I must be indeed sounding trivial to you guys. I even told his mom that I was angry he didn't remember. She didn't guarantee he would remember every time..."he is like that...if he remembers he will, if he won't, he won't. You should not mind it." how helpful is that -- he will remember and may not remember....well there are only two such possibilities anyway.
But i find it very silly to discuss with my mom-in-law. Oh Nooooooooooooo! Sushma, I do hope a lot though...and guess what it turns into demands. :-) On Thu, Feb 18, 2010 at 11:30 PM, Sushma Salian <[email protected]> wrote: > after years of marriage, gifting, forgetting to gift & getting sad about it > seems to be trivial & no gifting seems to be the better option to keep the > peace of the house & mind maintained. where there's hope there is despair, > (asha karoge to nirasha hogi)- very pessimistic- or realistic? any comments > on this, anybody... > > ------------------------------ > *From:* subramaniam sreenivasan <[email protected]> > > *To:* [email protected] > *Sent:* Thu, February 18, 2010 5:26:45 PM > > *Subject:* RE: Views on marriage > > It started on 14th Feb 2010 for me and by me... when there were no gifts .. > till then, there was, always. Now, if you look at it positively, gifts > become lower priority because with time people find so many other ways to > express their love. > > But dont you worry, it will not happen to you. Given how thoughtful Vaskar > has been, inspite of being far away, tells me that you will be receiving > gifts until you are 80. > > > ------------------------------ > Date: Wed, 17 Feb 2010 23:01:39 +0000 > Subject: Re: Views on marriage > From: [email protected] > To: [email protected] > > Subu, i would really like to know how it started...in terms of V-day, > birthday, anniversary...and when giving gifts started dropping from the > priorities. This will be hugely beneficial to me. > > I was actually angry with Vaskar, thinking he is never going to remember. > He is not with me, he is in Delhi...to join me here in April. I sent him two > personalised cards but no flowers or anything. as i was angry even before > the day had arrived assuming he won't care or remember...and then on > Saturday...i was completely surprised to get the goodies. > > Left me feeling miserable anyway, for having such negative thoughts about > him. Ours is almost an arranged marriage...we are still knowing each other i > guess. I would think that matters. No? > arch > > > ------------------------------ > Hotmail: Trusted email with Microsoft’s powerful SPAM protection. Sign up > now. <http://clk.atdmt.com/GBL/go/201469226/direct/01/> > >
