Re: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-08 Thread Mark Roberts
wendy beard [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

At 06:59 PM 07/01/2004 -0500, Shel wrote:

One local lab here says cats and babies are what they see the most of ... year
after year.

Whenever I used to go into my local photoprocessing place, someone always 
used to ask More dog pictures?.

My local camera shop has an in-house bulldog. Very ugly and very
friendly. There are photos of it all over the store!

-- 
Mark Roberts
Photography and writing
www.robertstech.com



Re: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-08 Thread Ann Sanfedele
Mark Roberts wrote:
 
 Bob W [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
  Is there anything in the world that has been the subject
  of photography
  *more* than weddings?
 
  Houses for sale?
 
  School photos.
 
 bare-bottomed ladies

HAve you seen Calendar Girls yet?? :)

 
 I think this last suggestion comes closest!
 ...but considering how many photos are taken of *each* wedding, I still
 expect weddings win for total number of photos. Not that I'm interested
 in doing the research to find out for certain!
 
 --
 Mark Roberts
 Photography and writing
 www.robertstech.com

Oh Mark and here I thought you were doing research
on quotes from
women PDML'ers :)

annsan



RE: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-08 Thread David Madsen
I think this is the longest thread I have seen since I joined this group,
but I'm gonna comment anyway.

Back when I used to play in a band we had a saying we would repeat before
every show, Play it the way we rehearsed it.  It means that people who
knew our music came to hear our music, not to hear us butcher our music.  It
is the same with wedding photography.  People hire me after they have seen
my portfolio and they want me to do the same thing for them that they saw in
that portfolio.  I try to be creative where I can, but...that's why I do
weddings primarily for the money.  I enjoy it to the extent that I love
photography and I am getting paid to do what I love, but I'd rather be
shooting a nice casual portrait where I can be creative (and just re-shoot
it if the customer does not agree with my creative vision).

David Madsen
mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
http://www.davidmadsen.com




Re: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-07 Thread Boris Liberman
Hi!

It just occurred to me that the reasonable way to produce *original* 
wedding photo stuff could probably be shooting on weddings of your 
friends/relatives/fellow photogs. But such thing would have to be 
agreed upon in advance.

Normally, as I remember myself getting married g, I wanted my 
wedding photographer to document in a sense what was going to happen. 
He did a very good job I think. I suppose it would be a good time to 
take yet another look on my wedding album g. 

Another thought that happens to me g. Original stuff can be shot, I 
think, not during the ceremony itself. For instance, we were getting 
married in January and such thing as an outdoors photo session on the 
wedding day in case of winter Jerusalem was impossible...

Well, I only got married once and shot on the wedding just two days 
ago...  g

Boris



Re: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-07 Thread Mark Roberts
Bob W [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

see myth #6:
http://www.phototechmag.com/previous-articles/apr-myths.htm

Is there anything in the world that has been the subject of photography
*more* than weddings? Given the number photographs made by the enormous
number people who have been doing it over the 150 or so years than
photography has existed I can't imagine how one might come up with a
truly original never been done before shot. That doesn't it isn't
possible do great work and make great art.

BTW: That myths page is great, Bob!

-- 
Mark Roberts
Photography and writing
www.robertstech.com



Re: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-07 Thread Mark Roberts
Len Paris [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Few of us can be Monte Zucker or Steve Sint.

I'd just like to take this opportunity to say that Monte Zucker's photos
make me positively gag. I realize that he's very good at what he does
but, man, it's like fingernails on a blackboard to me!

Whew! I feel much better having gotten that off my chest! (I feel like
Mike Johnston on the subject of flowers or cats in photography!)

-- 
Mark Roberts
Photography and writing
www.robertstech.com



Re: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-07 Thread Bob W
Hi,

 I'd just like to take this opportunity to say that Monte Zucker's photos
 make me positively gag.

too much sugar!

