I thought someone might like that. I'd hoped anyway.

On Thu, Apr 22, 2010 at 11:13 AM, Gus Gollings <gus.golli...@gmail.com>wrote:

> "come to tuition"
>
> Oh, that's a great pun. :-)
>
> Regards,
>
> Gus
>
> On Thu, Apr 22, 2010 at 11:05 AM, Ben Schwarz <ben.schw...@gmail.com>
> wrote:
> > With great respect to your idea:
> > I think that people looking for mentors should surround themselves with
> > great people
> > then look to approaching certain individuals based on particular skills.
> > I'm not really sure how a program to organise this would work.
> > Although I believe that anyone who is serious about their career would be
> > stupid to pass up the opportunity for dedicated time from a mentor.
> > Sounds awesome Gabe, I'd still love to see something like this come to
> > tuition.
> >
> > On Thu, Apr 22, 2010 at 10:54 AM, Julio Cesar Ody <julio...@gmail.com>
> > wrote:
> >>
> >> Yeah by all means, trying is the way to go, and props for the
> initiative.
> >>
> >>
> >> On Thu, Apr 22, 2010 at 10:51 AM, Gabe Hollombe <g...@avantbard.com>
> >> wrote:
> >> >> Would this really work with people who aren't already buddies,
> without
> >> >> any sort of tangible incentive?
> >> >
> >> > I've got no idea if this will work. I think the point here is to try
> and
> >> > see
> >> > if it works or not.
> >> >
> >> >>
> >> >> I just can't see *qualified* people who perhaps already maintain
> >> >> projects
> >> >> and
> >> >> respond to emailing lists and bug trackers finding the time to meet
> up
> >> >> with someone they don't know, or barely know.
> >> >
> >> >
> >> > Maybe you're right.  But, I saw a lot of hands go up when I asked for
> >> > interest at RC7.  So, maybe folks won't be able to find the time, but
> at
> >> > least of lot of people _think_ they'd be interested in participating
> in
> >> > a
> >> > mentoring program.  Often, we'll find time for anything we're
> interested
> >> > in.
> >> >
> >> >> On Thu, Apr 22, 2010 at 10:23 AM, Gabe Hollombe <g...@avantbard.com>
> >> >> wrote:
> >> >> > At Railscamp 7, I stood up during our Sunday night town hall
> meeting
> >> >> > and
> >> >> > shared about how I want to big up myself and find a mentor to help
> me
> >> >> > grow
> >> >> > as a software craftsman.  I asked the room for a show of hands for
> >> >> > people
> >> >> > who would be willing to mentor others and/or would want to have a
> >> >> > mentor
> >> >> > for
> >> >> > themselves.  There was a fair amount of hand raising, so I
> >> >> > volunteered
> >> >> > to
> >> >> > put some effort into trying to establish some sort of mentoring
> >> >> > system
> >> >> > for
> >> >> > our community.
> >> >> >
> >> >> > I'd like to start by asking you:
> >> >> >
> >> >> > What might want out of a mentor?
> >> >> > What do you think might be good for helping to foster mentor/mentee
> >> >> > relationships?
> >> >> > What ideas do you have to help make this mentoring thing a reality?
> >> >> >
> >> >> > Let's keep this very open-ended right now and just share anything
> we
> >> >> > think
> >> >> > might be relevant.  I'll take all the feedback and try to digest it
> >> >> > into
> >> >> > an
> >> >> > alpha version of a mentoring program.
> >> >> >
> >> >> > Here are some of my (sometimes rambled) thoughts to start things
> off:
> >> >> > I think mentors should:
> >> >> >
> >> >> > Meet with a mentee on some sort of regular schedule that works for
> >> >> > both
> >> >> > parties (in-person or virtually, but I really think that face to
> face
> >> >> > is
> >> >> > a
> >> >> > richer experience)
> >> >> > Discuss what their mentee is working on and provide code reviews
> >> >> > Share what they're working on with their mentee, to expand their
> >> >> > horizons
> >> >> > Make themselves available for help outside of their normal meeting
> >> >> > schedule
> >> >> >
> >> >> > I don't think mentors should need to feel like an expert or an
> >> >> > advanced
> >> >> > hacker of any kind; they just need to feel like they can help their
> >> >> > mentees
> >> >> > somehow.  And, mentors should remember that they'll grow and learn,
> >> >> > perhaps
> >> >> > just as much, as part of the mentoring relationship.  When you're
> >> >> > teaching
> >> >> > someone something, you often learn a lot, too.
> >> >> > I think the mentoring relationship should be viewed much more as a
> >> >> > social,
> >> >> > friendly commitment to see how you'll work as a pair.  Either a
> >> >> > mentor
> >> >> > or a
> >> >> > mentee should be completely comfortable swapping out and finding a
> >> >> > different
> >> >> > mentor/mentee if things just aren't working or, or, even if they
> are,
> >> >> > just
> >> >> > to change things up.  I think that what I'm envisioning is
> something
> >> >> > that
> >> >> > combines the comfortableness of a friendly partnering with the
> >> >> > reassurance
> >> >> > that you've got at least one person who will be willing to field
> >> >> > questions
> >> >> > for you and help you grow.
> >> >> > A mentor doesn't need to have all the answers.  Indeed, they
> rarely,
> >> >> > if
> >> >> > ever, will.  But, a mentor should try to help their mentee grow and
> >> >> > be
> >> >> > willing to learn alongside them in the process.
> >> >> >
> >> >> > From the practical, 'how do we organize this?' angle, we'll
> obviously
> >> >> > need
> >> >> > some way for willing mentors to list themselves as available, and
> for
> >> >> > mentees to find them. Something like www.railsmentors.org/ makes
> >> >> > sense,
> >> >> > though I think we should encourage folks to pair up within their
> own
> >> >> > city,
> >> >> > when possible, to make face-to-face meetups easier.  And, of
> course,
> >> >> > I
> >> >> > don't
> >> >> > want to restrict us to rails only mentoring.  We're clearly a
> diverse
> >> >> > group
> >> >> > of web hackers, and we should keep the mentoring open to anything
> web
> >> >> > hackery related.
> >> >> > Ok, thanks for reading this to the end. Now it's your turn to kick
> in
> >> >> > some
> >> >> > thoughts.
> >> >> > -g
> >> >> >
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