Re: [QUAD-L] Where Is This Minority

2007-02-22 Thread kaye allard
Good point. Our experience is what I think make us a group. Everyone has their own way of framing their own perception of this and deciding where they do or don't belong. Obviously, SOMETHING has brought us to this group, as anyone reading this has not yet unsuscribed :-) I don't know when yo

Re: [QUAD-L] Where Is This Minority

2007-02-22 Thread Hecedman
We are a group of individuals brought together by common circumstances. therefor we Are a group of disabled people united for a fight against discrimination. that sole factor makes us a united minority... if we want to see it or not.

[QUAD-L] Where Is This Minority

2007-02-22 Thread Merrill Burghardt
> > By being in a wheelchair THIS is to define me? I think not. You > > seem to enroll me and many others into something you know nothing of us > except for being in a wheelchair. We is not us. As a quadriplegic, you > have no clue what was or not been stripped of. I fail to see the > commonali

FW: [QUAD-L] QUESTION

2007-02-22 Thread Merrill Burghardt
> By being in a wheelchair THIS is to define me? I think not. You > seem to enroll me and many others into something you know nothing of us except for being in a wheelchair. We is not us. As a quadriplegic, you have no clue what was or not been stripped of. I fail to see the commonality. > Peop

Re: [QUAD-L] How You Do It

2007-02-22 Thread Dan Tessiatore
Sometimes I tell people who try to tell me that I can be healed if my faith is strong enough that I can be healed through the faith of others. Dan T. [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:All of us have a different story. I just seem to call agencies and try to be nice. It seems like I pay people to be a

Re: [QUAD-L] devotees

2007-02-22 Thread kaye allard
word up. On 2/22/07, [EMAIL PROTECTED] <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: Not only are you 100% right, but I am bothered when I'm critisized for not trying to understand them while they get off not understanding reality or the handicapped community. I understand they are handicapped in the sense that t

[QUAD-L]

2007-02-22 Thread Merrill Burghardt
A commonality of our condition does not bind you and me. To your logic then the able bodied are "a group". So, what of it? Please do not begin calling me brother. Merrill -Original Message- From: Tim Thompson [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Thursday, February 22, 2007 3:12 PM

[QUAD-L] devotees

2007-02-22 Thread Hecedman
PREACH IT JOHN!!

Re: [QUAD-L] devotees

2007-02-22 Thread delimited4
Not only are you 100% right, but I am bothered when I'm critisized for not trying to understand them while they get off not understanding reality or the handicapped community. I understand they are handicapped in the sense that they are mentally ill. A desire to disfigure yourself is not a lifes

[QUAD-L] devo

2007-02-22 Thread Mike Murach
I have to tell you, I'm going to have to side with the women on this one. Whereas I don't think devotees should be locked up - I do believe we should be weary. At least I would be, Mike~ www.MurGallery.com

Re: [QUAD-L] Check out Wheelchair Diffu sion » Blog Archive » Superfourin- All...

2007-02-22 Thread DAANOO
I really love my Permobile Chairman 2K with elevator, it is so comfortable. It really helped my back pain. Dana ** AOL now offers free email to everyone. Find out more about what's free from AOL at http://www.aol.com.

Re: [QUAD-L] QUESTION

2007-02-22 Thread Tim Thompson
As quadriplegic, we are a minority within the disabled community. A member regardless of any other group we belong(ed) to. It is a minority which binds us together, regardless of race, creed, gender, or monitary class. In a way, we are a minority in which all other social barriers are meaningless.

Re: [QUAD-L] Check out Wheelchair Diffu sion » Blog Archive » Superfourin- All...

2007-02-22 Thread LadyNotes
Kathy, That is some type of wheelchair! My chair is center drive, which I prefer. Naomi C-4 quad since July 2, 2005 Transverse Myelitis ** AOL now offers free email to everyone. Find out more about what's free from AOL at http://www.aol.com.

Re: [QUAD-L] devotees

2007-02-22 Thread LadyNotes
Jessica, This isn't anything new. There are hundreds of websites for Devotees, Pretenders and Wannabes. Devotees, are people who are attracted to people with disabilities. Pretenders, are those who pretend to be disabled. Wannabes, are those who have the desire to be disable, sometimes to t

Re: [QUAD-L] How You Do It

2007-02-22 Thread delimited4
All of us have a different story. I just seem to call agencies and try to be nice. It seems like I pay people to be around me and I haven't enough money for anyone to get fanatical about it. I don't under estimate the fact that I take drugs. I think I've been lucky because I've never had much t

Re: [QUAD-L] How You Do It

2007-02-22 Thread Dan
Hi Merrill, It sounds like you had the perfect set-up 3 times in a row! And your asking us how you should do it?!? I should be so lucky. Why did you leave what sounds like such perfect set-ups? Dan >On 2/20/07, Merrill Burghardt < [EMAIL PROTECTED]> >wrote: > >HOW

Re: [QUAD-L] Devotees....come on people....

2007-02-22 Thread wheelchair
In a message dated 2/22/2007 7:50:40 A.M. Central Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: most devotees are harmless but what about those who aren't? it's good for us to all be aware, not just for our physical safety, but also emotionally. i, personally, want to build healthy relations

Re: [QUAD-L] Devotees....come on people....

2007-02-22 Thread Jessica Ann Gordon
On Feb 22, 2007, at 12:38 AM, RONALD L PRACHT wrote: With all the problems a quad has female or male, how could this even be an issue. I say anyone thats worried about a Devotee needs a real problem this is a group where anyone can voice their concerns and no one, including u, shoul

Re: [QUAD-L] Devotees....come on people....

2007-02-22 Thread Danny Hearn
I hear ya Ron.most the quad men I have met.would not mind if a woman did rape them lolol ;-) Dan RONALD L PRACHT <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:Hey, Ive been a quad for 9 years and yes Ive had some women come on to me, and yes at

Re: [QUAD-L] Devotees....come on people....

2007-02-22 Thread Martin T Brown
Devotees and pretenders are fetishesthey need to be locked up! QuadMedic Martin T. Brown Managing Director Radical Holdings (Pty) Ltd T/A Radical Mobility (O) +27 11 664-6069 (F) +27 11 955-3743 (C) 082 500 9406 [EMAIL PROTECTED] www.radicalmobility.com "Engineering Mobility f

Re: [QUAD-L] Devotees....come on people....

2007-02-22 Thread KK
Come on yourself. These people take advantage of us, abuse us physically & mentally. They are not friends or care givers. KK

Re: [QUAD-L] How You Do It

2007-02-22 Thread kaye allard
I have found great people through ads in the paper. We have a great rehab facility in Washington. Physical therapists can be good resources for ideas for this sort of thing. When I was still living off of settlement money I would pay someone for just the basics, so not much housecleaning and su

Re: [QUAD-L] Devotees....come on people....

2007-02-22 Thread kaye allard
Women don't need problems, we have them already -it's called violence and rape. It's why we have to be carefull. I think any woman who gets the creeps from someone who has a fetish that involves her disability better listen to her instincts and use her best judgement. We don't need to choose fro