Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue- 10 steps to resolving

2008-05-01 Thread LadyNotes
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Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue- 10 steps to resolving

2008-05-01 Thread wheelchair
Good Question. Some will argue 9 steps and others will say 11 steps. What is more important is the proper documentation of your efforts at/after each step. Some do so well at the 1st step... there is no 2nd step, as the problem/project is resolved. Well structured companies that insulate

Re: FW: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue

2008-04-30 Thread Danny Hearn
What is so stupid about it all is that---your power chair would not be stuck there anywayin the case of a fire you would move just as an able body would move out of the way OR to another part of the room or outside--they act like the chair would freeze in that actual place. LOL...

Re: FW: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue

2008-04-30 Thread John S.
7:42:55 PM Subject: Re: FW: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue I've had the same thing happen to me twice. The first time was at the Red Lobster. I used to go there fairly often and like almost every restaurant I've been to they always try to sit wheelchairs in the center of the room. To me

Re: FW: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue

2008-04-30 Thread wheelchair
PROTECTED] To: quad-list@eskimo.com Sent: Tuesday, April 29, 2008 7:42:55 PM Subject: Re: FW: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue I've had the same thing happen to me twice. The first time was at the Red Lobster. I used to go there fairly often and like almost every restaurant I've been to they always

[QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue- 10 steps to resolving

2008-04-30 Thread wheelchair
I know you don't wish to read this but without the 10-step process, you are missing the point. If you don't use and document the process by step you can/may lose your credibility in trying to resolve the project/problem. What you file your legal complaint, you will be asked if you tried to

Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue- 10 steps to resolving

2008-04-30 Thread John S.
this summer, but the prices there are usually more than I like spending on food. When I was there last, I was working. john - Original Message From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: quad-list@eskimo.com Sent: Wednesday, April 30, 2008 1:37:42 PM Subject: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue

Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue- 10 steps to resolving

2008-04-30 Thread wheelchair
there are usually more than I like spending on food. When I was there last, I was working. john - Original Message From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: quad-list@eskimo.com Sent: Wednesday, April 30, 2008 1:37:42 PM Subject: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue- 10 steps to resolving I

Re: FW: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue

2008-04-30 Thread Quadius
The young hostess mentioned to me as her boss was giving me the information that she often has a difficult time getting through the aisles and let's just say she is extraordinarily thin. I thought it was kind of funny that they think I might get stuck in the aisle when most people would probably

Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue

2008-04-29 Thread theomen723
-Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Tue, 29 Apr 2008 4:15 am Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue I really like your attitude Luke. Dana Need a new ride? Check out the largest site for U.S. used car listings at AOL Autos.

Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue

2008-04-29 Thread Tod E. Santee
always had good manners and I've always had someone to help (Gee I wonder...these two things might be related) Luke c-5/6 incomplete 7 1/2 yrs post -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Tue, 29 Apr 2008 4:15 am Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair

Re: FW: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue

2008-04-29 Thread Quadius
I had something rather interesting happen to me the other day. I went out to dinner with my brother and the usher mistakenly put us in the wrong place. I was sitting in the aisle, because my wheelchair cannot fit under any table. It has nothing to do with the ADA, my armrests are simply too high

Re: FW: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue

2008-04-29 Thread Quadius
By the way, I am simply going to write a letter or call as a concerned citizen. After thinking about it carefully, I really don't think this issue was about my disability, but I could be mistaken. Quadius On 4/29/08, Quadius [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I had something rather interesting happen to

Re: FW: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue

2008-04-29 Thread DAANOO
PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Tuesday, April 29, 2008 9:27 AM To: quad-list@eskimo.com Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue Dana Are you serious or sarcastic? I never can tell with emails. I don't like the fact that some disabled people bitch to get what they want. In my

Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue

2008-04-29 Thread theomen723
- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]; quad-list@eskimo.com Sent: Tue, 29 Apr 2008 8:51 pm Subject: Re: FW: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue I am serious, I don't ever try to be sarcastic that I know.? I was commending your attitude . Dana How all had a very In a message dated 4/29/2008 1

Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue

2008-04-28 Thread theomen723
incomplete 7 1/2 yrs post PS- Then again don't listen to me I find beauty in filth. Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]; quad-list@eskimo.com Sent: Sun, 27 Apr 2008 7:01 pm Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue Amen KKBATTE ! ? You win the prize.? You

Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue

2008-04-28 Thread Eddie
I don't know about being a sad puppy like that portraits... I'M NOT! and by the way I get all kinds of attention, sometimes unwanted ... could it be my ibot? Hec

Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue

2008-04-28 Thread oconnelldb
Sent: Mon, 28 Apr 2008 7:22 am Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue I don't know about being a sad puppy like that portraits... I'M NOT! and by the way I get all kinds of attention, sometimes unwanted ... could it be my ibot?? ? Hec? ?

Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue

2008-04-28 Thread andrea murray
I think it was a good way oftelling the (temporary bodes people) TBP of this world.I know Chris and I'm proud of him and the way he uses his art to educate the plubic. Wheelchair Warrior--- On Sun, 4/27/08, [EMAIL PROTECTED] [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [EMAIL

Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue

2008-04-28 Thread wheelchair
Thanks Warrior. But I think you are bias, lol. You know the real guy. I believe what explains it all is the look on people's faces when they walk or ride into the drag racing pit area to see That Van and meet its owner. He also enjoys the art of building bridges too. But I could say

Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue

2008-04-28 Thread MikeyBird3
My cousin was the V.P. of a college in Owosso, MI. They had just spent $35 million to make the campus accessible (in 1989). He asked me to look at what they had done. With me in my electric chair and him in my manual chair, we toured the campus. Some sidewalks had a slant (sideways) of

[QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue-and then some....

2008-04-28 Thread wheelchair
Good story Mikey. I just read another article in the newspaper this very morning about a city council in Valparaiso, IN that gave its approval for the downtown square restaurants to extend their outdoor eating area out to within 48 inches of the street curb. The protected area must also have

Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue

2008-04-28 Thread John S.
: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: quad-list@eskimo.com Sent: Monday, April 28, 2008 12:29:34 PM Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue My cousin was the V.P. of a college in Owosso, MI. They had just spent $35 million to make the campus accessible (in 1989). He asked me to look

Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue

2008-04-28 Thread wheelchair
Message From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: quad-list@eskimo.com Sent: Monday, April 28, 2008 12:29:34 PM Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue My cousin was the V.P. of a college in Owosso, MI. They had just spent $35 million to make the campus accessible (in 1989). He asked

Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue

2008-04-28 Thread oconnelldb
://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Midget AZDAVE -Original Message- From: D. B. [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]; QUAD-LIST@eskimo.com Sent: Mon, 28 Apr 2008 2:21 pm Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue For the last 8 years I've been confined to a wheelchair due to a spinal

[QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue

2008-04-28 Thread wheelchair
Dwarf and Dwarfism is the correct term and proper term for Little People I too have used midget, which is wrong, not correct and to some derogatory. I spent a week with those Little People at their annual conference some year back and really enjoyed myself while I learned and learned.

Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue

2008-04-28 Thread MikeyBird3
Dwarves have some body parts out of proportion to the rest of their body. Midgets are in proportion. Little people covers both and is preferred. In a message dated 4/28/2008 5:43:34 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: Dwarf and Dwarfism is the correct term and proper

Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue

2008-04-28 Thread D. B.
you ask for that assistance that matters. - Original Message From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: QUAD-LIST@eskimo.com Sent: Sunday, April 27, 2008 7:36:14 PM Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue The target audience here is definitely the AB crowd. I think it was also

Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue

2008-04-28 Thread wheelchair
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue The target audience here is definitely the AB crowd. I think it was also poorly done - it should have had a much more upbeat tone with a here i come - you guys better be ready for me attitude. I go out a lot and don't have a bit of problem asking

[QUAD-L] wheelchair monologue

2008-04-28 Thread wheelchair
Laughing with Stacy W In a message dated 4/28/2008 6:56:19 P.M. Central Daylight Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: They guy is whiny. I couldn't stand to listen to him. Most of us try to blend in instead of wanting someone to feel sorry for us. **Need a new ride? Check

