RE: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for being overweight?

2009-10-15 Thread Tracey de Morsella
Keith it is true about skinner photographing better.  Particularly for 
photographing clothes.  It is probably easier to get a sellable shot with a 
thin model than a normal sized person or a larger person.  That is not putting 
down the other folks,. you are seeking unnatural circumstances to sell a lie.  
After working in that industry, I almost never by clothes from catalogs, 
because I do not know how the outfit really looks on.   It does not even 
usually look good on the skinny model without all the pins in most cases. 

 

If you think about it, candid photos to not always show the person looking as 
good as they do in person, because the camera often distorts.

 

That being said, there is a limit on how skinny you should go.  Also, just 
because skinnier is easier to shoot, it does not mean you should also opt to 
shoot skinny.  Most actresses and actors are not as skinny as models and they 
work to photograph them in flattering ways.  There are ways to work the camera. 
 You have to do it for all sizes of people, so going to the extremes these 
“trend setters” have opted for is close to criminal in my mind.  

 

From: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com [mailto:scifino...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf 
Of Keith Johnson
Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 8:53 PM
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight?

 






Funny thing, i was listening to an interview with Beverly Johnson on NPR's 
Tell Me More recently. It was the anniversary of her breakthrough appearance 
on the cover of Vogue. Johnson has a daughter who's a plus-sized model, and 
wholeheartedly supports her. Yet in the same interview she said The main 
fashion industry likes slimmer woman, because I'm sorry, clothes just look 
better on slim women.

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From: Mr. Worf hellomahog...@gmail.com
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 10:41:59 PM GMT -05:00 US/Canada Eastern
Subject: Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired  
for being overweight?

  

Real men like curves. This sounds extremely homophobic but, most of the guys 
that do fashion like boys so I think it comes out subconsciously in their model 
choices. You choose what is attractive to you. So often they pick models that 
are completely featureless. This has been more apparent when you compare models 
of 20 years ago to the super skinny ones today. 

For example, Christie Brinkley, or Beverly Johnson would probably be considered 
too fat and too pretty now. (depending on which part of the world it is.) 

On Wed, Oct 14, 2009 at 5:44 PM, Tracey de Morsella 
tdli...@multiculturaladvantage.com wrote:

 

Here something weird, I was 115  at 5’7’ for years when I modeled back in the 
day. I attracted guys, but not that much—unless I had my makeup articles, and 
hair stylist on hand, which was not often  J.   I quit modeling and over the 
years I gained until I I was about 135 – 140.  I thought I was fat, but guys 
started stopping me on the street and trying to get my attention.  I very odd 
experience.  

 

Something is definitively wrong.  Guys like that monster Lagerfeld, should not 
be defining female beauty  

 

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Of Adrianne Brennan
Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 5:21 PM
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight?

 



Okay, I'm going to give some stats here for a sake of comparison. At 5'4 at 
120 lbs, I wear a size 2--size 0 in some clothing if the hips run loose because 
my waist is significantly smaller than my hips. I am also rather small-boned.

 

For someone at 5'10 to be too fat at 120 is fucking insane. I actually will 
deliberately gain weight if I go below 120 because at that point I start to 
look unhealthy. At my height, 5 lbs goes a LONG way.


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On Wed, Oct 14, 2009 at 7:21 PM, Keith Johnson keithbjohn...@comcast.net 
wrote:

 

I don't know what's more disturbing: that they think this model in her current 
true form is overweight, or that anyone in any country in the world thought 
that doctored photo of her was either realistic or attractive.  I have tried 
over and over to understand the American obsession with thin models and 
actresses. My wife always explains to me that clothing looks better when hung 
on a thin frame, since designers feel a  woman's curves detract from the dress, 
and a thin woman's body doesn't do that. (she doesn't agree with the 
philosophy

RE: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for being overweight?

2009-10-15 Thread Tracey de Morsella
I do think the stick figure is a white guy thing.  Not all of them, but too 
many for my comfort.   This new weightlifted emaciated look seems to appeal to 
more White men than Black or Latino as well.  Where I live, Asians and Indians 
are almost the majority.  From what I can see, some of them may like slender, 
but I do not see any with stick figures either. 

 

From: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com [mailto:scifino...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf 
Of Keith Johnson
Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 8:59 PM
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight?

 






Wow, you need to write some memoirs! I didn't know all this!
Not to get racial here--and apologies to my white brothers (to co-opt Cornell 
West), but I notice more white men who go for the look of Angelina Jolie, 
Jennifer Anniston, Paris Hilton, etc. I know very few black or Latino men--even 
younger ones--who say they prefer really thin women.

- Original Message -
From: Tracey de Morsella tdli...@multiculturaladvantage.com
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 11:37:54 PM GMT -05:00 US/Canada Eastern
Subject: RE: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired 
for being overweight?

  

I worked as a stylist on the set a few times, as well as a model.  The clothes 
do lay easier on a thinner model than a normal sized model, but the whole 
photographing process is about illusion, NOT reality.   The purpose is to sell 
a lie.   It is easier to make cheap poorly constructed  clothes look better on 
them.  I used to model in those clothing catalogs.  The clothes fit horribly on 
all of us. BUT the stylist comes to the set with clothes pins and needles and 
makes them formfitting.  Then they contort us in specific poses to make the 
clothes look better.  Then the photographer  does his thing with lighting and 
shadows……and the next thing you know, we look perfect and women are wondering 
why the clothes look better on us then them.  The reality is we didn’t.It 
is false advertising.  This illusion works on everyone, but best on the real 
skinny models IMO.   

 

Ironically, I was considered a little voluptuous at 115 and 34B at the time.  
Because of that, I got work doing bathing suits, Calvin Kline underwear and 
lingerie.  I look at old pictures now, I while I do not see skinny, I do see  
slender… NOT voluptuous.   I never got into the serious diet thing and I used 
to beat myself up for it.  Looking back, I am relieved.

 

Now on a separate issue, if you go on the boards sometimes like on imdb and you 
see the commentary by men about the female stars,  I significant number like 
that skinny look.  Why is Brad with Angelina, Harrison with Calista and a host 
of others.  It is a specific taste that some straight men have.  I’ve seen guys 
call women I think are hot, fat.  On that note, they are not men I want 
anything to do with, nor do I want my daughter near them.   Supposedly, these 
guys are straight.  I do not know, if they have a daddy thing going on, it 
makes them feel my potent and stronger, or what, but there are men who like 
that.

 

 

 

From: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com [mailto:scifino...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf 
Of Mr. Worf
Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 7:42 PM
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight?

 



Real men like curves. This sounds extremely homophobic but, most of the guys 
that do fashion like boys so I think it comes out subconsciously in their model 
choices. You choose what is attractive to you. So often they pick models that 
are completely featureless. This has been more apparent when you compare models 
of 20 years ago to the super skinny ones today. 

For example, Christie Brinkley, or Beverly Johnson would probably be considered 
too fat and too pretty now. (depending on which part of the world it is.) 

On Wed, Oct 14, 2009 at 5:44 PM, Tracey de Morsella 
tdli...@multiculturaladvantage.com wrote:

 

Here something weird, I was 115  at 5’7’ for years when I modeled back in the 
day. I attracted guys, but not that much—unless I had my makeup articles, and 
hair stylist on hand, which was not often  J.   I quit modeling and over the 
years I gained until I I was about 135 – 140.  I thought I was fat, but guys 
started stopping me on the street and trying to get my attention.  I very odd 
experience.  

 

Something is definitively wrong.  Guys like that monster Lagerfeld, should not 
be defining female beauty  

 

From: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com [mailto:scifino...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf 
Of Adrianne Brennan
Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 5:21 PM
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight?

 



Okay, I'm going to give some stats here for a sake of comparison. At 5'4 at 
120 lbs, I

Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for being overweight?

2009-10-15 Thread Keith Johnson
I hear you, I understand how skinnier may be easier to photograph, and easier 
to work with from a technical side. It must be me, 'cause this week I've all 
but slobbered over Sheri Sheppard on her show (the Sister loves sweaters), 
Sofia Vergara (do they intentionally dress her in clothes that are crying too 
tight!?) 
It's just for me, when I say a shapely voluptuous woman modeling clothes, I'm 
far more attracted to her and the clothing than when it's a skinny woman. Guess 
it's my time, culture, and place of upbringing. Indeed, Phyllis will tell you 
that I often look at women modeling clothing on TV or and mags and say That 
dress would like a lot better on a woman who isn't so thin. 

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From: Tracey de Morsella tdli...@multiculturaladvantage.com 
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Thursday, October 15, 2009 2:01:14 AM GMT -05:00 US/Canada Eastern 
Subject: RE: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight? 









Keith it is true about skinner photographing better. Particularly for 
photographing clothes. It is probably easier to get a sellable shot with a thin 
model than a normal sized person or a larger person. That is not putting down 
the other folks,. you are seeking unnatural circumstances to sell a lie. After 
working in that industry, I almost never by clothes from catalogs, because I do 
not know how the outfit really looks on. It does not even usually look good on 
the skinny model without all the pins in most cases. 



If you think about it, candid photos to not always show the person looking as 
good as they do in person, because the camera often distorts. 



That being said, there is a limit on how skinny you should go. Also, just 
because skinnier is easier to shoot, it does not mean you should also opt to 
shoot skinny. Most actresses and actors are not as skinny as models and they 
work to photograph them in flattering ways. There are ways to work the camera. 
You have to do it for all sizes of people, so going to the extremes these 
“trend setters” have opted for is close to criminal in my mind. 





From: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com [mailto:scifino...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf 
Of Keith Johnson 
Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 8:53 PM 
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com 
Subject: Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight? 









Funny thing, i was listening to an interview with Beverly Johnson on NPR's 
Tell Me More recently. It was the anniversary of her breakthrough appearance 
on the cover of Vogue. Johnson has a daughter who's a plus-sized model, and 
wholeheartedly supports her. Yet in the same interview she said The main 
fashion industry likes slimmer woman, because I'm sorry, clothes just look 
better on slim women. 

- Original Message - 
From: Mr. Worf hellomahog...@gmail.com 
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 10:41:59 PM GMT -05:00 US/Canada Eastern 
Subject: Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight? 






Real men like curves. This sounds extremely homophobic but, most of the guys 
that do fashion like boys so I think it comes out subconsciously in their model 
choices. You choose what is attractive to you. So often they pick models that 
are completely featureless. This has been more apparent when you compare models 
of 20 years ago to the super skinny ones today. 

For example, Christie Brinkley, or Beverly Johnson would probably be considered 
too fat and too pretty now. (depending on which part of the world it is.) 


On Wed, Oct 14, 2009 at 5:44 PM, Tracey de Morsella  
tdli...@multiculturaladvantage.com  wrote: 





Here something weird, I was 115 at 5’7’ for years when I modeled back in the 
day. I attracted guys, but not that much—unless I had my makeup articles, and 
hair stylist on hand, which was not often J . I quit modeling and over the 
years I gained until I I was about 135 – 140. I thought I was fat, but guys 
started stopping me on the street and trying to get my attention. I very odd 
experience. 



Something is definitively wrong. Guys like that monster Lagerfeld, should not 
be defining female beauty 





From: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com [mailto: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com ] On 
Behalf Of Adrianne Brennan 
Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 5:21 PM 
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com 
Subject: Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight? 







Okay, I'm going to give some stats here for a sake of comparison. At 5'4 at 
120 lbs, I wear a size 2--size 0 in some clothing if the hips run loose because 
my waist is significantly smaller than my hips. I am also rather small-boned. 





For someone at 5'10 to be too fat at 120 is fucking insane. I actually will 
deliberately gain weight if I go below 120 because at that point I start to 
look unhealthy. At my height, 5 lbs goes a LONG way. 



~ Where

Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for being overweight?

