--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "sparaig" <lengli...@...> wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, ruthsimplicity <no_reply@> wrote: > > > > One thing I have learned by this little exchange and others is that > > apparently it is fine with the culture here to dis someone in public > > based on a personal message. Okie dokie. > > > > > Um, feeling defensive are we? > >
Defensive is not the word. It is the fact that there is not enough of a level of trust between us that I can't even ask a private question off hand without you using it as a gotcha on the public forum. Personally, I never disclose what people say to me in a pm unless they make a disclosure first. Some people here have shared private information with me, including who they are in "real life." I hope people here see now how risky that could be if you share with the wrong person.
