Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-29 Thread Mark Cassino
Paul Stenquist wrote:
 No real news. The first hearing was just to see if my daughter was  
 going to appear and to tell her not to leave the jurisdiction until  
 the case is settled. Our lawyer asked for a dismissal, but the judge  
 wants to hold the evidentiary hearing before ruling on that. It will  
 probably happen in a few weeks.
 Paul

I haven't been keeping up on the list here, but I belatedly wish you and 
your daughter good luck in this.

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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-27 Thread Carlos Royo
I hope everything turns out well for your daughter, granddaughter and 
you, Paul.

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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-27 Thread mike wilson

 
 From: Paul Stenquist [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 Date: 2007/03/26 Mon PM 07:48:59 GMT
 To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List pdml@pdml.net
 Subject: Re: OT: Wish Me Luck
 
 The father has a recent conviction for drug possession and no job,  
 yet UK legal aid still allowed him to bring this suit and apparently  
 is paying the US lawyers $700 an hour for their services. Now our UK  
 friends know where there tax dollars are going.
 Paul

I pay tax in _dollars_?  Don't know whether to be annoyed that I'm in the 51st 
state or happy that my bill just reduced by 50%.

 On Mar 26, 2007, at 11:53 AM, Jim King wrote:
 
  keith_w wrote on Sun, 25 Mar 2007 23:58:07 -0800:
  (snip)
  Misleading!
  As I understand it, that child is in the custody of the mother, and
  both
  are currently living with blood relatives. It's not as tho' it were
  kidnapped to a foreign country by non-parents.
 
  Exactly!  My problem is that one can apparently be brought into
  court, requiring expensive legal representation, for reasons having
  to do more with malice than with equity.  The legal system needs to
  filter out cases without merit before allowing charges or a tort  to
  be brought, and there should be consequences for those bringing
  baseless cases before the court.  Our system seems to reward lawyers
  for such behavior.
 
  But then, I'm not a lawyer; what do I know?
 
  Regards, Jim
 
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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-27 Thread frank theriault
On 3/25/07, Paul Stenquist [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 The nightmare had become reality.snip

Paul,

I've now read many dozens of replies in this thread, and really, I can
add nothing to this matter other than to send my best wishes to your
grandaughter (for it's her welfare that is everyone's primary
concern), your daughter and you and your family.

One thing I will caution you about is listening to legal advice from
non-lawyers (including this list).  Without comment, I'll say that
I've seen much in the way of inaccuracy and wrong information on this
list, well intentioned though it might be.   You'll be paying plenty
to your lawyer - listen to her.

Best of luck, and I'll be sending good thoughts Grace's way!

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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-27 Thread Paul Stenquist
Be happy:-). Just a cross cultural screw up on my part. Tax dollars  
is such a common expression here that it slipped out unnoticed.
Paul
On Mar 27, 2007, at 8:54 AM, mike wilson wrote:



 From: Paul Stenquist [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 Date: 2007/03/26 Mon PM 07:48:59 GMT
 To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List pdml@pdml.net
 Subject: Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

 The father has a recent conviction for drug possession and no job,
 yet UK legal aid still allowed him to bring this suit and apparently
 is paying the US lawyers $700 an hour for their services. Now our UK
 friends know where there tax dollars are going.
 Paul

 I pay tax in _dollars_?  Don't know whether to be annoyed that I'm  
 in the 51st state or happy that my bill just reduced by 50%.

 On Mar 26, 2007, at 11:53 AM, Jim King wrote:

 keith_w wrote on Sun, 25 Mar 2007 23:58:07 -0800:
 (snip)
 Misleading!
 As I understand it, that child is in the custody of the mother, and
 both
 are currently living with blood relatives. It's not as tho' it were
 kidnapped to a foreign country by non-parents.

 Exactly!  My problem is that one can apparently be brought into
 court, requiring expensive legal representation, for reasons having
 to do more with malice than with equity.  The legal system needs to
 filter out cases without merit before allowing charges or a tort  to
 be brought, and there should be consequences for those bringing
 baseless cases before the court.  Our system seems to reward lawyers
 for such behavior.

 But then, I'm not a lawyer; what do I know?

 Regards, Jim

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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-27 Thread Dave Kennedy
 On 3/25/07, Paul Stenquist [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  The nightmare had become reality.snip


Paul, Trust it all works out in the end. The road can get rough tho.
Hang tough, best of luck.

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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-27 Thread mike wilson

 
 From: Paul Stenquist [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 Date: 2007/03/27 Tue PM 01:30:53 GMT
 To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List pdml@pdml.net
 Subject: Re: OT: Wish Me Luck
 
 Be happy:-). Just a cross cultural screw up on my part. Tax dollars  
 is such a common expression here that it slipped out unnoticed.
 Paul

Just hope I'm lightening your day.  What news?

 On Mar 27, 2007, at 8:54 AM, mike wilson wrote:
 
 
 
  From: Paul Stenquist [EMAIL PROTECTED]
  Date: 2007/03/26 Mon PM 07:48:59 GMT
  To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List pdml@pdml.net
  Subject: Re: OT: Wish Me Luck
 
  The father has a recent conviction for drug possession and no job,
  yet UK legal aid still allowed him to bring this suit and apparently
  is paying the US lawyers $700 an hour for their services. Now our UK
  friends know where there tax dollars are going.
  Paul
 
  I pay tax in _dollars_?  Don't know whether to be annoyed that I'm  
  in the 51st state or happy that my bill just reduced by 50%.
 
  On Mar 26, 2007, at 11:53 AM, Jim King wrote:
 
  keith_w wrote on Sun, 25 Mar 2007 23:58:07 -0800:
  (snip)
  Misleading!
  As I understand it, that child is in the custody of the mother, and
  both
  are currently living with blood relatives. It's not as tho' it were
  kidnapped to a foreign country by non-parents.
 
  Exactly!  My problem is that one can apparently be brought into
  court, requiring expensive legal representation, for reasons having
  to do more with malice than with equity.  The legal system needs to
  filter out cases without merit before allowing charges or a tort  to
  be brought, and there should be consequences for those bringing
  baseless cases before the court.  Our system seems to reward lawyers
  for such behavior.
 
  But then, I'm not a lawyer; what do I know?
 
  Regards, Jim
 
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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-27 Thread Paul Stenquist
Thanks Frank. I'm in good hands with the lawyers who are working on  
the case. They have a lot of experience and are very thorough. I  
think it will be handled quickly. Translation: I hope it will be  
handled before I run out of money:-).
Paul
On Mar 27, 2007, at 9:41 AM, frank theriault wrote:

 On 3/25/07, Paul Stenquist [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 The nightmare had become reality.snip

 Paul,

 I've now read many dozens of replies in this thread, and really, I can
 add nothing to this matter other than to send my best wishes to your
 grandaughter (for it's her welfare that is everyone's primary
 concern), your daughter and you and your family.

 One thing I will caution you about is listening to legal advice from
 non-lawyers (including this list).  Without comment, I'll say that
 I've seen much in the way of inaccuracy and wrong information on this
 list, well intentioned though it might be.   You'll be paying plenty
 to your lawyer - listen to her.

 Best of luck, and I'll be sending good thoughts Grace's way!

 cheers,
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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-27 Thread Paul Stenquist
No real news. The first hearing was just to see if my daughter was  
going to appear and to tell her not to leave the jurisdiction until  
the case is settled. Our lawyer asked for a dismissal, but the judge  
wants to hold the evidentiary hearing before ruling on that. It will  
probably happen in a few weeks.
Paul
On Mar 27, 2007, at 10:06 AM, mike wilson wrote:



 From: Paul Stenquist [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 Date: 2007/03/27 Tue PM 01:30:53 GMT
 To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List pdml@pdml.net
 Subject: Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

 Be happy:-). Just a cross cultural screw up on my part. Tax dollars
 is such a common expression here that it slipped out unnoticed.
 Paul

 Just hope I'm lightening your day.  What news?

 On Mar 27, 2007, at 8:54 AM, mike wilson wrote:



 From: Paul Stenquist [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 Date: 2007/03/26 Mon PM 07:48:59 GMT
 To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List pdml@pdml.net
 Subject: Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

 The father has a recent conviction for drug possession and no job,
 yet UK legal aid still allowed him to bring this suit and  
 apparently
 is paying the US lawyers $700 an hour for their services. Now  
 our UK
 friends know where there tax dollars are going.
 Paul

 I pay tax in _dollars_?  Don't know whether to be annoyed that I'm
 in the 51st state or happy that my bill just reduced by 50%.

 On Mar 26, 2007, at 11:53 AM, Jim King wrote:

 keith_w wrote on Sun, 25 Mar 2007 23:58:07 -0800:
 (snip)
 Misleading!
 As I understand it, that child is in the custody of the  
 mother, and
 both
 are currently living with blood relatives. It's not as tho' it  
 were
 kidnapped to a foreign country by non-parents.