2009-10-15 Thread Keith Johnson
I think there is some pushback too. And not just among the size of women, but 
with the fascination with blondes as the standard of beauty. When it comes to 
non-Black women, I'm more attracted to brunettes and redheads. Not that there 
aren't some gorgeous blondes, but the darker-haired and hued women attract me. 
I've noticed in the last few years there's been a noticeable uptick in the 
number of brunette Caucasian women being put on shows from the new 90210 to 
Modern Family, to Stargate Atlantis (the gorgeous Morena Baccarin, who used 
to be on Serenity). That's one thing at least I will give to the Meagan Fox 
craze: nice to see a brunette being fawned over again! 

Interesting bit of trivia: Colombian Sofia Vergara is actually a natural 
blonde! But she's usually asked to dye her hair a dark black because it looks 
more Latin. After years of watching all those bottle blonde women speaking 
Spanish on Univision and Telemundo, how refreshing to see the script flipped! 

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From: Tracey de Morsella tdli...@multiculturaladvantage.com 
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Thursday, October 15, 2009 1:28:11 AM GMT -05:00 US/Canada Eastern 
Subject: RE: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight? 









I agree with you, but I think a little push back is taking hold. For instance, 
Scarlett Johansson, Kate Winslet, the woman on Dollhouse, that Secretary on Mad 
Men. . Some of the female stars of TV shows are permitted to be a bit bigger 
than I believe that would have been in the past. Examples include Medium, Rita 
Rocks, Sherry and some star of some show on lifetime who was skinny and died 
and woke up in a fat girls body. That being said, I think all it will amount to 
is tokenism. It will never be the trend any time soon. However, thanks to 
Monsanto, and increasingly in industrialized countries around the world, women 
are getting bigger. So, I am noticing bigger women in commercials who would 
never be in commercials in the past. They are possible coming to terms with a 
new bigger demographic. That is also why women’s close sizes are getting 
smaller. So the large number of big women will feel normal. Hail Frankenfood! 
What a horrible solution to Lagerfeld and Ralph Lauren 





From: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com [mailto:scifino...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf 
Of Mr. Worf 
Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 8:41 PM 
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com 
Subject: Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight? 





That won't happen because the super thin women is ingrained into the minds of 
the people that control the industry. So what was considered thin is the new 
fat, and what was healthy is now the new obese. I am glad that there was a 
little bit of sanity that stopped people from going over the edge though. When 
people like Allie MacBeal and had to be hospitalized people said ok, that is 
too skinny! Skeletor's girlfriend or something. Waking death just isn't cute or 
sexy. 


On Wed, Oct 14, 2009 at 8:25 PM, Keith Johnson  keithbjohn...@comcast.net  
wrote: 





My wife says the same thing about a little weight going a long way. She's only 
5'1, and often complains I don't get it because I'm 6'1--and a man. The funny 
thing is, this model looks better to me in shots where she's obviously gained a 
bit of weight over older shots. And to your point, I just see it as her getting 
back up to slim, not even close to fat. 

A couple of years ago I read an article about Scarlett Johannsen in one of my 
wife's magazines. The writer--a man--said that she was a pretty woman, and then 
added she works with her size. There were other words, but the guy's point 
was obviously that she was borderline too big. I remember being surprised. I'm 
still not sure how the desired female body type in America changed. When I was 
a kid it was those curvy women I mentioned. Sure, people liked Twiggy, Mary 
Tyler Moore in her capri pants was a cool thing. But men and women also sang 
the praises of the likes of Marilyn Monroe. Now it's weird. 

Maybe it's slowly changing back? At least, I've noticed that brunette actresses 
and models seem to be making a resurgence, so maybe the fuller figured women 
will come back too? 





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From: Adrianne Brennan  adrianne.bren...@gmail.com  
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com 


Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 8:21:11 PM GMT -05:00 US/Canada Eastern 
Subject: Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight? 







Okay, I'm going to give some stats here for a sake of comparison. At 5'4 at 
120 lbs, I wear a size 2--size 0 in some clothing if the hips run loose because 
my waist is significantly smaller than my hips. I am also rather small-boned. 






For someone at 5'10 to be too fat at 120 is fucking insane. I actually will 
deliberately gain weight if I go below 120 because at that point I start

Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for being overweight?

2009-10-15 Thread Keith Johnson
Yeah, I think in the main, black and Latino mean like curvier, fuller-figured 
women. 
Another thing that may help the perception of female beauty change: the entre 
of black women more into the mainstream. While we still have some issues with 
skin color and size, there are black women getting accepted--or at least 
becoming famous--which helps change the popular (white) culture's assessment of 
what is beautiful. Beyonce Knowles, for example, sports the long hair and isn't 
dark skinned, true. But she also has legs that are bigger than just about any 
white female singer you see, which helps a bit. Then there are the Williams 
sisters, both dark-skinned, and Serena an amazing combination of curvy and 
muscular. Women like Sheri Shephard getting their own shows will hopefully 
help. And of course we can't overestimate the change Michelle Obama and her 
daughters are making. Although Mrs. Obama is a slim woman, she's got that black 
booty! And she's dark skinned. I read that within a month of Obama taking 
office, people who work with children models were desperate to find young black 
girl models who *weren't* really light skinned. That's a good thing. 

So maybe as y'all gain more ascendancy, not just in dance, singing, or 
modeling, but in politics, business, etc., the mainstream will start realizing 
that beauty is more than blonde and skinny. 

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From: Tracey de Morsella tdli...@multiculturaladvantage.com 
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Thursday, October 15, 2009 2:06:55 AM GMT -05:00 US/Canada Eastern 
Subject: RE: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight? 









I do think the stick figure is a white guy thing. Not all of them, but too many 
for my comfort. This new weightlifted emaciated look seems to appeal to more 
White men than Black or Latino as well. Where I live, Asians and Indians are 
almost the majority. From what I can see, some of them may like slender, but I 
do not see any with stick figures either. 





From: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com [mailto:scifino...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf 
Of Keith Johnson 
Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 8:59 PM 
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com 
Subject: Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight? 









Wow, you need to write some memoirs! I didn't know all this! 
Not to get racial here--and apologies to my white brothers (to co-opt Cornell 
West), but I notice more white men who go for the look of Angelina Jolie, 
Jennifer Anniston, Paris Hilton, etc. I know very few black or Latino men--even 
younger ones--who say they prefer really thin women. 

- Original Message - 
From: Tracey de Morsella tdli...@multiculturaladvantage.com 
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 11:37:54 PM GMT -05:00 US/Canada Eastern 
Subject: RE: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight? 





I worked as a stylist on the set a few times, as well as a model. The clothes 
do lay easier on a thinner model than a normal sized model, but the whole 
photographing process is about illusion, NOT reality. The purpose is to sell a 
lie. It is easier to make cheap poorly constructed clothes look better on them. 
I used to model in those clothing catalogs. The clothes fit horribly on all of 
us. BUT the stylist comes to the set with clothes pins and needles and makes 
them formfitting. Then they contort us in specific poses to make the clothes 
look better. Then the photographer does his thing with lighting and 
shadows……and the next thing you know, we look perfect and women are wondering 
why the clothes look better on us then them. The reality is we didn’t. It is 
false advertising. This illusion works on everyone, but best on the real skinny 
models IMO. 



Ironically, I was considered a little voluptuous at 115 and 34B at the time. 
Because of that, I got work doing bathing suits, Calvin Kline underwear and 
lingerie. I look at old pictures now, I while I do not see skinny, I do see 
slender… NOT voluptuous. I never got into the serious diet thing and I used to 
beat myself up for it. Looking back, I am relieved. 



Now on a separate issue, if you go on the boards sometimes like on imdb and you 
see the commentary by men about the female stars, I significant number like 
that skinny look. Why is Brad with Angelina, Harrison with Calista and a host 
of others. It is a specific taste that some straight men have. I’ve seen guys 
call women I think are hot, fat. On that note, they are not men I want anything 
to do with, nor do I want my daughter near them. Supposedly, these guys are 
straight. I do not know, if they have a daddy thing going on, it makes them 
feel my potent and stronger, or what, but there are men who like that. 









From: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com [mailto:scifino...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf 
Of Mr. Worf 
Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 7:42 PM

Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for being overweight?

2009-10-15 Thread Keith Johnson
Yeah I get all that, guess it's just good that fashion doesn't depend on my 
tastes! 

I've listened to Shepard many times on The View. She was raised in a fairly 
conservative background, and it shows. But you know what? I like her, and I 
haven't given up on her. For one thing, unlike militant conservative Elizabeth 
Hasselbeck, Shepard isn't mean or malicious. She isn't given to attacking other 
people who disagree with her, and, even when she's a bit stubborn, it seems 
more defensive than combative. She made some crazy comments, but she was new to 
that type of show, and I can see her saying nutty stuff out of sheer nerves, 
especially when two or three accomplished people confront her. Again, at least 
she's not like hasslebeck or the unlamented Rosie O'Donnell, who both fight 
like pitbulls when challenged. And I also give her credit for admitting that 
there's a lot she doesn't know. When Obama was running, she became very excited 
about the election, and started looking into the issues and examining 
candidates for the first time in her life. I was encouraged that she actually 
thought about her decision, rather than just voting based on emotion. It was 
actually kinda cool to see the innocent look of excitement on her face as she 
got further into the election process. 

She strikes me as a nice person who has been focused more on life and family 
than broader issues, but is realizing she should do more, and I respect that 
she is doing something about it. She may be naive, even ignorant of some 
things, but at least she's not truly narrow-minded like the Palin crowd. 

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From: Tracey de Morsella tdli...@multiculturaladvantage.com 
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Thursday, October 15, 2009 7:46:24 PM GMT -05:00 US/Canada Eastern 
Subject: RE: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight? 









Here is one benefit. How the clothes look on the model is everything to the 
manufacturer or retailer. Most of the clothes will not fit any body type right. 
If the model is too small, you can pin, pad, or stuff. If the model is too big 
for the outfit, you cannot do anything. 



Also not all clothes are made for all body types. For instance, Sheri Shepard 
has a wide waist so things that accent her waist will not look great on her, 
unless attention is drawn to her breasts-which is not always possible if the 
outfit is not designed that way On a skinny woman with the same waist issue, it 
would be less noticeable. It is not really hard to dress for body type, but 
when you are selling clothes, the idea is to find the right body type for the 
clothes. 



Sheri does look way better since she lost weight. I always liked her up until 
she got on the View, but her views on there not being evolution and the world 
being flat make her difficult to like. I wish she had stuck to acting so I 
would not have to hear her backwards opinions in my head when she is playing a 
role 







From: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com [mailto:scifino...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf 
Of Keith Johnson 
Sent: Thursday, October 15, 2009 3:37 PM 
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com 
Subject: Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight? 









I hear you, I understand how skinnier may be easier to photograph, and easier 
to work with from a technical side. It must be me, 'cause this week I've all 
but slobbered over Sheri Sheppard on her show (the Sister loves sweaters), 
Sofia Vergara (do they intentionally dress her in clothes that are crying too 
tight!?) 
It's just for me, when I say a shapely voluptuous woman modeling clothes, I'm 
far more attracted to her and the clothing than when it's a skinny woman. Guess 
it's my time, culture, and place of upbringing. Indeed, Phyllis will tell you 
that I often look at women modeling clothing on TV or and mags and say That 
dress would like a lot better on a woman who isn't so thin. 

- Original Message - 
From: Tracey de Morsella tdli...@multiculturaladvantage.com 
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Thursday, October 15, 2009 2:01:14 AM GMT -05:00 US/Canada Eastern 
Subject: RE: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight? 







Keith it is true about skinner photographing better. Particularly for 
photographing clothes. It is probably easier to get a sellable shot with a thin 
model than a normal sized person or a larger person. That is not putting down 
the other folks,. you are seeking unnatural circumstances to sell a lie. After 
working in that industry, I almost never by clothes from catalogs, because I do 
not know how the outfit really looks on. It does not even usually look good on 
the skinny model without all the pins in most cases. 



If you think about it, candid photos to not always show the person looking as 
good as they do in person, because the camera often distorts. 



That being said

RE: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for being overweight?

