iginal Message -----
>> From: "Zoher Kheriwala"
>> To:
>> Sent: Monday, January 02, 2012 11:28 AM
>> Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
>>
>>
>>> Hello,
>>> I have gone through all the mails on thi
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> To:
> Sent: Monday, January 02, 2012 11:28 AM
> Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
>
>
>> Hello,
>> I have gone through all the mails on this issue, here I would like to
>> express my personal view. Today everything works on s
AM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Hello,
I have gone through all the mails on this issue, here I would like to
express my personal view. Today everything works on simple law of
market that is supplier will get the price for his product as per the
demand
hi i completely agree with your argument.
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From: "Zoher Kheriwala"
To:
Sent: Monday, January 02, 2012 11:28 AM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Hello,
I have gone through all the mails on this issue, here I woul
Hi Rajesh sir,
Thanks for your email.
I was introduced to my wife by my mother and sister as I wrote in the
last paragraph of my piece. It means that they wanted me to marry the
girl of their choice but rested the final decision on me. I found that
the girl is good and will be happy with me, so I
Greetings!
Since long this discussion is a hot topic. I would like to share my experience.
I am a low vision and my problem cannot be identified very easily.
When my parents were searching for a bride for me, I use to disclose
about the visual problem to all the girls while talking to them. In
many
Hello,
I have gone through all the mails on this issue, here I would like to
express my personal view. Today everything works on simple law of
market that is supplier will get the price for his product as per the
demand for the product and quality of the same. And marriage is not an
acception for t
30, 2011 9:05 PM
To: shalini khanna; accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Dear Ma'am,
Thanks for your appreciation.
When I was confined at home and had to depend on others for my works,
I used to think that I will never mar
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> From: mahendra
> To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
> Sent: Saturday, December 10, 2011 5:28 PM
> Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'dis
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From: mahendra
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Saturday, December 10, 2011 5:28 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' befor
Hey Shadab,
I completely subscribe to your ideas.
Binni Kumari
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From: "Shadab Husain"
To:
Sent: Thursday, December 15, 2011 9:51 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Hi Pankaj sir,
Thanks a lot for your email!
gt; From: akhilesh <akhil.akhi...@gmail.com>
> Sent: Wed, 14 Dec 2011 01:47:01
> To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
> Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
> Hello Ravindra,
>
>
>
> I think Rajesh sir asked this question in reply of comments made by m
rg.in
>> [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of BHAWANI
>> SHANKAR
>> VERMA
>> Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 7:41 AM
>> To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
>> Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
>
d partner. so please be
> carefull. your sighted partner should not take advantage of your disability
> at any cost.
>
>
> - Original Message -
> From: "Ravindra Jadhav"
> To:
> Sent: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 11:04 PM
> Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing &#x
To:
Sent: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 11:04 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Dear Rajesh sir,
in most of the cases a blind partner have been cheated by their sighted
partners. whether is male or female.
Please share the sample size and the results?
Good quest
e the sample size and the results?
>>
>>
>>
>> -Original Message-
>> From: accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in
>> [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of BHAWANI
>> SHANKAR
>> VERMA
>> Sent: Sunday, December 11,
the results?
>
>
>
> -Original Message-
> From: accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in
> [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of BHAWANI SHANKAR
> VERMA
> Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 7:41 AM
> To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
> Subject: Re: [AI]
gs. In this case, it's very hard to convince them.
My
>>>> point
>>>> is, can we say that they are responsible for any future mishaps if
>>>> happens
>>>> unfortunetly? I have a strong opinian that in many cases, they are
>>>> responsible
>>>> point
>>>> is, can we say that they are responsible for any future mishaps if
>>>> happens
>>>> unfortunetly? I have a strong opinian that in many cases, they are
>>>> responsible for spoiling our life completely. Because they are h
> point
>>> is, can we say that they are responsible for any future mishaps if
>>> happens
>>> unfortunetly? I have a strong opinian that in many cases, they are
>>> responsible for spoiling our life completely. Because they are having a
>>> egoistic aproac
member should always keep himself bold and courageous and be concious
> always.
>
>
>
> - Original Message -
> From: "Rohiet A. Patil"
> To:
> Sent: Monday, December 12, 2011 11:25 PM
> Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriag
inion that a
blind member should always keep himself bold and courageous and be concious
always.
