>But, my point is can hatred solve the problem?
> 
> One hate you, so you hate him in return. Where is the end?



**** Very well said Sushanta. It IS the crux of the matter.






On Aug 19, 2010, at 11:19 PM, Sushanta Kar wrote:

> *"I had sensed ' hate' in others really well.There
> are certain truths in this world that cannot be erased."
> *
> Correct  words Kamal! That's why I don't prescribe those ideas that
> Chauvinism here is only Assamese Specific. That's why I wrote , it's a
> British and post British Indian disease. It's Bengali, whom parochialism is
> nonparallel to any other Indian. It's Bengali, who started imitating the
> very British concept of Nation State Building in India. And the result is
> Division of Bengal.
> 
> Rest are on you. You are intelligent enough to get the points. No truth can
> be erased. You need not to. Dhruba Jyoti, and possibly you too, can't
> imagine that even I'm concerned about the future of Assam  and Assamese,
> where Bengali may turned into majority. Dhruba Jyoti  is right, a good
> section of  Bengali elite are waiting for the day silently.  And If all the
> immigrant muslim write their mother tongue as Bengali in next census the day
> is not far .
> But, my point is can hatred solve the problem?
> One hate you, so you hate him in return. Where is the end?
> We had our own mechanism of unity and assimilation in Pre-British India and
> Assam.
> No one was concerned about who is Bengali and Assamese then. Most of the
> people doesn't knew the meaning of such words.
> What we can do is, We can invent those age old mechanism,  edit the present
> truth and re-write the history.
> It doesn't matter , if  any Assamese like Dhruba Jyoti hate me or not, Assam
> was/ is My Land. I'm one of those minority Democrat ( Be they Assamese or
> Bengali or whatever else) do believe from my heart that it's Assam and NE
> India will teach India how to re-invent and practice true spirit of India
> "Unity in Diversity', Teach India how to respect and accept the 'OTHERS' and
> live in with peace and tranquility.
> 
> 
> Sushanta Kar
> 
> 
> 
> On Fri, Aug 20, 2010 at 8:58 AM, kamal deka <kjit.d...@gmail.com> wrote:
> 
>> To all Netters save moderator,
>> Lest I be misunderstood,let me be explicit here by saying that I am
>> not ,by any reckoning,trying to defend Dhrubojyoti Deka for allegedly
>> using unpolished and unrefined words ( I don't know if he did) in this
>> Net.
>> 
>> However,it reminds me of Voltaire, who once suggested that he would
>> disagree with his opponent, but would defend to the death the
>> opponent's right to have an opinion. We simply cannot force him to
>> self-censor.That will be a naughty, naughty idea.
>> 
>> I was born in Tinsukia and spent quiet a few years of my life there.I
>> know how it feels like to be an Assamese in that milieu--a town where
>> we were the only Assamese ( in the main town).I also spent a few years
>> in Silchar and I had a providential escape one night during the peak
>> of Assam Movement.Those pontificating goody two shoes will never be
>> able to convince me about certain things which will remain indelibly
>> branded in my memory .I had sensed ' hate' in others really well.There
>> are certain truths in this world that cannot be erased.
>> 
>> FINALLY,PACIFISM WORKS ONLY IF BOTH SIDES AGREE TO PLAY BY THE SAME
>> SET OF RULES.
>> 
>> Kamaljit Deka
>> 
>> On Thu, Aug 19, 2010 at 8:46 PM, Dhruba Jyoti Deka
>> <dhrubajyotid...@hotmail.com> wrote:
>>> 
>>> Are you threatening me? By showing CC, Moderator at top?
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> Nothing to response your meaningless sentances.