 Exactly!  My problem is that one can apparently be brought into
 court, requiring expensive legal representation, for reasons  
 having
 to do more with malice than with equity.  The legal system  
 needs to
 filter out cases without merit before allowing charges or a  
 tort  to
 be brought, and there should be consequences for those bringing
 baseless cases before the court.  Our system seems to reward  
 lawyers
 for such behavior.

 But then, I'm not a lawyer; what do I know?

 Regards, Jim

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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-27 Thread Amita Guha
Paul, I wish you the very best of luck with this horrible situation.

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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-27 Thread Jack Davis
Was that the first $6,000? I assume not. 
In this situation, having essentially the total legal gauntlet in front
of me certainly would add to my frustration. As the process goes
forward, however, I'd look for a relaxing of anxiety and a growing
optimism.

Jack
--- Paul Stenquist [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 No real news. The first hearing was just to see if my daughter was  
 going to appear and to tell her not to leave the jurisdiction until  
 the case is settled. Our lawyer asked for a dismissal, but the judge 
 
 wants to hold the evidentiary hearing before ruling on that. It will 
 
 probably happen in a few weeks.
 Paul
 On Mar 27, 2007, at 10:06 AM, mike wilson wrote:
 
 
 
  From: Paul Stenquist [EMAIL PROTECTED]
  Date: 2007/03/27 Tue PM 01:30:53 GMT
  To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List pdml@pdml.net
  Subject: Re: OT: Wish Me Luck
 
  Be happy:-). Just a cross cultural screw up on my part. Tax
 dollars
  is such a common expression here that it slipped out unnoticed.
  Paul
 
  Just hope I'm lightening your day.  What news?
 
  On Mar 27, 2007, at 8:54 AM, mike wilson wrote:
 
 
 
  From: Paul Stenquist [EMAIL PROTECTED]
  Date: 2007/03/26 Mon PM 07:48:59 GMT
  To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List pdml@pdml.net
  Subject: Re: OT: Wish Me Luck
 
  The father has a recent conviction for drug possession and no
 job,
  yet UK legal aid still allowed him to bring this suit and  
  apparently
  is paying the US lawyers $700 an hour for their services. Now  
  our UK
  friends know where there tax dollars are going.
  Paul
 
  I pay tax in _dollars_?  Don't know whether to be annoyed that
 I'm
  in the 51st state or happy that my bill just reduced by 50%.
 
  On Mar 26, 2007, at 11:53 AM, Jim King wrote:
 
  keith_w wrote on Sun, 25 Mar 2007 23:58:07 -0800:
  (snip)
  Misleading!
  As I understand it, that child is in the custody of the  
  mother, and
  both
  are currently living with blood relatives. It's not as tho' it
  
  were
  kidnapped to a foreign country by non-parents.
 
  Exactly!  My problem is that one can apparently be brought into
  court, requiring expensive legal representation, for reasons  
  having
  to do more with malice than with equity.  The legal system  
  needs to
  filter out cases without merit before allowing charges or a  
  tort  to
  be brought, and there should be consequences for those bringing
  baseless cases before the court.  Our system seems to reward  
  lawyers
  for such behavior.
 
  But then, I'm not a lawyer; what do I know?
 
  Regards, Jim
 
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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-27 Thread Mark Roberts
Paul Stenquist wrote:

Thanks Frank. I'm in good hands with the lawyers who are working on  
the case. They have a lot of experience and are very thorough. I  
think it will be handled quickly. Translation: I hope it will be  
handled before I run out of money:-).

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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-27 Thread Cotty
On 27/3/07, Mark Roberts, discombobulated, unleashed:

If the need arises, I wouldn't be surprised if the PDML could generate 
a defense fund for you. I'd certainly contribute.

If the scumbag can get legal aid, I don't see why Grace herself is not
entitled to it, being a Scot. It would be nice if there was some
mechanism in the system to accommodate this.

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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-27 Thread Paul Stenquist
Thanks much. That's very thoughtful. I think we'll be fine. Time will  
tell.
Many thanks to all who have responded. I will update the situation  
when there is progress. That won't happen for at least a couple of  
weeks.
Paul
On Mar 27, 2007, at 11:56 AM, Mark Roberts wrote:

 Paul Stenquist wrote:

 Thanks Frank. I'm in good hands with the lawyers who are working on
 the case. They have a lot of experience and are very thorough. I
 think it will be handled quickly. Translation: I hope it will be
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RE: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-27 Thread Tim Øsleby
Paul. 
Don't be a fool hesitating if you need a hand. You have friends, and that is
what friends are for.


Tim Typo
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Thanks much. That's very thoughtful. I think we'll be fine. Time will  
tell.
Many thanks to all who have responded. I will update the situation  
when there is progress. That won't happen for at least a couple of  
weeks.
Paul
On Mar 27, 2007, at 11:56 AM, Mark Roberts wrote:

 Paul Stenquist wrote:

 Thanks Frank. I'm in good hands with the lawyers who are working on
 the case. They have a lot of experience and are very thorough. I
 think it will be handled quickly. Translation: I hope it will be
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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-27 Thread Boris Liberman
Count me in!

Boris

Tim Øsleby wrote:
 Paul. 
 Don't be a fool hesitating if you need a hand. You have friends, and that is
 what friends are for.
 
 
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 Thanks much. That's very thoughtful. I think we'll be fine. Time will  
 tell.
 Many thanks to all who have responded. I will update the situation  
 when there is progress. That won't happen for at least a couple of  
 weeks.
 Paul
 On Mar 27, 2007, at 11:56 AM, Mark Roberts wrote:
 
 Paul Stenquist wrote:

 Thanks Frank. I'm in good hands with the lawyers who are working on
 the case. They have a lot of experience and are very thorough. I
 think it will be handled quickly. Translation: I hope it will be
 handled before I run out of money:-).
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RE: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-27 Thread Bob W
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 From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On 
 Behalf Of Cotty
 Sent: 27 March 2007 19:07
 To: pentax list
 Subject: Re: OT: Wish Me Luck
 
 On 27/3/07, Mark Roberts, discombobulated, unleashed:
 
 If the need arises, I wouldn't be surprised if the PDML 
 could generate 
 a defense fund for you. I'd certainly contribute.
 
 If the scumbag can get legal aid, I don't see why Grace herself is
not
 entitled to it, being a Scot. It would be nice if there was some
 mechanism in the system to accommodate this.
 
 http://www.slab.org.uk/
 

Grace won't be the defendant. Presumably her mother will. If she's
still married to the father she may qualify - might be worth exploring
the citizenship question in any case.

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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-27 Thread Paul Stenquist
You're right. The action is against my daughter. She is still   
married to the Scot, although my daughter's lawyer is filing for  
divorce as well as defending the custody action. I'll tell my  
daughter to investigate. Of course I've already delivered the first  
check to the attorney. I think that's a one-way street.
Paul
On Mar 27, 2007, at 2:51 PM, Bob W wrote:

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 Subject: Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

 On 27/3/07, Mark Roberts, discombobulated, unleashed:

 If the need arises, I wouldn't be surprised if the PDML
 could generate
 a defense fund for you. I'd certainly contribute.

 If the scumbag can get legal aid, I don't see why Grace herself is
 not
 entitled to it, being a Scot. It would be nice if there was some
 mechanism in the system to accommodate this.

 http://www.slab.org.uk/


 Grace won't be the defendant. Presumably her mother will. If she's
 still married to the father she may qualify - might be worth exploring
 the citizenship question in any case.

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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-26 Thread John Francis

And that's the fault of the American legal system, not
the British legal system ...

While I wish you luck in your case, I think it's a great
deal better to have a verdict based on the merits of the
case, rather than on anyones ability to pay for lawyers.


On Sun, Mar 25, 2007 at 08:41:13PM -0400, Paul Stenquist wrote:
 Thanks Walter. I'm sure we'll prevail, but it might be expensive.
 Paul
 On Mar 25, 2007, at 8:00 PM, Walter Hamler wrote:
 
  My prayers will be with you tomorrow.
  Life sucks sometimes!
 
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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-26 Thread keith_w
John Francis wrote:
 And that's the fault of the American legal system, not
 the British legal system ...
 
 While I wish you luck in your case, I think it's a great
 deal better to have a verdict based on the merits of the
 case, rather than on anyones ability to pay for lawyers.

When did that nicety show up in the U.S. jurisprudence system?
Almost without exception, you get a FAR better deal, and a more fair 
deal, if you can afford the high priced law firms to take your case.

Unfortunately, I've seen the reverse happen too often, as well, where 
the bad guys who can afford high priced representation get off scot-free.

Nevertheless, if the average person in legal trouble can afford it, his 
chances of ending up with a more reasonable decision are increased in 
direct proportion to his ability to pay for assistance. 