-- 
Cheers,
 Bob



Re: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-07 Thread Mark Roberts
Bob W [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Hi,

 I'd just like to take this opportunity to say that Monte Zucker's photos
 make me positively gag.

too much sugar!

Yep, and his writing about his photography is even worse.

-- 
Mark Roberts
Photography and writing
www.robertstech.com



Re: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-07 Thread graywolf
Not to mention you get exactly the same thing from all the guys and gals who 
have taken his seminars. When you hire Monte Zucker, what you get is Monte 
Zucker himself, or one of his employees. Not some kind of special available 
nowhere else photography. He has just carried name brand recognision to the 
maximum level in wedding photography.

And , BTW, most brides only have one big wedding, even if they get married 
several times in their life. That alblum is oridginal to her, never mind that 
every other bride has one just like it. She ain't like us photogs who look at 
thousands of photos an start seeing the similarities. Furthermore, you have to 
produce photos that she likes, not ones that you like. That is what being a pro 
is all about.

--

Mark Roberts wrote:
Len Paris [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:


Few of us can be Monte Zucker or Steve Sint.


I'd just like to take this opportunity to say that Monte Zucker's photos
make me positively gag. I realize that he's very good at what he does
but, man, it's like fingernails on a blackboard to me!
Whew! I feel much better having gotten that off my chest! (I feel like
Mike Johnston on the subject of flowers or cats in photography!)
--
graywolf
http://graywolfphoto.com
You might as well accept people as they are,
you are not going to be able to change them anyway.



RE: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-07 Thread J. C. O'Connell
Something just occurred to me. With today's extremely high
divorce rate, does most of the photographer's work end up
in a dumpster sooner or later?  Kind of a shame huh?

JCO


   J.C. O'Connell   mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]   http://jcoconnell.com


-Original Message-
From: graywolf [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Wednesday, January 07, 2004 10:38 AM
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: Re: wedding photography...ugh!


Not to mention you get exactly the same thing from all the guys and gals who
have taken his seminars. When you hire Monte Zucker, what you get is Monte
Zucker himself, or one of his employees. Not some kind of special available
nowhere else photography. He has just carried name brand recognision to the
maximum level in wedding photography.

And , BTW, most brides only have one big wedding, even if they get married
several times in their life. That alblum is oridginal to her, never mind
that
every other bride has one just like it. She ain't like us photogs who look
at
thousands of photos an start seeing the similarities. Furthermore, you have
to
produce photos that she likes, not ones that you like. That is what being a
pro
is all about.

--

Mark Roberts wrote:
 Len Paris [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:


Few of us can be Monte Zucker or Steve Sint.


 I'd just like to take this opportunity to say that Monte Zucker's photos
 make me positively gag. I realize that he's very good at what he does
 but, man, it's like fingernails on a blackboard to me!

 Whew! I feel much better having gotten that off my chest! (I feel like
 Mike Johnston on the subject of flowers or cats in photography!)


--
graywolf
http://graywolfphoto.com

You might as well accept people as they are,
you are not going to be able to change them anyway.




RE: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-07 Thread tom
 -Original Message-
 From: William Robb [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]


 Most wedding photographers have a checklist of shots that
 need to be gotten.
 They start at number one, and work their way down the list.
 Like Mr. Rubenstein said, the customer knows what a wedding
 album should
 look like, and you had better produce one for them that
 looks like what they
 think it should look like.

I think most brides' experience of wedding albums is fairly meager.
The only thing they've seen is in the hands of the photographers
they've interviewed. They are mostly not interested in getting
something similar to their mom's album.

When I meet with clients I show them 2 albums, and they have a total
of maybe 70 pictures. 2 of them are traditional looking formals.

The people who want formals probably don't hire me. The people who
like my sort of thing do. Everyone is happy - they get what they want,
I get a check and to shoot the way I want.

tv





Re: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-07 Thread Leonard Paris
If the best life lies in being able to do something you enjoy, and make a 
living at it, then I think Monte is doing pretty well.  Whether we approve 
of his approach and style or not.  It's just so easy to criticize successful 
people, when we know we can shoot better than they can.