>>> 
>>>> Date: Thu, 19 Aug 2010 18:32:23 -0700
>>>> From: ankur_bora2...@yahoo.com
>>>> To: assam@assamnet.org
>>>> Subject: Re: [Assam] Ramayana in Comic form
>>>> 
>>>> Cc : Moderator , Assam Net
>>>> 
>>>> Dhruba Jyoti ,
>>>> 
>>>> You mentioned in your earlier posting that you were kidding about the
>> topic. Your subsequent postings are quite contrary to that.
>>>> Are you kidding or are ‘you serious ?
>>>> If you are serious, have you noticed  the list of websites below the
>> signature of  Sushanta. Have you gone through the online link of “Pragyan”?
>> Pragyan is a fruition  of painstaking work of  Sushanta and teachers of
>> Tinsukia college. Pragyan has guided thousands of studenst of Tinsukia and
>> that region in career planning , higher study , creativity and leadership.
>> There are valuable articles published in the Assamese section of  Pragyan
>> related to Assamese language , culture and history.
>>>> In the story of blind men and the elephant , each man described the
>> animal based on the part that they could feel i.e. the  foreleg , the tail
>> and the trunk. Each one insisted that he alone was correct. Of course, there
>> was no conclusion for not one had thoroughly examined the whole elephant.
>> Their observation was limited to parts of the body, they could not realize
>> the magnificence and the splendor of the majestic creature.
>>>> Would you continue to focus only on the “signature dots”  or will you
>> open yourself  to the total of the parts ?
>>>> I am not kidding here , seriously.
>>>> Ankur Bora
>>>> 
>>>> 
>>>> 
>>>> --- On Thu, 8/19/10, Dhruba Jyoti Deka <dhrubajyotid...@hotmail.com>
>> wrote:
>>>> 
>>>> 
>>>> From: Dhruba Jyoti Deka <dhrubajyotid...@hotmail.com>
>>>> Subject: Re: [Assam] Ramayana in Comic form
>>>> To: "A Mailing list for people interested in Assam from around the
>> world" <assam@assamnet.org>
>>>> Date: Thursday, August 19, 2010, 1:55 PM
>>>> 
>>>> 
>>>> Sorry for that. But i have seen usage of such slang recently by 2 senior
>> fellow here.
>>>> 
>>>>> From: absarangap...@hotmail.com
>>>>> To: cmaha...@gmail.com; assam@assamnet.org
>>>>> Date: Thu, 19 Aug 2010 20:39:15 +0000
>>>>> Subject: Re: [Assam] Ramayana in Comic form
>>>>> 
>>>>> That's what I was going to say. Can we or should we bear with this
>> type of behavior here in Assam Net? I can't believe in today's world this
>> type of mentality is still there. I thought it was a passe`.
>>>>> 
>>>>> -ABS
>>>>> 
>>>>> Sent via BlackBerry by AT&T
>>>>> 
>>>>> -----Original Message-----
>>>>> From: Chan Mahanta <cmaha...@gmail.com>
>>>>> Date: Thu, 19 Aug 2010 20:22:48
>>>>> To: <assam@assamnet.org>
>>>>> Subject: Re: [Assam] Ramayana in Comic form
>>>>> 
>>>>> Dhruba:
>>>>> 
>>>>> Those are extremely intemperate words and have no place in a forum
>> like assamnet. I don't know how much you know about this forum, but  I have
>> been in this net for a very long time, over 12 t years.  There have been
>> instances like this before, but most of us nipped those in the bud.
>>>>> 
>>>>> Please do NOT ever again use such vitriol against anybody, I don't
>> care who.
>>>>> 
>>>>> I can assure you, most of us ion this forum will share my view. And I
>> invite everyone , who wish to, stand up and be counted on WHAT is right!
>> Remember, when we lose our voices when it is important to set things
>> straight, silence is not a virtue.
>>>>> 
>>>>> cm
>>>>> 
>>>>> 
>>>>> 
>>>>> 
>>>>> 
>>>>> 
>>>>> 
>>>>> On Aug 19, 2010, at 2:54 PM, Dhruba Jyoti Deka wrote:
>>>>> 
>>>>>> I am mailing from mobile, due to power failure. That is why I will
>> not be able to go point to point or detailed because of character
>> limitation.