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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-26 Thread John Francis

It's not a travesty - it's a problem with two different systems
interacting.  If this were being tried in a UK court the legal
aid system would provide a lawyer for the plaintiff, but it wouldn't
necessarily provide a lawyer from the most expensive firm in town
(or, at any rate, it wouldn't pay him any more than the regulation
fee it would provide to any lawyer).  But when the jurisdiction is
overseas it gets more complicated.  The system obviously errs on
the side of providing better service, rather than leaving the rights
of a British citizen in the hands of lawyers who might be unfamiliar
with the complications of a trans-national case.

That seems to me to be the correct thing to do.  And while I'm sure
Paul is being truthful in his assessment of the merits of the case
that doesn't mean the case shouldn't be brought - the law should be
available to everyone (even alcoholic drug dealers).  And there is
at least enough of a case here for it to be brought to trial; a
minor child has been taken from the home of a British parent and
taken to a foreign country.  The legal guardianship of that child
is in dispute, and that can only be settled in court.


On Sun, Mar 25, 2007 at 08:51:53PM -0400, Jim King wrote:
 What a travesty to make of the legal system!  Good luck, and may your  
 lawyer tie them in knots!
 
 Regards, Jim
 
 BTW, can you recover your legal fees if, as hoped, the judge tosses  
 the case out of court?  It seems to me that there should be some  
 penalty for bringing a case without merit.
 
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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-26 Thread keith_w
John Francis wrote:
 It's not a travesty - it's a problem with two different systems
 interacting.  If this were being tried in a UK court the legal
 aid system would provide a lawyer for the plaintiff, but it wouldn't
 necessarily provide a lawyer from the most expensive firm in town
 (or, at any rate, it wouldn't pay him any more than the regulation
 fee it would provide to any lawyer).  But when the jurisdiction is
 overseas it gets more complicated.  The system obviously errs on
 the side of providing better service, rather than leaving the rights
 of a British citizen in the hands of lawyers who might be unfamiliar
 with the complications of a trans-national case.
 
 That seems to me to be the correct thing to do.  And while I'm sure
 Paul is being truthful in his assessment of the merits of the case
 that doesn't mean the case shouldn't be brought - the law should be
 available to everyone (even alcoholic drug dealers).  And there is
 at least enough of a case here for it to be brought to trial; a
 minor child has been taken from the home of a British parent and
 taken to a foreign country.  

Misleading!
As I understand it, that child is in the custody of the mother, and both 
are currently living with blood relatives. It's not as tho' it were 
kidnapped to a foreign country by non-parents.

keith whaley

 The legal guardianship of that child
 is in dispute, and that can only be settled in court.
 
 
 On Sun, Mar 25, 2007 at 08:51:53PM -0400, Jim King wrote:
 What a travesty to make of the legal system!  Good luck, and may your  
 lawyer tie them in knots!

 Regards, Jim

 BTW, can you recover your legal fees if, as hoped, the judge tosses  
 the case out of court?  It seems to me that there should be some  
 penalty for bringing a case without merit.

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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-26 Thread mike wilson

 
 From: Paul Stenquist [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 Date: 2007/03/25 Sun PM 11:51:45 GMT
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 Subject: OT: Wish Me Luck
 
 The nightmare had become reality. 

Chin up, Paul and family.  No sensible court is going to give custody (and 
maybe not even access rights) to an idividual as messed up as Grace's father 
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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-26 Thread Paul Stenquist
I doubt it. The father is a penniless lout. The UK should have to  
pay, but I doubt that anything like that can be made to  happen.
Paul
On Mar 25, 2007, at 8:51 PM, Jim King wrote:

 What a travesty to make of the legal system!  Good luck, and may your
 lawyer tie them in knots!

 Regards, Jim

 BTW, can you recover your legal fees if, as hoped, the judge tosses
 the case out of court?  It seems to me that there should be some
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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-26 Thread cbwaters
Can we please let the merits of the case and the two court systems be and 
just wish Paul luck?
I'm sure it won't do him any good to get into a flamosophical discussion 
about what's right and good.
We can do nothing about his situation except to support him.  We can be a 
hurtful bunch though, if we choose.

Good luck Paul.

Cory

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Subject: Re: OT: Wish Me Luck


 John Francis wrote:
 It's not a travesty - it's a problem with two different systems
 interacting.  If this were being tried in a UK court the legal
 aid system would provide a lawyer for the plaintiff, but it wouldn't
 necessarily provide a lawyer from the most expensive firm in town
 (or, at any rate, it wouldn't pay him any more than the regulation
 fee it would provide to any lawyer).  But when the jurisdiction is
 overseas it gets more complicated.  The system obviously errs on
 the side of providing better service, rather than leaving the rights
 of a British citizen in the hands of lawyers who might be unfamiliar
 with the complications of a trans-national case.

 That seems to me to be the correct thing to do.  And while I'm sure
 Paul is being truthful in his assessment of the merits of the case
 that doesn't mean the case shouldn't be brought - the law should be
 available to everyone (even alcoholic drug dealers).  And there is
 at least enough of a case here for it to be brought to trial; a
 minor child has been taken from the home of a British parent and
 taken to a foreign country.

 Misleading!
 As I understand it, that child is in the custody of the mother, and both
 are currently living with blood relatives. It's not as tho' it were
 kidnapped to a foreign country by non-parents.

 keith whaley

 The legal guardianship of that child
 is in dispute, and that can only be settled in court.


 On Sun, Mar 25, 2007 at 08:51:53PM -0400, Jim King wrote:
 What a travesty to make of the legal system!  Good luck, and may your
 lawyer tie them in knots!

 Regards, Jim

 BTW, can you recover your legal fees if, as hoped, the judge tosses
 the case out of court?  It seems to me that there should be some
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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-26 Thread Paul Stenquist

On Mar 26, 2007, at 1:27 AM, Cotty wrote:
 . If what you say is true, and
 I'm sure it is, then you have nothing to worry about.

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RE: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-26 Thread Markus Maurer
 Hi Paul
I'm with Cotty here and can not believe that any law could force Grace to
leave the United states and her mother.
The judges will decide in favor of Grace. 
I wish you all the power and luck you need.
Greetings
Markus



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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-26 Thread Paul Sorenson
While I agree that this happens all too often, sometimes the little guys 
*do* win.  This one took on BASF.

http://www.jsonline.com/story/index.aspx?id=581631

-P

keith_w wrote:

 When did that nicety show up in the U.S. jurisprudence system?
 Almost without exception, you get a FAR better deal, and a more fair 
 deal, if you can afford the high priced law firms to take your case.
 
 Unfortunately, I've seen the reverse happen too often, as well, where 
 the bad guys who can afford high priced representation get off scot-free.
 
 Nevertheless, if the average person in legal trouble can afford it, his 
 chances of ending up with a more reasonable decision are increased in 
 direct proportion to his ability to pay for assistance. 
 
 
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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-26 Thread David J Brooks
I really hope all goes well for ya'll Paul

Xing fingers

Dave

On 3/25/07, Paul Stenquist [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 The nightmare had become reality. Late Friday a United States
 Marshall came to our front door with legal papers served for Grace's
 father. He's an unemployed alcoholic, part-time drug dealer who lives
 near Edinburg, Scotland. But like all citizens of the Uk, he's
 entitled to free legal aid. So when my daughter, who was tired of
 being beaten and locked in an apartment, fled Scotland with Grace, he
 sought legal aid. He doesn't really want Grace. He wants to punish my
 daughter for leaving him. But the UK legal aid system is monstrous.
 They were able to retain the best law firm in Michigan to represent
 him. The law firm evidently was able to pull some strings. We weren't
 served papers until Friday night for a Monday court appearance. The
 first lawyer my daughter talked to wanted a 20K US retainer just to
 show up. Luckily, I have some friends in law as well. I eventually
 found a very aggressive young woman lawyer who will represent us
 tomorrow. I still have to come up with a six K retainer, but that's
 better than twenty K. I think the Brits and their social welfare
 state should go directly to hell.
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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-26 Thread Mark Roberts
Cotty wrote:

Our legal aid system is not perfect - far from it - but it does give
everyone a fair crack at the legal whip. If what you say is true, and
I'm sure it is, then you have nothing to worry about.

Paul, I know someone who is going through a situation very much like 
your own right now. In fact, the situation is *eeriely* like your own: 
His doughter has a child whose father is an umenployed alchoholic, 
etc., etc. and a child custody battle is in progress (though both 
parents are in the U.S.). Remember, the courts, at least at first, have 
no choice but to assume both parents are equally deserving of custody 
until evidence to the contrary is presented. It's unpleasant and 
expensive but I'm confident you'll prevail. 


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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-26 Thread Jim King
keith_w wrote on Sun, 25 Mar 2007 23:58:07 -0800:
 (snip)
 Misleading!
 As I understand it, that child is in the custody of the mother, and  
 both
 are currently living with blood relatives. It's not as tho' it were
 kidnapped to a foreign country by non-parents.

