Re: [LegacyUG] Death location

2009-10-12 Thread Jim Walton
In keeping with standard locations I'm wondering if I could consider the
ship as the city, leave the county and state fields blank, and use South
Atlantic for the country. At least that way it would sort properly. Then in
the notes I could give the details. Perhaps I'm being too critical.

Jim


On Mon, Oct 12, 2009 at 2:16 AM, Kramer kramer...@comcast.net wrote:

 We just had a cremation and possible private burial on farmland that I want
 to verify so I'm ready to do one of those too.  This is how I would do it.
  In the Burial Notes or maybe burial location, I would mention buried at
 sea and which water area if that is what happened.  In Death Notes I would
 mention that the death took place aboard a ship in the South Atlantic or
 whatever the situation is.

 With regard to cremation, I would note the cremation in the death notes if
 necessary, but I find burial more important.  Since there are so many people
 scattering ashes to the wind, it will be very difficult for genealogists in
 the future.  For the sake of locating the burial location, if given a
 choice, I would choose to note the burial location.   The date of cremation
 is not an issue to me.  Death and burial are the important things, just like
 the date of embalming is not noted.  I would only use cremation date to note
 that we won't be able to find a burial spot due to a different disposal
 (gee, not very reverent) of the remains.  Whether cremated or embalmed, if
 burial takes place, that takes precedence.  If there is no burial, then I
 would note cremation to show that no burial took place.

 Ellen Kramer

 Researching and loving Dorman, Kramer, Mirarchi, Procopio, Renninger and
 Staudt-Stoudt-Stout families


 On Oct 9, 2009, at 10:34 PM, William H. Boswell wrote:

  I was wondering the same thing and am glad somebody asked it.  I have a
 twist on one person: the person donated his body to a medical school, then
 was cremated.  No idea where the cremains were buried.

 I noticed you can't select both cremated and burial.  It's either one or
 the other.  I think I have a separate event for cremations.

 Bill Boswell
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 Of Jim Walton
 Sent: Friday, October 09, 2009 10:21 PM
 To: LegacyUserGroup@legacyfamilytree.com
 Subject: [LegacyUG] Death location

 I have an uncle who died aboard ship during WW II. What do I put as his
 death location? I currently have Aboard ship in South Atlantic.

 On a similar topic, what to do about cremation. They are cremated and
 buried, but not necessarily on the same day. Do you just select cremated and
 then use the date and place of burial? I guess the cremation could be
 entered as an event, and then the burial record entered for burial. I really
 don't think it's a critical issue, but I'm curious how others are handling
 this.

 Jim

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Re: [LegacyUG] Death location

2009-10-12 Thread Ron Ferguson
Jim,

It is your database, so you can do as you wish. Nevertheless what you are 
suggesting would be incorrect. The usual way is to include at sea and, if one 
knows, it the name of the sea. I have a few of these and they sort fine at or 
near the start of the list: At sea, The English Channel, At Sea, The 
Atlantic Ocean etc.

Ron Ferguson
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  - Original Message - 
  From: Jim Walton 
  To: LegacyUserGroup@legacyfamilytree.com 
  Sent: 12 October 2009 07:15
  Subject: Re: [LegacyUG] Death location


  In keeping with standard locations I'm wondering if I could consider the ship 
as the city, leave the county and state fields blank, and use South Atlantic 
for the country. At least that way it would sort properly. Then in the notes I 
could give the details. Perhaps I'm being too critical.

  Jim



  On Mon, Oct 12, 2009 at 2:16 AM, Kramer kramer...@comcast.net wrote:

We just had a cremation and possible private burial on farmland that I want 
to verify so I'm ready to do one of those too.  This is how I would do it.  In 
the Burial Notes or maybe burial location, I would mention buried at sea and 
which water area if that is what happened.  In Death Notes I would mention that 
the death took place aboard a ship in the South Atlantic or whatever the 
situation is.

With regard to cremation, I would note the cremation in the death notes if 
necessary, but I find burial more important.  Since there are so many people 
scattering ashes to the wind, it will be very difficult for genealogists in the 
future.  For the sake of locating the burial location, if given a choice, I 
would choose to note the burial location.   The date of cremation is not an 
issue to me.  Death and burial are the important things, just like the date of 
embalming is not noted.  I would only use cremation date to note that we won't 
be able to find a burial spot due to a different disposal (gee, not very 
reverent) of the remains.  Whether cremated or embalmed, if burial takes place, 
that takes precedence.  If there is no burial, then I would note cremation to 
show that no burial took place.

Ellen Kramer

Researching and loving Dorman, Kramer, Mirarchi, Procopio, Renninger and 
Staudt-Stoudt-Stout families


On Oct 9, 2009, at 10:34 PM, William H. Boswell wrote:


  I was wondering the same thing and am glad somebody asked it.  I have a 
twist on one person: the person donated his body to a medical school, then was 
cremated.  No idea where the cremains were buried.

  I noticed you can't select both cremated and burial.  It's either one or 
the other.  I think I have a separate event for cremations.

  Bill Boswell
  -Original Message-
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Behalf Of Jim Walton
  Sent: Friday, October 09, 2009 10:21 PM
  To: LegacyUserGroup@legacyfamilytree.com
  Subject: [LegacyUG] Death location

  I have an uncle who died aboard ship during WW II. What do I put as his 
death location? I currently have Aboard ship in South Atlantic.

  On a similar topic, what to do about cremation. They are cremated and 
buried, but not necessarily on the same day. Do you just select cremated and 
then use the date and place of burial? I guess the cremation could be entered 
as an event, and then the burial record entered for burial. I really don't 
think it's a critical issue, but I'm curious how others are handling this.

  Jim

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Re: [LegacyUG] Death location

2009-10-12 Thread Jim Walton
Thanks, Ron, that's what I was looking for.

Jim


On Mon, Oct 12, 2009 at 3:48 PM, Ron Ferguson rnldfe...@tiscali.co.ukwrote:

  Jim,

 It is your database, so you can do as you wish. Nevertheless what you are
 suggesting would be incorrect. The usual way is to include at sea and, if
 one knows, it the name of the sea. I have a few of these and they sort fine
 at or near the start of the list: At sea, The English Channel, At Sea,
 The Atlantic Ocean etc.

