[Origami] Focus

2021-05-17 Thread olist
I support a CoC at origami events. It would be helpful if in moving forward instead of off-topic examples being used to discuss the need for a CoC that examples of actual harassment that are already publicly stated by at least one person that include assault, unwelcomed touching, conversations

[Origami] Focus on why a CoC, and another example

2021-05-17 Thread Anne LaVin
Let's not allow tales of extreme behavior and edge cases to distract from the reality that *there have been real and serious issues between members of the origami community*, which means that some people now feel unsafe at community events. Do we not, as a community, have a responsibility to make

[Origami] COC discussion

2021-05-17 Thread KDianne Stephens
https://geekfeminism.wikia.org/wiki/Community_anti-harassment/Policy specifically: Community Name prioritizes marginalized people's safety over privileged people's comfort. Response Team reserves the right not to act on complaints regarding: * 'Reverse' -isms, including 'reverse

Re: [Origami] CoC—Being Too Specific in Language

2021-05-17 Thread Malachi Brown
On Mon, May 17, 2021 at 5:50 PM John Scully wrote: > The problem (in my and many other’s opinion) > I suggest that, at least in this conversation, we frame things as our own opinions and avoid using nonspecific "others" to lend gravity to our point of view. I am sure you know plenty of people

Re: [Origami] CoC - Kicking off the Discussion

2021-05-17 Thread Anne LaVin
On Mon, May 17, 2021 at 6:49 PM John Scully wrote: > ... From: Origami On Behalf Of Joseph Wu ... OK, the two of you will refrain from talking to each other directly, from commenting about the other's real world, Facebook or list-based actions, behavior, specific wording, rhetorical tactics,

Re: [Origami] CoC—Being Too Specific in Language

2021-05-17 Thread Carol Martinson
Malachi, While that is worded differently than what the library had in the same category, to me it appears fine. Apparently the problem is my misunderstanding what we each meant by the words “exact” and “specific”. I apologize for misinterpreting your overall intent. Carol Martinson

Re: [Origami] CoC - Kicking off the Discussion

2021-05-17 Thread John Scully
Sorry Joseph, are you saying that you have hacked my facebook, email and phones and know the exact details of every conversation I have had with anyone over the last two years? If not, then please do not impugn my character by implying that I am lying. You do not know what people have

Re: [Origami] CoC—Being Too Specific in Language

2021-05-17 Thread John Scully
The problem (in my and many other’s opinion) with “use of sexist, racist, ableist, or any other discriminatory or exclusionary language” is that those terms are open to wildly varying interpretation. What person X considers normal speech, person Y considers offensive. Who is the judge?

Re: [Origami] CoC—Being Too Specific in Language

2021-05-17 Thread Malachi Brown
On Mon, May 17, 2021 at 11:18 AM Carol Martinson via Origami < origami@lists.digitalorigami.com> wrote: > If I am interpreting what he is trying to say correctly, people need the > specific words and actions named so they know what is and is not allowed. > Acceptable behaviors vary widely from

[Origami] CoC—Being Too Specific in Language

2021-05-17 Thread Carol Martinson via Origami
  Before my day gets too busy to respond, I want to reply to a point made by Malachi about the need for specific acts and items to be named in a Code of Conduct. If I am interpreting what he is trying to say correctly, people need the specific words and actions named so they know what is

Re: [Origami] CoC - Kicking off the Discussion

2021-05-17 Thread Joseph Wu
> On May 16, 2021, at 17:05, John Scully wrote: > > The background is that since the first person asked us about one a little > over a year ago we have had maybe six people make what range from suggestions > to demands about what should be included. The reason I pushed back so > strongly was

Re: [Origami] COC Thoughts

2021-05-17 Thread Malachi Brown
On Sun, May 16, 2021, 8:08 PM John R. S. Mascio wrote: > I have some questions, I feel, we need to seriously think about: > > *What do we hope to accomplish? *Have a CoC? Bad. Reasons for a CoC? > I'm sure we can come up with 1000's of reasons, and probably all good, but > a knee-jerk

Re: [Origami] CoC - Kicking off the Discussion

2021-05-17 Thread Malachi Brown
On Sun, May 16, 2021 at 7:05 PM John Scully wrote: > There are large parts of this that we can all easily agree on - the two > extremes. > First is anything that is an actual crime. Assault of any kind, violence, > threats of violence etc. If anything like that occurs then the police > should

Re: [Origami] CoC - Kicking off the Discussion

2021-05-17 Thread KDianne Stephens
>John Scully wrote: >I would prefer a more general statement - something along the lines of "If >anyone does or says anything >that is making you or someone else uncomfortable >please report it to an admin and we will make a >determination and >take >appropriate action". Not a promise