Re: [TMIC] OT My Mom
I second that emotion, Kevin! I wish your heart ease. Akua Kevin, I have been thinking of you today and sending up prayers for your eventual healing. If you need to talk---pick up the phone and call me. You and I are old time buddies and I'm always here to lend an ear or a shoulder. You're not alone. Every single one of us are here for you, anytime that you need us. Much Love, Grace --
[TMIC] OT My Mom
I am so saddened to hear of your loss. May the Lord bless and keep you and give you peace. Priscilla - Forwarded Message From: jrushton jrush...@columbiaenergyllc.com To: j ra rumc...@hotmail.com; tmic tmic-list@eskimo.com Sent: Sun, March 21, 2010 11:08:36 PM Subject: Re: [TMIC] OT My Mom Your TM family is here for you. Jeron Thank you, Jeron, for sending your note. It is so true. Jeanne
Re: [TMIC] OT My Mom
Dear Friends, I wish I could reply to you all individually, I know you will understand. I am struggling to accept the loss of my Mom. It doesn't seem real or possible. I wish she did not have to spend her last six weeks in hospitals that did nothing to help her suffering..we thought we were doing the best thing for her. On her last day, she was home with me, a hospice nurse, and an aide. I hoped she would rally..but she wanted to go. She went in her sleep. I am glad I got to tell her I loved her..many times, and hold her hand. When she was in her room, she pointed to the picture of her and my Dad on the wall..she could barely speak at this point. I now know she was telling me she wanted to be with him..and she is. Thank you all for your kind expressions of sympathy and comfort. Much Love, Kevin
Re: [TMIC] OT My Mom
*Kevin, * *I have been thinking of you today and sending up prayers for your eventual healing. If you need to talk---pick up the phone and call me. You and I are old time buddies and I'm always here to lend an ear or a shoulder. You're not alone. Every single one of us are here for you, anytime that you need us. * *Much Love, * *Grace* * *
Re: [TMIC] OT My Mom
Your TM family is here for you. Jeron Thank you, Jeron, for sending your note. It is so true. Jeanne
[TMIC] OT My Mom
My Mom passed sometime during the night Friday night. I am struggling to absorb this. At least I had a few hours with her before she passed because she was brought home from the hospital during the day Friday. I told her I loved her many times. She was in such a weakened state she could barely nod, but she knew who I was and what I was saying. I thought..hoped I'd have a little more time with her, but at least she is not suffering anymore. Thank you all for your kindness during this difficult time. It is painful. Kevin
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*Kevin, * *I am so sorry. There are no words that can ease such a loss. Please know that we are all thinking of you. * *Love, * *Grace* * *
Re: [TMIC] OT My Mom
Kevin, May the peace which comes from the memories of love shared, comfort you now and in the days ahead. May the comfort of God help you during this difficult time. Your TM family is thinking of you during this difficult time. --- On Sat, 3/20/10, Kevin Wolfthal wolft...@optonline.net wrote: From: Kevin Wolfthal wolft...@optonline.net Subject: [TMIC] OT My Mom To: tmic-list@eskimo.com tmic-list@eskimo.com Date: Saturday, March 20, 2010, 5:50 PM My Mom passed sometime during the night Friday night. I am struggling to absorb this. At least I had a few hours with her before she passed because she was brought home from the hospital during the day Friday. I told her I loved her many times. She was in such a weakened state she could barely nod, but she knew who I was and what I was saying. I thought..hoped I'd have a little more time with her, but at least she is not suffering anymore. Thank you all for your kindness during this difficult time. It is painful. Kevin
[TMIC] OT My Mom
Kevin, It looks like by bringing her home you allowed her to see that you were ok, to share time with you, and then you let her go in the quiet comfort of her own home. I'm sure this is tough! But I believe you did the right thing and as time passes you will be at peace with your loss. My thoughts continue to be with you. janh My Mom passed sometime during the night Friday night. I am struggling to absorb this. At least I had a few hours with her before she passed because she was brought home from the hospital during the day Friday. I told her I loved her many times. She was in such a weakened state she could barely nod, but she knew who I was and what I was saying. I thought..hoped I'd have a little more time with her, but at least she is not suffering anymore. Thank you all for your kindness during this difficult time. It is painful. Kevin
RE: [TMIC] OT My Mom
Your TM family is here for you. Jeron Date: Sat, 20 Mar 2010 09:27:30 -0700 From: jmh1...@sbcglobal.net Subject: [TMIC] OT My Mom To: wolft...@optonline.net; tmic-list@eskimo.com Kevin, It looks like by bringing her home you allowed her to see that you were ok, to share time with you, and then you let her go in the quiet comfort of her own home. I'm sure this is tough! But I believe you did the right thing and as time passes you will be at peace with your loss. My thoughts continue to be with you. janh My Mom passed sometime during the night Friday night. I am struggling to absorb this. At least I had a few hours with her before she passed because she was brought home from the hospital during the day Friday. I told her I loved her many times. She was in such a weakened state she could barely nod, but she knew who I was and what I was saying. I thought..hoped I'd have a little more time with her, but at least she is not suffering anymore. Thank you all for your kindness during this difficult time. It is painful. Kevin _ Hotmail: Powerful Free email with security by Microsoft. https://signup.live.com/signup.aspx?id=60969