Len
---
* There's no place like 127.0.0.1
Not to mention you get exactly the same thing from all the guys and gals 
who have taken his seminars. When you hire Monte Zucker, what you get is 
Monte Zucker himself, or one of his employees. Not some kind of special 
available nowhere else photography. He has just carried name brand 
recognision to the maximum level in wedding photography.

And , BTW, most brides only have one big wedding, even if they get married 
several times in their life. That alblum is oridginal to her, never mind 
that every other bride has one just like it. She ain't like us photogs who 
look at thousands of photos an start seeing the similarities. Furthermore, 
you have to produce photos that she likes, not ones that you like. That is 
what being a pro is all about.

--

Mark Roberts wrote:
Len Paris [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:


Few of us can be Monte Zucker or Steve Sint.


I'd just like to take this opportunity to say that Monte Zucker's photos
make me positively gag. I realize that he's very good at what he does
but, man, it's like fingernails on a blackboard to me!
Whew! I feel much better having gotten that off my chest! (I feel like
Mike Johnston on the subject of flowers or cats in photography!)
--
graywolf
http://graywolfphoto.com
You might as well accept people as they are,
you are not going to be able to change them anyway.

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Re: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-07 Thread Mark Roberts
Leonard Paris [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

If the best life lies in being able to do something you enjoy, and make a 
living at it, then I think Monte is doing pretty well.  Whether we approve 
of his approach and style or not.  It's just so easy to criticize successful 
people, when we know we can shoot better than they can.

Oh, but I *couldn't* shoot better than him... within his particular
specialty. I just detest his photos :) If I were going to go into
business doing that kind of work I'd probably study his stuff intently
because it's clearly successful. 

BTW, I thought the best in life was To crush your enemies. To see them
driven before you. To hear the lamentation of their women.

-- 
Mark Roberts
Photography and writing
www.robertstech.com



Re: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-07 Thread Shel Belinkoff
LOL  What we see of his work is what he wants us to see.
Do we know of what his more personal portfolio is like?

Leonard Paris wrote:

 If the best life lies in being able to do something you enjoy, and make a
 living at it, then I think Monte is doing pretty well.  Whether we approve
 of his approach and style or not.  It's just so easy to criticize successful
 people, when we know we can shoot better than they can.




RE: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-07 Thread Jeff Jonsson
Well, I know for sure it's not To Ride the open steppe, feel the wind
in your face, and have a falcon at your wrist.

-Original Message-
From: Mark Roberts [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] 
Sent: Wednesday, January 07, 2004 10:47 AM
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: Re: wedding photography...ugh!


Leonard Paris [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

If the best life lies in being able to do something you enjoy, and make

a
living at it, then I think Monte is doing pretty well.  Whether we
approve 
of his approach and style or not.  It's just so easy to criticize
successful 
people, when we know we can shoot better than they can.

Oh, but I *couldn't* shoot better than him... within his particular
specialty. I just detest his photos :) If I were going to go into
business doing that kind of work I'd probably study his stuff intently
because it's clearly successful. 

BTW, I thought the best in life was To crush your enemies. To see them
driven before you. To hear the lamentation of their women.

-- 
Mark Roberts
Photography and writing
www.robertstech.com




RE: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-07 Thread Malcolm Smith
J. C. O'Connell wrote:

 Something just occurred to me. With today's extremely high 
 divorce rate, does most of the photographer's work end up in 
 a dumpster sooner or later?  Kind of a shame huh?

One of my school friends had a marriage that only lasted a year; came back
to find half the house empty and a note to say she had moved in with her
boss. He found his wedding photos most therapeutic. Granted he stuck them to
the garage wall and shot them with an air rifle but...

