the sister *should* get a grip, but will she :) I dunno -- I've said my bit.
Basically, it's your choice, but the sooner your fiance and your sister talk
the better is my thought. I've seem major wedding dramas over something as
simple as the bridesmaid not wanting to go off her Antabuse to
hehehe. Yes. What she said.
Personally, I'd say wait till after the sis gets married. Who needs
the stress of a big family debacle over your wedding day. So, unless
there's some uber signficance to 3/1/08, wait it out. Some women just
get totally irrational about stuff like weddings. I have the
put them in a room together and make them talk to each other instead of playing
postman. Be firm about this, or you'll be dealing with the hurt feelings for
years.
That's my advice.
my sisters wedding date is 6/7/8 my old wedding date. i didnt care
too much, whatever, its her shit, whatever.
well, i can only say this.
my sister will NOT go 2 for 2 with my weddings.
she fucking ruined my first one, and i PROMISE y'alls she wont this time.
im takin momma's advice on this one, and just about 99% of the peeps here.
its MY womans day, its HERS to choose when she wants it. its OURS to
: Tony [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Friday, May 25, 2007 8:25 AM
To: CF-Community
Subject: Re: condundrum, and i need ur input.
well, i can only say this.
my sister will NOT go 2 for 2 with my weddings.
she fucking ruined my first one, and i PROMISE y'alls she wont this time.
im takin momma's
she fucking ruined my first one, and i PROMISE y'alls she wont this time.
... what'd she do?
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will
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dont even feel like recounting the debacle.
but trust me.
it was enough to make me remove certain parts of the wedding
dvd simply for the fact that she looked like a cheap hooker at
points in time.
tw
On 5/25/07, William Bowen [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
she fucking ruined my first one, and i
dont even feel like recounting the debacle.
ok
but trust me.
it was enough to make me remove certain parts of the wedding
dvd simply for the fact that she looked like a cheap hooker at
points in time.
ah... 'nuff said!
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If my life weren't funny, it would just be true;
and that
my sisters wedding date is 6/7/8 my old wedding date. i didnt care
too much, whatever, its her shit, whatever.
however, now that i am engaged, my fiance and i would like to have
our wedding on march 1st of 08. over 3 months before hers.
she is complaining in a VERY crazy manner, that we are
How are you stealing her thunder? By getting married before her? Or some
family would spend more $$ on you rather than her?
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From: Tony [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Thursday, May 24, 2007 2:31 PM
To: CF-Community
Subject: condundrum, and i need ur input.
my
ultimately it's your fiancee's choice (and yours). I'm not saying
that you guys should just cave for the sake of caving... but i'm
suggesting that you both at least consider your sister's feelings (as
irrational as they may be). this is your family and soon to be your
fiancee's family.
you'll
Is 3 months prior really stealing thunder? I could understand 1
month, maybe 2 but thats a quarter of the year? What's beyond stealing
thunder for your sister? 4 months? 6 months? maybe even a year? I
wouldn't see a wedding 3 months around mine by someone in my family as
stealing the thunder..
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From: Tony [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Thursday, May 24, 2007 11:31 AM
To: CF-Community
Subject: condundrum, and i need ur input.
my sisters wedding date is 6/7/8 my old wedding date. i didnt care
too much, whatever, its her shit, whatever
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From: Charlie Griefer [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Thursday, May 24, 2007 2:35 PM
To: CF-Community
Subject: Re: condundrum, and i need ur input.
ultimately it's your fiancee's choice (and yours). I'm
Not much information to go on, but it sure seems like yer Sis is
over-reacting. I think you need to plan your wedding whenever your fiancee
wants, but behind the scenes, I'd tell your family that your sister is a
little sensitive about it, and to try and make sure they keep her special
day in the
: condundrum, and i need ur input.
Besides having a child, this is going to be your fiancée's happiest day in
the world, and if she wants to be married before your sister, so be it.