- Original Message -
From: "Rohiet A. Patil"
To:
Sent: Monday, December 12, 2011 11:25 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Bhavani
13, 2011 2:40 AM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Just a curious question - being a visually impaired, how does one
round the fire for seven times?
No offense
Thanks
On 12/13/11, akhilesh wrote:
Hello,
I'm quoting the mail below and later I will ans
thanks and best of luck sir!
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From: "akhilesh"
To:
Sent: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 2:23 AM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Hello,
I'm quoting the mail below and later I will answer and clarify the
point t
nsible for spoiling our life completely. Because they are having a
>> egoistic aproach that "humay sub samazta hai. hum tumhara nuksan nahi
>> karnay
>> jaa rahay hai." Or something like this.
>> - Original Message -
>> From: "BHAWANI SHANKAR VERMA&
. Because they are having a
> egoistic aproach that "humay sub samazta hai. hum tumhara nuksan nahi karnay
> jaa rahay hai." Or something like this.
> - Original Message -
> From: "BHAWANI SHANKAR VERMA"
> To:
> Sent: Monday, December 12, 2011
arnay
jaa rahay hai." Or something like this.
- Original Message -
From: "BHAWANI SHANKAR VERMA"
To:
Sent: Monday, December 12, 2011 7:31 AM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
you are absolutely right!
i did not say that one sho
;>> From: accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in
>>> [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Subramani L
>>> Sent: Monday, December 12, 2011 8:06 AM
>>> To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
>>> Cc: unitee-education-c...@googlegroups.com
&g
disable only.
> Normal life partner is always better.
> - Original Message -
> From: "ss sarfudeen"
> To: "accessindia"
> Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 5:09 AM
> Subject: [AI] Of disclosing 'Disability' before marriage
>
>
>&
: "ss sarfudeen"
To: "accessindia"
Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 5:09 AM
Subject: [AI] Of disclosing 'Disability' before marriage
Dear members.
I totally agree with the view expressed by Bhawani Shankar Verma
earlier about the plight of the disabled partner irresp
gt; job and position to care for ourselves.
>
>
> And yes, even I'm of the opinion that it makes more sense to prefer a
> partner who has a similar challenge,though it is not a rule.
>
> Thanks for your practical insight,
> Loving regards,
> Rishi.
> - Original M
; Sent: Monday, December 12, 2011 8:06 AM
>> To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
>> Cc: unitee-education-c...@googlegroups.com
>> Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
>>
>> Hai folks:
>>
>> Enjoyed the great discussion. I
rom: accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in
> [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Subramani L
> Sent: Monday, December 12, 2011 8:06 AM
> To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
> Cc: unitee-education-c...@googlegroups.com
> Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability&#
the opinion that it makes more sense to prefer a
partner who has a similar challenge,though it is not a rule.
Thanks for your practical insight,
Loving regards,
Rishi.
- Original Message -
From: "Subramani L"
To:
Sent: Monday, December 12, 2011 8:29 AM
Subject: Re: [AI
ccessindia@accessindia.org.in
Cc: unitee-education-c...@googlegroups.com
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Hai folks:
Enjoyed the great discussion. I feel trust and love are the two
important ingredients of a loving companionship and not eye contacts.
In fact, as someone wh
, December 11, 2011 7:41 AM
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
in most of the cases a blind partner have been cheated by their sighted
partners. whether is male or female.
- Original Message -
From: "Rohiet A. Patil"
I am afryed, there is some misunderstanding in my mail. I did'nt mean
to say that the disability should not be disclosed at all. But my
point was that, even the disability was disclosed, there is a tendency
of the society to assume that it has not been fully disclosed.
Renuka.
On 12/12/11, Subra
: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
There was a time when my mother and sister were searching a bride for
me. I had insisted to have my visual 'disability' (as others call it)
be totally disclosed. People initially
But the problem is that a partial vision person wants a sighted life
partner. This is the general mentality.
- Original Message -
From: "B. R. Nautial"
To:
Sent: Monday, December 12, 2011 8:58 AM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'Disability' before marriage
oh
not with the blind.