Exactly!  My problem is that one can apparently be brought into  
court, requiring expensive legal representation, for reasons having  
to do more with malice than with equity.  The legal system needs to  
filter out cases without merit before allowing charges or a tort  to  
be brought, and there should be consequences for those bringing  
baseless cases before the court.  Our system seems to reward lawyers  
for such behavior.

But then, I'm not a lawyer; what do I know?

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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-26 Thread Eactivist
In a message dated 3/26/2007 9:07:41 A.M.  Pacific Daylight Time, 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:
Exactly!  My problem  is that one can apparently be brought into  
court, requiring expensive  legal representation, for reasons having  
to do more with malice than  with equity.  The legal system needs to  
filter out cases without  merit before allowing charges or a tort  to  
be brought, and there  should be consequences for those bringing  
baseless cases before the  court.  Our system seems to reward lawyers  
for such  behavior.

But then, I'm not a lawyer; what do I know?

Regards,  Jim

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And how would they filter out cases without merit?  They'd have to hear both 
sides. In other words, that is what bringing things  into court does.

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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-26 Thread graywolf
This thread did not show up until just now, strange.

Anyway, the best of luck to you, your daughter, and granddaughter in 
this matter, Paul.

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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-26 Thread graywolf
Of course you could live somewhere where a simple allegation would get 
you tossed into prison for several years with your property confiscated. 
Sort of like they now do to alleged drug dealers here in the US.

But Marnie is correct. That is the purpose of a court of law, to 
determine the facts in the case. The judgment actually should be a 
separate and disconnected venue, but we never got quite that 
enlightened. And unfortunately miscarriages of justice happen all to often.

--graywolf


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 And how would they filter out cases without merit?  They'd have to hear both 
 sides. In other words, that is what bringing things  into court does.

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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-26 Thread Boris Liberman
Mark, it seems to me that the amount of money spent by Paul might be
directly proportional to the strength of the lawyer of the opposite
side. But then again, it does not mean much to Grace or anything
really.

I do hope that justice and compassion will prevail and Paul's daughter
will emerge victorious from this legal process.

On 3/26/07, Mark Roberts [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 Yep. Remember, the court doesn't know about Paul, Grace and anything
 else about the case that we do. All the court knows is:
  - One child
  - Two parents
  - Each parent wants custody

 It sucks, but at least paul seems to have found a lawyer who's cutting
 him a break: My friend with the similar case is spending *way* more
 than six thousand dollars, and his case doesn't cross international
 borders.

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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-26 Thread Mark Roberts
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

In a message dated 3/26/2007 9:07:41 A.M.  Pacific Daylight Time, 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:
Exactly!  My problem  is that one can apparently be brought into  
court, requiring expensive  legal representation, for reasons having  
to do more with malice than  with equity.  The legal system needs to  
filter out cases without  merit before allowing charges or a tort  to  
be brought, and there  should be consequences for those bringing  
baseless cases before the  court.  Our system seems to reward lawyers  
for such  behavior.

But then, I'm not a lawyer; what do I know?

And how would they filter out cases without merit?  They'd have to 
hear both sides. In other words, that is what bringing things  into 
court does.

Yep. Remember, the court doesn't know about Paul, Grace and anything 
else about the case that we do. All the court knows is:
 - One child
 - Two parents
 - Each parent wants custody

It sucks, but at least paul seems to have found a lawyer who's cutting 
him a break: My friend with the similar case is spending *way* more 
than six thousand dollars, and his case doesn't cross international 
borders.


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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-26 Thread Cotty
On 26/3/07, cbwaters, discombobulated, unleashed:

I'm sure it won't do him any good to get into a flamosophical discussion 
about what's right and good.
We can do nothing about his situation except to support him.  We can be a 
hurtful bunch though, if we choose.

Good luck Paul.

Fully agreed and echoed here.

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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-26 Thread Jim King
On Mon, 26 Mar 2007 12:09:59 EDT [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 And how would they filter out cases without merit?  They'd have to  
 hear both
 sides. In other words, that is what bringing things  into court does.

It would seem to me that the courts could review the cases being  
brought and dismiss out of hand those with no legal basis, rather  
than hauling the person being sued into court to defend themselves  
against a malicious attack.  But I don't know all the facts or the  
law in this matter; it may be that a hearing with both sides present  
is required to sort this matter out.

In any event, if the plaintiff does not have a valid case (s)he  
should pay the legal costs of the defendant without having to resort  
to more legal action to force recovery.  If I understand correctly  
that's the way it works in many countries.  However, US lawyers have  
constructed the legal system differently here.  I guess you win some  
and I win some, but the lawyers always win...

(My father was a lawyer and my daughter is a lawyer; I've had this  
discussion with them also.)

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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-26 Thread Kenneth Waller
My experience in the U.S. legal system (product litigation) is that a win is 
more often based on the story being told  the ones telling it then the 
facts of the case @ hand.

Kenneth Waller

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From: keith_w [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: Re: OT: Wish Me Luck


 John Francis wrote:
 And that's the fault of the American legal system, not
 the British legal system ...

 While I wish you luck in your case, I think it's a great
 deal better to have a verdict based on the merits of the
 case, rather than on anyones ability to pay for lawyers.

 When did that nicety show up in the U.S. jurisprudence system?
 Almost without exception, you get a FAR better deal, and a more fair
 deal, if you can afford the high priced law firms to take your case.

 Unfortunately, I've seen the reverse happen too often, as well, where
 the bad guys who can afford high priced representation get off scot-free.

 Nevertheless, if the average person in legal trouble can afford it, his
 chances of ending up with a more reasonable decision are increased in
 direct proportion to his ability to pay for assistance.


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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-26 Thread Kenneth Waller
 Good luck, and I'm sure common sense will prevail.

Sorry to say but I wouldn't bet on that !

Kenneth Waller
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Subject: Re: OT: Wish Me Luck


 On 26/3/07, cbwaters, discombobulated, unleashed:

I'm sure it won't do him any good to get into a flamosophical discussion
about what's right and good.
We can do nothing about his situation except to support him.  We can be a
hurtful bunch though, if we choose.

Good luck Paul.

 Fully agreed and echoed here.

 Good luck, and I'm sure common sense will prevail.

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RE: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-26 Thread Tim Øsleby
Very well said Cory. 
Grace needs Paul to be strong, I think distractions like this does not do
any them any good. So PSTFU


Tim Typo
Mostly harmless (just plain Norwegian)
 

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Can we please let the merits of the case and the two court systems be and 
just wish Paul luck?
I'm sure it won't do him any good to get into a flamosophical discussion 
about what's right and good.
We can do nothing about his situation except to support him.  We can be a 
hurtful bunch though, if we choose.

Good luck Paul.

Cory

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From: keith_w [EMAIL PROTECTED]
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Sent: Monday, March 26, 2007 3:48 AM
Subject: Re: OT: Wish Me Luck


 John Francis wrote:
 It's not a travesty - it's a problem with two different systems
 interacting.  If this were being tried in a UK court the legal
 aid system would provide a lawyer for the plaintiff, but it wouldn't
 necessarily provide a lawyer from the most expensive firm in town
 (or, at any rate, it wouldn't pay him any more than the regulation
 fee it would provide to any lawyer).  But when the jurisdiction is
 overseas it gets more complicated.  The system obviously errs on
 the side of providing better service, rather than leaving the rights
 of a British citizen in the hands of lawyers who might be unfamiliar
 with the complications of a trans-national case.

 That seems to me to be the correct thing to do.  And while I'm sure
 Paul is being truthful in his assessment of the merits of the case
 that doesn't mean the case shouldn't be brought - the law should be
 available to everyone (even alcoholic drug dealers).  And there is
 at least enough of a case here for it to be brought to trial; a
 minor child has been taken from the home of a British parent and
 taken to a foreign country.

 Misleading!
 As I understand it, that child is in the custody of the mother, and both
 are currently living with blood relatives. It's not as tho' it were
 kidnapped to a foreign country by non-parents.

 keith whaley

 The legal guardianship of that child
 is in dispute, and that can only be settled in court.


 On Sun, Mar 25, 2007 at 08:51:53PM -0400, Jim King wrote:
 What a travesty to make of the legal system!  Good luck, and may your
 lawyer tie them in knots!

 Regards, Jim

 BTW, can you recover your legal fees if, as hoped, the judge tosses
 the case out of court?  It seems to me that there should be some
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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-26 Thread William Robb

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From: Kenneth Waller
Subject: Re: OT: Wish Me Luck


 Good luck, and I'm sure common sense will prevail.

 Sorry to say but I wouldn't bet on that !

We can always hope it does. I'm not sure how the US court system comes to 
judgement in family law, but if it is anything like the Canadian system, the 
biggest deciding factor will be what is best for the child.
I don't think there is a court anywhere that will pull a child from a loving 
home with multiple family caregivers and place her in the home of a person 
who is, by Paul's description, gravely challenged in this regard.

