Other than sackcloth and ashes, what form should their repentance take?  They have never apologized to their ex-spouses for destroying their families, and still speak evil of them at every opportunity.  It seems like a hopeless situation, but surely God could help them repent.  If they did truly repent, would God call them to separate?  There are indeed so many couples in the church today that remain in marriages that are, in fact, adulteries.  But if they truly repent must they also be single the rest of their lives? And what about anyone who ever had sexual relations prior to their current marriage?  And, as DM said, Torah forbids reuniting with an “unclean” spouse.  It’s a difficult situation.  iz

 


From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Terry Clifton
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Mornin' Iz.  As I see it, these two are lying to themselves. To repent means to turn and go in another direction.  When Jesus, Peter, Paul, John and others called sinners to repentance, they were calling for a 180 turn, from sin, to Christ.  From living for self, to living for Him.  These people, if they still have sexual relations, are still in adultery and still in their sins, still living for self.  There is no forgivness that allows  continual living in rebellion to God's commands.  My advice would be for them to get out the sack cloth and ashes.

You will not hear this much from the pulpit these days.  The pastor who preaches this will be gone and the adulterers will still be a substantial part of the congregation.
Terry
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Okay, add to Terry’s original scenario the fact that the couple that realized that they were living in adultery had actually been “Christians” prior to their adultery with each other.  They then each divorced their spouses because they were “in love”.  They now have a child between them, as well as their children from their previous marriages.  But now they claim that they have repented and are forgiven.  What is your advice to them? izzy

 

 


 

 
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From: Terry Clifton <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
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Sent: Sat, 05 Nov 2005 13:08:55 -0600
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Both you and JD seem to think that these two should stay in their adulterous relationship.  I want to say the same thing, for the benefit of the children if for no other reason.  Fact is though, that I cannot reconcile that line of reasoning with God's word.

John, the baptizer lost his head for condemning the same situation between Herod and Herodious.  If it is wrong for Mr. and Mrs. Herod, it is wrong for Mr. and Mrs. Verage. When John said," You cannot have her", the message is that God will not approve of people living in adultery.  I can find no exception in the new testament.  Could either of you do more to justify your position?  I would also like to hear the thinking of Bill and David M. on this.
Terry



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Date: 11/5/2005 8:47:47 AM
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cd: Tell me more about this adulterous relationship? Thanks.
    
cd: I understand now-I had read the letter as the young ones are in the
adulterous relationship. I am going to step out on a limb and say let a
person remain in the state in which they were called and hope I am not
going beyond Paul's teachings.If you are called married stay married. The
sin was in breaking the first covenant with the husband-once abandoned they
are free to marry only in the Lord.Confess that sin and go on with life. 
  
    
[Original Message]
From: Terry Clifton <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
To: TruthTalk@mail.innglory.org <TruthTalk@mail.innglory.org>
Date: 11/4/2005 10:41:13 PM
Subject: [TruthTalk] What counsel would you offer?
 
 
I have run into the following situation at least twice.  Some of you 
probably have too.  Here it is.
 
Sally was cheer leader in high school.  If you were to choose a mate 
strictly on physical appearance, she would be right up there among the 
top five.  Billy was the typical small town football hero.  Billy went 
for Sally because of her looks.  Sally went for Billy because he was 
somebody, a big duck in a little puddle.  They married right out of
      
high 
  
school.
Billy was a big guy in a small town, but when the college coaches went 
shopping for recruits, they did not stop in Billy's town.  No 
scholarship, not even an offer.  Billy ended up driving the town
      
garbage 
  
truck.  The marriage lasted a little over a year.  Sally felt cheated.  
She deserved better, so she filed for a no fault divorce.
 
The following spring she met Joe A. Verage.  Joe was the son of the 
owner of the local super market.  Joe, in fact, was manager of the 
market, making a good salary, and sure to inherit the business when the 
old man passed on.  In time, Joe and Sally were married, and in more 
time they had a couple of kids.  About the time the first kid turned 
nine, they went to a Billy Graham crusade and were saved.  They started 
attending church, then started attending Sunday school and everything 
went well for a couple of more years, then they started reading the 
Bible.  Eventually they discovered that they seemed to be living living 
in an adulterous relationship.
This bothered them a lot, and so they asked the pastor to tell them
      
what 
  
to do about this.
 
You are the pastor.  What do you tell them?
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