2009-10-15 Thread Tracey de Morsella
I do not watch the view much.  Actually, the only time I see it is when 
something outrageous and they show clips on TV.  I agree with your assessment.  
It probably is not fair, but when she says something dumb, it is really dumb 
and it makes me cringe, and it my view makes Blacks look like idiots.  Like I 
said, it is not fair, but that’s how it makes me feel

 

From: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com [mailto:scifino...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf 
Of Keith Johnson
Sent: Thursday, October 15, 2009 7:38 PM
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight?



Yeah I get all that, guess it's just good that fashion doesn't depend on my 
tastes!
I've listened to Shepard many times on The View. She was raised in a fairly 
conservative background, and it shows. But you know what? I like her, and I 
haven't given up on her. For one thing, unlike militant conservative Elizabeth 
Hasselbeck, Shepard isn't mean or malicious. She isn't given to attacking other 
people who disagree with her, and, even when she's a bit stubborn, it seems 
more defensive than combative.  She made some crazy comments, but she was new 
to that type of show, and I can see her saying nutty stuff out of sheer nerves, 
especially when two or three accomplished people confront her. Again, at least 
she's not like hasslebeck or the unlamented Rosie O'Donnell, who both fight 
like pitbulls when challenged. And I also give her credit for admitting that 
there's a lot she doesn't know. When Obama was running, she became very excited 
about the election, and started looking into the issues and examining 
candidates for the first time in her life. I was encouraged that she actually 
thought about her decision, rather than just voting based on emotion. It was 
actually kinda cool to see the innocent look of excitement on her face as she 
got further into the election process.

She strikes me as a nice person who has been focused more on life and family 
than broader issues, but is realizing she should do more, and I respect that 
she is doing something about it. She may be naive, even ignorant of some 
things, but at least she's not truly narrow-minded like the Palin crowd.

- Original Message -
From: Tracey de Morsella tdli...@multiculturaladvantage.com
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Thursday, October 15, 2009 7:46:24 PM GMT -05:00 US/Canada Eastern
Subject: RE: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired  
for being overweight?

  

Here is one benefit.  How the clothes look on the model is everything to the 
manufacturer or retailer.  Most of the clothes will not fit any body type 
right.  If the model is too small, you can pin, pad, or stuff.  If the model is 
too big for the outfit, you cannot do anything.  

 

Also not all clothes are made for all body types.  For instance, Sheri Shepard 
has a wide waist so things that accent her waist will not look great on her, 
unless attention is drawn to her breasts-which is not always possible if the 
outfit is not designed that way   On a skinny woman with the same waist issue, 
it would be less noticeable.  It is not really hard to dress for body type, but 
when you are selling clothes, the idea is to find the right body type for the 
clothes.

 

Sheri does look way better since she lost weight.  I always liked her up until 
she got on the View, but her views on there not being  evolution and the world 
being flat make her difficult to like.  I wish she had stuck to acting so I 
would not have to hear her backwards opinions in my head when she is playing a 
role

 

 

From: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com [mailto:scifino...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf 
Of Keith Johnson
Sent: Thursday, October 15, 2009 3:37 PM
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight?

 





I hear you, I understand how skinnier may be easier to photograph, and easier 
to work with from a technical side. It must be me, 'cause this week I've all 
but slobbered over Sheri Sheppard on her show (the Sister loves sweaters), 
Sofia Vergara (do they intentionally dress her in clothes that are crying too 
tight!?)
It's just for me, when I say a shapely voluptuous woman modeling clothes, I'm 
far more attracted to her and the clothing than when it's a skinny woman. Guess 
it's my time, culture, and place of upbringing. Indeed, Phyllis will tell you 
that I often look at women modeling clothing on TV or and mags and say That 
dress would like a lot better on a woman who isn't so thin.

- Original Message -
From: Tracey de Morsella tdli...@multiculturaladvantage.com
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Thursday, October 15, 2009 2:01:14 AM GMT -05:00 US/Canada Eastern
Subject: RE: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired  
for being overweight?

  

Keith it is true about skinner photographing better.  Particularly

[scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for being overweight?

2009-10-14 Thread Keith Johnson
I don't know what's more disturbing: that they think this model in her current 
true form is overweight, or that anyone in any country in the world thought 
that doctored photo of her was either realistic or attractive. I have tried 
over and over to understand the American obsession with thin models and 
actresses. My wife always explains to me that clothing looks better when hung 
on a thin frame, since designers feel a woman's curves detract from the dress, 
and a thin woman's body doesn't do that. (she doesn't agree with the 
philosophy, but understands it). Assuming I bought that--I don't--why then do 
even actresses, who ostensibly aren't modeling clothing, get told to lose 
weight? Why are so many makeup models thin when all we should be looking at are 
their faces (the Queen Latifah's of the world notwithstanding) 

As a black man over 40, raised to think a good body was represented by the 
likes of Nichele Nichols, Chaka Khan, Pam Grier, Sophia Loren, or Racquel 
Welch, i guess I'll never understand how voluptuous can either be a dirty 
word, or applied to someone as relatively slim as Cindy Crawford or Claudia 
Schiffer. I do know it must be crazy to be a woman trying to survive in the 
fashion or movie industries as long as this skewed view of beauty persists. No 
wonder so many models are anorexic and addicted to amphetamines! 

Remember back when TV Guide grafted Oprah Winfrey's head onto Ann Margaret's 
body? Man, do we ever see anyone as they really are anymore? 

** 
http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/beauty/was-the-photoshopped-ralph-lauren-model-fired-for-being-overweight-525248/
 



Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for being overweight? 


photoshopdisasters.blogspot.com

photoshopdisasters.blogspot.com Last week Ralph Lauren came under fire for 
(what looked to be) an extremely altered photo of a model in one of its ads. 
Bloggers at the website BoingBoing.net posted the image online, and lawyers for 
Ralph Lauren attempted to sue them for copyright infringement. Unfortunately 
for Ralph Lauren, this only furthered public interest and outrage over the 
dangerously thin looking model and, eventually, the clothing company released 
this apology: 

For over 42 years we have built a brand based on quality and integrity. After 
further investigation, we have learned that we are responsible for the poor 
imaging and retouching that resulted in a very distorted image of a woman's 
body. We have addressed the problem and going forward will take every 
precaution to ensure that the caliber of our artwork represents our brand 
appropriately. 

Unfortunately,addressing the problem may have included firing the model, 
23-year-old Filippa Hamilton. She is 5'10 and weighs 120 pounds--clearly more 
full-bodied than the photoshopped girl we see in the advertisement. Though 
Hamilton has modeled for Ralph Lauren since she was 15, the company let her go 
as a result of her inability to meet the obligations under her contract with 
us. But the story gets worse: Hamilton says she was let go because she'd 
become too fat to model for them. They fired me because they said I was 
overweight and I couldn't fit in their clothes anymore, she explained. I was 
shocked to see that super skinny girl with my face...It's very sad, I think, 
that Ralph Lauren could do something like that. 


Filippa Hamilton in a past Ralph Lauren ad

Filippa Hamilton in a past Ralph Lauren ad Most of us know that a tall, young 
woman who weighs 120 pounds is not overweight. But Hamilton claims Ralph Lauren 
was dissatisfied with her body, and therefore fired her six months ago. 
However, the company continued to use her image, whittling down her arms, 
waist, thighs, and possibly several other body parts in the above ad. If they 
were so unhappy with how she looked, why not get another model for the 
campaign? Why use the photos and alter and distort them? 

Today, Ralph Lauren himself is distancing himself from the ad, claiming, The 
image in question was mistakenly released and used in a department store in 
Japan and was not the approved image which ran in the U.S. So we're confused. 
They say the photoshopping was an error, that Hamilton is beautiful and 
healthy, yet they allegedly fired her for her size? With all these apologies 
and statements it sounds like the brand still has yet to accept responsibility 
for their actions. 


Hamilton in Italian Elle

Hamilton in Italian Elle 
Hamilton in French Vogue

Hamilton in French Vogue When I searched for more images of Filippa Hamilton, I 
instantly remembered her—she was the face of Ralph Lauren's fragrance, Romance, 
has been featured on the cover of international editions of Vogue and Elle, and 
has appeared in many ads. She's a gorgeous woman. I think they [Ralph Lauren] 
owe American women an apology, a big apology, says Hamilton. I'm very proud 
of what I look like, and I think a role model should look healthy. 

The truth is, 

RE: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for being overweight?

2009-10-14 Thread Tracey de Morsella
As a former model, this disgusts me.  When people ask me how to get their kids 
in the industry, I tell them, but tell them the ugly side with the hope that 
they will opt not to get their children involved.  While my daughter has the 
looks, she does not take instruction well.  Can’t figure out where she gets her 
stubbornness  “she says scratching her head”   I’m glad in a way because it 
prevents me from being tempted to take the showbiz mom route.  What they do to 
these kids and women is horrible.

 

What is more disturbing to me is that there are men that prefer the Alli Mc 
Beal types.  That does not help matters

 

From: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com [mailto:scifino...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf 
Of Keith Johnson
Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 4:22 PM
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight?

 






I don't know what's more disturbing: that they think this model in her current 
true form is overweight, or that anyone in any country in the world thought 
that doctored photo of her was either realistic or attractive.  I have tried 
over and over to understand the American obsession with thin models and 
actresses. My wife always explains to me that clothing looks better when hung 
on a thin frame, since designers feel a  woman's curves detract from the dress, 
and a thin woman's body doesn't do that. (she doesn't agree with the 
philosophy, but understands it). Assuming I bought that--I don't--why then do 
even actresses, who ostensibly aren't modeling clothing, get told to lose 
weight? Why are so many makeup models thin when all we should be looking at are 
their faces (the Queen Latifah's of the world notwithstanding)

As a black man over 40, raised to think a good body was represented by the 
likes of Nichele Nichols, Chaka Khan, Pam Grier,  Sophia Loren, or Racquel 
Welch,  i guess I'll never understand how voluptuous can either be a dirty 
word, or applied to someone as relatively slim as Cindy Crawford or Claudia 
Schiffer.  I do know it must be crazy to be a woman trying to survive in the 
fashion or movie industries as long as this skewed view of beauty persists. No 
wonder so many models are anorexic and addicted to amphetamines!

Remember back when TV Guide grafted Oprah Winfrey's head onto Ann Margaret's 
body? Man, do we ever see anyone as they really are anymore?

**
http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/beauty/was-the-photoshopped-ralph-lauren-model-fired-for-being-overweight-525248/


Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for being overweight?


 photoshopdisasters.blogspot.com 
http://a323.yahoofs.com/phugc/vu7vD17UuinS/photos/597ce10efef7ea981abcc5e023c89874/mr_b5fda2fd46300c.jpg?ug_D.b5bBnGG
 

photoshopdisasters.blogspot.com

Last week Ralph 
http://shine.yahoo.com/event/fallbeauty/image-of-ultra-thin-ralph-lauren-model-sparks-outrage-521480/
  Lauren came under fire for (what looked to be) an extremely altered photo of 
a model in one of its ads. Bloggers at the website BoingBoing.net posted the 
image online, and lawyers for Ralph Lauren attempted to sue them for copyright 
infringement. Unfortunately for Ralph Lauren, this only furthered public 
interest and outrage over the dangerously thin looking model and, eventually, 
the clothing company released this apology:

For over 42 years we have built a brand based on quality and integrity. After 
further investigation, we have learned that we are responsible for the poor 
imaging and retouching that resulted in a very distorted image of a woman's 
body. We have addressed the problem and going forward will take every 
precaution to ensure that the caliber of our artwork represents our brand 
appropriately.

Unfortunately,addressing the problem may have included firing the model, 
23-year-old Filippa Hamilton. She is 5'10 and weighs 120 pounds--clearly more 
full-bodied than the photoshopped girl we see in the advertisement. Though 
Hamilton has modeled for Ralph Lauren since she was 15, the company let her go 
as a result of her inability to meet the obligations under her contract with 
us. But the story gets worse: Hamilton says she was let go because she'd 
become too fat to model for them. They fired me because they said I was 
overweight and I couldn't fit in their clothes anymore, she explained. I was 
shocked to see that super skinny girl with my face...It's very sad, I think, 
that Ralph Lauren could do something like that.

