Alright....I might buy most of this.....I am "taken in" by you...you have pushed me and I appreciate that. But, while I do understand the concept that you might feel the other persons pain after humiliating them....why choose that tactic? It's not clear to me how humiliation really serves anyone except yourself possibly. < P.S. I might be close on my posts. When the post count goes out...what is UT...how do I translate that to Pacific Time?
>________________________________ > From: Ravi Chivukula <chivukula.r...@gmail.com> >To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com >Sent: Wednesday, December 28, 2011 9:37 PM >Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: SECOND Open [non-performance] Letter to Ravi >Chivukula > > > >And Denise, yes Winner from the perspective of the one who wanted to challenge >me. Now having humiliated this person, I feel that person's emotions - hurt, >pain, anger, because they are another part of me, how can I not feel hurt? > > >But I am able to quickly internalize and transform these emotions, both mine >and the other. I feel joy and blissful very quickly. > > > > > >On Dec 28, 2011, at 9:19 PM, Ravi Chivukula <chivukula.r...@gmail.com> wrote: > > >" >>Hmmmmm......the "winner" ....huh. Your statement here is a bit convoluted. >>If you have no agenda, then why do you have to "win." You make some >>assumptions here about "the person who approaches you.".." >> >> >>Ravi - Approaches with an agenda that is, as in to confront me. Winner only >>from their perspective. I don't care either way, but the choice to play or >>withdraw with my playful humor or entice them with my love is entirely up to >>my intuition. >> >> >> >> >>"Yes...."if you so desire" you can use whatever tactics please you....."you >>remain untouched." This is your reality then? " >> >> >>Yes. Since I'm ever alert I just adapt seamlessly, a bit unruffled at first >>on a completely new situation but never throws me off balance. It's work in >>progress anyway, I will only get better. >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >>On Dec 28, 2011, at 9:10 PM, Emily Reyn <emilymae.r...@yahoo.com> wrote: >> >> >> >>><snip> >>>Anyway my 99 cents on this. The only way anyone can approach me, understand >>>me, conquer me is through love. >>>< >>>I know this Ravi. This is true for all humans, in the end. This is why I >>>sent you that painting - it really is a beautiful piece (IMHO). I think Bob >>>understood what I was saying as he was the only one to respond, except for >>>your initial response. It was not at all about my fixation with the male >>>sex organ (and I do not have a fixation btw). Robin thought someone should >>>meet you where you were at...that was my attempt :) >>> >>> >>><snip> >>>If someone approaches me with an agenda to one up me, with a belief, through >>>the intellect I will always be the winner because I myself have no agenda, >>>no beliefs so this person who approaches me thus is completely vulnerable to >>>my attacks. If I so desire I will use my toxic tongue and caustic sarcasm to >>>humiliate them or may be like Barry says rip them a new asshole or I may >>>just my playful detached humor to escape or use my unconditional love to >>>spoil them with attention, love, humility and kindness. Either way I remain >>>untouched, untainted, untarnished by anything outside of me. >>>< >>>Hmmmmm......the "winner" ....huh. Your statement here is a bit convoluted. >>>If you have no agenda, then why do you have to "win." You make some >>>assumptions here about "the person who approaches you." Yes...."if you so >>>desire" you can use whatever tactics please you....."you remain untouched." >>>This is your reality then? >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>>>________________________________ >>>> >>>> > > >