 Ron Ferguson
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 - Original Message -
 *From:* Jim Walton jimwalt...@gmail.com
 *To:* LegacyUserGroup@legacyfamilytree.com
 *Sent:* 12 October 2009 07:15
 *Subject:* Re: [LegacyUG] Death location

 In keeping with standard locations I'm wondering if I could consider the
 ship as the city, leave the county and state fields blank, and use South
 Atlantic for the country. At least that way it would sort properly. Then in
 the notes I could give the details. Perhaps I'm being too critical.

 Jim


 On Mon, Oct 12, 2009 at 2:16 AM, Kramer kramer...@comcast.net wrote:

 We just had a cremation and possible private burial on farmland that I
 want to verify so I'm ready to do one of those too.  This is how I would do
 it.  In the Burial Notes or maybe burial location, I would mention buried
 at sea and which water area if that is what happened.  In Death Notes I
 would mention that the death took place aboard a ship in the South
 Atlantic or whatever the situation is.

 With regard to cremation, I would note the cremation in the death notes if
 necessary, but I find burial more important.  Since there are so many people
 scattering ashes to the wind, it will be very difficult for genealogists in
 the future.  For the sake of locating the burial location, if given a
 choice, I would choose to note the burial location.   The date of cremation
 is not an issue to me.  Death and burial are the important things, just like
 the date of embalming is not noted.  I would only use cremation date to note
 that we won't be able to find a burial spot due to a different disposal
 (gee, not very reverent) of the remains.  Whether cremated or embalmed, if
 burial takes place, that takes precedence.  If there is no burial, then I
 would note cremation to show that no burial took place.

 Ellen Kramer

 Researching and loving Dorman, Kramer, Mirarchi, Procopio, Renninger and
 Staudt-Stoudt-Stout families


 On Oct 9, 2009, at 10:34 PM, William H. Boswell wrote:

 I was wondering the same thing and am glad somebody asked it.  I have a
 twist on one person: the person donated his body to a medical school, then
 was cremated.  No idea where the cremains were buried.

 I noticed you can't select both cremated and burial.  It's either one or
 the other.  I think I have a separate event for cremations.

 Bill Boswell
 -Original Message-
 From: k...@legacyfamilytree.com [mailto:k...@legacyfamilytree.com]on
 Behalf Of Jim Walton
 Sent: Friday, October 09, 2009 10:21 PM
 To: LegacyUserGroup@legacyfamilytree.com
 Subject: [LegacyUG] Death location

 I have an uncle who died aboard ship during WW II. What do I put as his
 death location? I currently have Aboard ship in South Atlantic.

 On a similar topic, what to do about cremation. They are cremated and
 buried, but not necessarily on the same day. Do you just select cremated and
 then use the date and place of burial? I guess the cremation could be
 entered as an event, and then the burial record entered for burial. I really
 don't think it's a critical issue, but I'm curious how others are handling
 this.

 Jim

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Re: [LegacyUG] Death Location

2009-10-12 Thread Kramer


On Oct 11, 2009, at 11:35 AM, howlanddavi...@aol.com wrote:


Roxanne and others

In a message dated 10/11/2009 11:12:48 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time, maighe...@yahoo.com 
 writes:
I had to laugh when I read this; my mom donated her body to the  
University of Rochester.  After a year or so, her cremains were  
returned to us.  She currently resides under my sister's couch.   
I've left the Legacy burial information blank.
   It's interesting to see that others have similar problems.  My  
father-in-law's cremains are on a wall shelf in my wife's studio  
while we try to figure out where to bury or scatter them (WV where  
he was born; OH (where he lived for many years or MO where a  
grandson lives who might visit the grave).  At that point,  
information will be entered into Legacy as to disposition.
   Someone that I met recently waited over a year to bury her  
husband's cremains because she did not like the setting at a nearby  
National Cemetery and they told her to wait a year until another  
section would be started.


Howland Davis


I have heard many people say how they use the burial date to  
substantiate the death date.  It will be really hard years from now to  
verify things like this.  Maybe these situations will help us to  
convince others to deal with cremains more quickly and reverently.


How horrible to think of spending eternity under a sofa or getting  
destroyed in the trunk of a car during an accident!  I wonder if some  
people get tired of having the cremains around and eventually throw  
them in the trash.  I wouldn't be surprised in some cases.  What if  
the car were sold with the cremains still there?  I think I'd want to  
know what happened with the remains, but certainly they should be  
given a respectful proper burial.  This is the reason why the Catholic  
Church delayed approval of cremation for so long. Now they say that  
cremation may only be done if the person still believes in the  
resurrection of the body and provided that a quick and reverent burial  
be done.  I never liked cremation and really didn't like it when I  
heard that the larger bones don't burn up and are thrown away.  Now  
I'm dead set again it.  Pun intended.


Ellen Kramer

Researching and loving Dorman, Kramer, Mirarchi, Procopio, Renninger  
and Staudt-Stoudt-Stout families










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Re: [LegacyUG] Death Location

2009-10-12 Thread Marilyn Clark
Ellen:

Please refrain from hijacking this thread to espouse your religious views. 
Thank you!

Marilyn


--- On Sun, 10/11/09, Kramer kramer...@comcast.net wrote:

 From: Kramer kramer...@comcast.net
 Subject: Re: [LegacyUG] Death Location
 To: LegacyUserGroup@legacyfamilytree.com
 Date: Sunday, October 11, 2009, 12:14 PM
 
 On Oct 11, 2009, at 11:35 AM, howlanddavi...@aol.com
 wrote:
 
  Roxanne and others
  
  In a message dated 10/11/2009 11:12:48 A.M. Eastern
 Daylight Time, maighe...@yahoo.com
 writes:
  I had to laugh when I read this; my mom donated her
 body to the University of Rochester.  After a year or
 so, her cremains were returned to us.  She currently
 resides under my sister's couch.  I've left the Legacy
 burial information blank.
     It's interesting to see that others have
 similar problems.  My father-in-law's cremains are on a
 wall shelf in my wife's studio while we try to figure out
 where to bury or scatter them (WV where he was born; OH
 (where he lived for many years or MO where a grandson lives
 who might visit the grave).  At that point, information
 will be entered into Legacy as to disposition.
     Someone that I met recently waited over a
 year to bury her husband's cremains because she did not like
 the setting at a nearby National Cemetery and they told her
 to wait a year until another section would be started.
  
