Hi Salman, Mr. Bhavani's advise is correct. At this juncture you need a rehabilitation and counseling. There is no better place than All India confederation of the blind in Delhi for such type of cases. Take six months break from your home and come to Delhi.
It is better to be with professionals who are trained to deal with such type of cases. We can give you lot of pep talk, but that would not provide the type of help and support you need. Rest upto you. Phone number for All india confederation of the Blind Delhi: 011 27054082 Thanks and happy life a head!!! On 2/25/13, Dr. Salim qureshi <salim2...@gmail.com> wrote: > friend, you have to change your thinking of not using stick, because > stick is life for us. > > On 2/25/13, Salman Raafay <salmanraa...@gmail.com> wrote: >> @Kannan, thanx for your advice. I have now decided that I will only >> concentrate upon the things which I can do now with my disability >> rather then what I can not do on the account of my visual impairment, >> as I am usually confronted with the comparison between me and a >> sighted person. >> @Swati, I am learning mobility but using stick is not possible for me >> due to social stigma attached to it, at my place people are no so >> cultured and highly educated and they will talk about me awkwardly. >> >> On 2/24/13, Swati Sinha <swatisinh...@gmail.com> wrote: >>> Dear Salman, >>> Don't you know mobility? >>> If really not, do learn it. This will help you in your entire life. >>> >>> Regards! >>> Swati M Sharma >>> when things don't seem to be going your way, always know that God has a >>> plan >>> >>> for you. If you place your trust in Him, He will give you great gifts. >>> We >>> don't always know what God's plans are for us. We just know that His >>> ways >>> are not our ways, but His ways are always best! >>> ----- Original Message ----- >>> From: "Salman Raafay" <salmanraa...@gmail.com> >>> To: <accessindia@accessindia.org.in> >>> Sent: Saturday, February 23, 2013 9:51 AM >>> Subject: Re: [AI] I am in great depression, I have RP of advanced stage >>> >>> >>>> Thanx for all for boosting my morale, I am trying to heave it. The >>>> problem with me is that publicly I had not declared that I am going to >>>> be a totally blind person in future, i don't want to be dependent upon >>>> others. I always imagine, if i had full vision, i had acted in that >>>> particular manner, such as driving bike, playing cricket match! etc. >>>> While studying on computer i think If i would have been a sighted >>>> person, i had been reading through printed books... >>>> My worrey is that many people give all kind of supports and help to >>>> their parants such as to do various work of house hold, to do shopping >>>> for home appliances, to perchase different articles and to bring >>>> necessary itoms for daily home use, I have no other mail member at my >>>> home except my father and I am unable to shopping presently therefore >>>> my father has to go to perchase even the vegetables. I can not cross >>>> the roads alone this time and I have high risk of accedent on the >>>> road. I have fear that I can loose my life at any time by an accedent. >>>> If I have to do any work such as filling the form, depositing the >>>> electricity bill, eather I have to take help of another person or my >>>> father does it. Last month I had wedding of my sister, in that for >>>> distributing invitations my father covered all task including other. >>>> friends u tell me how many worries, how to console my ailment? >>>> I am day by day becoming a silant person, I don't have any interest in >>>> talking the people on any issue. >>>> >>>> On 2/23/13, umair ijaz <umairthescho...@gmail.com> wrote: >>>>> i am also RP sufferer. i lost my sight from six by six to about zero >>>>> by six. with the grace of Allah, i am still happy . salman dear i >>>>> always think one thing and always this fact gives me comfort that, >>>>> many people are by birth blind. they even dont know how things appear >>>>> . they have only blind perception, people like me and you who have >>>>> seen the world, feel pain that they would no longer be able to see >>>>> things and will become dependent etc. but dear one thing keep in mind, >>>>> i always thank God that he at least gave me some years to see things >>>>> and to see different colours etc. so there is no need to be depressed. >>>>> your life will be a bit changed . your routines etc but you will >>>>> notice after some days that nothing has done, everything is normal >>>>> like before. and really liked tripple a philosophy of mukesh sir, yes >>>>> follow this. face your deficiency and acknowledge them but dont let >>>>> them master you. >>>>> >>>>> On 2/22/13, Avichal Bhatnagar <coolavic...@gmail.com> wrote: >>>>>> Hi Salman, >>>>>> RP treatment is available through acupuncture therapy in India! >>>>>> go to >>>>>> http://www.microsystemacupuncture.in >>>>>> >>>>>> On 2/22/13, Kannan. C <kankal...@gmail.com> wrote: >>>>>>> Hello Salmon, add me also to your list of people. >>>>>>> I'll definitely assist you in your laggings! >>>>>>> >>>>>>> >>>>>>> With care and regards, >>>>>>> >>>>>>> Kannan ... >>>>>>> >>>>>>> Skype: kankale63 >>>>>>> >>>>>>> On 2/22/2013 8:27 PM, Jaan Ali wrote: >>>>>>>> hi dear salman add me on skype my skype id is >>>>>>>> jaan.ali >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> -----Original Message----- From: Amiyo Biswas >>>>>>>> Sent: Friday, February 22, 2013 1:49 PM >>>>>>>> To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in >>>>>>>> Subject: Re: [AI] I am in great depression, I have RP of advanced >>>>>>>> stage >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> hello Salman, >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> Why so depressed? Take things easy. We are all like you. Talk to >>>>>>>> your >>>>>>>> nearest visually impaired person. Better try to mix with friends >>>>>>>> like >>>>>>>> you. >>>>>>>> You won't feel depressed in their company. If it does not solve >>>>>>>> your >>>>>>>> problem, consult a counsellor. Above all, stay on the list and you >>>>>>>> will >>>>>>>> always find friends. We have to acept our lot. >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> With best regards, >>>>>>>> Amiyo Biswas >>>>>>>> Cell: +91-9433464329 >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> ----- Original Message ----- From: "Salman Raafay" >>>>>>>> <salmanraa...