Kalo pikiran seperti sampeyan gini, ama pohon juga akan bisa jadi lebih baik kok!...:-)))
wassalam, --- In wanita-muslimah@yahoogroups.com, "Ari Condro" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > Sibuk amat cari pemimpi lain ... Eh, pemimpin lain !. > > Btw, cari pemimpin yg manusia atau bukan ? Perempuan atau lelaki ? Soale yg desperate sama lawan jenis, bisa jadi pindah ke lain hati, kepincut ke sesama jenis. > > Tapi gak halal secara islam. > *tapi kan karena kepaksa, ya gak, daripada sama pohon* > > > > > > -----Original Message----- > From: "Lina Dahlan" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > > Date: Wed, 29 Oct 2008 08:18:31 > To: <wanita-muslimah@yahoogroups.com> > Subject: [wanita-muslimah] Re: Fatwa: Istri Korban KDRT, LAWAN! > > > Kalo fatwa kedua Syekh ini berlaku bagi istrinya yang jago karate. > Kalo fatwa nya Yesus berlaku bagi istri yang menikmati tuk ditampar: > tampar pipi kiri, kasih yang kanan...:-) > > Kalo Syekh Lina (yang belon kenal ama Syekh Siti Jenar) memfatwakan > untung melawan KDRT dengan cara yang sama dengan QS4:34 itu dengan > menempuh 3 langkah sbb: > > 1) Nasehatin suami 2) Pisahin ranjang suami 3) pukul balik suami > dengan gugat cerai > > Soale Syekh Lina takut kalo membalas suami dengan pukulan plus bunga, > suami bakal makin kalap and gelap mata, bunga bangkaipun akan > diberikannya.. > > Soale lagi..nasehat AlQur'an itu adalah berlaku untuk para > suami/lelaki yang diharapkan Tuhan jadi pemimpin. Kalo laki/suami gak > bisa jadi pemimpin, seperti harapanNYA, kan kudu' ada jalan > keluarnya. Salah satu jalan keluarnya...cari pemimpin laen...:-))) > > wassalam, > Syekh Lina > --- In wanita-muslimah@yahoogroups.com, "Dwi Soegardi" <soegardi@> > wrote: > > > > Syekh Al-Azhar memfatwakan istri yang dianiaya oleh suami, berhak > melawan. > > Dipukul balas pukul. > > > > Sedangkan ulama Turki Fethullah Gulen melangkah lebih jauh, istri > > berhak membalas penganiayaan suami plus bunganya. > > Dipukul sekali balas pukul dua kali. > > > > http://www.arabtimesonline.com/kuwaitnews/pagesdetails.asp? > nid=24044&ccid=18 > > > > Egypt sheikh backs women's right to beat husbands > > > > > > CAIRO, Oct 27, 2008 (AFP) - Sunni Islam's highest authority has > > approved a woman's right to fight back if her husband uses violence > > against her, Egypt's Al-Masry al-Youm newspaper reported on Monday. > > > > The declaration by Sheikh Abdel Hamid al-Atrash, who heads Al- Azhar > > University's committee for fatwas or religious rulings, comes after > > similar rulings by religious leaders in Saudi Arabia and Turkey. > > > > 'A wife has the legitimate right to hit her husband in order to > defend > > herself,' Atrash was quoted as saying. > > > > 'Everyone has the right to defend themselves, whether they are a man > > or a woman... because all human beings are equal before God,' he > said. > > > > Over the last few days, Saudi Sheikh Abdel Mohsen al-Abyakan > stressed > > the fact that a wife should resort to 'the same kind of violence' as > > her husband used against her, whether it be with a leather strap or > a > > wire cable, the paper said. > > > > Prominent Turkish Muslim preacher and writer Fethullah Gulen went > one > > step further and ruled that a woman should return the violence with > > interest. > > > > 'She should give back two blows for each one received,' the paper > > quoted him as saying. > > > > Rights groups quoted by Amnesty International say that 35 percent of > > Egyptian women killed each year die as a result of domestic > violence. > > > > > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] >