 Filippa Hamilton in a past Ralph Lauren ad 
http://a323.yahoofs.com/phugc/QnN_NrSbXFLk/photos/434d36deb4d4d3a146f7af8eb1e62295/mr_83d94ea74bc024.jpg?ug_D_al.SAiq
 

Filippa Hamilton in a past Ralph Lauren ad

Most of us know that a tall, young woman who weighs 120 pounds is not 
overweight. But Hamilton claims Ralph Lauren was dissatisfied with her body, 
and therefore fired her six months ago. However, the company continued to use 
her image, whittling down her arms

Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for being overweight?

2009-10-14 Thread Adrianne Brennan
Okay, I'm going to give some stats here for a sake of comparison. At 5'4 at
120 lbs, I wear a size 2--size 0 in some clothing if the hips run loose
because my waist is significantly smaller than my hips. I am also rather
small-boned.
For someone at 5'10 to be too fat at 120 is fucking insane. I actually
will deliberately gain weight if I go below 120 because at that point I
start to look unhealthy. At my height, 5 lbs goes a LONG way.

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http://www.adriannebrennan.com
Experience the magic of the Dark Moon series:
http://www.adriannebrennan.com/books.html#darkmoon
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On Wed, Oct 14, 2009 at 7:21 PM, Keith Johnson keithbjohn...@comcast.netwrote:



 I don't know what's more disturbing: that they think this model in her
 current true form is overweight, or that anyone in any country in the world
 thought that doctored photo of her was either realistic or attractive.  I
 have tried over and over to understand the American obsession with thin
 models and actresses. My wife always explains to me that clothing looks
 better when hung on a thin frame, since designers feel a  woman's curves
 detract from the dress, and a thin woman's body doesn't do that. (she
 doesn't agree with the philosophy, but understands it). Assuming I bought
 that--I don't--why then do even actresses, who ostensibly aren't modeling
 clothing, get told to lose weight? Why are so many makeup models thin when
 all we should be looking at are their faces (the Queen Latifah's of the
 world notwithstanding)

 As a black man over 40, raised to think a good body was represented by the
 likes of Nichele Nichols, Chaka Khan, Pam Grier,  Sophia Loren, or Racquel
 Welch,  i guess I'll never understand how voluptuous can either be a dirty
 word, or applied to someone as relatively slim as Cindy Crawford or Claudia
 Schiffer.  I do know it must be crazy to be a woman trying to survive in the
 fashion or movie industries as long as this skewed view of beauty persists.
 No wonder so many models are anorexic and addicted to amphetamines!

 Remember back when TV Guide grafted Oprah Winfrey's head onto Ann
 Margaret's body? Man, do we ever see anyone as they really are anymore?

 **

 http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/beauty/was-the-photoshopped-ralph-lauren-model-fired-for-being-overweight-525248/

  Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for being overweight?
  [image: photoshopdisasters.blogspot.com]

 photoshopdisasters.blogspot.com
 Last week Ralph Lauren came under fire for (what looked to be) an
 extremely altered photo of a 
 modelhttp://shine.yahoo.com/event/fallbeauty/image-of-ultra-thin-ralph-lauren-model-sparks-outrage-521480/in
  one of its ads. Bloggers at the website BoingBoing.net posted the image
 online, and lawyers for Ralph Lauren attempted to sue them for copyright
 infringement. Unfortunately for Ralph Lauren, this only furthered public
 interest and outrage over the dangerously thin looking model and,
 eventually, the clothing company released this apology:

 For over 42 years we have built a brand based on quality and integrity.
 After further investigation, we have learned that we are responsible for the
 poor imaging and retouching that resulted in a very distorted image of a
 woman's body. We have addressed the problem and going forward will take
 every precaution to ensure that the caliber of our artwork represents our
 brand appropriately.

 Unfortunately,addressing the problem may have included firing the model,
 23-year-old Filippa Hamilton. She is 5'10 and weighs 120 pounds--clearly
 more full-bodied than the photoshopped girl we see in the advertisement.
 Though Hamilton has modeled for Ralph Lauren since she was 15, the company
 let her go as a result of her inability to meet the obligations under her
 contract with us. But the story gets worse: Hamilton says she was let go
 because she'd become too fat to model for them. They fired me because they
 said I was overweight and I couldn't fit in their clothes anymore, she
 explained. I was shocked to see that super skinny girl with my face...It's
 very sad, I think, that Ralph Lauren could do something like that.

 [image: Filippa Hamilton in a past Ralph Lauren ad]

 Filippa Hamilton in a past Ralph Lauren ad
 Most of us know that a tall, young woman who weighs 120 pounds is not
 overweight. But Hamilton claims Ralph Lauren was dissatisfied with her body,
 and therefore fired her six months ago. However, the company continued to
 use her image, whittling down her arms, waist, thighs, and possibly several
 other body parts in the above ad. If they were so unhappy with how she
 looked, why not get another model for the campaign? Why use the photos and
 alter and distort them?

 Today, Ralph Lauren 

RE: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for being overweight?

2009-10-14 Thread Tracey de Morsella
Here something weird, I was 115  at 5'7' for years when I modeled back in
the day. I attracted guys, but not that much-unless I had my makeup
articles, and hair stylist on hand, which was not often  J.   I quit
modeling and over the years I gained until I I was about 135 - 140.  I
thought I was fat, but guys started stopping me on the street and trying to
get my attention.  I very odd experience.  

 

Something is definitively wrong.  Guys like that monster Lagerfeld, should
not be defining female beauty  

 

From: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com [mailto:scifino...@yahoogroups.com] On
Behalf Of Adrianne Brennan
Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 5:21 PM
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired
for being overweight?

 



Okay, I'm going to give some stats here for a sake of comparison. At 5'4 at
120 lbs, I wear a size 2--size 0 in some clothing if the hips run loose
because my waist is significantly smaller than my hips. I am also rather
small-boned.

 

For someone at 5'10 to be too fat at 120 is fucking insane. I actually
will deliberately gain weight if I go below 120 because at that point I
start to look unhealthy. At my height, 5 lbs goes a LONG way.


~ Where love and magic meet ~
http://www.adriannebrennan.com
Experience the magic of the Dark Moon series:
http://www.adriannebrennan.com/books.html#darkmoon
Dare to take The Oath in this erotic fantasy series:
http://www.adriannebrennan.com/books.html#the_oath
The future of psychic sex - Dawn of the Seraphs (m/m):
http://www.adriannebrennan.com/dawnoftheseraphs.html



On Wed, Oct 14, 2009 at 7:21 PM, Keith Johnson keithbjohn...@comcast.net
wrote:

 

I don't know what's more disturbing: that they think this model in her
current true form is overweight, or that anyone in any country in the world
thought that doctored photo of her was either realistic or attractive.  I
have tried over and over to understand the American obsession with thin
models and actresses. My wife always explains to me that clothing looks
better when hung on a thin frame, since designers feel a  woman's curves
detract from the dress, and a thin woman's body doesn't do that. (she
doesn't agree with the philosophy, but understands it). Assuming I bought
that--I don't--why then do even actresses, who ostensibly aren't modeling
clothing, get told to lose weight? Why are so many makeup models thin when
all we should be looking at are their faces (the Queen Latifah's of the
world notwithstanding)

As a black man over 40, raised to think a good body was represented by the
likes of Nichele Nichols, Chaka Khan, Pam Grier,  Sophia Loren, or Racquel
Welch,  i guess I'll never understand how voluptuous can either be a dirty
word, or applied to someone as relatively slim as Cindy Crawford or Claudia
Schiffer.  I do know it must be crazy to be a woman trying to survive in the
fashion or movie industries as long as this skewed view of beauty persists.
No wonder so many models are anorexic and addicted to amphetamines!

Remember back when TV Guide grafted Oprah Winfrey's head onto Ann Margaret's
body? Man, do we ever see anyone as they really are anymore?

**
http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/beauty/was-the-photoshopped-ralph-lauren-mode
l-fired-for-being-overweight-525248/


Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for being overweight?


 photoshopdisasters.blogspot.com
http://a323.yahoofs.com/phugc/vu7vD17UuinS/photos/597ce10efef7ea981abcc5e02
3c89874/mr_b5fda2fd46300c.jpg?ug_D.b5bBnGG 

photoshopdisasters.blogspot.com

Last week Ralph Lauren came under fire for (what looked to be) an
http://shine.yahoo.com/event/fallbeauty/image-of-ultra-thin-ralph-lauren-mo
del-sparks-outrage-521480/  extremely altered photo of a model in one of
its ads. Bloggers at the website BoingBoing.net posted the image online, and
lawyers for Ralph Lauren attempted to sue them for copyright infringement.
Unfortunately for Ralph Lauren, this only furthered public interest and
outrage over the dangerously thin looking model and, eventually, the
clothing company released this apology:

For over 42 years we have built a brand based on quality and integrity.
After further investigation, we have learned that we are responsible for the
poor imaging and retouching that resulted in a very distorted image of a
woman's body. We have addressed the problem and going forward will take
every precaution to ensure that the caliber of our artwork represents our
brand appropriately.

Unfortunately,addressing the problem may have included firing the model,
23-year-old Filippa Hamilton. She is 5'10 and weighs 120 pounds--clearly
more full-bodied than the photoshopped girl we see in the advertisement.
Though Hamilton has modeled for Ralph Lauren since she was 15, the company
let her go as a result of her inability to meet the obligations under her
contract with us. But the story gets worse: Hamilton says she was let go
because she'd

Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for being overweight?

2009-10-14 Thread Mr. Worf
Real men like curves. This sounds extremely homophobic but, most of the guys
that do fashion like boys so I think it comes out subconsciously in their
model choices. You choose what is attractive to you. So often they pick
models that are completely featureless. This has been more apparent when you
compare models of 20 years ago to the super skinny ones today.

For example, Christie Brinkley, or Beverly Johnson would probably be
considered too fat and too pretty now. (depending on which part of the world
it is.)

On Wed, Oct 14, 2009 at 5:44 PM, Tracey de Morsella 
tdli...@multiculturaladvantage.com wrote:



  Here something weird, I was 115  at 5’7’ for years when I modeled back in
 the day. I attracted guys, but not that much—unless I had my makeup
 articles, and hair stylist on hand, which was not often  J.   I quit
 modeling and over the years I gained until I I was about 135 – 140.  I
 thought I was fat, but guys started stopping me on the street and trying to
 get my attention.  I very odd experience.



 Something is definitively wrong.  Guys like that monster Lagerfeld, should
 not be defining female beauty



 *From:* scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com [mailto:scifino...@yahoogroups.com] *On
 Behalf Of *Adrianne Brennan
 *Sent:* Wednesday, October 14, 2009 5:21 PM
 *To:* scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com
 *Subject:* Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model
 fired for being overweight?





 Okay, I'm going to give some stats here for a sake of comparison. At 5'4
 at 120 lbs, I wear a size 2--size 0 in some clothing if the hips run loose
 because my waist is significantly smaller than my hips. I am also rather
 small-boned.



 For someone at 5'10 to be too fat at 120 is fucking insane. I actually
 will deliberately gain weight if I go below 120 because at that point I
 start to look unhealthy. At my height, 5 lbs goes a LONG way.