Hopefully, once the smoke clears, Paul can recover damages from the UK 
government that is funding the legal challenge.

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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-26 Thread Paul Stenquist
Again, thanks to all for the good wishes. The six thousand is just  
for the first twenty hours of my lawyer's time. If it goes beyond  
that, I'll have to pay more.
Paul
On Mar 26, 2007, at 12:43 PM, Boris Liberman wrote:

 Mark, it seems to me that the amount of money spent by Paul might be
 directly proportional to the strength of the lawyer of the opposite
 side. But then again, it does not mean much to Grace or anything
 really.

 I do hope that justice and compassion will prevail and Paul's daughter
 will emerge victorious from this legal process.

 On 3/26/07, Mark Roberts [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 Yep. Remember, the court doesn't know about Paul, Grace and anything
 else about the case that we do. All the court knows is:
  - One child
  - Two parents
  - Each parent wants custody

 It sucks, but at least paul seems to have found a lawyer who's  
 cutting
 him a break: My friend with the similar case is spending *way* more
 than six thousand dollars, and his case doesn't cross international
 borders.

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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-26 Thread Paul Stenquist
The father has a recent conviction for drug possession and no job,  
yet UK legal aid still allowed him to bring this suit and apparently  
is paying the US lawyers $700 an hour for their services. Now our UK  
friends know where there tax dollars are going.
Paul
On Mar 26, 2007, at 11:53 AM, Jim King wrote:

 keith_w wrote on Sun, 25 Mar 2007 23:58:07 -0800:
 (snip)
 Misleading!
 As I understand it, that child is in the custody of the mother, and
 both
 are currently living with blood relatives. It's not as tho' it were
 kidnapped to a foreign country by non-parents.

 Exactly!  My problem is that one can apparently be brought into
 court, requiring expensive legal representation, for reasons having
 to do more with malice than with equity.  The legal system needs to
 filter out cases without merit before allowing charges or a tort  to
 be brought, and there should be consequences for those bringing
 baseless cases before the court.  Our system seems to reward lawyers
 for such behavior.

 But then, I'm not a lawyer; what do I know?

 Regards, Jim

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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-26 Thread Patrick Genovese
Hi Paul,

I'm sorry to hear about your problem.  I wish you all the best of luck
and promise you our (me  my family's) prayers.

Regards

Patrick

On 3/26/07, Paul Stenquist [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 The nightmare had become reality. Late Friday a United States
 Marshall came to our front door with legal papers served for Grace's
 father. He's an unemployed alcoholic, part-time drug dealer who lives
 near Edinburg, Scotland. But like all citizens of the Uk, he's
 entitled to free legal aid. So when my daughter, who was tired of
 being beaten and locked in an apartment, fled Scotland with Grace, he
 sought legal aid. He doesn't really want Grace. He wants to punish my
 daughter for leaving him. But the UK legal aid system is monstrous.
 They were able to retain the best law firm in Michigan to represent
 him. The law firm evidently was able to pull some strings. We weren't
 served papers until Friday night for a Monday court appearance. The
 first lawyer my daughter talked to wanted a 20K US retainer just to
 show up. Luckily, I have some friends in law as well. I eventually
 found a very aggressive young woman lawyer who will represent us
 tomorrow. I still have to come up with a six K retainer, but that's
 better than twenty K. I think the Brits and their social welfare
 state should go directly to hell.
 Paul

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RE: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-26 Thread Bob W
 
 Yep. Remember, the court doesn't know about Paul, Grace and anything

 else about the case that we do. All the court knows is:
  - One child
  - Two parents
  - Each parent wants custody
 
 It sucks, but at least paul seems to have found a lawyer 
 who's cutting 
 him a break: My friend with the similar case is spending *way* more 
 than six thousand dollars, and his case doesn't cross international 
 borders.
 

it seems to me that, however difficult this particular situation is
for Paul and his family, a system that gives everybody access to the
law - in spite of some iniquities - is preferable to one that gives
access to the law only to rich people. Most modern democracies agree.

Regards
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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-26 Thread William Robb

- Original Message - 
From: Bob W
Subject: RE: OT: Wish Me Luck





 it seems to me that, however difficult this particular situation is
 for Paul and his family, a system that gives everybody access to the
 law - in spite of some iniquities - is preferable to one that gives
 access to the law only to rich people. Most modern democracies agree.


I think Paul's complaint, and there is merit to it, is that one party get's 
to risk bankruptcy while the other party is bankrolled by a relatively 
bottomless pit of funding, and risks nothing.

We have a similar legal aid funding mechanism in Canada.

I've often thought that if one party is being funded by legal aid, then that 
funding should be extended to both parties to ensure financial, as well as 
legal fairness.

On the one hand, legal aid can prevent inequities regarding legal 
representation, but it can also have exactly the opposite effect by forcing 
a person to either provide private and limited funding to take on an 
opponent with unlimited funding or to decide if their desire to seek access 
to the law is worth financial hardship or ruination to get what they feel is 
just.

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RE: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-26 Thread Bob W
 -Original Message-
 From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On 
 Behalf Of Cotty
 Sent: 26 March 2007 06:29
 To: pentax list
 Subject: Re: OT: Wish Me Luck
 
 On 25/3/07, Paul Stenquist, discombobulated, unleashed:
 
 Thanks for your prayers, Jack. We might need them. BTW, my 
 rag about  
 the UK doesn't include our great PDML members, including Bob, Mike,

 Cotty and others. They in fact advised me some time ago in 
 regard to  
 this situation.
 
 Actually it doesn't include the legal system of my country either.
 Personally I think it's pretty darn good, otherwise I 
 wouldn't be living
 here ;-) 
 

if the gentleman (?) in question is Scottish, and living in Scotland,
then it's all their fault, and certainly nothing to do with my country
either. Scottish law is separate from the law in England and Wales
(and probably Northern Ireland too, if there is any law there). 

Regards,
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RE: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-26 Thread Tom C
it seems to me that, however difficult this particular situation is
for Paul and his family, a system that gives everybody access to the
law - in spite of some iniquities - is preferable to one that gives
access to the law only to rich people. Most modern democracies agree.

Regards
Bob


Agreed, but define rich.

Access to the law and competent representation in a court of law are two 
different things (as I'm sure you know).

Not commenting on Paul's case, but in the end the differentiation is lost if 
one has access to the law but justice is not done, either because of an 
incompetent judge, incompetent jury, incompetent attorney or plain lack of 
funds to get competent counsel.

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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-26 Thread David J Brooks
I think Paul would appreciate it if we did not turn this into the
great debate of legal systems.

I also think it took 110% of courage to even go to the lsit about this.

Lets give Steady the support the family needs.

Dave

On 3/26/07, Tom C [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 it seems to me that, however difficult this particular situation is
 for Paul and his family, a system that gives everybody access to the
 law - in spite of some iniquities - is preferable to one that gives
 access to the law only to rich people. Most modern democracies agree.
 
 Regards
 Bob
 

 Agreed, but define rich.

 Access to the law and competent representation in a court of law are two
 different things (as I'm sure you know).

 Not commenting on Paul's case, but in the end the differentiation is lost if
 one has access to the law but justice is not done, either because of an
 incompetent judge, incompetent jury, incompetent attorney or plain lack of
 funds to get competent counsel.

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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-25 Thread Jack Davis
Damn it!! Will be praying for the absolute best outcome. I think we all
feel as parents to your beautiful Grace.

Jack
--- Paul Stenquist [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 The nightmare had become reality. Late Friday a United States  
 Marshall came to our front door with legal papers served for Grace's 
 
 father. He's an unemployed alcoholic, part-time drug dealer who lives
  
 near Edinburg, Scotland. But like all citizens of the Uk, he's  
 entitled to free legal aid. So when my daughter, who was tired of  
 being beaten and locked in an apartment, fled Scotland with Grace, he
  
 sought legal aid. He doesn't really want Grace. He wants to punish my
  
 daughter for leaving him. But the UK legal aid system is monstrous.  
 They were able to retain the best law firm in Michigan to represent  
 him. The law firm evidently was able to pull some strings. We weren't
  
 served papers until Friday night for a Monday court appearance. The  
 first lawyer my daughter talked to wanted a 20K US retainer just to  
 show up. Luckily, I have some friends in law as well. I eventually  
 found a very aggressive young woman lawyer who will represent us  
 tomorrow. I still have to come up with a six K retainer, but that's  
 better than twenty K. I think the Brits and their social welfare  
 state should go directly to hell.
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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-25 Thread Adam Maas
Good luck to you, Grace and the young Lawyer.

