In exploring the history of modern so-called western square dancing (“MWSD”), 
it’s important to bear this in mind: MWSD was not invented as a conscious 
departure from other styles, but evolved gradually out of traditional western 
dancing between the mid-to-late 1940s and the mid-1970s.

The visible attributes of MWSD – the structure of clubs and federations, the 
dress code, lessons as a prerequisite to club membership, the married couple as 
the norm – were in place by the early 1950s, when most callers were still using 
mostly traditional material. In a reflection of the wider American culture of 
the era, women were often referred to as “girls” or “gals,” but “ladies” was 
the default. Men were always “gents.”

To the best of my knowledge and recollection, it wasn’t until the calls “run,” 
“trade,” “fold,” and “circulate” were introduced – all in the mid-1960s – that 
“boys/girls” became more common than “ladies/gents.” I note that “girls trade” 
isn’t a whole lot easier to say than “ladies trade,” so there may have been one 
or more other factors behind the shift. But there definitely was a shift, and 
it didn’t happen until people had been square dancing in clubs for about 20 
years.

Sources, apart from my own memory: Monthly issues of Sets in Order and American 
Squares, along with the Sets in Order Yearbooks – all of which are available 
online.

Tony Parkes
Billerica, Mass.
www.hands4.com<http://www.hands4.com/>
New book! Square Dance Calling: An Old Art for a New Century
(available now)


From: Jerome Grisanti <[email protected]>
Sent: Wednesday, February 8, 2023 12:20 PM
To: Tony Parkes <[email protected]>
Cc: Joe Harrington <[email protected]>; 
[email protected]
Subject: Re: [Callers] Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from Rompin' Stompin')

Tony,

On a side note, do you happen to know how and when modern western square dance 
callers adopted the "boys/girls" nomenclature that is now common? Did they ever 
use ladies/gents?

— Jerome Grisanti

On Wed, Feb 8, 2023, 9:55 AM Tony Parkes via Contra Callers 
<[email protected]<mailto:[email protected]>>
 wrote:
Joe Harrington wrote:

> When I started dancing in the late 1980s… Callers were taking the 
> revolutionary step of not calling "men" and "women" but rather using "ladies" 
> and "gents", to signal that switching roles was ok, since nobody referred to 
> themselves as a "lady" or a "gent" in casual conversation.

Where was this, Joe? And are you talking about contra callers (rather than 
ECD)? I can only speak about the NYC area in the 1960s and early ’70s, and New 
England starting in the late ’60s and continuing to the present. In both 
regions, square/contra callers (contras were a subcategory of square dance 
until around 1975) universally used “gents/ladies.” (I believe ECD teachers 
have always used “men/women,” presumably emulating Playford and Cecil Sharp.) 
AFAIK, northeastern callers pretty consistently used “gents/ladies” until some 
of them started to move away from gender-related terms. Tolman and Page’s 
Country Dance Book (1937) uses “gents/ladies,” as do most of the other standard 
American dance books from the 1900s to the 1950s (a few, aimed at 
schoolteachers, use “boys/girls”).

I know of no region where callers changed from “men/women” to “gents/ladies.” I 
know that some callers, beginning I think in the ’80s, changed from 
“gents/ladies” to “men/women,” feeling that “gentlemen” and “ladies” smacked of 
classism. (One female caller, in an essay titled “I am not a lady,” requested 
that other callers not use her contra compositions if they adhered to 
“gents/ladies.”) As an amateur (= lover) of dance history, I would like to know 
about past changes of which I was unaware.

Tony Parkes
Billerica, Mass.
www.hands4.com<http://www.hands4.com/>
New book! Square Dance Calling: An Old Art for a New Century
(available now)

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