  Howland Davis
 
 I have heard many people say how they use the burial date
 to substantiate the death date.  It will be really hard
 years from now to verify things like this.  Maybe these
 situations will help us to convince others to deal with
 cremains more quickly and reverently.
 
 How horrible to think of spending eternity under a sofa or
 getting destroyed in the trunk of a car during an
 accident!  I wonder if some people get tired of having
 the cremains around and eventually throw them in the
 trash.  I wouldn't be surprised in some cases. 
 What if the car were sold with the cremains still
 there?  I think I'd want to know what happened with the
 remains, but certainly they should be given a respectful
 proper burial.  This is the reason why the Catholic
 Church delayed approval of cremation for so long. Now they
 say that cremation may only be done if the person still
 believes in the resurrection of the body and provided that a
 quick and reverent burial be done.  I never liked
 cremation and really didn't like it when I heard that the
 larger bones don't burn up and are thrown away.  Now
 I'm dead set again it.  Pun intended.
 
 Ellen Kramer
 
 Researching and loving Dorman, Kramer, Mirarchi, Procopio,
 Renninger and Staudt-Stoudt-Stout families
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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Re: [LegacyUG] Death Location

2009-10-12 Thread Ruth Nerud
Lighten up, Marilyn. She is stating facts, not her religious views. One day, 
you'll say something that someone else doesn't like. Where is your 
tolerance. This is America.

Ruth
- Original Message - 
From: Marilyn Clark paddypeppe...@yahoo.com

To: LegacyUserGroup@legacyfamilytree.com
Sent: Monday, October 12, 2009 10:04 AM
Subject: Re: [LegacyUG] Death Location


Ellen:

Please refrain from hijacking this thread to espouse your religious views. 
Thank you!


Marilyn


--- On Sun, 10/11/09, Kramer kramer...@comcast.net wrote:


From: Kramer kramer...@comcast.net
Subject: Re: [LegacyUG] Death Location
To: LegacyUserGroup@legacyfamilytree.com
Date: Sunday, October 11, 2009, 12:14 PM

On Oct 11, 2009, at 11:35 AM, howlanddavi...@aol.com
wrote:

 Roxanne and others

 In a message dated 10/11/2009 11:12:48 A.M. Eastern
Daylight Time, maighe...@yahoo.com
writes:
 I had to laugh when I read this; my mom donated her
body to the University of Rochester. After a year or
so, her cremains were returned to us. She currently
resides under my sister's couch. I've left the Legacy
burial information blank.
 It's interesting to see that others have
similar problems. My father-in-law's cremains are on a
wall shelf in my wife's studio while we try to figure out
where to bury or scatter them (WV where he was born; OH
(where he lived for many years or MO where a grandson lives
who might visit the grave). At that point, information
will be entered into Legacy as to disposition.
 Someone that I met recently waited over a
year to bury her husband's cremains because she did not like
the setting at a nearby National Cemetery and they told her
to wait a year until another section would be started.

 Howland Davis

I have heard many people say how they use the burial date
to substantiate the death date. It will be really hard
years from now to verify things like this. Maybe these
situations will help us to convince others to deal with
cremains more quickly and reverently.

How horrible to think of spending eternity under a sofa or
getting destroyed in the trunk of a car during an
accident! I wonder if some people get tired of having
the cremains around and eventually throw them in the
trash. I wouldn't be surprised in some cases.
What if the car were sold with the cremains still
there? I think I'd want to know what happened with the
remains, but certainly they should be given a respectful
proper burial. This is the reason why the Catholic
Church delayed approval of cremation for so long. Now they
say that cremation may only be done if the person still
believes in the resurrection of the body and provided that a
quick and reverent burial be done. I never liked
cremation and really didn't like it when I heard that the
larger bones don't burn up and are thrown away. Now
I'm dead set again it. Pun intended.

Ellen Kramer

Researching and loving Dorman, Kramer, Mirarchi, Procopio,
Renninger and Staudt-Stoudt-Stout families









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Re: [LegacyUG] Death Location

2009-10-12 Thread Frank Saragosa
One thing for sure:  Ellen is NOT stating facts!  Marilyn is right; Ellen's
views on cremation have no place on this thread or user list.

On Mon, Oct 12, 2009 at 8:13 AM, Ruth Nerud baber...@worldnet.att.netwrote:

 Lighten up, Marilyn. She is stating facts, not her religious views. One
 day, you'll say something that someone else doesn't like. Where is your
 tolerance. This is America.
 Ruth
 - Original Message - From: Marilyn Clark 
 paddypeppe...@yahoo.com
 To: LegacyUserGroup@legacyfamilytree.com
 Sent: Monday, October 12, 2009 10:04 AM

 Subject: Re: [LegacyUG] Death Location


 Ellen:

 Please refrain from hijacking this thread to espouse your religious views.
 Thank you!

 Marilyn


 --- On Sun, 10/11/09, Kramer kramer...@comcast.net wrote:

 From: Kramer kramer...@comcast.net
 Subject: Re: [LegacyUG] Death Location
 To: LegacyUserGroup@legacyfamilytree.com
 Date: Sunday, October 11, 2009, 12:14 PM

 On Oct 11, 2009, at 11:35 AM, howlanddavi...@aol.com
 wrote:

  Roxanne and others
 
  In a message dated 10/11/2009 11:12:48 A.M. Eastern
 Daylight Time, maighe...@yahoo.com
 writes:
  I had to laugh when I read this; my mom donated her
 body to the University of Rochester. After a year or
 so, her cremains were returned to us. She currently
 resides under my sister's couch. I've left the Legacy
 burial information blank.
  It's interesting to see that others have
 similar problems. My father-in-law's cremains are on a
 wall shelf in my wife's studio while we try to figure out
 where to bury or scatter them (WV where he was born; OH
 (where he lived for many years or MO where a grandson lives
 who might visit the grave). At that point, information
 will be entered into Legacy as to disposition.
  Someone that I met recently waited over a
 year to bury her husband's cremains because she did not like
 the setting at a nearby National Cemetery and they told her
 to wait a year until another section would be started.
 
  Howland Davis

 I have heard many people say how they use the burial date
 to substantiate the death date. It will be really hard
 years from now to verify things like this. Maybe these
 situations will help us to convince others to deal with
 cremains more quickly and reverently.