>>>>>> 
>>>>>> Now, Mr Sushanta, you a***** deserve only hatred. And what the hell
>> is PRANTIK? Do not say what it was. Say what it is.
>>>>>> This time I would like to express that I hate Bengali people.
>> Because nuisance always want that other should read and learn bangla, but
>> never u nuisance read and learn other language's literature. You do write is
>> another thing, that may be done by dictation and writing by other.
>>>>>> 
>>>>>> Final saying, it is assamnet, not your banglanet. It is all about
>> Assam, not about your bangla and Rabindranath, who licked toes of british
>> for prizes, while other were getting killed fighting against british.
>>>>>> 
>>>>>> You people are the snake of hidden corner, for whom, bangladeshis
>> are getting ease to settle in Assam. You people helping them, so that one
>> day bangla becomes the majority language of assam. Bloody backbitter
>> bangladeshi.
>>>>>> 
>>>>>>> From: pragyan.ts...@gmail.com
>>>>>>> Date: Thu, 19 Aug 2010 23:47:16 +0530
>>>>>>> To: assam@assamnet.org
>>>>>>> Subject: [Assam] Ramayana in Comic form
>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>> Dear
>>>>>>> Krishnendu and others
>>>>>>> "'I have always found a handful chauvinist like you who are up in
>> arms to
>>>>>>> discourage people like me or Sushanta.' said Krishnendu.
>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>> That's why very few Bengali come and join here.
>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>> Dhrubojyoty started all these arguments only because he hate
>> Bengali. There
>>>>>>> is no use of argue with him. I'm not going to.
>>>>>>> I can only state that there are thousands of Bengali here in Assam
>> and
>>>>>>> Elsewhere who also hate Assamese and never talk anything positive
>> about
>>>>>>> them. I have bad experiences with them either.
>>>>>>> The point is, dose Dhruba Deka and people like him want that
>> those people
>>>>>>> living in Assam and speak languages other then Assamese should
>> create
>>>>>>> separate  group and talk all the rubbish like Dhrubajyoti  against
>> Assamese.
>>>>>>> Will it be a healthy practice?
>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>> As far my knowledge goes, in University level Assamese was first
>> introduced
>>>>>>> in Kolkata University. After creation of GU and DU Assamese
>> department there
>>>>>>> ceased to exist only because dearth of Student. Saying thus, I
>> don't want to
>>>>>>> certify West Bengal as as  ideal state of the country. I don't
>> need to.
>>>>>>> Because that was/ is not my state.
>>>>>>> Rather , Personally I think , it's a  disease which was imported
>> from modern
>>>>>>> Europe and has infected whole the country and all the states.( I'm
>> talking
>>>>>>> about the very concept of 'Nation State and nation Building'.)
>> Every one is
>>>>>>> here busy with creating their own nation. And so, no where in
>> India minority
>>>>>>> linguistic groups enjoys the equal status and honor. Most of the
>> linguistic
>>>>>>> group has no state to claim their own. That's why Rajbonshis are
>> fighting
>>>>>>> against both Assam and Bengal government for recognition of their
>> mother
>>>>>>> tongues.
>>>>>>> Ask them , they will say if the government and Middle Class
>> Bengali and
>>>>>>> Assamese has any different attitude towards them. To my knowledge,
>> No. No
>>>>>>> one want them to secede from the Majority language! If they are
>> Bengali,
>>>>>>> then WB Bengali should have been fight for their right in Assam.
>> If they are
>>>>>>> Assamese ,Assamese should have been fight for their right in
>> Bengal. But,
>>>>>>> who bother? Rather  friends like Dhruba Jyoti Deka  prefer to
>> behave same
>>>>>>> way in thier  own state. This was he will forget those Assamese
>> who lives
>>>>>>> elsewhere, specially in WB and Bangladesh. His Bengali counterpart
>> will
>>>>>>> exclude  those Bengali who live out side the Border of WB.