@gmail.com> >>>>>>>> To: "accessindia" <accessindia@accessindia.org.in> >>>>>>>> Sent: Friday, February 22, 2013 1:55 PM >>>>>>>> Subject: [AI] I am in great depression, I have RP of advanced stage >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> Hi friends I had checkup of my eyes day before yesterday because I >>>>>>>>> am >>>>>>>>> gradually losing my remaining sight, before two years I could >>>>>>>>> drive >>>>>>>>> bycecle but presently I have difficulty while moving on the road. >>>>>>>>> I >>>>>>>>> was told by the doctor that I have RP of advanced stage and there >>>>>>>>> is >>>>>>>>> no possibility of restoring the vision in future, rather then >>>>>>>>> there >>>>>>>>> is >>>>>>>>> no way to stabilize this decreasing vision. >>>>>>>>> I am going through extensive depression and no hope is there me in >>>>>>>>> my >>>>>>>>> future. friends tell me how will i live in this condition. My >>>>>>>>> parants >>>>>>>>> are annoyingly distressed of my condition which is aggravating my >>>>>>>>> ailment. >>>>>>>>> I am crying most of the time upon my condition and losing >>>>>>>>> confidence >>>>>>>>> in my studies and I am avoiding meeting with friends, people and >>>>>>>>> other >>>>>>>>> gathering. >>>>>>>>> what should i do friends, I am 27 years old. >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing >>>>>>>>> accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: >>>>>>>>> http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> Search for old postings at: >>>>>>>>> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> To unsubscribe send a message to >>>>>>>>> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >>>>>>>>> with the subject unsubscribe. >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other >>>>>>>>> changes, >>>>>>>>> please visit the list home page at >>>>>>>>> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing >>>>>>>> accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: >>>>>>>> http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> Search for old postings at: >>>>>>>> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> To unsubscribe send a message to >>>>>>>> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >>>>>>>> with the subject unsubscribe. >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other >>>>>>>> changes, >>>>>>>> please visit the list home page at >>>>>>>> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> When your work speaks for itself, don't interrupt. >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> with best regards >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> jaan ali >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> rj and media manager of fm karachi >>>>>>>> www.fmkarachi.com >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> skype: >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> jaan.ali >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> facebook fan page: >>>>>>>> www.facebook.com/djjanali >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> follow me on twitter! >>>>>>>> www.twitter.com/jaanali66 >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing >>>>>>>> accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: >>>>>>>> http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> Search for old postings at: >>>>>>>> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> To unsubscribe send a message to >>>>>>>> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >>>>>>>> with the subject unsubscribe. >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other >>>>>>>> changes, >>>>>>>> please visit the list home page at >>>>>>>> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>>>>>>> >>>>>>> >>>>>>> >>>>>>> Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing >>>>>>> accessibility >>>>>>> of >>>>>>> mobile phones / Tabs on: >>>>>>> http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>>>>>> >>>>>>> >>>>>>> Search for old postings at: >>>>>>> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >>>>>>> >>>>>>> To unsubscribe send a message to >>>>>>> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >>>>>>> with the subject unsubscribe. >>>>>>> >>>>>>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other >>>>>>> changes, >>>>>>> please >>>>>>> visit the list home page at >>>>>>> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>>>>>> >>>>>>> >>>>>> >>>>>> >>>>>> -- >>>>>> Avichal bhatnagar >>>>>> >>>>>> Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing >>>>>> accessibility >>>>>> of >>>>>> mobile phones / Tabs on: >>>>>> http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>>>>> >>>>>> >>>>>> Search for old postings at: >>>>>> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >>>>>> >>>>>> To unsubscribe send a message to >>>>>> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >>>>>> with the subject unsubscribe. >>>>>> >>>>>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >>>>>> please >>>>>> visit the list home page at >>>>>> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>>>>> >>>>>> >>>>> >>>>> >>>>> -- >>>>> (Doctor Umair, Terrorist for Terrorists) >>>>> >>>>> Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing >>>>> accessibility >>>>> of >>>>> mobile phones / Tabs on: >>>>> http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>>>> >>>>> >>>>> Search for old postings at: >>>>> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >>>>> >>>>> To unsubscribe send a message to >>>>> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >>>>> with the subject unsubscribe. >>>>> >>>>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >>>>> please >>>>> visit the list home page at >>>>> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>>>> >>>>> >>>> >>>> Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility >>>> of >>>> >>>> mobile phones / Tabs on: >>>> http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>>> >>>> >>>> Search for old postings at: >>>> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >>>> >>>> To unsubscribe send a message to >>>> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >>>> with the subject unsubscribe. >>>> >>>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >>>> please visit the list home page at >>>> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>>> >>> >>> >>> Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility >>> of >>> mobile phones / Tabs on: >>> http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>> >>> >>> Search for old postings at: >>> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >>> >>> To unsubscribe send a message to >>> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >>> with the subject unsubscribe. >>> >>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >>> please >>> visit the list home page at >>> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>> >>> >> >> Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility >> of >> mobile phones / Tabs on: >> http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in >> >> >> Search for old postings at: >> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >> >> To unsubscribe send a message to >> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >> with the subject unsubscribe. >> >> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >> please >> visit the list home page at >> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >> >> > > > -- > if > you can dreem it,you can do it. 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