I am going to go out on a limb and guess that if you talked to the parents they would give you a whole slew of reasons why he wants her dead.
On Thursday, October 16, 2003, at 02:55 PM, Jen -- wrote:
Dont you guys think that her husband would be more likely than anyone else
to know how she would feel about this and what she would want done ?
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Lets not forget that this woman did *not* have a living will...
On Thursday, October 16, 2003, at 06:47 AM, Angela wrote:
That's what my husband is afraid would happen in my case. He knows my
wishes
but I constantly have to make them known to my family b/c they are the
type
that would come in and try to overrule his decision, which is actually
my
decision.
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To me part of being married is getting along with the spouses family... or at least having some respect.
<<Charles>> This I agree with. I think that the husband and the parents should be able to come to an agreement.
I can not see over ruling the woman's parents on this matter. I think it is in very poor taste and quite cruel... JMO.
<<Charles>> I can see over ruling the parents. Because the husband
is the
next of kin. As I stated before, if my wife made the hard decision to
take
me off life support there is no way I would want my mother to be able
to
come and reverse that decision. When I got married I left her house
for
good, and my wife became my closest relative. While I agree with you
that
the husband should take their feelings into account, the decision must
always remain with the spouse.
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