It is nice. I didn’t send out the friend requests. All those people found me. Many of them studied at Oxford University. I don’t know what that’s about, although I am published through Oxford University Press. About Detroit techno.
R U trying 2 say it’s very techno of me that I have all those friends? I’m not really inviting you, Mario, 2 “connect.” I don’t hang out with ppl that is into rape culture. It’s to anyone on this list who wants to read my shit. How many ppl R on this list? More than a thousand? Maybe. That’s a lot of ppl that may be into what I write. On Tue, Jun 30, 2020 at 9:35 PM Mario De Block <madb...@hotmail.com> wrote: > that's an amazing, even interstellar increase in fb 'friends' you have, > recently, as far as I know... Can one buy friends, on a way to 'global > fame'? > > Anyway: why should I connect/follow up so closely on someone who's blocked > me mailwise? I'm not cynical or lacking enough self-respect for that, I > think. I'm open for wise, healthy contacts that feel safe and warm enough, > and are mutually learnful and stimulating, personally. Yet, I do browse > sometimes. One may find interesting stuff some time. The visit on Twitter > was learnful on how you look upon the 313 list and many of its members. I > don't feel included in all that. > > M. > ------------------------------ > *Van:* Denise Dalphond <denisedalph...@gmail.com> > *Verzonden:* woensdag 1 juli 2020 3:20 > *Aan:* Mario De Block <madb...@hotmail.com>; 313@hyperreal.org < > 313@hyperreal.org> > *Onderwerp:* Re: What this list is and isn't about > > > Here's my IG: https://www.instagram.com/schoolcraftwax > > And here's my FB: https://www.facebook.com/dalphond > > I'm maxed out on FB friends, but everything is public. You don't miss out > on anything if we can't be friends. > > I try to be a public educator on the internet. > > > *Denise Dalphond, Ph.D.* > *ethnomusicologist* > *schoolcraftwax.work* > > > On Tue, Jun 30, 2020 at 9:11 PM Mario De Block <madb...@hotmail.com> > wrote: > > > don't try to tell me having problems here, then - it's you yourself having > blocked > me, with no reasoning. Especially not after my second mail. I didn't > invite you on talking about rape culture. I only indicated it was an unjust > suggestive point you tried to make. > > By the way, I nuanced what you didn't yourself. You tweeted, for instance: > > the 313 listserv is a place where racists & sexists thrive. > > the 313 Detroit techno listserv is a place where whitesplaining is the > name of the game. & if you don't whitesplain & don't support the > whitesplainers full tilt, you're villainous. > > techno and toxic whiteness are BFF. boyfriends 4ever. > > the 313 listserv is a place where mostly elderly white men will tell you who > to listen to and who to like and what to think about it. > > on the 313 Detroit techno listserv, i'm accused, by kent williams, the elderly > white man moderator, of making the list a shadow of what it used 2B. it's > been dead [Skull] 4 years. boring AF. it's a shadow of its own death. > > > I mean... The 313 list might better be (passively or actively) supported > by its members, instead of openly accused of such behaviour, right? > > What do the other members think of this? > > I'm quite sure that anyone who's able to communicate constructively or at > least > neutrally in an interpersonal sense (which is simply due as long as anyone > doesn't cross lines with someone else), is welcome here. Of whatever > nationality, > age, being a he/she/they, and with any possible skin colour or religion. > As long as the love for Detroit and its culture is a structural link. > And whoever crosses lines in whatever sense to anyone, should be able (or > brave > enough) to be confronted with that, get into a righteous exchange, and take > any eventual apt message, to get straight with facts and people. They > should not be blocked or unsubbed necessarily, but anyone in such interaction > should be or feel invited to get into fair overthinking and conclusion, based > on healthy exchange - with anyone being free of personal conclusion, but > not free of interpersonal respect. Unless anything bad will take over and > gets installed. A forum only exists by grace of anyone's constructive b > ehaviour. > > This, at least, is my way of looking upon this. > > Mario > ------------------------------ > *Van:* Denise Dalphond <denisedalph...@gmail.com> > *Verzonden:* woensdag 1 juli 2020 2:37 > *Aan:* Mario De Block <madb...@hotmail.com> > *CC:* Kevin Kennedy <the...@gmail.com>; list 313 <313@hyperreal.org> > *Onderwerp:* Re: FW: What this list is and isn't about > > All my internet is public cause I’m tryin to get globally famous. Tell > your friends. I don’t need to talk to you about rape culture, bro. I need > to be able to talk about music in a safe environment, which this ain’t. I’m > thankful for social networks. > > Read on. > > > -- Denise Dalphond, Ph. D. ethnomusicologist schoolcraftwax.work