Malcolm




Re: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-07 Thread Leonard Paris
Probably not.  But he isn't a starving artist and I have to take his word 
that he is having fun doing what he does.  And, isn't it the same with all 
of us?  Don't we all only show what we want people to see?

Len
---
* There's no place like 127.0.0.1
From: Shel Belinkoff [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Reply-To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: Re: wedding photography...ugh!
Date: Wed, 07 Jan 2004 09:46:41 -0800
LOL  What we see of his work is what he wants us to see.
Do we know of what his more personal portfolio is like?
Leonard Paris wrote:

 If the best life lies in being able to do something you enjoy, and make 
a
 living at it, then I think Monte is doing pretty well.  Whether we 
approve
 of his approach and style or not.  It's just so easy to criticize 
successful
 people, when we know we can shoot better than they can.


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Re: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-07 Thread Leonard Paris
That's a different career field.

Len
---
* There's no place like 127.0.0.1

BTW, I thought the best in life was To crush your enemies. To see them
driven before you. To hear the lamentation of their women.
--
Mark Roberts
Photography and writing
www.robertstech.com
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Re: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-07 Thread b_rubenstein
http://www.montezucker.com/portfolio.html
There is a link on Monte's site to Joe Zeltsman, which doesn't work, but this 
one does: 
http://web.archive.org/web/20020606223814/http://www.zuga.net/freelessons/port
rait.shtml#Joe%20Zeltsman
Everything you wanted to know about how to take pictures that look like your 
parent's wedding album. Especially if your parents were married circa 1950.

BR


From: Shel Belinkoff [EMAIL PROTECTED]

LOL  What we see of his work is what he wants us to see.
Do we know of what his more personal portfolio is like?



Re: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-07 Thread graywolf
When my wife left me she took the baby pictures of me my mother had given her. 
Women never toss such things, they keep them as trophies.

--

J. C. O'Connell wrote:
Something just occurred to me. With today's extremely high
divorce rate, does most of the photographer's work end up
in a dumpster sooner or later?  Kind of a shame huh?
JCO


   J.C. O'Connell   mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]   http://jcoconnell.com

-Original Message-
From: graywolf [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Wednesday, January 07, 2004 10:38 AM
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: Re: wedding photography...ugh!
Not to mention you get exactly the same thing from all the guys and gals who
have taken his seminars. When you hire Monte Zucker, what you get is Monte
Zucker himself, or one of his employees. Not some kind of special available
nowhere else photography. He has just carried name brand recognision to the
maximum level in wedding photography.
And , BTW, most brides only have one big wedding, even if they get married
several times in their life. That alblum is oridginal to her, never mind
that
every other bride has one just like it. She ain't like us photogs who look
at
thousands of photos an start seeing the similarities. Furthermore, you have
to
produce photos that she likes, not ones that you like. That is what being a
pro
is all about.
--

Mark Roberts wrote:

Len Paris [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:



Few of us can be Monte Zucker or Steve Sint.


I'd just like to take this opportunity to say that Monte Zucker's photos
make me positively gag. I realize that he's very good at what he does
but, man, it's like fingernails on a blackboard to me!
Whew! I feel much better having gotten that off my chest! (I feel like
Mike Johnston on the subject of flowers or cats in photography!)


--
graywolf
http://graywolfphoto.com
You might as well accept people as they are,
you are not going to be able to change them anyway.


--
graywolf
http://graywolfphoto.com
You might as well accept people as they are,
you are not going to be able to change them anyway.



Re: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-07 Thread Cotty
On 7/1/04, [EMAIL PROTECTED] disgorged:

Is there anything in the world that has been the subject of photography
*more* than weddings? 

Houses for sale?


Cheers,
  Cotty


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RE: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-07 Thread tom
 -Original Message-
 From: Cotty [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
 
 
 On 7/1/04, [EMAIL PROTECTED] disgorged:
 
 Is there anything in the world that has been the subject 
 of photography
 *more* than weddings? 
 
