kid. My brother went through a nasty divorce. Just recently, his ex was
able to get an order from a judge barring him from seeing the children at
all because of the emotional harm he might do. It's very interesting since
she's the one who wanted the divorce,had an affair, and moved her boyfriend
in before the divorce was final.
It can be an very unfair system to deal with. My brother hasn't seen his
boys for over a year now. When the divorce first went through, he had the
boys every other weekend. Then it went to supervised visits and now no
visits at all. He had moved out of the state previous to the last order, so
it's hard to figure out how they can justify the order.
Count yourself lucky. :)
--
marlon
"And Bobby you are right, I am being selfish, but the last time I checked,
we don't have a whole lot of songs that feature the cowbell!"
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Michael Dinowitz [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> Sent: Tuesday, March 02, 2004 2:15 PM
> To: CF-Community
> Subject: Re: Child Support.....
>
> It's a general failure of the legal system where they still think women
> can't work or exist on their own and need to have support. Even if you had
> 80% custody, you'd probably be expected to pay. It's totally sexist and
> sucks.
>
>
> > oi CF-Community,!!
> >
> > not sure if any of you have any knowledge on this... but ...
> >
> > i'm a bit confused.... (don't think I do not want to take care of my
> son....)
> >
> > if my ex and I have 50/50 custody. then why do I have to pay child
> support? I don't get it. She's
> > not paying me anything..... i can understand if she had full
> custody....
> but WTF??
>
>
>
>
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