I find the whole discussion to be a little pointless. Of course there are
innumerable number of festivals in Hindu calendar, but not all the hundreds
of festivals are celebrated in each part of the country with equal
importance. Ganesh Chaturthi is not celebrated at all amongst Bengali Hindu,
and Diwali is not celebrated amongst Malayali Hindus, despite the fact that
these festivals are very crucial in other parts of India. That is why each
state chooses only a few major holidays for state holidays.

Regarding 'importing' cultures from other places, first of all there is no
'pure' culture, and all of us share ideas and cultures which have multiple
origins. Events like International Peace Day or Labour Day are not of Indian
origin, but they bear important humanitarian message and hence if people
from different countries want to commemorate them, they should have the
freedom to do that. Mother's day, Father's Day etc. did have their origins
in particular historical events, but unfortunately they are coopted by
commercial purposes like card companies which I deplore. But if anyone wants
to wish someone a Mother's day it's upto them, and not that it would require
a discussion whether it should be allowed or not.

Earlier in this discussion thread someone mentioned that other countries do
not have culture. I find that being disrespectful. It is one thing to be
proud of one's own culture, but we don't have to denigrate other countries
to feel good. Americans are not all about Mother's Day, Valentine's Day etc.
but about Thanksgiving, Hannukkah and 4th of July. So do other European
countries have their own traditions. Of course Indian festivals have more
antiquity, but cultures are fluid too.

So the main concern should be whether the celebration of any festival is
hindering the well being for people or not. Like is the pollution from
Diwali patakas worsening health conditions (like my friends suffering from
asthma) or whether celebrating Valentine's Day means a free run to Eve
teasing (as I have witnessed in Delhi). Other than that people should have
the right to celebrate what they want.

Best,
Tapoja.

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