Re: [QUAD-L] wheelchair monologue

2008-04-28 Thread Stacy Harim
, 2008 6:14:29 PM Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] wheelchair monologue I understand what you say about having to ask for help.  When I go to concert my friend drops me off and has to park, which takes a long time.  When I went to the Bon Jovi concert last week, one of the doorkeepers saw me almost at the end

[QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue

2008-04-27 Thread wheelchair
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Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue

2008-04-27 Thread Dan
Sounds like a pity party. Could he sound anymore pathetic? Dan At 11:46 AM 4/27/2008 -0400, [EMAIL PROTECTED] said something that elicited my response: http://www.thestarpress.com/apps/pbcs.dll/section?Category=VIDEOMailScanner has detected a possible fraud attempt from

FW: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue

2008-04-27 Thread William Willis
The message isn't bad - it's the whining self-pity of the voice that is the turn-off.A bit of sass and vinegar would have helped. From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]: Sun, 27 Apr 2008 11:46:32 -0400To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue The Star Press - www.thestarpress.com - Muncie

[QUAD-L] wheelchair monologue

2008-04-27 Thread RONALD L PRACHT
Well.. Alot of what was said Ive thought many times. Especially the invisible part. Problem is people that dont have the issues we face frankly just dont care. I suggest doing all you can and dont let the mainstream influence you. ron

RE: [QUAD-L] wheelchair monologue

2008-04-27 Thread Joan Anglin
What happened to hold your head high, smile first, and ask for help when you need to? And please don’t forget to say thank you! That message had a lot of truth in it, but the methodology was enough to turn anyone off. I can’t do any of the things that he wants to do, opening doors, feeding myself,

Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue

2008-04-27 Thread Dan
Shelly, I've never had the feeling of being invisible. In fact, often the opposite especially in restaurants. But if you want to be 'visible' LOOK at other people. Catch their eye - SMILE. Every time I'm out for a walk and I pass someone, I give them a big smile and say 'Hello'. 99.9% of the

Re: [QUAD-L] wheelchair monologue

2008-04-27 Thread DiannaL767
In a message dated 4/27/2008 5:16:17 PM Eastern Daylight Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: I hate shopping for clothes, but the clerks are always helpful, and often find things in the back room, marked down, and bring them out for me. Take what you have, make the best of it, and ask for

Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue

2008-04-27 Thread Tod E. Santee
Yep, I do hear a bit of that whiny, pity me sound... mostly in how his voice tends t fade or shrink away at the end of most statements rather than being punctuated with pride, or subtle anger or simply a sincere listen to me (!!) type of tone or cadence. One line though, should really be

Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue

2008-04-27 Thread DiannaL767
In a message dated 4/27/2008 5:34:31 PM Eastern Daylight Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: LOOK at other people. Catch their eye - SMILE. Every time I'm out for a walk and I pass someone, I give them a big smile and say 'Hello'. 99.9% of the time, I get the same in return. I do that too! :-)

Re: [QUAD-L] wheelchair monologue

2008-04-27 Thread DAANOO
I understand what you say about having to ask for help. When I go to concert my friend drops me off and has to park, which takes a long time. When I went to the Bon Jovi concert last week, one of the doorkeepers saw me almost at the end of the long line outdoors and came and got me and

Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue

2008-04-27 Thread KK
I don't think this monologue was intended for wheelchair people. More likely it is for able bodied folks. They probably need to hear some whiney voice to get their attention.

Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue

2008-04-27 Thread wheelchair
Amen KKBATTE ! You win the prize. You are exactly correct! Best Wishes In a message dated 4/27/2008 6:59:52 P.M. Central Daylight Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: I don't think this monologue was intended for wheelchair people. More likely it is for able bodied folks. They probably

Re: [QUAD-L] Wheelchair Monologue

2008-04-27 Thread Oconnelldb
The target audience here is definitely the AB crowd. I think it was also poorly done - it should have had a much more upbeat tone with a here i come - you guys better be ready for me attitude. I go out a lot and don't have a bit of problem asking for help. I am pretty self sufficient