 Houses for sale?

School photos.

tv





Re: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-07 Thread Bob W

 
 Is there anything in the world that has been the subject 
 of photography
 *more* than weddings? 
 
 Houses for sale?

 School photos.

bare-bottomed ladies



RE: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-07 Thread Amita Guha
  Is there anything in the world that has been the subject
  of photography
  *more* than weddings?

Babies. And cats. :)



Re: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-07 Thread Mark Roberts
Bob W [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Is there anything in the world that has been the subject 
 of photography
 *more* than weddings? 
 
 Houses for sale?

 School photos.

bare-bottomed ladies

I think this last suggestion comes closest!
...but considering how many photos are taken of *each* wedding, I still
expect weddings win for total number of photos. Not that I'm interested
in doing the research to find out for certain!

-- 
Mark Roberts
Photography and writing
www.robertstech.com



Re: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-07 Thread Tanya Mayer Photography
Mark, I TOTALLY agree - cheese, cheese, cheesy...  That's all I can say
about them...

tan.
- Original Message - 
From: Mark Roberts [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Wednesday, January 07, 2004 11:31 PM
Subject: Re: wedding photography...ugh!


 Len Paris [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Few of us can be Monte Zucker or Steve Sint.

 I'd just like to take this opportunity to say that Monte Zucker's photos
 make me positively gag. I realize that he's very good at what he does
 but, man, it's like fingernails on a blackboard to me!

 Whew! I feel much better having gotten that off my chest! (I feel like
 Mike Johnston on the subject of flowers or cats in photography!)

 -- 
 Mark Roberts
 Photography and writing
 www.robertstech.com





Re: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-07 Thread ernreed2
 On 7/1/04, [EMAIL PROTECTED] disgorged:
 
 Is there anything in the world that has been the subject of photography
 *more* than weddings? 
 
 Houses for sale?
(said Cotty)

Babies, say I. Many people have more babies than they do
weddings.



Re: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-07 Thread Shel Belinkoff
One local lab here says cats and babies are what they see the most of ... year
after year.



  Is there anything in the world that has been the subject of photography
  *more* than weddings?



Re: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-07 Thread wendy beard
At 06:59 PM 07/01/2004 -0500, Shel wrote:

One local lab here says cats and babies are what they see the most of ... year
after year.
Whenever I used to go into my local photoprocessing place, someone always 
used to ask More dog pictures?.

Wendy Beard,
Ottawa, Canada
http://www.beard-redfern.com



Re: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-07 Thread graywolf
No, it is sweet revenge for his smart arse comment on my spelling mistake a just 
a few messages back. HAR!

--

[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Len: is this a clever play on words, or a Freudian slip?

I guess men need to *hoot* nudes of their wives 
tee hee

Quoting Len Paris [EMAIL PROTECTED]:


I guess men need to hoot nudes of their wives very early on in the
marriage so they have some trophies to display, too. :-)


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You might as well accept people as they are,
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RE: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-06 Thread tom
 -Original Message-
 From: Tom Reese [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]


 I quit doing them eventually. I couldn't take wearing the
 jacket in the hot
 weather (summer weddings suck IMO), the neckties, the
 drunks and all the
 other aggravation. I wish I could just shoot the B G
 portraits and forget
 about all the other stuff...

That's funny. I don't wear a tie or jacket, and I wish I could forget
the portraits!

tv






RE: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-06 Thread Frits Wüthrich
On Tue, 2004-01-06 at 18:55, tom wrote:
  -Original Message-
  From: Tom Reese [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
 
 
  I quit doing them eventually. I couldn't take wearing the
  jacket in the hot
  weather (summer weddings suck IMO), the neckties, the
  drunks and all the
  other aggravation. I wish I could just shoot the B G
  portraits and forget
  about all the other stuff...
 