 How horrible to think of spending eternity under a sofa or
 getting destroyed in the trunk of a car during an
 accident! I wonder if some people get tired of having
 the cremains around and eventually throw them in the
 trash. I wouldn't be surprised in some cases.
 What if the car were sold with the cremains still
 there? I think I'd want to know what happened with the
 remains, but certainly they should be given a respectful
 proper burial. This is the reason why the Catholic
 Church delayed approval of cremation for so long. Now they
 say that cremation may only be done if the person still
 believes in the resurrection of the body and provided that a
 quick and reverent burial be done. I never liked
 cremation and really didn't like it when I heard that the
 larger bones don't burn up and are thrown away. Now
 I'm dead set again it. Pun intended.

 Ellen Kramer

 Researching and loving Dorman, Kramer, Mirarchi, Procopio,
 Renninger and Staudt-Stoudt-Stout families









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Re: [LegacyUG] Death Location

2009-10-12 Thread Ruth Nerud
Okey-dokey. I'm sorry if I've caused more hard feelings. I'll keep my mouth 
shut - oh, I mean my fingers quiet.
Ruth
  - Original Message - 
  From: Frank Saragosa 
  To: LegacyUserGroup@legacyfamilytree.com 
  Sent: Monday, October 12, 2009 10:27 AM
  Subject: Re: [LegacyUG] Death Location


  One thing for sure:  Ellen is NOT stating facts!  Marilyn is right; Ellen's 
views on cremation have no place on this thread or user list.


  On Mon, Oct 12, 2009 at 8:13 AM, Ruth Nerud baber...@worldnet.att.net wrote:

Lighten up, Marilyn. She is stating facts, not her religious views. One 
day, you'll say something that someone else doesn't like. Where is your 
tolerance. This is America.
Ruth
- Original Message - From: Marilyn Clark paddypeppe...@yahoo.com
To: LegacyUserGroup@legacyfamilytree.com
Sent: Monday, October 12, 2009 10:04 AM 

Subject: Re: [LegacyUG] Death Location


Ellen:

Please refrain from hijacking this thread to espouse your religious views. 
Thank you!

Marilyn


--- On Sun, 10/11/09, Kramer kramer...@comcast.net wrote:


  From: Kramer kramer...@comcast.net
  Subject: Re: [LegacyUG] Death Location
  To: LegacyUserGroup@legacyfamilytree.com
  Date: Sunday, October 11, 2009, 12:14 PM

  On Oct 11, 2009, at 11:35 AM, howlanddavi...@aol.com
  wrote:

   Roxanne and others
  
   In a message dated 10/11/2009 11:12:48 A.M. Eastern
  Daylight Time, maighe...@yahoo.com
  writes:
   I had to laugh when I read this; my mom donated her
  body to the University of Rochester. After a year or
  so, her cremains were returned to us. She currently
  resides under my sister's couch. I've left the Legacy
  burial information blank.
   It's interesting to see that others have
  similar problems. My father-in-law's cremains are on a
  wall shelf in my wife's studio while we try to figure out
  where to bury or scatter them (WV where he was born; OH
  (where he lived for many years or MO where a grandson lives
  who might visit the grave). At that point, information
  will be entered into Legacy as to disposition.
   Someone that I met recently waited over a
  year to bury her husband's cremains because she did not like
  the setting at a nearby National Cemetery and they told her
  to wait a year until another section would be started.
  
   Howland Davis

  I have heard many people say how they use the burial date
  to substantiate the death date. It will be really hard
  years from now to verify things like this. Maybe these
  situations will help us to convince others to deal with
  cremains more quickly and reverently.

  How horrible to think of spending eternity under a sofa or
  getting destroyed in the trunk of a car during an
  accident! I wonder if some people get tired of having
  the cremains around and eventually throw them in the
  trash. I wouldn't be surprised in some cases.
  What if the car were sold with the cremains still
  there? I think I'd want to know what happened with the
  remains, but certainly they should be given a respectful
  proper burial. This is the reason why the Catholic
  Church delayed approval of cremation for so long. Now they
  say that cremation may only be done if the person still
  believes in the resurrection of the body and provided that a
  quick and reverent burial be done. I never liked
  cremation and really didn't like it when I heard that the
  larger bones don't burn up and are thrown away. Now
  I'm dead set again it. Pun intended.

  Ellen Kramer

  Researching and loving Dorman, Kramer, Mirarchi, Procopio,
  Renninger and Staudt-Stoudt-Stout families









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Re: [LegacyUG] Death Location

2009-10-12 Thread Mike Fry

Ruth Nerud wrote:
Lighten up, Marilyn. She is stating facts, not her religious views. One 
day, you'll say something that someone else doesn't like. Where is your 
tolerance. This is America.

Ruth


I agree with what you're trying to say, Ruth, but, this is not America. 
It's the Internet and it covers more of the world than just the USA.


In response to what Marilyn said - There are varying degrees of 
tolerance around the world. What is acceptable in the US may not be 
acceptable elsewhere and vice versa. As a result, Marilyn, you must be 
very careful when you start to attack or deride someone's religious beliefs.


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Re: [LegacyUG] Death Location

2009-10-12 Thread Lhite31
This group is the worse for certain people assuming the position of list  
manager. I am tired of it and will now unsubscribe.
Lloyd
 
 
In a message dated 10/12/2009 11:29:02 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time,  
fsarag...@gmail.com writes:

One  thing for sure:  Ellen is NOT stating facts!  Marilyn is right;  
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RE: [LegacyUG] Death Location

2009-10-12 Thread William H. Boswell
Even though I was raised a Catholic, I'm not thrilled with the idea of
cremation either.  After witnessing one in the basement of a funeral home,
the remaining bones were broken up with a sledge hammer and the smaller
pieces were put in with the other remains.  The rest were put somewhere and
probably ended up in the garbage.