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Kevin, I am so sorry. I lost my mom four years ago, and I know it is hard, but your situation has even more layers. I know you and your mom were each other's main support. We're here for you -- we're praying for you. Barbara H. On Sat, Mar 20, 2010 at 5:50 PM, Kevin Wolfthal wolft...@optonline.netwrote: My Mom passed sometime during the night Friday night. I am struggling to absorb this. At least I had a few hours with her before she passed because she was brought home from the hospital during the day Friday. I told her I loved her many times. She was in such a weakened state she could barely nod, but she knew who I was and what I was saying. I thought..hoped I'd have a little more time with her, but at least she is not suffering anymore. Thank you all for your kindness during this difficult time. It is painful. Kevin
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Dear Kevin, I am so sorry for your loss, I can empathize with your pain. I just lost my baby sister on the 22nd of Feb. But she did not have to die, the ER staff treated her like crap. She had a history of minor vomiting of blood from a small bleeding ulcer, plus passing blood from her bowels because of hemorrhoids. When she went in that night she told them it was much much more than usual, and that she was having mild hallucinations. So they sent her to the psyche ward with no examination, they sent he home the next day, and the next day she died. At the autopsy they found she had a pancreatic hemorrhage and was bleeding to death when she went into the ER. A simple x-ray or sonogram would have showed the blood in her abdomen, but because she is a Medicare patient well one knows how they treat us. And since it is a state owned and run hospital, they have it fixed so there is no way to sue them... Colorado is the place. Their damned prisoners get better treatment than the elderly or disabled.. I am still so mad at them; and sad at the loss: I hadn't gotten to see her in over 20 years because of our disabilities and being unable to travel. My younger brother is going through this with me, and we find solace in each other. I pray for relief for you, and may God's Shining Countenance be with you and guide you. Namaste, Bernie in Texas attachment: BPelow.vcf
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Dear Kevin, I salute you for your efforts on you mother's behalf! I am so sorry for your loss. Please be kind to yourself, treat yourself in any way you kind, be gentle to yourself. If there's any way we can help from a distance-- research, contact, don't hesitate to ask. My deepest condolences, Akua --
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Kevin, This is the other Kevin here in OhioI don't often pipe up in here but I have to say that my thoughts and prayers are with you... You and your mom had gone through some very tough times lately and she was blessed to have you there with her. You did the very best you could for her. Kevin Weilacher N.E. Ohio (Canton) My Mom passed sometime during the night Friday night. I am struggling to absorb this. At least I had a few hours with her before she passed because she was brought home from the hospital during the day Friday. I told her I loved her many times. She was in such a weakened state she could barely nod, but she knew who I was and what I was saying. I thought..hoped I'd have a little more time with her, but at least she is not suffering anymore. Thank you all for your kindness during this difficult time. It is painful. Kevin
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Kevin, I am so very sorry for the loss of your Mom. Every moment you were able to spend with her will forever be cherished. You have been a wonderful son, and your Mom always knew how much you loved her - as she loved you. As others have said, please know that we, your TM family, are here for you. Keeping you in my thoughts, Linda (Eagle, ID) - Original Message - From: Kevin Wolfthalmailto:wolft...@optonline.net To: tmic-list@eskimo.commailto:tmic-list@eskimo.com Sent: Saturday, March 20, 2010 3:50 PM Subject: [TMIC] OT My Mom My Mom passed sometime during the night Friday night. I am struggling to absorb this. At least I had a few hours with her before she passed because she was brought home from the hospital during the day Friday. I told her I loved her many times. She was in such a weakened state she could barely nod, but she knew who I was and what I was saying. I thought..hoped I'd have a little more time with her, but at least she is not suffering anymore. Thank you all for your kindness during this difficult time. It is painful. Kevin
[TMIC] OT: My mom passed away today
We just found out this evening that my mom passed away this afternoon. She had had heart and other problems for years. It seems to have been a massive heart attack, though we haven't received final word yet. There was no warning, no shortness of breath, etc. -- just suddenly she was gone.We're in the midst of figuring out travel plans to and from Texas -- it looks now like we'll be leaving Mon. afternoon and coming back Thursday or Saturday. At this point it looks like the funeral will be Wed. At this point, also, it looks like my older two sons won't be coming with us, but my youngest will be.For those who pray, I have some specific prayer requests for the next few days. If you wouldn't mind praying, e-mail me off-list and I will send themLove,Barbara
