gilberti
Dear Srijim, 
   
  They called me an asshole for a good while, they were right actualy, I was 
also clueless.  I shut up and learned something.  We don't know yet if it 
worked, however. 
   
  -- Ben

TurquoiseB <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, srijim1 <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
>
> You actually sound like a pretty good guy, so I won't 
> take serious offense at you repeatedly calling me an 
> asshole...

You are incorrect on both counts. I am NOT
a good guy, and I call you an asshole because
you're acting like one. Your assessment of me
is as off as your initial assessment of who
Rick Archer is and what his intention was in
reposting an announcement.

You're clueless. Either shut up and learn 
something, or go away.



 

   
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[FairfieldLife] Re: "What we have here.... is a failure to communicate."

2008-02-08 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, srijim1 <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
> You actually sound like a pretty good guy, so I won't 
> take serious offense at you repeatedly calling me an 
> asshole...

You are incorrect on both counts. I am NOT
a good guy, and I call you an asshole because
you're acting like one. Your assessment of me
is as off as your initial assessment of who
Rick Archer is and what his intention was in
reposting an announcement.

You're clueless. Either shut up and learn 
something, or go away.