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Behalf Of Kramer
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To: LegacyUserGroup@legacyfamilytree.com
Subject: Re: [LegacyUG] Death Location



On Oct 11, 2009, at 11:35 AM, howlanddavi...@aol.com wrote:

 Roxanne and others

 In a message dated 10/11/2009 11:12:48 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time,
maighe...@yahoo.com
  writes:
 I had to laugh when I read this; my mom donated her body to the
 University of Rochester.  After a year or so, her cremains were
 returned to us.  She currently resides under my sister's couch.
 I've left the Legacy burial information blank.
It's interesting to see that others have similar problems.  My
 father-in-law's cremains are on a wall shelf in my wife's studio
 while we try to figure out where to bury or scatter them (WV where
 he was born; OH (where he lived for many years or MO where a
 grandson lives who might visit the grave).  At that point,
 information will be entered into Legacy as to disposition.
Someone that I met recently waited over a year to bury her
 husband's cremains because she did not like the setting at a nearby
 National Cemetery and they told her to wait a year until another
 section would be started.

 Howland Davis

I have heard many people say how they use the burial date to
substantiate the death date.  It will be really hard years from now to
verify things like this.  Maybe these situations will help us to
convince others to deal with cremains more quickly and reverently.

How horrible to think of spending eternity under a sofa or getting
destroyed in the trunk of a car during an accident!  I wonder if some
people get tired of having the cremains around and eventually throw
them in the trash.  I wouldn't be surprised in some cases.  What if
the car were sold with the cremains still there?  I think I'd want to
know what happened with the remains, but certainly they should be
given a respectful proper burial.  This is the reason why the Catholic
Church delayed approval of cremation for so long. Now they say that
cremation may only be done if the person still believes in the
resurrection of the body and provided that a quick and reverent burial
be done.  I never liked cremation and really didn't like it when I
heard that the larger bones don't burn up and are thrown away.  Now
I'm dead set again it.  Pun intended.

Ellen Kramer

Researching and loving Dorman, Kramer, Mirarchi, Procopio, Renninger
and Staudt-Stoudt-Stout families









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Re: [LegacyUG] Death Location

2009-10-12 Thread Frank Saragosa
Bye.

On Mon, Oct 12, 2009 at 1:01 PM, lhit...@aol.com wrote:

  This group is the worse for certain people assuming the position of list
 manager. I am tired of it and will now unsubscribe.
 Lloyd

  In a message dated 10/12/2009 11:29:02 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time,
 fsarag...@gmail.com writes:

 One thing for sure:  Ellen is NOT stating facts!  Marilyn is right; Ellen's
 views on cremation have no place on this thread or user list.

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Re: [LegacyUG] Death location

2009-10-11 Thread Roxanne
I had to laugh when I read this... my mom donated her body to the University of 
Rochester. After a year or so, her cremains were returned to us. She currently 
resides under my sister's couch. I've left the Legacy burial information blank.

Roxanne Baird

--- On Sat, 10/10/09, Mike Fry mike...@iafrica.com wrote:

 From: Mike Fry mike...@iafrica.com
 Subject: Re: [LegacyUG] Death location
 To: LegacyUserGroup@legacyfamilytree.com
 Date: Saturday, October 10, 2009, 6:09 AM
 William H. Boswell wrote:
  I was wondering the same thing and am glad somebody
 asked it.  I have a twist on one person: the person
 donated his body to a medical school, then was
 cremated.  No idea where the cremains were buried.
 
 In that case, enter the death details as normal. Leave the
 burial/cremation details blank. Create an event for the
 disposal of the body.
 
  I noticed you can't select both cremated and
 burial.  It's either one or the other.  I think I
 have a separate event for cremations.
 
 A body is normally either buried or cremated. So, death
 details apply as usual. Change the Burial/Cremation details
 to read Cremation and enter the date and details. Then,
 either enter the interment details in the Notes for the
 Cremation or, create an event as in former case.
 
 
 -- Best regards,
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 Johannesburg.
 
 
 
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RE: [LegacyUG] Death location

2009-10-11 Thread Jim Terry/Support
Roxanne, 

I've got a better story. When I was 19 years old I came from college for the
summer of 1970. For some reason not remembered, I was using my step-mother's
car and opened the trunk. There was a flight bag there and being curious I
unzipped it. Lo and behold! There were my mother's ashes in their sealed
urn! Why my Dad put them there I don't know, but when I told my step-mom,
she nearly flipped! She had been driving all over San Diego with the first
wife's cremations in the back end for who knows how long! I urged my Dad to
respectfully find a less mobile resting place for my mother. Permanent
disposition unknown to me to this day. 

Thank you for choosing Legacy, 

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-Original Message- 

From: k...@legacyfamilytree.com [mailto:k...@legacyfamilytree.com] On Behalf
Of Roxanne 

Sent: Sunday, October 11, 2009 8:10 AM 

To: LegacyUserGroup@legacyfamilytree.com 

Subject: Re: [LegacyUG] Death location 

I had to laugh when I read this... my mom donated her body to the University
of Rochester. After a year or so, her cremains were returned to us. She
currently resides under my sister's couch. I've left the Legacy burial
information blank. 

Roxanne Baird 

--- On Sat, 10/10/09, Mike Fry mike...@iafrica.com wrote: 

 From: Mike Fry mike...@iafrica.com 

 Subject: Re: [LegacyUG] Death location 

 To: LegacyUserGroup@legacyfamilytree.com 

 Date: Saturday, October 10, 2009, 6:09 AM 

 William H. Boswell wrote: 

  I was wondering the same thing and am glad somebody 

 asked it.  I have a twist on one person: the person 

 donated his body to a medical school, then was 

 cremated.  No idea where the cremains were buried. 

 

 In that case, enter the death details as normal. Leave the 

 burial/cremation details blank. Create an event for the 

 disposal of the body. 

 

  I noticed you can't select both cremated and 

 burial.  It's either one or the other.  I think I 

 have a separate event for cremations. 

 

 A body is normally either buried or cremated. So, death 

 details apply as usual. Change the Burial/Cremation details 

 to read Cremation and enter the date and details. Then, 

 either enter the interment details in the Notes for the 

 Cremation or, create an event as in former case. 

 

 

 -- Best regards, 

 Mike Fry 

 Johannesburg. 

 

 

 

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Re: [LegacyUG] Death location

2009-10-11 Thread Ruth Nerud
My aunt did the same thing - donated her body - cremains were returned to my 
cousin - she took her mother to lunch with a friend. Now her brother has 
their mother for a visit. Eventually she'll be buried next to my uncle, but 
in the meantime :) ;) burial place is empty.