 ~ Where love and magic meet ~
 http://www.adriannebrennan.com
 Experience the magic of the Dark Moon series:
 http://www.adriannebrennan.com/books.html#darkmoon
 Dare to take The Oath in this erotic fantasy series:
 http://www.adriannebrennan.com/books.html#the_oath
 The future of psychic sex - Dawn of the Seraphs (m/m):
 http://www.adriannebrennan.com/dawnoftheseraphs.html

  On Wed, Oct 14, 2009 at 7:21 PM, Keith Johnson keithbjohn...@comcast.net
 wrote:



 I don't know what's more disturbing: that they think this model in her
 current true form is overweight, or that anyone in any country in the world
 thought that doctored photo of her was either realistic or attractive.  I
 have tried over and over to understand the American obsession with thin
 models and actresses. My wife always explains to me that clothing looks
 better when hung on a thin frame, since designers feel a  woman's curves
 detract from the dress, and a thin woman's body doesn't do that. (she
 doesn't agree with the philosophy, but understands it). Assuming I bought
 that--I don't--why then do even actresses, who ostensibly aren't modeling
 clothing, get told to lose weight? Why are so many makeup models thin when
 all we should be looking at are their faces (the Queen Latifah's of the
 world notwithstanding)

 As a black man over 40, raised to think a good body was represented by the
 likes of Nichele Nichols, Chaka Khan, Pam Grier,  Sophia Loren, or Racquel
 Welch,  i guess I'll never understand how voluptuous can either be a dirty
 word, or applied to someone as relatively slim as Cindy Crawford or Claudia
 Schiffer.  I do know it must be crazy to be a woman trying to survive in the
 fashion or movie industries as long as this skewed view of beauty persists.
 No wonder so many models are anorexic and addicted to amphetamines!

 Remember back when TV Guide grafted Oprah Winfrey's head onto Ann
 Margaret's body? Man, do we ever see anyone as they really are anymore?

 **

 http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/beauty/was-the-photoshopped-ralph-lauren-model-fired-for-being-overweight-525248/
  Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for being overweight?

 [image: photoshopdisasters.blogspot.com]

 photoshopdisasters.blogspot.com

 Last week Ralph Lauren came under fire for (what looked to be) an
 extremely altered photo of a 
 modelhttp://shine.yahoo.com/event/fallbeauty/image-of-ultra-thin-ralph-lauren-model-sparks-outrage-521480/in
  one of its ads. Bloggers at the website BoingBoing.net posted the image
 online, and lawyers for Ralph Lauren attempted to sue them for copyright
 infringement. Unfortunately for Ralph Lauren, this only furthered public
 interest and outrage over the dangerously thin looking model and,
 eventually, the clothing company released this apology:

 For over 42 years we have built a brand based on quality and integrity.
 After further investigation, we have learned that we are responsible for the
 poor imaging and retouching that resulted in a very distorted image of a
 woman's body. We have addressed the problem and going

Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for being overweight?

2009-10-14 Thread Keith Johnson
I agree, it seems to be an ugly industry. How did you survive it? 

I just find the change in desire of body types interesting. Back in the 50s and 
60s, it was much more curvy women that were desired (at least, by certain 
groups' standards). I remember watching those corny beach movies with Frankie 
Avalon just so I could sneak a peek at Annette Funicello. She'd be considered 
overweight nowadays. And Sophia Loren? They'd have her on a restrictive diet so 
fast her head would spend. My wife tells me that Jennifer Aniston was ordered 
to lose weight when she was on Friends. Note that all the women on that show 
got significantly thinner over the years. 

As I was reading your response earlier, i was watching the new ABC sitcom 
Modern Family. Not only is it for my money the best new show of the season 
(hilarious!), but one of the stars is Sofia Vergara. Staring at--er, 
watching--her, I can't imagine how anyone could prefer a pencil thin model! 

- Original Message - 
From: Tracey de Morsella tdli...@multiculturaladvantage.com 
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 8:05:34 PM GMT -05:00 US/Canada Eastern 
Subject: RE: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight? 









As a former model, this disgusts me. When people ask me how to get their kids 
in the industry, I tell them, but tell them the ugly side with the hope that 
they will opt not to get their children involved. While my daughter has the 
looks, she does not take instruction well. Can’t figure out where she gets her 
stubbornness “she says scratching her head” I’m glad in a way because it 
prevents me from being tempted to take the showbiz mom route. What they do to 
these kids and women is horrible. 



What is more disturbing to me is that there are men that prefer the Alli Mc 
Beal types. That does not help matters 





From: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com [mailto:scifino...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf 
Of Keith Johnson 
Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 4:22 PM 
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com 
Subject: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight? 









I don't know what's more disturbing: that they think this model in her current 
true form is overweight, or that anyone in any country in the world thought 
that doctored photo of her was either realistic or attractive. I have tried 
over and over to understand the American obsession with thin models and 
actresses. My wife always explains to me that clothing looks better when hung 
on a thin frame, since designers feel a woman's curves detract from the dress, 
and a thin woman's body doesn't do that. (she doesn't agree with the 
philosophy, but understands it). Assuming I bought that--I don't--why then do 
even actresses, who ostensibly aren't modeling clothing, get told to lose 
weight? Why are so many makeup models thin when all we should be looking at are 
their faces (the Queen Latifah's of the world notwithstanding) 

As a black man over 40, raised to think a good body was represented by the 
likes of Nichele Nichols, Chaka Khan, Pam Grier, Sophia Loren, or Racquel 
Welch, i guess I'll never understand how voluptuous can either be a dirty 
word, or applied to someone as relatively slim as Cindy Crawford or Claudia 
Schiffer. I do know it must be crazy to be a woman trying to survive in the 
fashion or movie industries as long as this skewed view of beauty persists. No 
wonder so many models are anorexic and addicted to amphetamines! 

Remember back when TV Guide grafted Oprah Winfrey's head onto Ann Margaret's 
body? Man, do we ever see anyone as they really are anymore? 

** 
http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/beauty/was-the-photoshopped-ralph-lauren-model-fired-for-being-overweight-525248/
 

Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for being overweight? 




photoshopdisasters.blogspot.com

photoshopdisasters.blogspot.com 

Last week Ralph Lauren came under fire for (what looked to be) an extremely 
altered photo of a model in one of its ads. Bloggers at the website 
BoingBoing.net posted the image online, and lawyers for Ralph Lauren attempted 
to sue them for copyright infringement. Unfortunately for Ralph Lauren, this 
only furthered public interest and outrage over the dangerously thin looking 
model and, eventually, the clothing company released this apology: 

For over 42 years we have built a brand based on quality and integrity. After 
further investigation, we have learned that we are responsible for the poor 
imaging and retouching that resulted in a very distorted image of a woman's 
body. We have addressed the problem and going forward will take every 
precaution to ensure that the caliber of our artwork represents our brand 
appropriately. 

Unfortunately,addressing the problem may have included firing the model, 
23-year-old Filippa Hamilton. She is 5'10 and weighs 120 pounds--clearly more 
full-bodied than

Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for being overweight?

2009-10-14 Thread Keith Johnson
My wife says the same thing about a little weight going a long way. She's only 
5'1, and often complains I don't get it because I'm 6'1--and a man. The funny 
thing is, this model looks better to me in shots where she's obviously gained a 
bit of weight over older shots. And to your point, I just see it as her getting 
back up to slim, not even close to fat. 

A couple of years ago I read an article about Scarlett Johannsen in one of my 
wife's magazines. The writer--a man--said that she was a pretty woman, and then 
added she works with her size. There were other words, but the guy's point 
was obviously that she was borderline too big. I remember being surprised. I'm 
still not sure how the desired female body type in America changed. When I was 
a kid it was those curvy women I mentioned. Sure, people liked Twiggy, Mary 
Tyler Moore in her capri pants was a cool thing. But men and women also sang 
the praises of the likes of Marilyn Monroe. Now it's weird. 

Maybe it's slowly changing back? At least, I've noticed that brunette actresses 
and models seem to be making a resurgence, so maybe the fuller figured women 
will come back too? 


- Original Message - 
From: Adrianne Brennan adrianne.bren...@gmail.com 
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 8:21:11 PM GMT -05:00 US/Canada Eastern 
Subject: Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight? 






Okay, I'm going to give some stats here for a sake of comparison. At 5'4 at 
120 lbs, I wear a size 2--size 0 in some clothing if the hips run loose because 
my waist is significantly smaller than my hips. I am also rather small-boned. 


For someone at 5'10 to be too fat at 120 is fucking insane. I actually will 
deliberately gain weight if I go below 120 because at that point I start to 
look unhealthy. At my height, 5 lbs goes a LONG way. 


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http://www.adriannebrennan.com 
Experience the magic of the Dark Moon series: 
http://www.adriannebrennan.com/books.html#darkmoon 
Dare to take The Oath in this erotic fantasy series: 
http://www.adriannebrennan.com/books.html#the_oath 
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http://www.adriannebrennan.com/dawnoftheseraphs.html 



On Wed, Oct 14, 2009 at 7:21 PM, Keith Johnson  keithbjohn...@comcast.net  
wrote: 






I don't know what's more disturbing: that they think this model in her current 
true form is overweight, or that anyone in any country in the world thought 
that doctored photo of her was either realistic or attractive. I have tried 
over and over to understand the American obsession with thin models and 
actresses. My wife always explains to me that clothing looks better when hung 
on a thin frame, since designers feel a woman's curves detract from the dress, 
and a thin woman's body doesn't do that. (she doesn't agree with the 
philosophy, but understands it). Assuming I bought that--I don't--why then do 
even actresses, who ostensibly aren't modeling clothing, get told to lose 
weight? Why are so many makeup models thin when all we should be looking at are 
their faces (the Queen Latifah's of the world notwithstanding) 

As a black man over 40, raised to think a good body was represented by the 
likes of Nichele Nichols, Chaka Khan, Pam Grier, Sophia Loren, or Racquel 
Welch, i guess I'll never understand how voluptuous can either be a dirty 
word, or applied to someone as relatively slim as Cindy Crawford or Claudia 
Schiffer. I do know it must be crazy to be a woman trying to survive in the 
fashion or movie industries as long as this skewed view of beauty persists. No 
wonder so many models are anorexic and addicted to amphetamines! 

Remember back when TV Guide grafted Oprah Winfrey's head onto Ann Margaret's 
body? Man, do we ever see anyone as they really are anymore? 

** 
http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/beauty/was-the-photoshopped-ralph-lauren-model-fired-for-being-overweight-525248/
 



Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for being overweight? 


photoshopdisasters.blogspot.com

photoshopdisasters.blogspot.com Last week Ralph Lauren came under fire for 
(what looked to be) an extremely altered photo of a model in one of its ads. 
Bloggers at the website BoingBoing.net posted the image online, and lawyers for 
Ralph Lauren attempted to sue them for copyright infringement. Unfortunately 
for Ralph Lauren, this only furthered public interest and outrage over the 
dangerously thin looking model and, eventually, the clothing company released 
this apology: 

For over 42 years we have built a brand based on quality and integrity. After 
further investigation, we have learned that we are responsible for the poor 
imaging and retouching that resulted in a very distorted image of a woman's 
body. We have addressed the problem and going forward will take every 
precaution to ensure that the caliber of our artwork represents our

Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for being overweight?

2009-10-14 Thread Mr. Worf
That won't happen because the super thin women is ingrained into the minds
of the people that control the industry. So what was considered thin is the
new fat, and what was healthy is now the new obese. I am glad that there was
a little bit of sanity that stopped people from going over the edge though.
When people like Allie MacBeal and had to be hospitalized people said ok,
that is too skinny! Skeletor's girlfriend or something.  Waking death just
isn't cute or sexy.

On Wed, Oct 14, 2009 at 8:25 PM, Keith Johnson keithbjohn...@comcast.netwrote:



 My wife says the same thing about a little weight going a long way. She's
 only 5'1, and often complains I don't get it because I'm 6'1--and a man.
 The funny thing is, this model looks better to me in shots where she's
 obviously gained a bit of weight over older shots. And to your point, I just
 see it as her getting back up to slim, not even close to fat.

 A couple of years ago  I read an article about Scarlett Johannsen in one of
 my wife's magazines. The writer--a man--said that she was a pretty woman,
 and then added she works with her size. There were other words, but the
 guy's point was obviously that she was borderline too big. I remember being
 surprised. I'm still not sure how the desired female body type in America
 changed. When I was a kid it was those curvy women I mentioned. Sure, people
 liked Twiggy, Mary Tyler Moore in her capri pants was a cool thing. But men
 and women also sang the praises of the likes of Marilyn Monroe. Now it's
 weird.

 Maybe it's slowly changing back? At least, I've noticed that brunette
 actresses and models seem to be making a resurgence, so maybe the fuller
 figured women will come back too?