-Adam


Paul Stenquist wrote:
 The nightmare had become reality. Late Friday a United States  
 Marshall came to our front door with legal papers served for Grace's  
 father. He's an unemployed alcoholic, part-time drug dealer who lives  
 near Edinburg, Scotland. But like all citizens of the Uk, he's  
 entitled to free legal aid. So when my daughter, who was tired of  
 being beaten and locked in an apartment, fled Scotland with Grace, he  
 sought legal aid. He doesn't really want Grace. He wants to punish my  
 daughter for leaving him. But the UK legal aid system is monstrous.  
 They were able to retain the best law firm in Michigan to represent  
 him. The law firm evidently was able to pull some strings. We weren't  
 served papers until Friday night for a Monday court appearance. The  
 first lawyer my daughter talked to wanted a 20K US retainer just to  
 show up. Luckily, I have some friends in law as well. I eventually  
 found a very aggressive young woman lawyer who will represent us  
 tomorrow. I still have to come up with a six K retainer, but that's  
 better than twenty K. I think the Brits and their social welfare  
 state should go directly to hell.
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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-25 Thread Paul Stenquist
Thanks for your prayers, Jack. We might need them. BTW, my rag about  
the UK doesn't include our great PDML members, including Bob, Mike,  
Cotty and others. They in fact advised me some time ago in regard to  
this situation.
Paul
On Mar 25, 2007, at 8:12 PM, Jack Davis wrote:

 Damn it!! Will be praying for the absolute best outcome. I think we  
 all
 feel as parents to your beautiful Grace.

 Jack
 --- Paul Stenquist [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 The nightmare had become reality. Late Friday a United States
 Marshall came to our front door with legal papers served for Grace's

 father. He's an unemployed alcoholic, part-time drug dealer who lives

 near Edinburg, Scotland. But like all citizens of the Uk, he's
 entitled to free legal aid. So when my daughter, who was tired of
 being beaten and locked in an apartment, fled Scotland with Grace, he

 sought legal aid. He doesn't really want Grace. He wants to punish my

 daughter for leaving him. But the UK legal aid system is monstrous.
 They were able to retain the best law firm in Michigan to represent
 him. The law firm evidently was able to pull some strings. We weren't

 served papers until Friday night for a Monday court appearance. The
 first lawyer my daughter talked to wanted a 20K US retainer just to
 show up. Luckily, I have some friends in law as well. I eventually
 found a very aggressive young woman lawyer who will represent us
 tomorrow. I still have to come up with a six K retainer, but that's
 better than twenty K. I think the Brits and their social welfare
 state should go directly to hell.
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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-25 Thread Bruce Dayton
So sorry to hear.  I hope you can prevail tomorrow.

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Sunday, March 25, 2007, 4:51:45 PM, you wrote:

PS The nightmare had become reality. Late Friday a United States  
PS Marshall came to our front door with legal papers served for Grace's
PS father. He's an unemployed alcoholic, part-time drug dealer who lives
PS near Edinburg, Scotland. But like all citizens of the Uk, he's  
PS entitled to free legal aid. So when my daughter, who was tired of
PS being beaten and locked in an apartment, fled Scotland with Grace, he
PS sought legal aid. He doesn't really want Grace. He wants to punish my
PS daughter for leaving him. But the UK legal aid system is monstrous.
PS They were able to retain the best law firm in Michigan to represent
PS him. The law firm evidently was able to pull some strings. We weren't
PS served papers until Friday night for a Monday court appearance. The
PS first lawyer my daughter talked to wanted a 20K US retainer just to
PS show up. Luckily, I have some friends in law as well. I eventually
PS found a very aggressive young woman lawyer who will represent us  
PS tomorrow. I still have to come up with a six K retainer, but that's
PS better than twenty K. I think the Brits and their social welfare  
PS state should go directly to hell.
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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-25 Thread Paul Stenquist
Thanks Walter. I'm sure we'll prevail, but it might be expensive.
Paul
On Mar 25, 2007, at 8:00 PM, Walter Hamler wrote:

 My prayers will be with you tomorrow.
 Life sucks sometimes!

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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-25 Thread William Robb

- Original Message - 
From: Paul Stenquist
Subject: Re: OT: Wish Me Luck


 Thanks for your prayers, Jack. We might need them. BTW, my rag about
 the UK doesn't include our great PDML members, including Bob, Mike,
 Cotty and others. They in fact advised me some time ago in regard to
 this situation.

I sympathize with your frustration, however, while their system may not be 
serving justice in this case, it does allow for representation  based on 
need rather than ability to pay.
The worst system is one in which justice depends on how deep your pockets 
are rather than who is correct.

Good luck with the battle ahead of you.

William Robb

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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-25 Thread Christian
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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-25 Thread Eactivist
In a message dated 3/25/2007 4:51:47 P.M.  Pacific Daylight Time, 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:
The nightmare had  become reality. Late Friday a United States  
Marshall came to our front  door with legal papers served for Grace's  
father. He's an unemployed  alcoholic, part-time drug dealer who lives  
near Edinburg, Scotland.  But like all citizens of the Uk, he's  
entitled to free legal aid. So  when my daughter, who was tired of  
being beaten and locked in an  apartment, fled Scotland with Grace, he  
sought legal aid. He doesn't  really want Grace. He wants to punish my  
daughter for leaving him. But  the UK legal aid system is monstrous.  
They were able to retain the  best law firm in Michigan to represent  
him. The law firm evidently was  able to pull some strings. We weren't  
served papers until Friday night  for a Monday court appearance. The  
first lawyer my daughter talked to  wanted a 20K US retainer just to  
show up. Luckily, I have some friends  in law as well. I eventually  
found a very aggressive young woman  lawyer who will represent us  
tomorrow. I still have to come up with a  six K retainer, but that's  
better than twenty K. I think the Brits and  their social welfare  
state should go directly to  hell.
Paul

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Good luck, Paul, mom, and Grace. Bear in  mind, unless there is a good reason 
for otherwise, usually the mom wins. But  good luck none-the-less.

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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-25 Thread Paul Sorenson
Best of luck on this, Paul.  Any man that beats on a woman should die a 
slow, painful death.  Let's hope our legal system will see this guy for 
what he is and settle the case in your favor.

-P

Paul Stenquist wrote:
 The nightmare had become reality. Late Friday a United States  
 Marshall came to our front door with legal papers served for Grace's  
 father. He's an unemployed alcoholic, part-time drug dealer who lives  
 near Edinburg, Scotland. But like all citizens of the Uk, he's  
 entitled to free legal aid. So when my daughter, who was tired of  
 being beaten and locked in an apartment, fled Scotland with Grace, he  
 sought legal aid. He doesn't really want Grace. He wants to punish my  
 daughter for leaving him. But the UK legal aid system is monstrous.  
 They were able to retain the best law firm in Michigan to represent  
 him. The law firm evidently was able to pull some strings. We weren't  
 served papers until Friday night for a Monday court appearance. The  
 first lawyer my daughter talked to wanted a 20K US retainer just to  
 show up. Luckily, I have some friends in law as well. I eventually  
 found a very aggressive young woman lawyer who will represent us  
 tomorrow. I still have to come up with a six K retainer, but that's  
 better than twenty K. I think the Brits and their social welfare  
 state should go directly to hell.
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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-25 Thread Brendan MacRae
Good luck with this, Paul. I hope it all goes your
way.

I'll have to talk to my brother about this when I see
him tomorrow. I was wholly unaware that the legal
system worked that way in England. He's been a college
professor in Durham for the last decade. I'd like to
hear his take on this especially now since he's both a
British Subject and an American Citizen (or so he
says...).

-Brendan
--- Paul Stenquist [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 The nightmare had become reality. Late Friday a
 United States  
 Marshall came to our front door with legal papers
 served for Grace's  
 father. He's an unemployed alcoholic, part-time drug
 dealer who lives  
 near Edinburg, Scotland. But like all citizens of
 the Uk, he's  
 entitled to free legal aid. So when my daughter, who
 was tired of  
 being beaten and locked in an apartment, fled
 Scotland with Grace, he  
 sought legal aid. He doesn't really want Grace. He
 wants to punish my  
 daughter for leaving him. But the UK legal aid
 system is monstrous.  
 They were able to retain the best law firm in
 Michigan to represent  
 him. The law firm evidently was able to pull some
 strings. We weren't  
 served papers until Friday night for a Monday court
 appearance. The  
 first lawyer my daughter talked to wanted a 20K US
 retainer just to  
 show up. Luckily, I have some friends in law as
 well. I eventually  
 found a very aggressive young woman lawyer who will
 represent us  
 tomorrow. I still have to come up with a six K
 retainer, but that's  
 better than twenty K. I think the Brits and their
 social welfare  
 state should go directly to hell.
 Paul
 
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RE: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-25 Thread Shel Belinkoff
Hi Paul,

Good luck.  I hope that you'll get to keep Grace and do so without too much
trouble. 