With Regards
B. R. Nautial
Mobile: +919915073368
- Original Message -
From: "BHAWANI SHANKAR VERMA"
To: ;
Sent: Monday, December 12, 2011 7:39 AM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'Disability' before marriage
please arrange one special accessindi
I do agree marriage or companionship is an important part of our
lives, but we shouldn't base our happiness on someone's acceptance or
rejection of us. Of course, it may make us feel disappointed or point
to our disability, but we are our own person and no one has the divine
right to hurt us that w
Hai folks:
Enjoyed the great discussion. I feel trust and love are the two
important ingredients of a loving companionship and not eye contacts.
In fact, as someone who has seen the world and living without sight
now, I feel eyes are the greatest distractions for anyone . I support
being honest an
please arrange one special accessindia convention for the purpose
smile!
- Original Message -
From: "Prashant Ranjan Verma"
To:
Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 11:34 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'Disability' before marriage
Seems like there are many
he trust is not there we
can't lead a normal married life.
RegardsJalaja
- Original Message -
From: "BHAWANI SHANKAR VERMA"
To:
Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 7:41 AM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
in most of the c
liye bohot hi aasan mamla hai. hum insay
shadi karangay aur hum puranay relation me atakay rahay to isko kya pata
chalega?".
- Original Message -
From: "Dr Jalaja"
To:
Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 8:10 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marri
but, you can partially agree with me.
- Original Message -
From: "Dr Jalaja"
To:
Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 8:10 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
I can't agree with you fully. Cheating happens even if both are sighted.
i entirely agree with you. we should not make extreme opinions. the
chemistry of a relationship is different between 2 couples--be it in
marriage or in love. so painting all with same brush is a bit unfair.
what, according to me, is most important is to keep faith in oneself
and one's own judgement
Hello Members,
Looks like we are having a great debate on this topic. Sighted or not Male or
Female for everyone matrimony is a challenging affair. There is always a quest
to find the perfect partner. Here the definition of a perfect partner is
different from person to person. Some might define
Of course! fully agree with you!
B. R. Nautial
- Original Message -
From: "Dr Jalaja"
To:
Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 8:10 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
I can't agree with you fully. Cheating happens even if both are s
http://www.daisy.org/get-involved
-Original Message-
From: accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in
[mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of tkg
Sent: 11 December 2011 21:39
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'Disability' before
e
> can't lead a normal married life.
> RegardsJalaja
> - Original Message -
> From: "BHAWANI SHANKAR VERMA"
> To:
> Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 7:41 AM
> Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
>
>
>
-
From: "Shadab Husain"
To:
Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 8:00 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'Disability' before marriage
Hi Bhawani bhai,
http://www.punemirror.in/article/62/2011091920110919183912700db7cb168/Gentle-men%E2%80%99s-club.html
A club to combat Domesti
is
think in terms ofsight not in terms of visual impairment.
krishnan.
- Original Message -
From: "Dr Jalaja"
To:
Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 8:10 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
I can't agree with you fully. Cheating
ere we
> can't lead a normal married life.
> RegardsJalaja
> - Original Message -----
> From: "BHAWANI SHANKAR VERMA"
> To:
> Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 7:41 AM
> Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
>
>
>
arangay aur hum puranay relation me atakay rahay to isko kya pata
chalega?".
- Original Message -
From: "Dr Jalaja"
To:
Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 8:10 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
I can't agree with you fully. Cheat
To:
Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 7:41 AM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
in most of the cases a blind partner have been cheated by their sighted
partners. whether is male or female.
- Original Message -
From: "Rohiet A. Patil"
To:
Se
sindia"
> Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 6:39 PM
> Subject: [AI] Of disclosing 'Disability' before marriage
>
>
>> Dear members.
>>
>> I totally agree with the view expressed by Bhawani Shankar Verma
>> earlier about the plight of the disabled part
list. some
of them having dissolved married life. secondly, in our Indian family laws,
there is no remedy for men.
thanks.
- Original Message -
From: "ss sarfudeen"
To: "accessindia"
Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 6:39 PM
Subject: [AI] Of disclosing 'Di
Dear members.
I totally agree with the view expressed by Bhawani Shankar Verma
earlier about the plight of the disabled partner irrespective of the
gender. It is in fact, worse for the VI women. Whether in love or in
marriage, the sighted person at some stage, rejects their disabled
partner. Anoth
:
Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 7:36 AM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
it is my suggestion that a disabled person should prefer a disabled
partner. the same disability should be given higher preffrence.
- Original Message -
From: "Anirban
ityAndEnglish.blogspot.com
>
>
> On 12/11/11, BHAWANI SHANKAR VERMA wrote:
>> in most of the cases a blind partner have been cheated by their sighted
>> partners. whether is male or female.