 That's funny. I don't wear a tie or jacket, and I wish I could forget
 the portraits!
 
 tv
I got friends in Allentown, PA, also doing wedding photography. They
always dress up as well, I doubt the photographer in the Netherlands
would do that. What is the custom in the different areas of all the PDML
folks?
-- 
Frits Wüthrich [EMAIL PROTECTED]



RE: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-06 Thread Amita Guha
 I think that, considering the various forces and demands 
 tugging at the wedding 
 shooter from the sundry directions, obtaining good results, 
 let alone great or 
 original results, is a respectable feat.

I think, as a former consumer, that they key to obtaining great wedding
photos is to have as many people shooting as possible, because the
official photog can't be everywhere at once. That way you get a big
selection of shots from many different perspecitives. Our official
photog did a terrific job, but we also got some great shots from the
guests who had their own cameras, as well as the people who used the
disposables we put out. Together, they provided a very complete
picture of the weekend, and in the end, it's all about those memories.
:)



Re: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-06 Thread Tanya Mayer Photography
Tom Reese said:

 The wedding photography thread got me thinking about my experiences...

 I wanted to shoot some portraits of a bride and groom and couldn't find
the
 groom. He was outside behind the building smoking dope with the best man.
By
 the end of the reception he was stoned out of his mind and trying to give
me
 a handful of cash from the wedding gifts that the BG received (of course
I
 turned him down...several times).

Are you crazy man, like, you should've like, taken the dosh dude... oh, and
like, peace, man, OKAAAY!?

vbg

At least he would've been nice and relaxed for his night, pity though as he
would've had red eyes in all of his shots!  I have seen it to many times
in grooms and it is just so obvious!

 Another time, I showed up at the brides house at 12:00 noon per my
appointment for the pre-wedding portraits of
 bride with mom, dad, etc. The bride answered the door in jeans and a
t-shirt and asked me to wait while they all ate lunch. 

I had one who had made the appointment for me to arrive at 1.30pm after
doing the grooms preparation shots, so I got there at 1.35pm (yeah, I was 5
mins late due to said groom deciding at the last second to use his drag car
in the shots and having to go and pick it up).  When I arrived she was
beetroot red and screamed at me when I walked in the door.  Omg, where the
hell have you been, we've been ready since ONE O'CLOCK I was like
ummm, I'm sorry that I am a little late but the groom wanted to add the car
to his shots and they had to go and get it.  She yells WELL, ISN'T IT
COMMON COURTESY TO RING SOMEONE WHEN YOU ARE GOING TO BE LATE?!!?  I was
immediately, devastakingly (sic) nervous and proceeded to shake my way
through every shot, all the while hoping against hope that I didn't stuff
any up or Bridezilla would have me for breakfast!  So, we got through the
preparation shots, and the ceremony, after which I took the bride and groom
back into the church to do some creative stuff with the stain glass windows
behind the alter.  Whilst I was setting up the shot with my tripod etc.  She
was chatting away with the groom and bitched about how I was 3/4 of an hour
late.  To which he and I BOTH responded in unison (sic, too lazy to check
it!), you mean 5 minutes late? and she said no, 3/4 of an hour late, she
was supposed to be there at 1pm.  I showed her my diary where I had
originally written 1pm and then crossed it out and changed it to 1.30pm when
she had *phone me and aske me to do it*!!  The groom confirmed it and the
bride apologised and spent the rest of the afternoon embarrassed that she
had verbally attacked me and blaming herself if the photos are a mess cause
i upset the photographer for no reason.  Anyways, some of the shots are on
my site, under the Roses Are Red link, and she was more than happy with
the result.  Thank gawd!  BTW, the wedding wasn't until 4pm and we had
finished shooting by 2pm and so had to sit there twiddling our thumbs for
almost 2 full hours!  I always recommend that I don't come until around half
an hour before the wedding, unless I am covering the hair/makeup/getting
dressed thing, cause it really doesn't take that long to take shots of the
bridesmaids/bride/mum, dad etc

 I quit doing them eventually. I couldn't take wearing the jacket in the
hot weather (summer weddings suck IMO), the neckties, the drunks and all the
other aggravation. I wish I could just shoot the B G portraits and forget
about all the other stuff...