Besides, you have to live with your future wife the rest of your life. This
has the potential to come back at you
sheesh! When your engagement is over a year long, people are bound to
get married during that time. I say your sister shouldn't have waited
so long.
On 5/24/07, Tony [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
my sisters wedding date is 6/7/8 my old wedding date. i didnt care
too much, whatever, its her shit,
How many vacations can the family take to go to both weddings?
And which one will they help with more?
A wedding is a big deal, and the one that is first will get the most
attendance, and the most assistance from friends and family.
Personally, I'd say wait till after the sis gets married. Who needs
the stress of a big family debacle over your wedding day. So, unless
there's some uber signficance to 3/1/08, wait it out. Some women just
get totally irrational about stuff like weddings. I have the feeling
your fiance is not one
My cousin's is 07/07/07
If fiance is dead set on that day, so be it. Your sister will get over
it eventually.
You might want to try and send out invitations around the same time to
prepare the guests.
More people can vacation in June, if they have kids.
On 5/24/07, Vivec [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Not in my family. Both weddings would be given equal consideration, and the
date would be pretty much inconsequential. I know this because my brother
was married about 3 months before I was, very similar to TW's scenario.
No way you can assume one wedding will get more attention than
On 5/24/07, Vivec [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
How many vacations can the family take to go to both weddings?
And which one will they help with more?
i dont care if anyone goes :) i just want to marry her... i will be taking
NO RESOURCES away from hers. at all.
A wedding is a big deal, and the
not to mention, im not a female. if my fiance wants it when she wants
it, who am i to say no?
what if my sister and her bf break up? what if what if what if.
its our life, not hers.
thats my bottom line.
tw
On 5/24/07, G Money [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
Not in my family. Both weddings would be
Here-Here! So what if your sister gets upset with you for awhile.
She will get over it.
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From: Tony [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Thursday, May 24, 2007 4:00 PM
To: CF-Community
Subject: Re: condundrum, and i need ur input.
not to mention, im not a female. if my
Your marrying your sister and she's pissed because of the date?
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day after your sister. Then the family can attend both weddings in a
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from my mother...
honey, its up to you two, who in the world thinks they have the right
to tell ANYONE when they should get married... i support u son, i
think ur date is
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From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Thursday, May 24, 2007 5:04 PM
To: CF-Community
Subject: Re: condundrum, and i need ur input.
from my mother...
honey, its up to you two, who in the world thinks they have the right
to tell
from my mother...
honey, its up to you two, who in the world thinks they have the right
to tell ANYONE when they should get married... i support u son, i
think ur date is perfect!
your cousins amy and tmmy got mrried one month apart... and both were
beautiful weddings...
so. as they say...
wow. Im glad your mum straightened it all out. I was gonna come up there to
Maryland and beat you up for even considering what your sister had to say.
Sorry, but I totally disagree with everyone who said respect your sister's
wishes. BS. Big BS.
It's your fiance's choice, her marriage, your day.
I didn't know today was happy day.
I'm going to change my attitude... wow, it's happy-happy hour
On 5/24/07, Erika L. Walker [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
Happy happy day to ya'll!
Erika
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On 5/24/07, Sam [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
I didn't know today was happy day.
I'm going to change my attitude... wow, it's happy-happy hour
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From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Thursday, May 24, 2007 5:04 PM
To: CF-Community
Subject: Re: condundrum, and i need ur input.
from my mother...
honey, its up to you two, who in the world thinks they have the right
to tell ANYONE
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From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Thursday, May 24, 2007 5:04 PM
To: CF-Community
Subject: Re: condundrum, and i need ur input.
from my
: condundrum, and i need ur input.
from my mother...
honey, its up to you two, who in the world thinks they have the right
to tell ANYONE when they should get married... i support u son, i
think ur date is perfect!
your cousins amy and tmmy got mrried one month apart... and both were
beautiful
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