Kalo pikiran seperti sampeyan gini, ama pohon juga akan bisa jadi 
lebih baik kok!...:-)))

wassalam,
--- In wanita-muslimah@yahoogroups.com, "Ari Condro" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
>
> 
> Sibuk amat cari pemimpi lain ... Eh, pemimpin lain !.  
> 
> Btw, cari pemimpin yg manusia atau bukan ?  Perempuan atau 
lelaki ?  Soale yg desperate sama lawan jenis, bisa jadi pindah ke 
lain hati, kepincut ke sesama jenis.  
> 
> Tapi gak halal secara islam.
> *tapi kan karena kepaksa, ya gak, daripada sama pohon*
> 
> 
> 
> 
> 
> -----Original Message-----
> From: "Lina Dahlan" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> 
> Date: Wed, 29 Oct 2008 08:18:31 
> To: <wanita-muslimah@yahoogroups.com>
> Subject: [wanita-muslimah] Re: Fatwa: Istri Korban KDRT, LAWAN!
> 
> 
> Kalo fatwa kedua Syekh ini berlaku bagi istrinya yang jago karate.
> Kalo fatwa nya Yesus berlaku bagi istri yang menikmati tuk 
ditampar: 
> tampar pipi kiri, kasih yang kanan...:-)
> 
> Kalo Syekh Lina (yang belon kenal ama Syekh Siti Jenar) memfatwakan 
> untung melawan KDRT dengan cara yang sama dengan QS4:34 itu dengan 
> menempuh 3 langkah sbb:
> 
> 1) Nasehatin suami 2) Pisahin ranjang suami 3) pukul balik suami 
> dengan gugat cerai
> 
> Soale Syekh Lina takut kalo membalas suami dengan pukulan plus 
bunga, 
> suami bakal makin kalap and gelap mata, bunga bangkaipun akan 
> diberikannya..
> 
> Soale lagi..nasehat AlQur'an itu adalah berlaku untuk para 
> suami/lelaki yang diharapkan Tuhan jadi pemimpin. Kalo laki/suami 
gak 
> bisa jadi pemimpin, seperti harapanNYA, kan kudu' ada jalan 
> keluarnya. Salah satu jalan keluarnya...cari pemimpin laen...:-)))
> 
> wassalam,
> Syekh Lina
> --- In wanita-muslimah@yahoogroups.com, "Dwi Soegardi" <soegardi@> 
> wrote:
> >
> > Syekh Al-Azhar memfatwakan istri yang dianiaya oleh suami, berhak 
> melawan.
> > Dipukul balas pukul.
> > 
> > Sedangkan ulama Turki Fethullah Gulen melangkah lebih jauh, istri
> > berhak membalas penganiayaan suami plus bunganya.
> > Dipukul sekali balas pukul dua kali.
> > 
> > http://www.arabtimesonline.com/kuwaitnews/pagesdetails.asp?
> nid=24044&ccid=18
> > 
> >  Egypt sheikh backs women's right to beat husbands
> > 
> > 
> > CAIRO, Oct 27, 2008 (AFP) - Sunni Islam's highest authority has
> > approved a woman's right to fight back if her husband uses 
violence
> > against her, Egypt's Al-Masry al-Youm newspaper reported on 
Monday.
> > 
> > The declaration by Sheikh Abdel Hamid al-Atrash, who heads Al-
Azhar
> > University's committee for fatwas or religious rulings, comes 
after
> > similar rulings by religious leaders in Saudi Arabia and Turkey.
> > 
> > 'A wife has the legitimate right to hit her husband in order to 
> defend
> > herself,' Atrash was quoted as saying.
> > 
> > 'Everyone has the right to defend themselves, whether they are a 
man
> > or a woman... because all human beings are equal before God,' he 
> said.
> > 
> > Over the last few days, Saudi Sheikh Abdel Mohsen al-Abyakan 
> stressed
> > the fact that a wife should resort to 'the same kind of violence' 
as
> > her husband used against her, whether it be with a leather strap 
or 
> a
> > wire cable, the paper said.
> > 
> > Prominent Turkish Muslim preacher and writer Fethullah Gulen went 
> one
> > step further and ruled that a woman should return the violence 
with
> > interest.
> > 
> > 'She should give back two blows for each one received,' the paper
> > quoted him as saying.
> > 
> > Rights groups quoted by Amnesty International say that 35 percent 
of
> > Egyptian women killed each year die as a result of domestic 
> violence.
> >
> 
> 
> 
> 
> 
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