Har!  Did I ever tell you about the time the couple was having a nuptual
(sic, yeah, again, i know i'm lazy!) mass, where they have communion etc and
it goes for like 2 hours, on the hottest day we had had in 5 years?  It was
48 degrees inside the darn church and people were dropping like flies.
Literally, fainting all over the place, including my assistant, who happened
to do so just as they were about to exchange the rings...!  It was so hot,
the guys in the wedding party didn't even wear their jackets, just their
vests and shirts, and they even had to send out for an esky of bottled iced
water to hand out to the guests during the ceremony.

I learned my lesson and don't take an assistant with me anymore...

tan.



Re: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-06 Thread Tanya Mayer Photography
Bob admitted:  Hi,

 I crashed a wedding a few years ago in Transylvania. I'd spent the day
 in a nearby village photographing a funeral, and getting very, very drunk
 on the local moonshine. Back at my hotel I stumbled, half blind, into a
 wedding and started photographing the dancing. Some of the guests
 plied me with large quantities of whiskey. One of the guests waved me
 over to his table and insisted on a portrait. He was dressed in black
 trousers, black rollneck and black leather jacket. All the other
bulky-looking
 men at his table were dressed the same. I think they Securitate who had
 privatised themselves. At least, that was the impression they wanted to
 give. When he learned where I was from he said OK, you send me the
pictures.
 I have many friends in London. If you don't do as I ask, you go missing.
I
 laughed in the face of danger. I was very, very drunk at the time.

 None of the wedding pictures came out.

That is BLOODY hilarious!!

This is a great thread...

tan.



RE: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-06 Thread tom
 -Original Message-
 From: Frits Wüthrich [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]


 On Tue, 2004-01-06 at 18:55, tom wrote:
   -Original Message-
   From: Tom Reese [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
  
  
   I quit doing them eventually. I couldn't take wearing the
   jacket in the hot
   weather (summer weddings suck IMO), the neckties, the
   drunks and all the
   other aggravation. I wish I could just shoot the B G
   portraits and forget
   about all the other stuff...
 
  That's funny. I don't wear a tie or jacket, and I wish I
 could forget
  the portraits!
 
  tv
 I got friends in Allentown, PA, also doing wedding photography. They
 always dress up as well, I doubt the photographer in the Netherlands
 would do that. What is the custom in the different areas of
 all the PDML
 folks?

Around here the traditional style guys dress up in a tux or suit, the
pj'ers don't.

tv





Re: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-06 Thread Tanya Mayer Photography

Bucky noted:

I recall Doug Brewer recently telling Tanya that, although she was
talented, many of her shots looked like recycled versions of other people's
ideas.

Bucky, actually, I totally agreed with Doug on that one, and I constantly
toy with and struggle to attempt to come up with original ideas, it is so
hard though and often, I'll get this idea of a shot that I think will be
cool, only to see something similar somewhere else and think man, *that's*
already been done too! *However*, it is the nature of the beast.  Brides
see a shot on some website or in a magazine somewhere and say Oh, make sure
you get one like this and so you're restricted with your input into
the shot.  And of course, every wedding has those shots that tv says you
know will happen.  I would add to this and say that there are shots at
every wedding that are expected by every couple.  Of course, the talent
comes in trying to manipulate these shots into something that *isn't* just a
recycled version... Catch 22 really

So, generally, I try to reserve my real creativity for stuff that they
don't need or require, and often, you don't have alot of time during a
wedding to play with shots like this just for fun.  Although, often it
is the just for fun shots that are the best... hmmm, I know I just totally
contradicted myself... vbg

 I think that, considering the various forces and demands tugging at the
wedding shooter from the sundry directions, obtaining good results, let
alone great or original results, is a respectable feat.

