Dear Mike,
 Well I`m feeling a lot better now, as yesterday I found a new friend on the
List, a lurker who wrote me privately to buck me up. So now I have a new
phone buddy!! She is Kay, from Virginia, and Boy, do we have a lot in
common: both from Idaho, both divorced, love animals, permanently ill, in
our fifties, grandmas, and so on. We yakked for an hour last night.
So I guess every depression has a sunrise at the end of it!
I`m also glad that the beautiful Barbaro is still with us, and maybe, just
maybe he`ll survive.
Amazes me how attached I got to some critter I`ve only seen on TV, but being
a horse lady I`m like that. (Maybe it is because he looks so much like my
horse did.)
  From now on I won`t write anymore unless someone needs my directions for
making CS, so you won`t have to get mad at me.
Love ya!!!
Marshalee




> Oh, boy. What's a guy gonna say, huh? I spent most of the day helping
> my kids with a couple of their projects, so I wasn't here to ride herd
> on Marshalee and Debbie or the *rest* of you wiseacres. <sigh>
>
> As for you "ladies," I haven't had to referee as juvenile an
> altercation since my kids' ages were in single digits. <scowl!>
>
> Understand this: It is time to stop responding *angrily* to each other.
> Done. Finished. NO MORE! Got it?
>
> It is also time to apologize, to each other and to the rest of us for
> disturbing the peace. It's time to embrace your inner adult!
>
> Marshalee "cast the first stone" by commenting on Deborah's grammar.
> For that sin she was accused of being "anal."
>
> Instead of apologizing immediately for offending Debbie when her
> intentions were misinterpreted, Marsha responded equally pettishly, and
> we were off to the races.
>
> Read this carefully:
>
> > Dear Debbie,
> > The apostrophe shows possession, not plural, as in "the dog`s bowl" or
> > "the two dogs played". OK? Sorry, I`m an English purist. The group can
> > tell you all about me when I go wild over "preventive" instead of
> > "preventative"!! Love ya! Marshalee
>
> Boy, that sure doesn't look like a deliberate personal insult to me. As
> useless as grammar and spelling comments are (And, yes, they *ARE*
> useless!), I hope everybody can see that this was not intended as an
> attack.
>
> I know many of you haven't been here long enough to remember the
> nurturing help Marsha (as she was known at the time <wink>) has given
> to so many of our members. She's been here longer than *I* have,
> people. Though she brings her share of foibles and dramas with her,
> we've other members, just as valuable to us, who have their own
> crotchets and quirks as well -- and that we all put up with in the
> interest of our mission.
>
> I'll boot Marshalee or Debbie just as readily as I will anybody else,
> if they're determined to make me do it. I don't want to have to exile
> either of you. *Please* do not require it of me.
>
> For those of you who piled on in one way or another, ask yourself if
> that's how you'd like to be treated in the future when the time comes
> that *you* have screwed up?
>
> Others of you have been making reasonably gentle fun of the situation,
> but you really need to refrain from further jests at this point to
> allow the situation to resolve.
>
> We've got a new member seeking out our stories and collective wisdom
> folks. Let's get back to work!
>
> Be well,
>
> Mike D.
>


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