So you submitted a patch to the "fork", but you didn't submit it to the
real project. Interesting. I suppose you have some justification for that?

Regarding your recommendation that I should become obsequious. I'm sure
you're thinking of some expression like "you catch more flies with honey
than vinegar." I should point out to you how you yourself came on with a
critical, negative approach and yet were apparently surprised to meet
resistance. It's my ML, I can post whatever I want (any idiot could see
that). But anyway, enough about you. Consider the possibility that I'm
simply not interested in catching flies. So I employ neither honey nor
vinegar. Think of it like talking to a mirror. You'd be surprised how nice
I am if you could just look beyond your prejudice.

On Thu, Jan 28, 2021, 6:45 AM Philipp Mueller <[email protected]>
wrote:

> On 28.01.21 02:32, J. Liles wrote:
> > Believe me, I know well that it isn't possible to be both right and
> > likeable. It's simply a matter of perception. We instinctively dislike
> > that which appears to oppose the views to which we become attached.
> IME all that is required are some nice and empathic words. I also
> decline out-of-scope feature requests or ask people to rewrite their PRs
> to fit a particular coding style  but I can't remember a single harsh
> word that resulted from that. But yes, it's quite demanding and
> sometimes feels like a waste of time to deal with all the
> issues/PRs/discussions and stuff.
> >
> > I checked the git history and didn't see your name anywhere, so I
> > think we all have nothing to lose from your parting.
> As I said, I abstained from it. I fixed a rescaling bug in the GUI of
> the session manager in the fork. Nothing critical since this only
> affects tiling window managers.
> >
> > Get off of twitter, man, and get your head straight. This isn't some
> > insurance company representative who has to be nice to you no matter
> > what you say. This is the guy who spent decades of his life making you
> > gifts and giving them to you for free. And instead of gratitude,
> > instead of silent neutrality even, you repay his kindness by piling
> > onto him when you see him being abused. What a gentleman you must
> > think you are, what a shining example of how to behave agreeably.
> >
> I have a lot of gratitude to you. And I do understand you point (in
> fact, I hold you in high regard for keeping it simple and to not
> accepting the LV2 PR). I just wanted to point out your community might
> be more diverse than you think and some might be put off by the way
> communication is practiced here. I mean, common on, I asked you to
> please not send personal attacks on public mailing list. As a response
> you called me a coward, uncivilized, and suggest I'm just here for
> trolling you. Please be/stay positive and don't let being the victim
> become a way of life.
>
>
>

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