Points taken. I was being attacked and ridiculed from all sides and became very short fused.
On Wed, Aug 18, 2010 at 12:35 PM, Larry C. Lyons <larrycly...@gmail.com> wrote: > > You had made a very definitive statement when stating a distance, but > could not supply a reason. Just hostility. > > Instead what I am suggesting is that when confronted with that sort of > counter, look at your reasons why. For instance if it the response was > "it feels better, I'm more comfortable with it." That's a more > reasonable response and much more acceptable to other than what you > displayed.Chances are it would have been accepted etc than your actual > response to the question, which generated insults flying back and > forth when it was never necessary. > > I know I've been more than just a bit guilty in doing so myself. I am > trying to change such with this part of the thread by making more > constructive comments, and trying to change the tone of the > conversation to something more positive. > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Order the Adobe Coldfusion Anthology now! http://www.amazon.com/Adobe-Coldfusion-Anthology-Michael-Dinowitz/dp/1430272155/?tag=houseoffusion Archive: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/cf-community/message.cfm/messageid:325474 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/cf-community/subscribe.cfm Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/cf-community/unsubscribe.cfm