>>
>> - Original Message -
>> From: "Rohiet A. Patil"
nath"
> To:
> Cc: "B. R. Nautial"
> Sent: Saturday, December 10, 2011 10:55 PM
> Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
>
>
> I am struck!
> Let me start with congratulating Shadab, lucky indeed both the spouses.
>
> Ca
in most of the cases a blind partner have been cheated by their sighted
partners. whether is male or female.
- Original Message -
From: "Rohiet A. Patil"
To:
Sent: Saturday, December 10, 2011 11:03 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriag
in one
night.
This is equally true that the situation is more critical for the blind
women.
With Regards
B. R. Nautial
- Original Message -
From: "Sushmeetha"
To:
Sent: Saturday, December 10, 2011 7:41 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Its ea
With Regards
B. R. Nautial
- Original Message -
From: "Sushmeetha"
To:
Sent: Saturday, December 10, 2011 7:41 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Its easy for a guy to disclose & still get a wife, but its not possible
for
a lady to get a husba
?
> - Original Message -
> From: "ekinath ekinath"
> To:
> Cc: "B. R. Nautial"
> Sent: Saturday, December 10, 2011 10:55 PM
> Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
>
>
> I am struck!
> Let me start with congratulat
ange in one
night.
This is equally true that the situation is more critical for the blind
women.
With Regards
B. R. Nautial
- Original Message -
From: "Sushmeetha"
To:
Sent: Saturday, December 10, 2011 7:41 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marr
ew is to disclose in the beginning & get rejected,
>>> than
>>> disclosing later and getting divorced.
>>>
>>> Regards
>>> Sushmeetha
>>> -Original Message-
>>> From: accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in
>>> [mailt
ehalf Of Shadab Husain
> Sent: 10 December 2011 16:03
> To: accessindia; unitee-education-c...@googlegroups.com
> Subject: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
>
> Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
> There was a time when my mother and sister w
> With Regards
> B. R. Nautial
> - Original Message -
> From: "Sushmeetha"
> To:
> Sent: Saturday, December 10, 2011 7:41 PM
> Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
>
>
>> Its easy for a guy to disclose & still get a
al
> - Original Message -
> From: "Sushmeetha"
> To:
> Sent: Saturday, December 10, 2011 7:41 PM
> Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
>
>
>> Its easy for a guy to disclose & still get a wife, but its not possible
>
blind
women.
With Regards
B. R. Nautial
- Original Message -
From: "Sushmeetha"
To:
Sent: Saturday, December 10, 2011 7:41 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Its easy for a guy to disclose & still get a wife, but its not possible
for
Subject: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
There was a time when my mother and sister were searching a bride for
me. I had insisted to have my visual 'disability' (as others call it)
be totally disclosed
Dear Shadab,
Thanks for sharing this aspect of your life with us. All I can say is that God
bless you both with all the happiness life has to offer. Being a recent blind
after my seperation of 7 years of marriage has left me really emotionally upset
and also the trust in the opposite sex has go
congratulations, you did right thing, i wish you both,
all the best for your future.
give my regards and love to your butyful wife.
At 11:33 AM 12/10/2011, you wrote:
Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
There was a time when my mother and sister were searching a bride for
me. I had insis
-- Original Message -
> From: "Shadab Husain"
> To: "accessindia" ;
>
> Sent: Saturday, December 10, 2011 4:03 PM
> Subject: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
>
>
> Of disclosing ‘disability’ before marriage
> There was a time
me
I will handle this situation very easily
regards
On 12/10/11, B. R. Nautial wrote:
> Really Interesting!
> B. R. Nautial
> - Original Message -
> From: "Shadab Husain"
> To: "accessindia" ;
>
> Sent: Saturday, December 10, 2011 4:03 PM
>
Really Interesting!
B. R. Nautial
- Original Message -
From: "Shadab Husain"
To: "accessindia" ;
Sent: Saturday, December 10, 2011 4:03 PM
Subject: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Of disclosing ‘disability’ before marriage
There was a
Of disclosing ‘disability’ before marriage
There was a time when my mother and sister were searching a bride for
me. I had insisted to have my visual ‘disability’ (as others call it)
be totally disclosed. People initially showed interest and willingness
in my proposal, but the moment my Retinitis P
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