Ruth A. (Sconza Testa) Nerud
baber...@worldnet.att.net

- Original Message - 
From: Roxanne maighe...@yahoo.com

To: LegacyUserGroup@legacyfamilytree.com
Sent: Sunday, October 11, 2009 10:10 AM
Subject: Re: [LegacyUG] Death location


I had to laugh when I read this... my mom donated her body to the University 
of Rochester. After a year or so, her cremains were returned to us. She 
currently resides under my sister's couch. I've left the Legacy burial 
information blank.


Roxanne Baird 





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Re: [LegacyUG] Death Location

2009-10-11 Thread HowlandDavisII
Roxanne and others
 
In a message dated 10/11/2009 11:12:48 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time,  
maighe...@yahoo.com writes:

I had to laugh when I read this; my mom donated her body to the  University 
of Rochester.  After a year or so, her cremains were returned  to us.  She 
currently resides under my sister's couch.  I've left  the Legacy burial 
information blank.  
It's interesting to see that others have similar  problems.  My 
father-in-law's cremains are on a wall shelf in my wife's  studio while we try 
to 
figure out where to bury or scatter them (WV where  he was born; OH (where he 
lived for many years or MO where a grandson lives who  might visit the 
grave).  At that point, information will be entered into  Legacy as to 
disposition.
Someone that I met recently waited over a year to  bury her husband's 
cremains because she did not like the setting at a  nearby National Cemetery 
and they told her to wait a year until another section  would be started. 
 
Howland Davis





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[LegacyUG] Death location

2009-10-11 Thread Leslie Bagwell
Wow, so many great stories.  We should put them in the notes section.  
My Dad had Alzheimer's and loved to go for a ride every day.  My Mom 
took care of him till the last month.  When he was cremated she put the 
box with the spare tire under the back floor of the station wagon.  He 
is still there 2 years later, waiting for my Mom. I will get to put 
ashes where they wanted and a stone in a 100 yr old family plot with 
extra room. 


Leslie




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Re: [LegacyUG] Death location

2009-10-11 Thread Kramer
We just had a cremation and possible private burial on farmland that I  
want to verify so I'm ready to do one of those too.  This is how I  
would do it.  In the Burial Notes or maybe burial location, I would  
mention buried at sea and which water area if that is what  
happened.  In Death Notes I would mention that the death took place  
aboard a ship in the South Atlantic or whatever the situation is.


With regard to cremation, I would note the cremation in the death  
notes if necessary, but I find burial more important.  Since there are  
so many people scattering ashes to the wind, it will be very difficult  
for genealogists in the future.  For the sake of locating the burial  
location, if given a choice, I would choose to note the burial  
location.   The date of cremation is not an issue to me.  Death and  
burial are the important things, just like the date of embalming is  
not noted.  I would only use cremation date to note that we won't be  
able to find a burial spot due to a different disposal (gee, not  
very reverent) of the remains.  Whether cremated or embalmed, if  
burial takes place, that takes precedence.  If there is no burial,  
then I would note cremation to show that no burial took place.


Ellen Kramer

Researching and loving Dorman, Kramer, Mirarchi, Procopio, Renninger  
and Staudt-Stoudt-Stout families


On Oct 9, 2009, at 10:34 PM, William H. Boswell wrote:

I was wondering the same thing and am glad somebody asked it.  I  
have a twist on one person: the person donated his body to a medical  
school, then was cremated.  No idea where the cremains were buried.


I noticed you can't select both cremated and burial.  It's either  
one or the other.  I think I have a separate event for cremations.


Bill Boswell
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From: k...@legacyfamilytree.com [mailto:k...@legacyfamilytree.com]on  
Behalf Of Jim Walton

Sent: Friday, October 09, 2009 10:21 PM
To: LegacyUserGroup@legacyfamilytree.com
Subject: [LegacyUG] Death location

I have an uncle who died aboard ship during WW II. What do I put as  
his death location? I currently have Aboard ship in South Atlantic.


On a similar topic, what to do about cremation. They are cremated  
and buried, but not necessarily on the same day. Do you just select  
cremated and then use the date and place of burial? I guess the  
cremation could be entered as an event, and then the burial record  
entered for burial. I really don't think it's a critical issue, but  
I'm curious how others are handling this.


Jim

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Re: [LegacyUG] Death location

2009-10-11 Thread Ron Ferguson

Ellen,

I am not at all certain that I accept your priorities regarding dates.

The date of death, at least since 1837 in the UK, is always recorded in the 
Government BMD lists, prior to that date very often one would only find the 
date of burial in the parish registers and not the date of death.


Cremations only started to become common in the late 19c early 20c, and 
these dates are recorded in the crematorium records and are, therefore, 
available (perhaps subject to restrictions). However, the dates on which 
ashes are scattered to the winds are not, nor would the dates on which they 
may be scattered on a grave. I am not sure about a date of burial in the 
event of the casket being buried in a family plot.


It rather seems to me that the date of  the initial way in which the body is 
disposed is, therefore, the date which should always take precidence, after 
the date of death, of course.


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Kramer wrote:

We just had a cremation and possible private burial on farmland that
I want to verify so I'm ready to do one of those too.  This is how I
would do it.  In the Burial Notes or maybe burial location, I would
mention buried at sea and which water area if that is what
happened.  In Death Notes I would mention that the death took place
aboard a ship in the South Atlantic or whatever the situation is.

With regard to cremation, I would note the cremation in the death
notes if necessary, but I find burial more important.  Since there
are so many people scattering ashes to the wind, it will be very
difficult for genealogists in the future.  For the sake of locating
the burial location, if given a choice, I would choose to note the
burial location.   The date of cremation is not an issue to me.
Death and burial are the important things, just like the date of
embalming is not noted.  I would only use cremation date to note
that we won't be able to find a burial spot due to a different
disposal (gee, not very reverent) of the remains.  Whether
cremated or embalmed, if burial takes place, that takes precedence.
If there is no burial, then I would note cremation to show that no
burial took place.

Ellen Kramer

Researching and loving Dorman, Kramer, Mirarchi, Procopio, Renninger
and Staudt-Stoudt-Stout families

On Oct 9, 2009, at 10:34 PM, William H. Boswell wrote:


I was wondering the same thing and am glad somebody asked it.  I
have a twist on one person: the person donated his body to a medical
school, then was cremated.  No idea where the cremains were buried.

