--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <jst...@...> wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Alex Stanley" <j_alexander_stanley@> > wrote: > <snip> > > I do still experience a certain degree of suffering when > > I allow myself to get caught up in a polarity, like I'm > > doing with the issue of Dan's suicide. I think what he > > did was a horrible, cruel, ignoble, selfish act... a > > giant "Fuck You!" to the whole community > > Alex, might I suggest that while some in the community > may feel that they've been fucked by Daniel's suicide, > that feeling is *theirs*, and was not necessarily > Daniel's intention?
Absolutely. In fact, I'd wager it wasn't intention. However, I still think the action itself has an inherent "fuck you" quality to it, regardless of the intention behind it.