Shel


 [Original Message]
 From: Paul Stenquist

 The nightmare had become reality. Late Friday a United States  
 Marshall came to our front door with legal papers served for Grace's  
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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-25 Thread Mishka
he can counter sue.

On 3/25/07, Jim King [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 What a travesty to make of the legal system!  Good luck, and may your
 lawyer tie them in knots!

 Regards, Jim

 BTW, can you recover your legal fees if, as hoped, the judge tosses
 the case out of court?  It seems to me that there should be some
 penalty for bringing a case without merit.

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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-25 Thread Boris Liberman
Paul, I'll be thinking of you and Grace. Neither of you deserves to deal 
with this. I wish and hope that your lawyer friend will deal with this 
issue swiftly and painlessly.

Boris


Paul Stenquist wrote:
 The nightmare had become reality. Late Friday a United States  
 Marshall came to our front door with legal papers served for Grace's  
 father. He's an unemployed alcoholic, part-time drug dealer who lives  
 near Edinburg, Scotland. But like all citizens of the Uk, he's  
 entitled to free legal aid. So when my daughter, who was tired of  
 being beaten and locked in an apartment, fled Scotland with Grace, he  
 sought legal aid. He doesn't really want Grace. He wants to punish my  
 daughter for leaving him. But the UK legal aid system is monstrous.  
 They were able to retain the best law firm in Michigan to represent  
 him. The law firm evidently was able to pull some strings. We weren't  
 served papers until Friday night for a Monday court appearance. The  
 first lawyer my daughter talked to wanted a 20K US retainer just to  
 show up. Luckily, I have some friends in law as well. I eventually  
 found a very aggressive young woman lawyer who will represent us  
 tomorrow. I still have to come up with a six K retainer, but that's  
 better than twenty K. I think the Brits and their social welfare  
 state should go directly to hell.
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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-25 Thread Cotty
On 25/3/07, Paul Stenquist, discombobulated, unleashed:

Thanks for your prayers, Jack. We might need them. BTW, my rag about  
the UK doesn't include our great PDML members, including Bob, Mike,  
Cotty and others. They in fact advised me some time ago in regard to  
this situation.

Actually it doesn't include the legal system of my country either.
Personally I think it's pretty darn good, otherwise I wouldn't be living
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Re: OT: Wish Me Luck

2007-03-25 Thread Cotty
On 25/3/07, Paul Stenquist, discombobulated, unleashed:

The nightmare had become reality. Late Friday a United States  
Marshall came to our front door with legal papers served for Grace's  
father. He's an unemployed alcoholic, part-time drug dealer who lives  
near Edinburg, Scotland. But like all citizens of the Uk, he's  
entitled to free legal aid. So when my daughter, who was tired of  
being beaten and locked in an apartment, fled Scotland with Grace, he  
sought legal aid. He doesn't really want Grace. He wants to punish my  
daughter for leaving him. But the UK legal aid system is monstrous.  
They were able to retain the best law firm in Michigan to represent  
him. The law firm evidently was able to pull some strings. We weren't  
served papers until Friday night for a Monday court appearance. The  
first lawyer my daughter talked to wanted a 20K US retainer just to  
show up. Luckily, I have some friends in law as well. I eventually  
found a very aggressive young woman lawyer who will represent us  
tomorrow. I still have to come up with a six K retainer, but that's  
better than twenty K. I think the Brits and their social welfare  
state should go directly to hell.

Paul,

Of course I wish you and your daughter the best of luck and hopefully
common sense will prevail, and I know you're probably tired and
emotional, but I have no aspirations to head down into the bowels of the
Earth just yet.

Our legal aid system is not perfect - far from it - but it does give
everyone a fair crack at the legal whip. If what you say is true, and
I'm sure it is, then you have nothing to worry about.

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Re: OT: Wish me Luck

2004-08-02 Thread Peter J. Alling
True but easy to screw up, even with poloroid tests, and a PITA when 
those 4x5 transparencys come back...

Doug Franklin wrote:
On Wed, 28 Jul 2004 13:55:49 -0400, Peter J. Alling wrote:
 

Auto parts are tough, especially if they are highly chromed performance 
parts.  Most art directors
don't want to see the photographer or his equipment on the product. 
   

Light box and geometry.
TTYL, DougF KG4LMZ

 




Re: OT: Wish me Luck

2004-08-02 Thread William Robb

- Original Message - 
From: Peter J. Alling
Subject: Re: OT: Wish me Luck


 True but easy to screw up, even with poloroid tests, and a PITA
when
 those 4x5 transparencys come back...

I was shooting 4x5 of some circuit boards for a local fabricator. I
had a great set up, everything was happy in relation to everything
else, I had focus across the entire set and the lighting was good.
The polaroids were gorgeous.
So I shot half a dozen chromes and fired them off to the lab.
There was, unfortunately, a TDK cassette case that I was using to
prop up one of the boards clearly visible.
I didn't see it.
The AD didn't see it.
The client didn't see it.
I think quality control in the press shop finally noticed the damn
thing.

William Robb




Re: OT: Wish me Luck

2004-08-01 Thread Paul Stenquist
Good luck on this one Frank. I share your desires and understand all 
the obstacles.
Paul

On Aug 1, 2004, at 5:12 PM, Juey Chong Ong wrote:
On Jul 27, 2004, at 12:37 PM, frank theriault wrote:
Wish me luck;  I've applied for several
non-photography jobs, this is the first photo job I've
taken a shot at.
Good luck, Frank!
--jc



Re: OT: Wish me Luck

2004-07-29 Thread frank theriault
 --- Peter J. Alling [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote: 
 Auto parts are tough, especially if they are highly
 chromed performance 
 parts.  Most art directors
 don't want to see the photographer or his equipment
 on the product. 
 

Why ever not?  vbg

Besides, dude, it's my style...  

g

-frank

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Re: OT: Wish me Luck

2004-07-29 Thread frank theriault
 --- Peter J. Alling [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote: 
 Sorry Frank, I could never give a Photographic
 reference to someone who
 might take me seriously, but good luck anyway. 

That's okay, Peter.

I wasn't actually looking for your reference anyway...

vbg

Seriously, thanks!

-frank

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Re: OT: Wish me Luck

2004-07-28 Thread Peter J. Alling
Sorry Frank, I could never give a Photographic reference to someone who
might take me seriously, but good luck anyway. 

frank theriault wrote:
Just fired off a resume/application to a local firm
that's looking for a catalogue photographer
(full-time, employee position).
Maybe I should have named this list-at-large as a
reference vbg.
Wish me luck;  I've applied for several
non-photography jobs, this is the first photo job I've
taken a shot at.
I read that Elliott Erwitt made his money doing
advertising photography, and that his street stuff
(for lack of a better word) was what he considered his
hobby.  In fact, he called his Leica his hobby
camera g.
Not that I'd dare mention myself in the same breath as
Elliott, but if he had to finance his hobby
photography with a mundane job, I guess that's good
enough for me.
Now all I have to do is get the job.  Oh well, back to
the on-line job search (it's pissing rain today, so
it's an indoor day g).
cheers,
frank
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Re: OT: Wish me Luck

2004-07-28 Thread Peter J. Alling
Auto parts are tough, especially if they are highly chromed performance 
parts.  Most art directors
don't want to see the photographer or his equipment on the product. 

frank theriault wrote:
--- Steve Desjardins [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: 
 

Luck!  What kind of catalog?
Steve( hoping fo a cheap thrill)
   

Well, it can't get more mundane than this:
Auto Parts!
I'm just trying to figure out how I'll explain to them
the concept of creative blurring vbg.  What do
you mean, you want the whole brake caliper to be in
focus?  Do you want an edgy catalogue, or what?  g
cheers,
frank
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Re: OT: Wish me Luck

2004-07-28 Thread Peter J. Alling
Well we know where that pesky r got to...
William Robb wrote:
That would be the Strap On tools calender..
WW
- Original Message - 
From: Don Sanderson 
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Tuesday, July 27, 2004 2:26 PM
Subject: RE: OT: Wish me Luck

 

Holding a what
Don
   

-Original Message-
From: Steve Desjardins [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Tuesday, July 27, 2004 3:17 PM
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: Re: OT: Wish me Luck
Actually, some of the auto parts calendars I see in garages
 

feature some
 

fairly spectacular models (holding a wench, of course).   Try to
convince then to do one of these.
 



 




Re: OT: Wish me Luck

2004-07-28 Thread frank theriault
 --- Peter J. Alling [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote: 
 Well we know where that pesky r got to...
 

ROTFLMAO!!

-frank

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Re: OT: Wish me Luck

2004-07-28 Thread Doug Franklin
On Wed, 28 Jul 2004 13:55:49 -0400, Peter J. Alling wrote:

 Auto parts are tough, especially if they are highly chromed performance 
 parts.  Most art directors
 don't want to see the photographer or his equipment on the product. 