 - Original Message -
 From: Adrianne Brennan adrianne.bren...@gmail.com
 To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com
 Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 8:21:11 PM GMT -05:00 US/Canada Eastern
 Subject: Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired
  for being overweight?



 Okay, I'm going to give some stats here for a sake of comparison. At 5'4
 at 120 lbs, I wear a size 2--size 0 in some clothing if the hips run loose
 because my waist is significantly smaller than my hips. I am also rather
 small-boned.

 For someone at 5'10 to be too fat at 120 is fucking insane. I actually
 will deliberately gain weight if I go below 120 because at that point I
 start to look unhealthy. At my height, 5 lbs goes a LONG way.

 ~ Where love and magic meet ~
 http://www.adriannebrennan.com
 Experience the magic of the Dark Moon series:
 http://www.adriannebrennan.com/books.html#darkmoon
 Dare to take The Oath in this erotic fantasy series:
 http://www.adriannebrennan.com/books.html#the_oath
 The future of psychic sex - Dawn of the Seraphs (m/m):
 http://www.adriannebrennan.com/dawnoftheseraphs.html


 On Wed, Oct 14, 2009 at 7:21 PM, Keith Johnson 
 keithbjohn...@comcast.netwrote:



 I don't know what's more disturbing: that they think this model in her
 current true form is overweight, or that anyone in any country in the world
 thought that doctored photo of her was either realistic or attractive.  I
 have tried over and over to understand the American obsession with thin
 models and actresses. My wife always explains to me that clothing looks
 better when hung on a thin frame, since designers feel a  woman's curves
 detract from the dress, and a thin woman's body doesn't do that. (she
 doesn't agree with the philosophy, but understands it). Assuming I bought
 that--I don't--why then do even actresses, who ostensibly aren't modeling
 clothing, get told to lose weight? Why are so many makeup models thin when
 all we should be looking at are their faces (the Queen Latifah's of the
 world notwithstanding)

 As a black man over 40, raised to think a good body was represented by the
 likes of Nichele Nichols, Chaka Khan, Pam Grier,  Sophia Loren, or Racquel
 Welch,  i guess I'll never understand how voluptuous can either be a dirty
 word, or applied to someone as relatively slim as Cindy Crawford or Claudia
 Schiffer.  I do know it must be crazy to be a woman trying to survive in the
 fashion or movie industries as long as this skewed view of beauty persists.
 No wonder so many models are anorexic and addicted to amphetamines!

 Remember back when TV Guide grafted Oprah Winfrey's head onto Ann
 Margaret's body? Man, do we ever see anyone as they really are anymore?

 **

 http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/beauty/was-the-photoshopped-ralph-lauren-model-fired-for-being-overweight-525248/

  Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for being overweight?
  [image: photoshopdisasters.blogspot.com]

 photoshopdisasters.blogspot.com
 Last week Ralph Lauren came under fire for (what looked to be) an
 extremely altered photo of a 
 modelhttp://shine.yahoo.com/event/fallbeauty/image-of-ultra-thin-ralph-lauren-model-sparks-outrage-521480/in
  one of its ads. Bloggers at the website BoingBoing.net

RE: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for being overweight?

2009-10-14 Thread Tracey de Morsella
I worked as a stylist on the set a few times, as well as a model.  The clothes 
do lay easier on a thinner model than a normal sized model, but the whole 
photographing process is about illusion, NOT reality.   The purpose is to sell 
a lie.   It is easier to make cheap poorly constructed  clothes look better on 
them.  I used to model in those clothing catalogs.  The clothes fit horribly on 
all of us. BUT the stylist comes to the set with clothes pins and needles and 
makes them formfitting.  Then they contort us in specific poses to make the 
clothes look better.  Then the photographer  does his thing with lighting and 
shadows……and the next thing you know, we look perfect and women are wondering 
why the clothes look better on us then them.  The reality is we didn’t.It 
is false advertising.  This illusion works on everyone, but best on the real 
skinny models IMO.   

 

Ironically, I was considered a little voluptuous at 115 and 34B at the time.  
Because of that, I got work doing bathing suits, Calvin Kline underwear and 
lingerie.  I look at old pictures now, I while I do not see skinny, I do see  
slender… NOT voluptuous.   I never got into the serious diet thing and I used 
to beat myself up for it.  Looking back, I am relieved.

 

Now on a separate issue, if you go on the boards sometimes like on imdb and you 
see the commentary by men about the female stars,  I significant number like 
that skinny look.  Why is Brad with Angelina, Harrison with Calista and a host 
of others.  It is a specific taste that some straight men have.  I’ve seen guys 
call women I think are hot, fat.  On that note, they are not men I want 
anything to do with, nor do I want my daughter near them.   Supposedly, these 
guys are straight.  I do not know, if they have a daddy thing going on, it 
makes them feel my potent and stronger, or what, but there are men who like 
that.

 

 

 

From: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com [mailto:scifino...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf 
Of Mr. Worf
Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 7:42 PM
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight?

 



Real men like curves. This sounds extremely homophobic but, most of the guys 
that do fashion like boys so I think it comes out subconsciously in their model 
choices. You choose what is attractive to you. So often they pick models that 
are completely featureless. This has been more apparent when you compare models 
of 20 years ago to the super skinny ones today. 

For example, Christie Brinkley, or Beverly Johnson would probably be considered 
too fat and too pretty now. (depending on which part of the world it is.) 

On Wed, Oct 14, 2009 at 5:44 PM, Tracey de Morsella 
tdli...@multiculturaladvantage.com wrote:

 

Here something weird, I was 115  at 5’7’ for years when I modeled back in the 
day. I attracted guys, but not that much—unless I had my makeup articles, and 
hair stylist on hand, which was not often  J.   I quit modeling and over the 
years I gained until I I was about 135 – 140.  I thought I was fat, but guys 
started stopping me on the street and trying to get my attention.  I very odd 
experience.  

 

Something is definitively wrong.  Guys like that monster Lagerfeld, should not 
be defining female beauty  

 

From: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com [mailto:scifino...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf 
Of Adrianne Brennan
Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 5:21 PM
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight?

 



Okay, I'm going to give some stats here for a sake of comparison. At 5'4 at 
120 lbs, I wear a size 2--size 0 in some clothing if the hips run loose because 
my waist is significantly smaller than my hips. I am also rather small-boned.

 

For someone at 5'10 to be too fat at 120 is fucking insane. I actually will 
deliberately gain weight if I go below 120 because at that point I start to 
look unhealthy. At my height, 5 lbs goes a LONG way.


~ Where love and magic meet ~
http://www.adriannebrennan.com
Experience the magic of the Dark Moon series: 
http://www.adriannebrennan.com/books.html#darkmoon
Dare to take The Oath in this erotic fantasy series: 
http://www.adriannebrennan.com/books.html#the_oath
The future of psychic sex - Dawn of the Seraphs (m/m): 
http://www.adriannebrennan.com/dawnoftheseraphs.html

On Wed, Oct 14, 2009 at 7:21 PM, Keith Johnson keithbjohn...@comcast.net 
wrote:

 

I don't know what's more disturbing: that they think this model in her current 
true form is overweight, or that anyone in any country in the world thought 
that doctored photo of her was either realistic or attractive.  I have tried 
over and over to understand the American obsession with thin models and 
actresses. My wife always explains to me that clothing looks better when hung 
on a thin frame, since designers feel a  woman's curves detract from the dress, 
and a thin woman's

Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for being overweight?

2009-10-14 Thread Keith Johnson
Tracey, I'm not surprised at all. Just out of curiosity, was the attention you 
started getting more from black, Latino, or white guys? I'm always fascinated 
at how men of different cultures and ethnicities view beauty. The old wisdom 
was that black and Latino men definitely tend to prefer curvier women. That is 
by no means the truth all the time, but I just wonder. I notice that when my 
wife and I are out (she's very curvy, and would kill me for saying that!) she 
gets more looks from black and Mexican men. Quite a few from white men, but not 
as much. Almost always from European guys--at least, I've caught a few 
Spaniards and Italians trying to mack her in the diary case while I was around 
the corner. 

The sad thing is, it's not even about slim or thin women not being attractive. 
Beauty comes in all sizes, and slim women can be as beautiful as anyone else. 
Charlize Theron is very slim, and gorgeous. Same for Rosalyn Sanchez, Terry 
Ferrell (Dax from DS9). It's just the push to make dangerously thin women the 
standard of beauty in the fashion and movie industries that bothers me. 


- Original Message - 
From: Tracey de Morsella tdli...@multiculturaladvantage.com 
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 8:44:53 PM GMT -05:00 US/Canada Eastern 
Subject: RE: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight? 









Here something weird, I was 115 at 5’7’ for years when I modeled back in the 
day. I attracted guys, but not that much—unless I had my makeup articles, and 
hair stylist on hand, which was not often J . I quit modeling and over the 
years I gained until I I was about 135 – 140. I thought I was fat, but guys 
started stopping me on the street and trying to get my attention. I very odd 
experience. 



Something is definitively wrong. Guys like that monster Lagerfeld, should not 
be defining female beauty 





From: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com [mailto:scifino...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf 
Of Adrianne Brennan 
Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 5:21 PM 
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com 
Subject: Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight? 





Okay, I'm going to give some stats here for a sake of comparison. At 5'4 at 
120 lbs, I wear a size 2--size 0 in some clothing if the hips run loose because 
my waist is significantly smaller than my hips. I am also rather small-boned. 





For someone at 5'10 to be too fat at 120 is fucking insane. I actually will 
deliberately gain weight if I go below 120 because at that point I start to 
look unhealthy. At my height, 5 lbs goes a LONG way. 



~ Where love and magic meet ~ 
http://www.adriannebrennan.com 
Experience the magic of the Dark Moon series: 
http://www.adriannebrennan.com/books.html#darkmoon 
Dare to take The Oath in this erotic fantasy series: 
http://www.adriannebrennan.com/books.html#the_oath 
The future of psychic sex - Dawn of the Seraphs (m/m): 
http://www.adriannebrennan.com/dawnoftheseraphs.html 




On Wed, Oct 14, 2009 at 7:21 PM, Keith Johnson  keithbjohn...@comcast.net  
wrote: 





I don't know what's more disturbing: that they think this model in her current 
true form is overweight, or that anyone in any country in the world thought 
that doctored photo of her was either realistic or attractive. I have tried 
over and over to understand the American obsession with thin models and 
actresses. My wife always explains to me that clothing looks better when hung 
on a thin frame, since designers feel a woman's curves detract from the dress, 
and a thin woman's body doesn't do that. (she doesn't agree with the 
philosophy, but understands it). Assuming I bought that--I don't--why then do 
even actresses, who ostensibly aren't modeling clothing, get told to lose 
weight? Why are so many makeup models thin when all we should be looking at are 
their faces (the Queen Latifah's of the world notwithstanding) 

As a black man over 40, raised to think a good body was represented by the 
likes of Nichele Nichols, Chaka Khan, Pam Grier, Sophia Loren, or Racquel 
Welch, i guess I'll never understand how voluptuous can either be a dirty 
word, or applied to someone as relatively slim as Cindy Crawford or Claudia 
Schiffer. I do know it must be crazy to be a woman trying to survive in the 
fashion or movie industries as long as this skewed view of beauty persists. No 
wonder so many models are anorexic and addicted to amphetamines! 

Remember back when TV Guide grafted Oprah Winfrey's head onto Ann Margaret's 
body? Man, do we ever see anyone as they really are anymore? 

** 
http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/beauty/was-the-photoshopped-ralph-lauren-model-fired-for-being-overweight-525248/
 

Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for being overweight? 




photoshopdisasters.blogspot.com

photoshopdisasters.blogspot.com 

Last week Ralph Lauren came under fire for (what looked

Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for being overweight?

2009-10-14 Thread Keith Johnson
Funny thing, i was listening to an interview with Beverly Johnson on NPR's 
Tell Me More recently. It was the anniversary of her breakthrough appearance 
on the cover of Vogue. Johnson has a daughter who's a plus-sized model, and 
wholeheartedly supports her. Yet in the same interview she said The main 
fashion industry likes slimmer woman, because I'm sorry, clothes just look 
better on slim women. 