 Quoting Cotty [EMAIL PROTECTED]:

 
  Any wedding photographer has my utmost respect.

Cool, now I am an upmostly respected PDML'er...

vbg

tan.



Re: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-06 Thread Bob W
Hi,

see myth #6:
http://www.phototechmag.com/previous-articles/apr-myths.htm

-- 
Cheers,
 Bob


Tuesday, January 6, 2004, 10:14:29 PM, you wrote:


 Bucky noted:

 I recall Doug Brewer recently telling Tanya that, although she was
 talented, many of her shots looked like recycled versions of other people's
 ideas.

 Bucky, actually, I totally agreed with Doug on that one, and I constantly
 toy with and struggle to attempt to come up with original ideas, it is so
 hard though and often, I'll get this idea of a shot that I think will be
 cool, only to see something similar somewhere else and think man, *that's*
 already been done too! [...]



Re: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-06 Thread William Robb

- Original Message - 
From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]

Subject: RE: wedding photography...ugh!


 I agree.  I recall Doug Brewer recently telling Tanya that, although she
was
 talented, many of her shots looked like recycled versions of other
people's
 ideas.  Perhaps that is true, I said to myself, but I have seldom seen
 wedding shots that don't.  Certainly I've never seen any wedding
photographer
 on THIS list produce stuff that struck me as truly original.  That is not
to
 say that it is not beautiful - some of it is most striking.

 I think that, considering the various forces and demands tugging at the
wedding
 shooter from the sundry directions, obtaining good results, let alone
great or
 original results, is a respectable feat.

Most wedding photographers have a checklist of shots that need to be gotten.
They start at number one, and work their way down the list.
Like Mr. Rubenstein said, the customer knows what a wedding album should
look like, and you had better produce one for them that looks like what they
think it should look like.

William Robb



Re: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-06 Thread Doug Brewer
On Tuesday, January 6, 2004, at 03:37  PM, [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

I agree.  I recall Doug Brewer recently telling Tanya that, although 
she was
talented, many of her shots looked like recycled versions of other 
people's
ideas.  Perhaps that is true, I said to myself, but I have seldom 
seen
wedding shots that don't.  Certainly I've never seen any wedding 
photographer
on THIS list produce stuff that struck me as truly original.  That is 
not to
say that it is not beautiful - some of it is most striking.

I think that, considering the various forces and demands tugging at 
the wedding
shooter from the sundry directions, obtaining good results, let alone 
great or
original results, is a respectable feat.
When I wrote that, I was not writing specifically about wedding 
photography. It crossed my mind that I should write something to 
indicate I meant Tanya's work on the whole, but as I'm easily 
distracted, the thought didn't stay in my head too long.

Certainly when a client hires a wedding photographer, he/she expects a 
wedding photographer rather than someone who has decided to take this 
opportunity to do a study on footwear. You'll see in every 
photographer's work something that someone else has done similarly. 
Note I didn't say, better or worse, just similarly.

The trick, of course, is to make the shot your own.

Doug



Re: wedding photography...ugh!

2004-01-06 Thread Tanya Mayer Photography
Doug said:

 When I wrote that, I was not writing specifically about wedding
 photography. It crossed my mind that I should write something to
 indicate I meant Tanya's work on the whole, but as I'm easily
 distracted, the thought didn't stay in my head too long.

Actually, I suspected that you weren't directing is solely at wedding
photography, I just forgot to say so as well...

 Certainly when a client hires a wedding photographer, he/she expects a
 wedding photographer rather than someone who has decided to take this
 opportunity to do a study on footwear. You'll see in every
 photographer's work something that someone else has done similarly.
 Note I didn't say, better or worse, just similarly.

Aaargh, so Doug didn't like my thong photo... lol...

tan.