On Sun, Mar 1, 2009 at 7:01 PM, lurkernomore20002000 <steve.sun...@sbcglobal.net> wrote: > Not sure if this makes any sense, but I find it kind of incredible > when people respond with "softened" emotions, rather than "hardened" > emotions. Edg could have responeded to Grate with a 'fuck you" > attitude like many here do. Instead he responded in what I would > desribe a more balanced way, leaving the door open for further, > dialogue. And what does Grate do. He also responds in a friendler, > emotional tone. I think this is what they call more "enlightened" > conflict resolution. Different than the normal fare we often get > here.
Of course there are no rules when responding to someone we think has just said something not PC, right? I mean dialog and civility can't allow someone saying something that violates what we feel are the proper sense of values, can we? We are honor bound to pummel such a person until they see the world through our eyes, right?