- Original Message - 
From: Mr. Worf hellomahog...@gmail.com 
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 10:41:59 PM GMT -05:00 US/Canada Eastern 
Subject: Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight? 






Real men like curves. This sounds extremely homophobic but, most of the guys 
that do fashion like boys so I think it comes out subconsciously in their model 
choices. You choose what is attractive to you. So often they pick models that 
are completely featureless. This has been more apparent when you compare models 
of 20 years ago to the super skinny ones today. 

For example, Christie Brinkley, or Beverly Johnson would probably be considered 
too fat and too pretty now. (depending on which part of the world it is.) 


On Wed, Oct 14, 2009 at 5:44 PM, Tracey de Morsella  
tdli...@multiculturaladvantage.com  wrote: 








Here something weird, I was 115 at 5’7’ for years when I modeled back in the 
day. I attracted guys, but not that much—unless I had my makeup articles, and 
hair stylist on hand, which was not often J . I quit modeling and over the 
years I gained until I I was about 135 – 140. I thought I was fat, but guys 
started stopping me on the street and trying to get my attention. I very odd 
experience. 



Something is definitively wrong. Guys like that monster Lagerfeld, should not 
be defining female beauty 





From: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com [mailto: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com ] On 
Behalf Of Adrianne Brennan 
Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 5:21 PM 
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com 
Subject: Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight? 








Okay, I'm going to give some stats here for a sake of comparison. At 5'4 at 
120 lbs, I wear a size 2--size 0 in some clothing if the hips run loose because 
my waist is significantly smaller than my hips. I am also rather small-boned. 





For someone at 5'10 to be too fat at 120 is fucking insane. I actually will 
deliberately gain weight if I go below 120 because at that point I start to 
look unhealthy. At my height, 5 lbs goes a LONG way. 



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On Wed, Oct 14, 2009 at 7:21 PM, Keith Johnson  keithbjohn...@comcast.net  
wrote: 





I don't know what's more disturbing: that they think this model in her current 
true form is overweight, or that anyone in any country in the world thought 
that doctored photo of her was either realistic or attractive. I have tried 
over and over to understand the American obsession with thin models and 
actresses. My wife always explains to me that clothing looks better when hung 
on a thin frame, since designers feel a woman's curves detract from the dress, 
and a thin woman's body doesn't do that. (she doesn't agree with the 
philosophy, but understands it). Assuming I bought that--I don't--why then do 
even actresses, who ostensibly aren't modeling clothing, get told to lose 
weight? Why are so many makeup models thin when all we should be looking at are 
their faces (the Queen Latifah's of the world notwithstanding) 

As a black man over 40, raised to think a good body was represented by the 
likes of Nichele Nichols, Chaka Khan, Pam Grier, Sophia Loren, or Racquel 
Welch, i guess I'll never understand how voluptuous can either be a dirty 
word, or applied to someone as relatively slim as Cindy Crawford or Claudia 
Schiffer. I do know it must be crazy to be a woman trying to survive in the 
fashion or movie industries as long as this skewed view of beauty persists. No 
wonder so many models are anorexic and addicted to amphetamines! 

Remember back when TV Guide grafted Oprah Winfrey's head onto Ann Margaret's 
body? Man, do we ever see anyone as they really are anymore? 

** 
http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/beauty/was-the-photoshopped-ralph-lauren-model-fired-for-being-overweight-525248/
 

Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for being overweight? 




photoshopdisasters.blogspot.com

photoshopdisasters.blogspot.com 

Last week Ralph Lauren came under fire for (what looked to be) an extremely 
altered photo of a model in one of its ads. Bloggers at the website

Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for being overweight?

2009-10-14 Thread Keith Johnson
Wow, you need to write some memoirs! I didn't know all this! 
Not to get racial here--and apologies to my white brothers (to co-opt Cornell 
West), but I notice more white men who go for the look of Angelina Jolie, 
Jennifer Anniston, Paris Hilton, etc. I know very few black or Latino men--even 
younger ones--who say they prefer really thin women. 

- Original Message - 
From: Tracey de Morsella tdli...@multiculturaladvantage.com 
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 11:37:54 PM GMT -05:00 US/Canada Eastern 
Subject: RE: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight? 









I worked as a stylist on the set a few times, as well as a model. The clothes 
do lay easier on a thinner model than a normal sized model, but the whole 
photographing process is about illusion, NOT reality. The purpose is to sell a 
lie. It is easier to make cheap poorly constructed clothes look better on them. 
I used to model in those clothing catalogs. The clothes fit horribly on all of 
us. BUT the stylist comes to the set with clothes pins and needles and makes 
them formfitting. Then they contort us in specific poses to make the clothes 
look better. Then the photographer does his thing with lighting and 
shadows……and the next thing you know, we look perfect and women are wondering 
why the clothes look better on us then them. The reality is we didn’t. It is 
false advertising. This illusion works on everyone, but best on the real skinny 
models IMO. 



Ironically, I was considered a little voluptuous at 115 and 34B at the time. 
Because of that, I got work doing bathing suits, Calvin Kline underwear and 
lingerie. I look at old pictures now, I while I do not see skinny, I do see 
slender… NOT voluptuous. I never got into the serious diet thing and I used to 
beat myself up for it. Looking back, I am relieved. 



Now on a separate issue, if you go on the boards sometimes like on imdb and you 
see the commentary by men about the female stars, I significant number like 
that skinny look. Why is Brad with Angelina, Harrison with Calista and a host 
of others. It is a specific taste that some straight men have. I’ve seen guys 
call women I think are hot, fat. On that note, they are not men I want anything 
to do with, nor do I want my daughter near them. Supposedly, these guys are 
straight. I do not know, if they have a daddy thing going on, it makes them 
feel my potent and stronger, or what, but there are men who like that. 









From: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com [mailto:scifino...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf 
Of Mr. Worf 
Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 7:42 PM 
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com 
Subject: Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight? 





Real men like curves. This sounds extremely homophobic but, most of the guys 
that do fashion like boys so I think it comes out subconsciously in their model 
choices. You choose what is attractive to you. So often they pick models that 
are completely featureless. This has been more apparent when you compare models 
of 20 years ago to the super skinny ones today. 

For example, Christie Brinkley, or Beverly Johnson would probably be considered 
too fat and too pretty now. (depending on which part of the world it is.) 


On Wed, Oct 14, 2009 at 5:44 PM, Tracey de Morsella  
tdli...@multiculturaladvantage.com  wrote: 





Here something weird, I was 115 at 5’7’ for years when I modeled back in the 
day. I attracted guys, but not that much—unless I had my makeup articles, and 
hair stylist on hand, which was not often J . I quit modeling and over the 
years I gained until I I was about 135 – 140. I thought I was fat, but guys 
started stopping me on the street and trying to get my attention. I very odd 
experience. 



Something is definitively wrong. Guys like that monster Lagerfeld, should not 
be defining female beauty 





From: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com [mailto: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com ] On 
Behalf Of Adrianne Brennan 
Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 5:21 PM 
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com 
Subject: Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight? 







Okay, I'm going to give some stats here for a sake of comparison. At 5'4 at 
120 lbs, I wear a size 2--size 0 in some clothing if the hips run loose because 
my waist is significantly smaller than my hips. I am also rather small-boned. 





For someone at 5'10 to be too fat at 120 is fucking insane. I actually will 
deliberately gain weight if I go below 120 because at that point I start to 
look unhealthy. At my height, 5 lbs goes a LONG way. 



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Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for being overweight?

2009-10-14 Thread Mr. Worf
Sometimes it depends on the guy that you hear the comments from. For
example, Howard Stern (remember him? He seems to slowly disappearing) was a
big critic. He would do beauty contests and weigh women on his show. Most
were average weight, others he would tell them that they would look hotter
if they lost 20lbs.  Most of the time I found his comments off base, but
for modeling that would be the norm.

BBC America did a show on seeking size 0. They hired two female reporters
that were already small to try to loose weight down to a size 0. I won't
give it away but it is very interesting. Check it out if you have the
opportunity.

On Wed, Oct 14, 2009 at 8:37 PM, Tracey de Morsella 
tdli...@multiculturaladvantage.com wrote:



  I worked as a stylist on the set a few times, as well as a model.  The
 clothes do lay easier on a thinner model than a normal sized model, but the
 whole photographing process is about illusion, NOT reality.   The purpose is
 to sell a lie.   It is easier to make cheap poorly constructed  clothes look
 better on them.  I used to model in those clothing catalogs.  The clothes
 fit horribly on all of us. BUT the stylist comes to the set with clothes
 pins and needles and makes them formfitting.  Then they contort us in
 specific poses to make the clothes look better.  Then the photographer  does
 his thing with lighting and shadows……and the next thing you know, we look
 perfect and women are wondering why the clothes look better on us then
 them.  The reality is we didn’t.It is false advertising.  This illusion
 works on everyone, but best on the real skinny models IMO.



 Ironically, I was considered a little voluptuous at 115 and 34B at the
 time.  Because of that, I got work doing bathing suits, Calvin Kline
 underwear and lingerie.  I look at old pictures now, I while I do not see
 skinny, I do see  slender… NOT voluptuous.   I never got into the serious
 diet thing and I used to beat myself up for it.  Looking back, I am
 relieved.



 Now on a separate issue, if you go on the boards sometimes like on imdb and
 you see the commentary by men about the female stars,  I significant number
 like that skinny look.  Why is Brad with Angelina, Harrison with Calista and
 a host of others.  It is a specific taste that some straight men have.  I’ve
 seen guys call women I think are hot, fat.  On that note, they are not men I
 want anything to do with, nor do I want my daughter near them.   Supposedly,
 these guys are straight.  I do not know, if they have a daddy thing going
 on, it makes them feel my potent and stronger, or what, but there are men
 who like that.







 *From:* scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com [mailto:scifino...@yahoogroups.com] *On
 Behalf Of *Mr. Worf
 *Sent:* Wednesday, October 14, 2009 7:42 PM
 *To:* scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com
 *Subject:* Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model
 fired for being overweight?





 Real men like curves. This sounds extremely homophobic but, most of the
 guys that do fashion like boys so I think it comes out subconsciously in
 their model choices. You choose what is attractive to you. So often they
 pick models that are completely featureless. This has been more apparent
 when you compare models of 20 years ago to the super skinny ones today.

 For example, Christie Brinkley, or Beverly Johnson would probably be
 considered too fat and too pretty now. (depending on which part of the world
 it is.)

 On Wed, Oct 14, 2009 at 5:44 PM, Tracey de Morsella 
 tdli...@multiculturaladvantage.com wrote:



 Here something weird, I was 115  at 5’7’ for years when I modeled back in
 the day. I attracted guys, but not that much—unless I had my makeup
 articles, and hair stylist on hand, which was not often  J.   I quit
 modeling and over the years I gained until I I was about 135 – 140.  I
 thought I was fat, but guys started stopping me on the street and trying to
 get my attention.  I very odd experience.



 Something is definitively wrong.  Guys like that monster Lagerfeld, should
 not be defining female beauty



 *From:* scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com [mailto:scifino...@yahoogroups.com] *On
 Behalf Of *Adrianne Brennan
 *Sent:* Wednesday, October 14, 2009 5:21 PM
 *To:* scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com

 *Subject:* Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model
 fired for being overweight?





 Okay, I'm going to give some stats here for a sake of comparison. At 5'4
 at 120 lbs, I wear a size 2--size 0 in some clothing if the hips run loose
 because my waist is significantly smaller than my hips. I am also rather
 small-boned.



 For someone at 5'10 to be too fat at 120 is fucking insane. I actually
 will deliberately gain weight if I go below 120 because at that point I
 start to look unhealthy. At my height, 5 lbs goes a LONG way.


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RE: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for being overweight?

2009-10-14 Thread Tracey de Morsella
MY DAD!  He hated that I went into it, but unlike my mom, who disowned me 
for it, and inadvertently, pushed me back in to it when I was about to give it 
up.He was smart, by supporting me and being my advocate, along with the 
fact that I looked like jail bait, he was able to protect me.  