I noticed you can't select both cremated and burial.  It's either
one or the other.  I think I have a separate event for cremations.

Bill Boswell
-Original Message-
From: k...@legacyfamilytree.com [mailto:k...@legacyfamilytree.com]on
Behalf Of Jim Walton
Sent: Friday, October 09, 2009 10:21 PM
To: LegacyUserGroup@legacyfamilytree.com
Subject: [LegacyUG] Death location

I have an uncle who died aboard ship during WW II. What do I put as
his death location? I currently have Aboard ship in South Atlantic.

On a similar topic, what to do about cremation. They are cremated
and buried, but not necessarily on the same day. Do you just select
cremated and then use the date and place of burial? I guess the
cremation could be entered as an event, and then the burial record
entered for burial. I really don't think it's a critical issue, but
I'm curious how others are handling this.

Jim







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Re: [LegacyUG] Death location

2009-10-10 Thread Mike Fry

William H. Boswell wrote:
I was wondering the same thing and am glad somebody asked it.  I have a 
twist on one person: the person donated his body to a medical school, 
then was cremated.  No idea where the cremains were buried.


In that case, enter the death details as normal. Leave the 
burial/cremation details blank. Create an event for the disposal of the 
body.


I noticed you can't select both cremated and burial.  It's either one or 
the other.  I think I have a separate event for cremations.


A body is normally either buried or cremated. So, death details apply as 
usual. Change the Burial/Cremation details to read Cremation and enter 
the date and details. Then, either enter the interment details in the 
Notes for the Cremation or, create an event as in former case.



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Re: [LegacyUG] Death location

2009-10-10 Thread Michele Lewis
If the cremains are later interred,  you can do a cemetery event which is 
what I do for buried people to.


died 04 Jun 1925
buried (or cremated) 06 Jun 1925

then event...

Cemetery
Belluvue Cemetery
25 Jun 1025
, Columbia Co, GA

and in the notes I can write something like...

The family had a special memorial ceremony at graveside and buried the 
cremains.




[just a made up example]


Even if a person is NOT cremated and is just buried, I have a date for the 
death, a date for the burial, and cemetery info.  In this care the date of 
burial and the cemetery date will be the same but it doesn't have to be.


michele


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William H. Boswell wrote:

I was wondering the same thing and am glad somebody asked it.  I have a
twist on one person: the person donated his body to a medical school,
then was cremated.  No idea where the cremains were buried.


In that case, enter the death details as normal. Leave the
burial/cremation details blank. Create an event for the disposal of the
body.


I noticed you can't select both cremated and burial.  It's either one or
the other.  I think I have a separate event for cremations.


A body is normally either buried or cremated. So, death details apply as
usual. Change the Burial/Cremation details to read Cremation and enter
the date and details. Then, either enter the interment details in the
Notes for the Cremation or, create an event as in former case.


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Mike Fry
Johannesburg.



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[LegacyUG] Death location

2009-10-09 Thread Jim Walton
I have an uncle who died aboard ship during WW II. What do I put as his
death location? I currently have Aboard ship in South Atlantic.

On a similar topic, what to do about cremation. They are cremated and
buried, but not necessarily on the same day. Do you just select cremated and
then use the date and place of burial? I guess the cremation could be
entered as an event, and then the burial record entered for burial. I really
don't think it's a critical issue, but I'm curious how others are handling
this.

Jim


RE: [LegacyUG] Death location

2009-10-09 Thread William H. Boswell
I was wondering the same thing and am glad somebody asked it.  I have a
twist on one person: the person donated his body to a medical school, then
was cremated.  No idea where the cremains were buried.

I noticed you can't select both cremated and burial.  It's either one or the
other.  I think I have a separate event for cremations.

Bill Boswell
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Of Jim Walton
  Sent: Friday, October 09, 2009 10:21 PM
  To: LegacyUserGroup@legacyfamilytree.com
  Subject: [LegacyUG] Death location


  I have an uncle who died aboard ship during WW II. What do I put as his
death location? I currently have Aboard ship in South Atlantic.

  On a similar topic, what to do about cremation. They are cremated and
buried, but not necessarily on the same day. Do you just select cremated and
then use the date and place of burial? I guess the cremation could be
entered as an event, and then the burial record entered for burial. I really
don't think it's a critical issue, but I'm curious how others are handling
this.

  Jim





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RE: [LegacyUG]Death location [was Master Location List--use of brackets]?

2007-09-26 Thread ronald ferguson

Alice,

The way I do this is to use the Residence Event and put time of death in the 
Description field. In my view the place of Residence and the place of Death are 
two different things in that a residence is permanent.

I admit to not being wholly consistent in this as I will use the address given 
in the census for someone who is a visitor if I have no further information, 
but qualify it in the notes.

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 To: LegacyUserGroup@legacyfamilytree.com
 Subject: Re: [LegacyUG]Death location [was Master Location List--use of 
 brackets]?
 Date: Tue, 25 Sep 2007 22:55:03 -0400

 Hi Pat,

 IMHO it is of equal importance to indicate both the place of residence and
 the place of death if they differ. Death certificates are extremely
 helpful in genealogical research, and in general a lot easier to acquire.
 One must file for the death certificate in the state where the person died.


 In addition to the event entitled Residence which I make full use of, I
 have created and event entitled Usual Place of Residence which I always
 generate when the death place is distant from the normal home place. The
 dates of both events are identical. Brief notes can be useful. -- Alice


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Re: [LegacyUG]Death location [was Master Location List--use of brackets]?

2007-09-26 Thread Pat Hickin

Alice wrote

In addition to the event entitled Residence which I make full use of, I
have created and event entitled Usual Place of Residence which I always
generate when the death place is distant from the normal home place.


Great idea -- I like that !  Thanks, Alice.

--

Pat


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Sent: Tuesday, September 25, 2007 10:55 PM
Subject: Re: [LegacyUG]Death location [was Master Location List--use of 
brackets]?




Hi Pat,

IMHO it is of equal importance to indicate both the place of residence and
the place of death if they differ.  Death certificates are extremely
helpful in genealogical research, and in general a lot easier to acquire.
One must file for the death certificate in the state where the person 
died.