>>>>>>> Dhrubajyoti may consider Bengali as Migrant in Assam, I'm not. He
>> just
>>>>>>> forgot that present Assam is a
>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>> Conglomeration of different region and part of provinces of
>> British India. A
>>>>>>> Part of Bengal also transferred to Assam. He has referred to
>> Bengali of
>>>>>>> Cachar, who thinks Cachar is not part of Assam and they use the
>> word Assam
>>>>>>> for Brahmaputra valley . He hate Bengali so he referred Bengali
>> only  . We
>>>>>>> often hear Whenever an Assamese talk about Assam he means
>> Brahmaputra
>>>>>>> Vally.  Only the other day AGP MPs raise question in Parliament
>> about the
>>>>>>> big river dam in Assam. They talked about Dams in Arunachal
>> Pradeh. didn't
>>>>>>> uttered a word about Tipaimukh Dam. Being a college teacher I
>> often hear my
>>>>>>> college say Assam has only three University, GU, DU and TU . They
>> just
>>>>>>> forget that there is another University call Assam university at
>> Silchar.
>>>>>>> I'm not citing these example to finds faults . I'd just request
>> you all to
>>>>>>> find the reason behind such people's psycho.
>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>> Whole India is infected with such problems and very few want it to
>> be
>>>>>>> treated positively.  I know a good number of  Barak Velley People
>> are
>>>>>>> waiting eagerly for separation of NC Hills and Karbi Anglong from
>> Assam, so
>>>>>>> that they get it without any blood loss. That will be another
>> Bengali lead
>>>>>>> province that way. People like Dhruba Jyoti are only  working for
>> that dream
>>>>>>> comes true!
>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>> That's why , I don't consider post colonial India is an ideal
>> country to be
>>>>>>> happy with.
>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>> Each and Every minority here lives with a guilty feeling . As if
>> he is
>>>>>>> living in a foreign land. Each and every Bengali, be he or she a
>> chauvinist
>>>>>>> or a democrat like me  has to always produce certificate  for  his
>> loyalty
>>>>>>> towards mejortity group.Or they require a supporter like Chandanda
>> or
>>>>>>> Uttamda or Ramda to feel secured .
>>>>>>> If we get compel to follow people like Sri Deka and his or her
>> ideals , I
>>>>>>> don't know if Axom will be 'Xunor Axom' in near future , but,
>> India will be
>>>>>>> a worst country to feel proud about and live in.
>>>>>>> I know a good number of  Barak Velley People are waiting eagerly
>> for
>>>>>>> separation of NC Hills and Karbi Anglong from Assam, so that they
>> get it
>>>>>>> without any blood loss. That will be another Bengali lead province
>> that way.
>>>>>>> People like Dhruba Jyoti are only  working for that dream comes
>> true!
>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>> Dhruba Jyoti has said he can read Bengali,Just read a quotation
>> from Old Mad
>>>>>>> Rabindranath in My signature ,""??????????? ??????? ???? ??????
>> ?????
>>>>>>> ???????, ????? ????? ?????? ??????"
>>>>>>> Sushanta Kar
>>>>>>> ??????? ??
>>>>>>> ??????????, ????
>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>> ???? ????????:
>>>>>>> http://sushantakar40.blogspot.com
>>>>>>> http://ishankonerkahini.blogspot.com
>>>>>>> http://ishankonerkotha.blogspot.com
>>>>>>> ???? ???????? '????????'
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>>>>>>> http://sites.google.com/site/pragyan06now
>>>>>>> ??? ???????????? ???? ?? ???????? ??? ???:
>>>>>>> http://www.xobdo.org/
>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>> "??????????? ??????? ???? ?????? ????? ???????, ????? ????? ??????
>> ??????"
>>>>>>> ???????????
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