Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-26 Thread Dana
I agree. When I get back we will revisit this. On 2/25/08, Rick Root <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > On 2/22/08, Dana <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > My daughter started public school in January and got her cell phone > > taken away last week for texting in class. I am not really ok with > > that, but

Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-25 Thread Rick Root
On 2/22/08, Dana <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > My daughter started public school in January and got her cell phone > taken away last week for texting in class. I am not really ok with > that, but I can see their point. Where they lose me is that they > refuse to release the phone to me either. That'

Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-23 Thread Dana
actually, I agree with you. Tho the mayor's office is actually saying (at least to me) that the school should have returned the phone when I went in to ask for it. I On Sat, Feb 23, 2008 at 10:19 AM, Adam Churvis <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > been there done that. He laughed. At this point I have

Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-23 Thread Zaphod Beeblebrox
That reminds me of: "I drive a Dodge Stratus" On Sat, Feb 23, 2008 at 11:19 AM, Adam Churvis <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > been there done that. He laughed. At this point I have the mayor's > > office calling the superintendant's office. > > Of course he laughed. This is the only power he

RE: while I am complaining

2008-02-23 Thread Adam Churvis
> been there done that. He laughed. At this point I have the mayor's > office calling the superintendant's office. Of course he laughed. This is the only power he has in his entire life. His wife and children don't love or respect him, his charges at the school he "runs" hate him, their parents a

Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-23 Thread Dana
22, 2008 2:29 PM > To: CF-Community > > > Subject: RE: while I am complaining > > > This is just me, but I would: > > 1) Write down a complete timeline to the best of your knowledge, > > 2) Give the rundown to a television crew and ask them to show up for some

Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-23 Thread Dana
yeah see and if this had been what happened, I would be annoyed, but with her. On Fri, Feb 22, 2008 at 3:36 PM, Cameron Childress <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > I would expect a parent or guardian to have to come to the school and > get it. Makes it inconvenient for the parent and forces them to a

Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-23 Thread Dana
they are in loco parentis. But when the parent is there saying ok, I have got this, and I will deal with it and they say no we are going to parent your child ANYWAY /me rants On Fri, Feb 22, 2008 at 12:39 PM, Zaphod Beeblebrox <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > a school's got a lot more authority

Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-23 Thread Dana
been trying to file a police report for a week. The city police say it's an issue for the school police and the school police are essentially giving me the run-around. But yes, I am continuing to call them. On Fri, Feb 22, 2008 at 10:14 AM, Erika L. Walker <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > you ARE goin

Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-23 Thread Dana
but see... I currently don't HAVE the option of deciding when to give the phone back. This is my point. I actually call BS on the theory that Lara texting in class was disruptive to the class, but I also think that if you are going to whine about wanting to go to high school you need to pay attenti

Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-23 Thread Dana
been there done that. He laughed. At this point I have the mayor's office calling the superintendant's office. On Fri, Feb 22, 2008 at 10:14 AM, Crow T. Robot <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > if this were me, i'd be in the principal's office asap DEMANDING my phone > back. > > > > On Fri, Feb 22, 20

Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-22 Thread Ben Doom
re Pol Pot looking for a record-breaking body > count -- just make it happen. > > No one fucks with you, Dana. No one. Make it known. > > Respectfully, > > Adam Phillip Churvis > President > Productivity Enhancement > >> -----Original Message- >&

Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-22 Thread Cameron Childress
I would expect a parent or guardian to have to come to the school and get it. Makes it inconvenient for the parent and forces them to at least show up at the school whether they wanna be involved or not - but they should get the phone back. -Cameron G Money wrote: > To me, it seems the best a

Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-22 Thread Cameron Childress
I don't understand punishing the parent. I do understand punishing the child. In this case the school needs to understand the difference and they don't. I'd start by telling them your lawyer will be contacting them since making threats is free (as long as you are willing to back them up). T

RE: while I am complaining

2008-02-22 Thread Billy Cox
ginal Message- From: Adam Churvis [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Friday, February 22, 2008 2:29 PM To: CF-Community Subject: RE: while I am complaining This is just me, but I would: 1) Write down a complete timeline to the best of your knowledge, 2) Give the rundown to a television crew an

Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-22 Thread Zaphod Beeblebrox
I agree, confiscate it, give it back to the parent the first time. But, given that this is a public school, this may be a rampant problem and they may not have the manpower to keep up with the punishment schedule. You're also relying on there being "involved parents". I may be biased, but there w

Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-22 Thread G Money
To me, it seems the best answer is to confiscate the phone for the duration of the school day, then give it back to the kid at the end of the day. Maybe you send a note home or something so the parents know what happened, and that next time, the phone will be confiscated for a longer period, a week

Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-22 Thread G Money
count -- just make it happen. > > No one fucks with you, Dana. No one. Make it known. > > Respectfully, > > Adam Phillip Churvis > President > Productivity Enhancement > > > -----Original Message- > > From: Dana [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] > > Sent:

Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-22 Thread Zaphod Beeblebrox
yeah, if I was a school administrator I'd hate my job. On one hand you have people complaining that a schools policy is too strict (not trying to call you out Dana). On the other hand, you have people complaining that there's not enough control in the classroom and the schools needs to exert more

RE: while I am complaining

2008-02-22 Thread Adam Churvis
February 22, 2008 12:07 PM > To: CF-Community > Subject: while I am complaining > > My daughter started public school in January and got her cell phone > taken away last week for texting in class. I am not really ok with > that, but I can see their point. Where they lose me is

Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-22 Thread Robert Munn
I don't suppose you know a lawyer who would do you a favor? I have always found that problems of this nature can be easily remedied with a phone call from a lawyer. Barring that, a letter to the board is a good idea. If don't get any movement that way, you can always call your local TV station and

Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-22 Thread Loathe
Wrong, thats simply not true, a private school can do all of those things, but a public school cannot. Schools have lost those fights in the courts time and again. They can enforce community obscenity standards, require drug testing for participation for sports and groups, and define a dress co

Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-22 Thread William Bowen
Replacement at full value. Just like for insurance. > That's a good question, do you base it on what you paid for the phone or > it's actual value.. -- will "If my life weren't funny, it would just be true; and that would just be unacceptable." - Carrie Fisher

Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-22 Thread Zaphod Beeblebrox
a school's got a lot more authority than the government within it's walls. A school can dictate the length of your hair, the style of your clothesthey can curtail your freedom of speech. It's a whole different entity. On Fri, Feb 22, 2008 at 1:12 PM, G Money <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > On

RE: while I am complaining

2008-02-22 Thread Scott Stewart
PROTECTED] Sent: Friday, February 22, 2008 2:15 PM To: CF-Community Subject: Re: while I am complaining Scott Stewart wrote: > But taking property and refusing to give it back to the rightful owner isn't > legal.. When the parent asks for the phone the school is required to give it &

Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-22 Thread Ian Skinner
Scott Stewart wrote: > But taking property and refusing to give it back to the rightful owner isn't > legal.. When the parent asks for the phone the school is required to give it > back, otherwise it's petty larceny. > > Or do schools have some magic authority that makes them above the law? > >

Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-22 Thread G Money
On Fri, Feb 22, 2008 at 1:00 PM, Crow T. Robot <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > I find this entertaining...this is pretty much the government telling you > how to raise your children, then. So many ppl here, like G, hate when > government steps in and infringes on personal freedoms, yet when somethin

RE: while I am complaining

2008-02-22 Thread Scott Stewart
ColdFusion Developer SSTWebworks 4405 Oakshyre Way Raleigh, NC. 27616 (919) 874-6229 (home) (703) 220-2835 (cell) -Original Message- From: G Money [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Friday, February 22, 2008 1:58 PM To: CF-Community Subject: Re: while I am complaining Possibly. The school should

Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-22 Thread Crow T. Robot
I find this entertaining...this is pretty much the government telling you how to raise your children, then. So many ppl here, like G, hate when government steps in and infringes on personal freedoms, yet when something like this happens, it's OK? How is this different? Let me say before it gets

Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-22 Thread G Money
Possibly. The school should make it a point to inform the parents that this is the policy. Obviously, they never told Dana about this. Parents can then make a decision as to whether they think their child is responsible enough to be given a phone, especially on the parents dime. As usual, sounds

Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-22 Thread Ben Doom
If it were I, I'd call the provider and have texting disabled. --Ben "harsh response" Doom G Money wrote: > Amazing how things changemy parents would have told me that I shouldn't > have been texting in class...and I'll get my phone back whenever they decide > to give it back to me. My screw

Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-22 Thread Zaphod Beeblebrox
I imagine that policy was put in place because most parents would probably hand the phone right back to their kids the same thing would happen again. On Fri, Feb 22, 2008 at 12:49 PM, Erika L. Walker <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > I'm not talking about Dana reprimanding her child. That's a sep

Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-22 Thread Erika L. Walker
I'm not talking about Dana reprimanding her child. That's a separate topic. She's complaining about the principal not giving back Dana her property... On 2/22/08, G Money <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > Amazing how things changemy parents would have told me that I > shouldn't > have been

Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-22 Thread G Money
On Fri, Feb 22, 2008 at 11:33 AM, Crow T. Robot <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > Nobody ever said anything about her not texting in class, hell, I'm in > agreement with that. Most here probably are. It has nothing to do with > that. > > You think it's ok for the principal to impound your kid's car i

RE: while I am complaining

2008-02-22 Thread Billy Cox
y 22, 2008 11:07 AM To: CF-Community Subject: while I am complaining My daughter started public school in January and got her cell phone taken away last week for texting in class. I am not really ok with that, but I can see their point. Where they lose me is that they refuse to release the phone to

Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-22 Thread Crow T. Robot
Nobody ever said anything about her not texting in class, hell, I'm in agreement with that. Most here probably are. It has nothing to do with that. You think it's ok for the principal to impound your kid's car if they are caught speeding on school grounds? And not give it back to YOU if ask for

Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-22 Thread William Bowen
Go to the school and present them with a bill for the phone, the unused portion of the service plan (how many months left until your next renewal?), and the plan cancellation fee (after all, to get a new cell phone for your daughter, you'll probably have to cancel the current plan, right?). Tell t

Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-22 Thread Vivec
LOL! Classic :) On 22/02/2008, Zaphod Beeblebrox <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > Please change your signature if you would like to continue posting to this > list. ~| Adobe® ColdFusion® 8 software 8 is the most important and dramati

Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-22 Thread G Money
Amazing how things changemy parents would have told me that I shouldn't have been texting in class...and I'll get my phone back whenever they decide to give it back to me. My screw up, so face the consequences. On Fri, Feb 22, 2008 at 11:14 AM, Erika L. Walker <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > you

Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-22 Thread Zaphod Beeblebrox
Please change your signature if you would like to continue posting to this list. On Fri, Feb 22, 2008 at 11:07 AM, Dana <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > My daughter started public school in January and got her cell phone > taken away last week for texting in class. I am not really ok with > that, bu

Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-22 Thread Erika L. Walker
you ARE going to continue to harrass them for that property back? I mean like threaten to file charges with the police, etc? On 2/22/08, Dana <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: The principal is saying that they have a policy and that makes it ok. Methinks not. You do not just take people's property. You

RE: while I am complaining

2008-02-22 Thread Scott Stewart
) 220-2835 (cell) -Original Message- From: Dana [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Friday, February 22, 2008 12:07 PM To: CF-Community Subject: while I am complaining My daughter started public school in January and got her cell phone taken away last week for texting in class. I am not real

Re: while I am complaining

2008-02-22 Thread Crow T. Robot
if this were me, i'd be in the principal's office asap DEMANDING my phone back. On Fri, Feb 22, 2008 at 11:07 AM, Dana <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > My daughter started public school in January and got her cell phone > taken away last week for texting in class. I am not really ok with > that, but

while I am complaining

2008-02-22 Thread Dana
My daughter started public school in January and got her cell phone taken away last week for texting in class. I am not really ok with that, but I can see their point. Where they lose me is that they refuse to release the phone to me either. That's my phone, not her phone, and I am paying for cell