In addition to the event entitled Residence which I make full use of, I
have created and event entitled Usual Place of Residence which I always
generate when the death place is distant from the normal home place.  The
dates of both events are identical.  Brief notes can be useful.  -- Alice



[Original Message]
From: Pat Hickin [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: Re: [LegacyUG] Master Location List--use of brackets?

Also, I think it's usually more important to know where one was living at
the time of death, than the actual location of the death (though I think
both, if different, are important).  I had a cousin who lived in WV and

died

in NC because he was in the Duke U hospital.  W/o explanation someone

would

think the family had moved to NC.






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Re: [LegacyUG]Death location [was Master Location List--use of brackets]?

2007-09-26 Thread TH
With the already available ability to record a death location and to show a
person's residence location at any point in time, including death, WHY
create the Usual Place of Residence, and if you really think you need that
extra event, why not name it Usual Place of Residence at Death?  That's
intended as a joke.

On 9/26/07, Pat Hickin [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Alice wrote
  In addition to the event entitled Residence which I make full use of,
 I
  have created and event entitled Usual Place of Residence which I
 always
  generate when the death place is distant from the normal home place.

 Great idea -- I like that !  Thanks, Alice.

 --

 Pat


 - Original Message -
 From: Alice McVearry [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 To: LegacyUserGroup@legacyfamilytree.com
 Sent: Tuesday, September 25, 2007 10:55 PM
 Subject: Re: [LegacyUG]Death location [was Master Location List--use of
 brackets]?


  Hi Pat,
 
  IMHO it is of equal importance to indicate both the place of residence
 and
  the place of death if they differ.  Death certificates are extremely
  helpful in genealogical research, and in general a lot easier to
 acquire.
  One must file for the death certificate in the state where the person
  died.
 
 
  In addition to the event entitled Residence which I make full use of,
 I
  have created and event entitled Usual Place of Residence which I
 always
  generate when the death place is distant from the normal home
 place.  The
  dates of both events are identical.  Brief notes can be useful.  --
 Alice
 
 
  [Original Message]
  From: Pat Hickin [EMAIL PROTECTED]
  Subject: Re: [LegacyUG] Master Location List--use of brackets?
 
  Also, I think it's usually more important to know where one was living
 at
  the time of death, than the actual location of the death (though I
 think
  both, if different, are important).  I had a cousin who lived in WV and
  died
  in NC because he was in the Duke U hospital.  W/o explanation someone
  would
  think the family had moved to NC.
 
 
 
 
 
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Re: [LegacyUG]Death location [was Master Location List--use of brackets]?

2007-09-26 Thread Alice McVearry
Thad,

The answer to your question lies in the minds of the Scottish authorities
who, just prior to 1855, decided what information would be recorded in the
Statutory Register of Births, Marriages and Deaths of Scotland.

When I began to search for and transfer the data from the Scottish civil
records to my Legacy file, I noticed that an increasing number of my people
who should have been in the county of Fife at the time of their deaths were
no longer dying in their homes, but in hospital in Edinburgh.  At that time
I also noticed the addition of another heading in the column that contained
the death date and time, and the location data.  It was entitled Usual
Place of Residence.  Wishing to tie the deceased person to their known
home town and county, rather than the unfamiliar place in which they died,
without much thought I created the Event with that name and entered the
data as it was recorded.  To my mind, filling in the Usual Place of
Residence event after completing the Death fields is a way of bringing them
home.  

It has been a very tough day and I don't feel much like laughing.  Please
forgive me.  -- Alice

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From: TH 
To: LegacyUserGroup@legacyfamilytree.com
Sent: 9/26/2007 4:02:23 PM 
Subject: Re: [LegacyUG]Death location [was Master Location List--use of
brackets]?

With the already available ability to record a death location and to show a
person's residence location at any point in time, including death, WHY
create the Usual Place of Residence, and if you really think you need
that extra event, why not name it Usual Place of Residence at Death? 
That's intended as a joke. 

On 9/26/07, Pat Hickin [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: 
Alice wrote
 In addition to the event entitled Residence which I make full use of, I 
 have created and event entitled Usual Place of Residence which I always
 generate when the death place is distant from the normal home place.

Great idea -- I like that !  Thanks, Alice.

--
Pat

- Original Message -
From: Alice McVearry [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To:  LegacyUserGroup@legacyfamilytree.com
Sent: Tuesday, September 25, 2007 10:55 PM
Subject: Re: [LegacyUG]Death location [was Master Location List--use of
brackets]?

 Hi Pat,

 IMHO it is of equal importance to indicate both the place of residence
and 
 the place of death if they differ.  Death certificates are extremely
 helpful in genealogical research, and in general a lot easier to acquire.
 One must file for the death certificate in the state where the person 
 died.

 In addition to the event entitled Residence which I make full use of, I
 have created and event entitled Usual Place of Residence which I always
 generate when the death place is distant from the normal home place.  The 
 dates of both events are identical.  Brief notes can be useful.  -- Alice

 [Original Message]
 From: Pat Hickin [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 Subject: Re: [LegacyUG] Master Location List--use of brackets?

 Also, I think it's usually more important to know where one was living at
 the time of death, than the actual location of the death (though I think 
 both, if different, are important).  I had a cousin who lived in WV and
 died
 in NC because he was in the Duke U hospital.  W/o explanation someone
 would
 think the family had moved to NC.




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Re: [LegacyUG]Death location [was Master Location List--use of brackets]?

2007-09-25 Thread Alice McVearry
Hi Pat,

IMHO it is of equal importance to indicate both the place of residence and
the place of death if they differ.  Death certificates are extremely
helpful in genealogical research, and in general a lot easier to acquire. 
One must file for the death certificate in the state where the person died.


In addition to the event entitled Residence which I make full use of, I
have created and event entitled Usual Place of Residence which I always
generate when the death place is distant from the normal home place.  The
dates of both events are identical.  Brief notes can be useful.  -- Alice


 [Original Message]
 From: Pat Hickin [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 Subject: Re: [LegacyUG] Master Location List--use of brackets?

 Also, I think it's usually more important to know where one was living at 
 the time of death, than the actual location of the death (though I think 
 both, if different, are important).  I had a cousin who lived in WV and
died 
 in NC because he was in the Duke U hospital.  W/o explanation someone
would 
 think the family had moved to NC.





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