Maybe. My aunt was in a coma for 20 years. Her husband eventually remarried, yet was at the hospital every single day even after. He still loved her. Was he wrong to divorce my aunt and remarry? Some in the family say so, but there comes a time when someone's life may have to go on.
Charles Mims http://www.the-sandbox.org -----Original Message----- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Greg Hopper Sent: Thursday, October 16, 2003 2:55 PM To: The Sandbox Discussion List Subject: Re: [Sndbox] Right to Die The girlfriend listed in the article would be top of the list I bet...... ----- Original Message ----- From: "Tim Harder" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: "The Sandbox Discussion List" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Sent: Thursday, October 16, 2003 1:27 PM Subject: Re: [Sndbox] Right to Die > > > I am going to go out on a limb and guess that if you talked to the > parents they would give you a whole slew of reasons why he wants her > dead. > > > > On Thursday, October 16, 2003, at 02:55 PM, Jen -- wrote: > > > Dont you guys think that her husband would be more likely than > > anyone else to know how she would feel about this and what she would > > want done ? > > > > ----- Original Message ----- > > From: "Tim Harder" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > > To: "The Sandbox Discussion List" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > > Sent: Thursday, October 16, 2003 7:40 AM > > Subject: Re: [Sndbox] Right to Die > > > > > >> > >> > >> > >> Lets not forget that this woman did *not* have a living will... > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> On Thursday, October 16, 2003, at 06:47 AM, Angela wrote: > >> > >>> That's what my husband is afraid would happen in my case. He knows my > >>> wishes > >>> but I constantly have to make them known to my family b/c they are > >>> the > >>> type > >>> that would come in and try to overrule his decision, which is > >>> actually > >>> my > >>> decision. > >>> > >>> -----Original Message----- > >>> From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] > >>> [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Behalf Of Charles > >>> Sent: Thursday, October 16, 2003 7:11 AM > >>> To: 'The Sandbox Discussion List' > >>> Subject: RE: [Sndbox] Right to Die > >>> > >>> > >>> > >>> From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] > >>> [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] > >>> On Behalf Of Tim Harder > >>> > >>> > >>> To me part of being married is getting along with the spouses > >>> family... or > >>> at least having some respect. > >>> > >>> <<Charles>> This I agree with. I think that the husband and the > >>> parents > >>> should be able to come to an agreement. > >>> > >>> I can not see over ruling the woman's parents on this matter. > >>> I think it is in very poor taste and quite cruel... JMO. > >>> > >>> <<Charles>> I can see over ruling the parents. Because the husband > >>> is the > >>> next of kin. As I stated before, if my wife made the hard decision > >>> to > >>> take > >>> me off life support there is no way I would want my mother to be able > >>> to > >>> come and reverse that decision. When I got married I left her house > >>> for > >>> good, and my wife became my closest relative. While I agree with you > >>> that > >>> the husband should take their feelings into account, the decision > >>> must > >>> always remain with the spouse. > >>> > >>> > >>> > >>> > >>> ________________________________ > >>> > >>> Changes to your subscription (unsubs, nomail, digest) can be made by > >>> going > >>> to http://sandboxmail.net/mailman/listinfo/sndbox_sandboxmail.net > >>> > >>> > >>> > >>> ________________________________ > >>> > >>> Changes to your subscription (unsubs, nomail, digest) can be made by > >>> going to > > > http://sandboxmail.net/mailman/listinfo/sndbox_sandboxmail.net > >>> > >> > >> > >> ________________________________ > >> > >> Changes to your subscription (unsubs, nomail, digest) can be made by > >> going > > to http://sandboxmail.net/mailman/listinfo/sndbox_sandboxmail.net > >> > > > > > > > > ________________________________ > > > > Changes to your subscription (unsubs, nomail, digest) can be made by > > going to > http://sandboxmail.net/mailman/listinfo/sndbox_sandboxmail.net > > > > > ________________________________ > > Changes to your subscription (unsubs, nomail, digest) can be made by going to http://sandboxmail.net/mailman/listinfo/sndbox_sandboxmail.net ________________________________ Changes to your subscription (unsubs, nomail, digest) can be made by going to http://sandboxmail.net/mailman/listinfo/sndbox_sandboxmail.net ________________________________ Changes to your subscription (unsubs, nomail, digest) can be made by going to http://sandboxmail.net/mailman/listinfo/sndbox_sandboxmail.net