the moment you blocked me, was after I confronted you with having crossed a line with you openly suggesting we'd be supporting rape culture here. This, to me, is an example of an unhealthy proposition.
You blocked me, instead of getting into a worthy, adultered discussion, to clear out on things. I wrote you back, later on, to try and clarify I'm not into rape culture, in any slightest sense. Not any atom in my body would think about raping anyone. Still, this did not change your attitude. Why explicitly supposing we'd support rape culture? Your public Twitter rants of late (all dated June 25th for some reason) state this 313 list is much too full of racists and sexists. That's another form of projecting - beyond boundaries, again. Mario ________________________________ Van: Denise Dalphond <denisedalph...@gmail.com> Verzonden: woensdag 1 juli 2020 2:17 Aan: Mario De Block <madb...@hotmail.com> CC: Kevin Kennedy <the...@gmail.com>; list 313 <313@hyperreal.org> Onderwerp: Re: FW: What this list is and isn't about Not after I’ve been called names and silenced over and over again. If I had to block you, then you have problems. Mario, I’m writing this from my spam folder as I blocked you a long time ago, as well. On Tue, Jun 30, 2020 at 8:14 PM Mario De Block <madb...@hotmail.com<mailto:madb...@hotmail.com>> wrote: Kent proposed that, indeed. Later on, you wrote: Take me off the list. Being able to be compassionate still requires some form of equivalency in communication, in leaving equal space for anyone involved. It requires being able to be vulnerable, too, and showing this, as to be honest if and where sensitive spots are touched. It requires everyone involved to want to bridge eventual differences in any relevant sense, with no structural haughtiness -nor fixed minority complex- from anyone's side, as this would complicate a healthy exchange. It requires well-conscious and self-conscious communication between people. My writing aimed at anyone interested and open to it, regardless of gender. Mario ________________________________ Van: Denise Dalphond <denisedalph...@gmail.com> Verzonden: woensdag 1 juli 2020 2:01 Aan: Kevin Kennedy <the...@gmail.com> CC: list 313 <313@hyperreal.org> Onderwerp: Re: FW: What this list is and isn't about Kent said he was gonna unsubscribe me. He didn’t. Still waiting on that to happen. I expect people to be compassionate, but you shouldn’t have expectations. I’m tired of being tone policed, especially when no men are being told how to speak. -- Denise Dalphond, Ph. D. ethnomusicologist schoolcraftwax.work -- Denise Dalphond, Ph. D. ethnomusicologist schoolcraftwax.work<http://schoolcraftwax.work>