 

At 18, when I pulled out my NYC map, and told my father I was taking the train 
from philly to nyc to do the interviews with the big agencies, instead of 
saying, no, he drove me up there and sat in the car as I went from agency to 
agency that whole first day.  

 

From then on, I was required to give him my go-see or photoshoot schedule 
everyday and call him at designated times.  He encouraged me to tell the 
people I met with that I had to call him and ask to use their phones . I 
commuted to NY from Philly for the first few years.  He had me call him every 
morning from the train station when I arrived in NY and I had to called him to 
let him know what train I was getting on when I was coming home

 

Another reason, I think I survived was because, I do not think I wanted it bad 
enough.  I wanted  to show my mother that she couldn’t control me more that I 
wanted to be famous.   Deep down, I wanted to be like her and own my own 
business.  So, when it came time to do the casting couch thing, either the men 
having a fear of my Dad, who I had to check in with several times a day, or the 
threat of not being a star not working, or me not needing a father figure, 
probably caused me to blow a huge number of casting couch “opportunities.”  

 

All my friends had boyfriends who “kept” them, I had boyfriends who could 
barely afford their car, or had to get to class.   I dated guys they were real 
smart and I liked them in my own age group.  So, my boyfriends tended not to be 
rich like most models.  They tended to be geeks.  

 

 I had a friend who I thought was gorgeous.  Around Christmas once she called 
me devastated because her boyfriend got her a nose job for Christmas she did 
not ask for nor want, nor up until then, think she needed – at least up until 
that point.  I think there was a lot of remaking going on with models and their 
“boyfriends”.  I guess I was a horrible friend, because I always told them to 
dump them and move back home.  That is not the root to stardom.  

 

What happened to Vanessa Williams with the photos, could have happened to me a 
few times. In the eighties/nineties nudity and showing pubic hair were not 
considered artistic like now.  I did underwear, sheer coverings, and other 
camoflague covering, but no nudes.   

 

Another old fart tried to molest me, but I told him I was sixteen, and my dad 
was waiting for me and would come looking and he let me go.  During the 
promotion of my rap album at a new music conference.  I caught a lot of flack 
from my producer because I would not take the pills they kept trying to give me 
“to relax.” They complained that I did not trust their judgement.  I would not 
drink any liquor, and I never drank my drink if I left it unattended whenever I 
was with them.   Again my dad, being in my ear gently guiding let me to make 
safer choices than many out there on their own.

 

A few other scary incidents occurred, but I think my system with my dad, 
protected me from getting hurt.  One guy told me I had what it took to make it 
big, but if I did not play by the rules, I would never make it beyond mediocre. 
 I do not know if I could have made it big, but I certainly would has gone much 
further than I did.  He was right about the mediocrity.  But, it was my 
decision, not someone controlling me.  Most of the people I met that did play 
by the rule(not all)  did not end up so great.  Even some who made it further 
than I did, did not end up so great.  Maintaining long term success in that 
arena is hard to achieve.  

 

Anyway, I’m s very lucky I had my dad, so I was able to come out of the 
experience with a more positive outlook than negative.  The daily grind of just 
working among the mediocre was fun and nonthreatening.

 

By the way, I think we should all want to be as hot as Sophia

 

From: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com [mailto:scifino...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf 
Of Keith Johnson
Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 8:13 PM
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight?

 






I agree, it seems to be an ugly industry. How did you survive it?

I just find the change in desire of body types interesting. Back in the 50s and 
60s, it was much more curvy women that were desired (at least, by certain 
groups' standards). I remember watching those corny beach movies with Frankie 
Avalon just so I could sneak a peek at Annette Funicello. She'd be considered 
overweight nowadays. And Sophia Loren? They'd have  her on a restrictive diet 
so fast her head would spend. My wife tells me that Jennifer Aniston was 
ordered to lose weight when she

RE: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for being overweight?

2009-10-14 Thread Tracey de Morsella
I agree with you, but I think a little push back is taking hold.  For instance, 
Scarlett Johansson, Kate Winslet, the woman on Dollhouse, that Secretary on Mad 
Men. .  Some of the female stars of TV shows are permitted to be a bit bigger 
than I believe that would have been in the past.  Examples include Medium, Rita 
Rocks, Sherry and some star of some show on lifetime who was skinny and died 
and woke up in a fat girls body. That being said, I think all it will amount to 
is tokenism.  It will never be the trend any time soon.  However, thanks to 
Monsanto, and increasingly in industrialized countries around the world, women 
are getting bigger.  So, I am noticing bigger women in commercials who would 
never be in commercials in the past.  They are possible coming to terms with a 
new bigger demographic.  That is also why women’s close sizes are getting 
smaller.  So the large number of big women will feel normal.  Hail Frankenfood! 
 What a horrible solution to Lagerfeld and Ralph Lauren

 

From: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com [mailto:scifino...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf 
Of Mr. Worf
Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 8:41 PM
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight?

 



That won't happen because the super thin women is ingrained into the minds of 
the people that control the industry. So what was considered thin is the new 
fat, and what was healthy is now the new obese. I am glad that there was a 
little bit of sanity that stopped people from going over the edge though. When 
people like Allie MacBeal and had to be hospitalized people said ok, that is 
too skinny! Skeletor's girlfriend or something.  Waking death just isn't cute 
or sexy. 

On Wed, Oct 14, 2009 at 8:25 PM, Keith Johnson keithbjohn...@comcast.net 
wrote:

 

My wife says the same thing about a little weight going a long way. She's only 
5'1, and often complains I don't get it because I'm 6'1--and a man. The funny 
thing is, this model looks better to me in shots where she's obviously gained a 
bit of weight over older shots. And to your point, I just see it as her getting 
back up to slim, not even close to fat.

A couple of years ago  I read an article about Scarlett Johannsen in one of my 
wife's magazines. The writer--a man--said that she was a pretty woman, and then 
added she works with her size. There were other words, but the guy's point 
was obviously that she was borderline too big. I remember being surprised. I'm 
still not sure how the desired female body type in America changed. When I was 
a kid it was those curvy women I mentioned. Sure, people liked Twiggy, Mary 
Tyler Moore in her capri pants was a cool thing. But men and women also sang 
the praises of the likes of Marilyn Monroe. Now it's weird. 

Maybe it's slowly changing back? At least, I've noticed that brunette actresses 
and models seem to be making a resurgence, so maybe the fuller figured women 
will come back too?




- Original Message -
From: Adrianne Brennan adrianne.bren...@gmail.com
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com

Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 8:21:11 PM GMT -05:00 US/Canada Eastern
Subject: Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired  
for being overweight?

  

Okay, I'm going to give some stats here for a sake of comparison. At 5'4 at 
120 lbs, I wear a size 2--size 0 in some clothing if the hips run loose because 
my waist is significantly smaller than my hips. I am also rather small-boned.

 

For someone at 5'10 to be too fat at 120 is fucking insane. I actually will 
deliberately gain weight if I go below 120 because at that point I start to 
look unhealthy. At my height, 5 lbs goes a LONG way.


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On Wed, Oct 14, 2009 at 7:21 PM, Keith Johnson keithbjohn...@comcast.net 
wrote:

 

I don't know what's more disturbing: that they think this model in her current 
true form is overweight, or that anyone in any country in the world thought 
that doctored photo of her was either realistic or attractive.  I have tried 
over and over to understand the American obsession with thin models and 
actresses. My wife always explains to me that clothing looks better when hung 
on a thin frame, since designers feel a  woman's curves detract from the dress, 
and a thin woman's body doesn't do that. (she doesn't agree with the 
philosophy, but understands it). Assuming I bought that--I don't--why then do 
even actresses, who ostensibly aren't modeling clothing, get told to lose 
weight? Why are so many makeup models thin when all we should be looking at are 
their faces

RE: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for being overweight?

2009-10-14 Thread Tracey de Morsella
When I was smaller, I got a lot of attention from white guys and some attention 
from Latino and Black guys.  Interestingly enough, when I gained they all came 
around in larger numbers, but a larger proportion of Black guys popped up.  

 

There were a couple of things at work.  I did not stop getting carded until 28 
or 29.  Friends called me jail bait for the longest.  At twenty six one guy 
would not date me until I showed him my drivers license.   To put it bluntly, I 
got breasts  and hips around thirty.  Those to factors had a lot to do with it. 
 Add the very tall, in shape, over-protective father and you get the picture. 

 

 Finally there is a catch 22.  Out of make-up I looked like a kid, in it, I was 
gorgeous. I am not being arrogant.  I’m amazed at how they transformed my face. 
 My face was a palette for them to recreate.   So if I left a photoshoot and 
did not take off the paint say to go to a party, most men would look but never 
come near me- unless it was an entertainment industry party.  A few guys, I got 
to know later in life told me they thought I was out of their league back then 
if they met me while made up.  So if you saw me in my twenties, you got either 
an underaged skinny kid or and unapproachable statue.   So, I met less “normal” 
guys  until I was around thirty

 

For me, Dax and Theron are as thin as I would want to go.  I think they are 
hot.  I hate it when some of the pretty normal ones turn into sticks.  Unless 
you are naturally thin, the weigh tloss looks like concentration camp victims. 
I start worrying for their mental and physical well being.  One of the worse is 
when they lose all that weight and then stick silicon breasts on those stick 
figure bodies

 

From: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com [mailto:scifino...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf 
Of Keith Johnson
Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 8:50 PM
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight?

 






Tracey, I'm not surprised at all. Just out of curiosity, was the attention you 
started getting more from black, Latino, or white guys? I'm always fascinated 
at how men of different cultures and ethnicities view beauty. The old wisdom 
was that black and Latino men definitely tend to prefer curvier women. That is 
by no means the truth all the time, but I just wonder. I notice that when my 
wife and I are out (she's very curvy, and would kill me for saying that!) she 
gets more looks from black and Mexican men. Quite a few from white men, but not 
as much. Almost always from European guys--at least, I've caught a few 
Spaniards and Italians trying to mack her in the diary case while I was around 
the corner.

The sad thing is, it's not even about slim or thin women not being attractive. 
Beauty comes in all sizes, and slim women can be as beautiful as anyone else. 
Charlize Theron is very slim, and gorgeous. Same for Rosalyn Sanchez, Terry 
Ferrell (Dax from DS9).  It's just the push to make dangerously thin women the 
standard of beauty in the fashion and movie industries that bothers me. 


- Original Message -
From: Tracey de Morsella tdli...@multiculturaladvantage.com
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 8:44:53 PM GMT -05:00 US/Canada Eastern
Subject: RE: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired 
for being overweight?

  

Here something weird, I was 115  at 5’7’ for years when I modeled back in the 
day. I attracted guys, but not that much—unless I had my makeup articles, and 
hair stylist on hand, which was not often  J.   I quit modeling and over the 
years I gained until I I was about 135 – 140.  I thought I was fat, but guys 
started stopping me on the street and trying to get my attention.  I very odd 
experience.  

 

Something is definitively wrong.  Guys like that monster Lagerfeld, should not 
be defining female beauty  

 

From: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com [mailto:scifino...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf 
Of Adrianne Brennan
Sent: Wednesday, October 14, 2009 5:21 PM
To: scifinoir2@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [scifinoir2] OT: Was the photoshopped Ralph Lauren model fired for 
being overweight?

 



Okay, I'm going to give some stats here for a sake of comparison. At 5'4 at 
120 lbs, I wear a size 2--size 0 in some clothing if the hips run loose because 
my waist is significantly smaller than my hips. I am also rather small-boned.

 

For someone at 5'10 to be too fat at 120 is fucking insane. I actually will 
deliberately gain weight if I go below 120 because at that point I start to 
look unhealthy. At my height, 5 lbs goes a LONG way.


~ Where love and magic meet ~
http://www.adriannebrennan.com
Experience the magic of the Dark Moon series: 
http://www.adriannebrennan.com/books.html#darkmoon
Dare to take The Oath in this erotic fantasy series: 
http://www.adriannebrennan.com/books.html#the_oath
The future of psychic sex - Dawn of the Seraphs (m/m