Oh, boy. What's a guy gonna say, huh? I spent most of the day helping 
my kids with a couple of their projects, so I wasn't here to ride herd 
on Marshalee and Debbie or the *rest* of you wiseacres. <sigh>  

As for you "ladies," I haven't had to referee as juvenile an 
altercation since my kids' ages were in single digits. <scowl!>

Understand this: It is time to stop responding *angrily* to each other. 
Done. Finished. NO MORE! Got it?

It is also time to apologize, to each other and to the rest of us for 
disturbing the peace. It's time to embrace your inner adult!

Marshalee "cast the first stone" by commenting on Deborah's grammar. 
For that sin she was accused of being "anal."

Instead of apologizing immediately for offending Debbie when her 
intentions were misinterpreted, Marsha responded equally pettishly, and 
we were off to the races.

Read this carefully:

> Dear Debbie, 
> The apostrophe shows possession, not plural, as in "the dog`s bowl" or
> "the two dogs played". OK? Sorry, I`m an English purist. The group can
> tell you all about me when I go wild over "preventive" instead of
> "preventative"!! Love ya! Marshalee 

Boy, that sure doesn't look like a deliberate personal insult to me. As 
useless as grammar and spelling comments are (And, yes, they *ARE* 
useless!), I hope everybody can see that this was not intended as an 
attack.

I know many of you haven't been here long enough to remember the 
nurturing help Marsha (as she was known at the time <wink>) has given 
to so many of our members. She's been here longer than *I* have, 
people. Though she brings her share of foibles and dramas with her, 
we've other members, just as valuable to us, who have their own 
crotchets and quirks as well -- and that we all put up with in the 
interest of our mission.

I'll boot Marshalee or Debbie just as readily as I will anybody else, 
if they're determined to make me do it. I don't want to have to exile 
either of you. *Please* do not require it of me.

For those of you who piled on in one way or another, ask yourself if 
that's how you'd like to be treated in the future when the time comes 
that *you* have screwed up?

Others of you have been making reasonably gentle fun of the situation, 
but you really need to refrain from further jests at this point to 
allow the situation to resolve.  

We've got a new member seeking out our stories and collective wisdom 
folks. Let's get back to work!

Be well,

Mike D.

[Mike Devour, Citizen, Patriot, Libertarian]
[mdev...@eskimo.com                        ]
[Speaking only for myself...               ]


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