Light box and geometry.

TTYL, DougF KG4LMZ




Re: OT: Wish me Luck

2004-07-27 Thread Cotty
On 27/7/04, frank theriault, discombobulated, offered:

Just fired off a resume/application to a local firm
that's looking for a catalogue photographer
(full-time, employee position).

Nice one Frank, best of luck.

Use me as a reference any time you like ;-)




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Re: OT: Wish me Luck

2004-07-27 Thread Steve Desjardins
Luck!  What kind of catalog?

Steve( hoping fo a cheap thrill)



Re: OT: Wish me Luck

2004-07-27 Thread frank theriault
 --- Steve Desjardins [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: 
 Luck!  What kind of catalog?
 
 Steve( hoping fo a cheap thrill)
 

Well, it can't get more mundane than this:

Auto Parts!

I'm just trying to figure out how I'll explain to them
the concept of creative blurring vbg.  What do
you mean, you want the whole brake caliper to be in
focus?  Do you want an edgy catalogue, or what?  g

cheers,
frank

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RE: OT: Wish me Luck

2004-07-27 Thread Don Sanderson
Actually Frank I rather like product photography.
It's the only part of preparing auctions that I look forward to.
You get to play with lighting, DOF, backgrounds, angles and so on.
If I could get all my equipment supplied, and get paid for doing it to boot
I'd probably say goodbye to computer repair in a heartbeat!

Don

 -Original Message-
 From: frank theriault [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
 Sent: Tuesday, July 27, 2004 1:17 PM
 To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 Subject: Re: OT: Wish me Luck


  --- Steve Desjardins [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  Luck!  What kind of catalog?
 
  Steve( hoping fo a cheap thrill)
 

 Well, it can't get more mundane than this:

 Auto Parts!

 I'm just trying to figure out how I'll explain to them
 the concept of creative blurring vbg.  What do
 you mean, you want the whole brake caliper to be in
 focus?  Do you want an edgy catalogue, or what?  g

 cheers,
 frank

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Re: OT: Wish me Luck

2004-07-27 Thread Sylwester Pietrzyk
On 2004-07-27, at 18:37, frank theriault wrote:
Just fired off a resume/application to a local firm
that's looking for a catalogue photographer
(full-time, employee position).
Maybe I should have named this list-at-large as a
reference vbg.
Wish me luck;  I've applied for several
non-photography jobs, this is the first photo job I've
taken a shot at.
[...]
I keep my fingers crossed  for you Frank! I hope you'll find job you 
were looking for! Give us the report how it went in practice :-)

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RE: OT: Wish me Luck

2004-07-27 Thread Tanya Mayer Photography

I'm sending you all of the good vibes that I can Frank.  Fingers and toes
crossed for you!

BTW -

OMG, you are all such BOYS!!

Wenches, strap (or was it SNAP) ons

Get your minds out of the gutter and just wish Frank good luck will you?!?

;-)

tan.  *the innocent*



-Original Message-
From: frank theriault [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Wednesday, 28 July 2004 6:31 AM
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: RE: OT: Wish me Luck


 --- Don Sanderson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 Holding a what
 Don


One might think that missing r to be a typo.  Or,
perhaps, a Freudian slip (if such things can happen on
a keyboard).

However, Don, I've met Steve.  It was quite
intentional.  I chose to ignore it, so as not to
encourage him... vbg

vbg

cheers,
frank



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RE: OT: Wish me Luck

2004-07-27 Thread frank theriault
 --- Tanya Mayer Photography [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote: 
 
 I'm sending you all of the good vibes that I can
 Frank.  Fingers and toes
 crossed for you!
 
 BTW -
 
 OMG, you are all such BOYS!!
 
 Wenches, strap (or was it SNAP) ons
 
 Get your minds out of the gutter and just wish Frank
 good luck will you?!?
 

Dear Ms. Innocent,

You may not be a Tool Girl, so you may not know that
Snap On is a very well known high quality tool
company.  I think they specialize in automotive tools
(someone may correct me here).  Of course, the Strap
On thing, well, that was just disgusting.  As a vulgar
male, I enjoyed the double entendre, however. vbg

Oh yeah, thanks for the good wishes! g

cheers,
frank

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RE: OT: Wish me Luck

2004-07-27 Thread Don Sanderson
A new one for the FAQ, BWBB.

Don

 -Original Message-
 From: Tanya Mayer Photography [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
 Sent: Tuesday, July 27, 2004 4:03 PM
 To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 Subject: RE: OT: Wish me Luck



 I'm sending you all of the good vibes that I can Frank.  Fingers and toes
 crossed for you!

 BTW -

 OMG, you are all such BOYS!!

 Wenches, strap (or was it SNAP) ons

 Get your minds out of the gutter and just wish Frank good luck will you?!?

 ;-)

 tan.  *the innocent*



 -Original Message-
 From: frank theriault [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
 Sent: Wednesday, 28 July 2004 6:31 AM
 To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 Subject: RE: OT: Wish me Luck


  --- Don Sanderson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  Holding a what
  Don
 

 One might think that missing r to be a typo.  Or,
 perhaps, a Freudian slip (if such things can happen on
 a keyboard).

 However, Don, I've met Steve.  It was quite
 intentional.  I chose to ignore it, so as not to
 encourage him... vbg

 vbg

 cheers,
 frank



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Re: OT: Wish me Luck

2004-07-27 Thread Cotty
On 27/7/04, frank theriault, discombobulated, offered:

Well, he's this crazy Englishman who carries around a
25 lb video camera to record news events.  What's that
got to do with photographing a catalogue?  Er, well,
not much, I guess.  How well do I know him?  Um, well,
I drank quite a bit of beer with him one weekend back
in June.  We mostly sat around and made fun of the
other camera geeks that were there...  LOL

Cripes, that's exactly what I was going to write! Print that off and I'll
sign it for you Frank...




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Re: OT: Wish me Luck

2004-07-27 Thread graywolf
The Parelli Calender is such a feather in a photographers hat that I would not 
be suprised to find out that they bid against each other to get the position, I 
will give you $100 thousand if you let me shoot your calender.

I'll give you 150.
Etc.
--
frank theriault wrote:
 --- Steve Desjardins [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: 

Actually, some of the auto parts calendars I see in
garages feature some
fairly spectacular models (holding a wench, of
course).   Try to
convince then to do one of these.

I've already checked with Pirelli.  It seems that they
don't need any photographers. vbg
-frank
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Re: OT: Wish me Luck

2004-07-27 Thread Doug Franklin
On Tue, 27 Jul 2004 12:37:22 -0400 (EDT), frank theriault wrote:

 Just fired off a resume/application to a local firm
 that's looking for a catalogue photographer
 (full-time, employee position).

Best of luck, Frank.  If you get it, just don't let it burn you out on
photography as art or hobby or whatever.  And you _have_ to try
some of those blurry shots on them. :-)

TTYL, DougF KG4LMZ




Re: OT: Wish me Luck

2004-07-27 Thread Doug Franklin
On Tue, 27 Jul 2004 16:16:45 -0400, Steve Desjardins wrote:

 fairly spectacular models (holding a wench, of course).   Try to
   ^
   !


TTYL, DougF KG4LMZ




Re: OT: Wish me Luck

2004-07-27 Thread Doug Franklin
On Tue, 27 Jul 2004 14:31:29 -0600, William Robb wrote:

 That would be the Strap On tools calender..

!!! ROTFLMAO !!!

TTYL, DougF KG4LMZ




Re: OT: Wish me Luck

2004-07-27 Thread Butch Black
Steve wrote:

Actually, some of the auto parts calendars I see in garages feature some
fairly spectacular models (holding a wench, of course).   Try to
convince then to do one of these.


Are you sure it wasn't a wench holding the wrench?

Butch



Re: OT: Wish me Luck

2004-07-27 Thread Boris Liberman
Hi!

ft Just fired off a resume/application to a local firm
ft that's looking for a catalogue photographer
ft (full-time, employee position).

ft Maybe I should have named this list-at-large as a
ft reference vbg.

ft Wish me luck;  I've applied for several
ft non-photography jobs, this is the first photo job I've
ft taken a shot at.

ft I read that Elliott Erwitt made his money doing
ft advertising photography, and that his street stuff
ft (for lack of a better word) was what he considered his
ft hobby.  In fact, he called his Leica his hobby
ft camera g.

ft Not that I'd dare mention myself in the same breath as
ft Elliott, but if he had to finance his hobby
ft photography with a mundane job, I guess that's good
ft enough for me.

ft Now all I have to do is get the job.  Oh well, back to
ft the on-line job search (it's pissing rain today, so
ft it's an indoor day g).

Frank, you're hereby wished all the luck I can think of from this
Middle Eastern spot of the globe.

Go for it, man! You can get it. I am sure may PDMLers would agree to
give you reference. Me included.

As I said - good luck!

Boris
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