All my internet is public cause I’m tryin to get globally famous. Tell your friends. I don’t need to talk to you about rape culture, bro. I need to be able to talk about music in a safe environment, which this ain’t. I’m thankful for social networks.
Read on. On Tue, Jun 30, 2020 at 8:26 PM Mario De Block <madb...@hotmail.com> wrote: > the moment you blocked me, was after I confronted you with having crossed > a line with you openly suggesting we'd be supporting rape culture here. > This, to me, is an example of an unhealthy proposition. > > You blocked me, instead of getting into a worthy, adultered discussion, to > clear out on things. I wrote you back, later on, to try and clarify I'm not > into rape culture, in any slightest sense. Not any atom in my body would > think about raping anyone. > Still, this did not change your attitude. > > Why explicitly supposing we'd support rape culture? > > Your public Twitter rants of late (all dated June 25th for some reason) > state this 313 list is much too full of racists and sexists. > > That's another form of projecting - beyond boundaries, again. > > > Mario > ------------------------------ > *Van:* Denise Dalphond <denisedalph...@gmail.com> > *Verzonden:* woensdag 1 juli 2020 2:17 > *Aan:* Mario De Block <madb...@hotmail.com> > *CC:* Kevin Kennedy <the...@gmail.com>; list 313 <313@hyperreal.org> > *Onderwerp:* Re: FW: What this list is and isn't about > > Not after I’ve been called names and silenced over and over again. If I > had to block you, then you have problems. Mario, I’m writing this from my > spam folder as I blocked you a long time ago, as well. > > On Tue, Jun 30, 2020 at 8:14 PM Mario De Block <madb...@hotmail.com> > wrote: > > Kent proposed that, indeed. > Later on, you wrote: Take me off the list. > > Being able to be compassionate still requires some form of equivalency in > communication, in leaving equal space for anyone involved. It requires > being able to be vulnerable, too, and showing this, as to be honest if and > where sensitive spots are touched. It requires everyone involved to want to > bridge eventual differences in any relevant sense, with no structural > haughtiness -nor fixed minority complex- from anyone's side, as this would > complicate a healthy exchange. It requires well-conscious and > self-conscious communication between people. > > > My writing aimed at anyone interested and open to it, regardless of > gender. > > Mario > > > ------------------------------ > *Van:* Denise Dalphond <denisedalph...@gmail.com> > *Verzonden:* woensdag 1 juli 2020 2:01 > *Aan:* Kevin Kennedy <the...@gmail.com> > *CC:* list 313 <313@hyperreal.org> > *Onderwerp:* Re: FW: What this list is and isn't about > > Kent said he was gonna unsubscribe me. He didn’t. Still waiting on that to > happen. > > I expect people to be compassionate, but you shouldn’t have expectations. > > I’m tired of being tone policed, especially when no men are being told how > to speak. > > -- > Denise Dalphond, Ph. D. > ethnomusicologist > schoolcraftwax.work > > -- > Denise Dalphond, Ph. D. > ethnomusicologist > schoolcraftwax.work > -- Denise Dalphond, Ph. D. ethnomusicologist schoolcraftwax.work
