I know what it is. It's like a dog that's "hand shy". Are you
familiar with that? Dogs, ( at least most), are incredibly loyal. But
if a dog has been hit too many times, then even if you (or someone else)
goes to pet the dog, it backs off. Have you ever seen that. I have.
It's sad. It takes time for the dog to gain trust again. And really,
sometimes it never does.
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "seventhray1" <steve.sundur@...>
wrote:
>
> It's called responding without emotion. Certainly there must be some
> emotion there, and yes, to be completely honest, that emotion spills
> over a little into the affectionate camp. But whatever I may be
feeling
> may get soothed over in time, or not. Really, I'm not too concerned
> about it. But it's always helpful to explore one's emotions, so
thanks
> for prodding me some.
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Ravi Chivukula"
> chivukula.ravi@ wrote:
> >
> > If you were indeed indifferent you wouldn't have even bothered
> responding to me.
> >
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "seventhray1" steve.sundur@
> wrote:
> > >
> > > Fair enough. But as I just posted. I think I've gone from an
> > > affectionate feeling towards you to an indifferent one.
Personally,
> I
> > > think I would rather have someone feel one way or the other about
> me. To
> > > be indifferent, I think would be about the worst. Just my
> perspective.
> > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula
> > > <chivukula.ravi@> wrote:
> > > > I will take you off my attack list. I know the easiest way to
make
> > > someone love you is by making you hate them, it's the same energy.
> > > >
> > > > But if you make your smart-ass comments again I will add you
back
> > > again.
> > >
> >
>