Thanks Ann, yeah, it just sort of dribbles out, somehow, and I enjoy the process.
As far as Barry, I don't really see the shit he does, for much more than his burrowing deeper under the covers. He has put himself under a tremendous stress, now that his story is no longer working for him, in general. Our body, all that goop, knows the truth about us. After all, it has lived through it, heard every thought, and felt every feeling. So, when we try to bullshit ourselves, which may involve flinging same on others, its gonna eventually cause problems. We have an expectation as we grow older, things get better, easier, more in tune with what makes us happy. But if life goes the other way, and we find ourselves more frustrated with age, and basically with everyone, and everything, time for some retrospection, challenging of basic assumptions, and basically getting out of the way as much as possible. Unfortunately for some, the conflict between the once nourishing story of themselves, and its current parched reality, cannot be faced, so they continue to double down on emptiness, and continue to end up with nothing. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Ann" <awoelflebater@...> wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ <no_reply@> wrote: > > > > I think Judy and Ann drive you nuts, because they are women. > > > > Remember what I posted about your mom never finding fault with you, and > > your dad always doing so? It seems pretty clear that when a woman exposes > > your lameness, you then feel as if both sexes have given up on you, and you > > write compensatory garbage, designed to *kill* the messages of inadequacy > > that you just can't get out of your mind, after all these years. > > > > Sick puppy. > > Jim, I think you are one of the more sophisticated posters here and not > because I agree with much of what you say or because you apparently 'like' > me. Although your observations and viewpoints can be hard hitting at times > you don't appear to ever come from a place of malice or with the intent to > stir up shit between anyone. You just say it like you see it, and unlike the > post of Barry's below, your posts stand on their own as having no real agenda > to incite dissension between different people. You are smart and I believe > you to be brave on this forum. > > Barry accuses others of piling on in an attempt to 'get' people. He accuses > them of all sorts of malevolent intentions below. We also all know that in > 'real life' Barry wouldn't give Share the time of day (sorry Share, but you > know it's true also). Barry has an agenda to 'use' Share for his own ends as > evidenced by the post below. He is much worse than the people he berates. He > is worse because he doesn't actually care about Share or how many people > 'gang' up on her, not really. He is using her to promote his own agenda of > hate. Barry is never interested in arresting the progress of hurt or > misunderstanding in his posts. At best he points out how terrible or wrong > someone is for 'going after' another person at worst that impulse is always > motivated by a kind of blood lust. Barry thrives on discord and he does a lot > here to see that things are not resolved but negativity perpetuated. His > 'solutions' for those he pretends he cares about, because they are being > persecuted by another, are never 'solutions' that involve feeling or > understanding or empathy or compromise or willingness to grow or learn from a > situation. > > I know you see this very clearly, Jim but some others do not or will not > admit that they do. I think really exposing these tactics to the light of day > is necessary to illustrate how ugly they are. Those who are unhappy rarely > seem to want to encourage happiness in others. For Barry it seems to be all > about encouraging others to do the exact opposite of what could result in > peaceful resolution. Luckily, Share appeared to respond to Barry very well. I > want to write a post to her about that and will. > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb <no_reply@> wrote: > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long <sharelong60@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Earth Day is ending, the lawn > > > > of my lady-parts is still not green. > > > > Has J's curse gone astray, dear grey? > > > > > > Share, despite AZ's...uh...colorful metaphor, I don't think > > > you're in danger of your lady parts turning green any time > > > soon. However, I think I detect a distinct tinge of jealousy- > > > green coming from the person who has been reduced to sputter- > > > ing badly-tranliterated Yiddish insults at you. :-) > > > > > > What's going on is that she has been counting on you being > > > her Ongoing Victim, and in being to get you to rise to the > > > bait whenever she taunts you. You have been failing to do > > > that, which drives her CRAZY because she considers herself > > > so much SMARTER than you are. > > > > > > ALL of her fantasies (as expressed on this forum, anyway... > > > who knows what she fantasizes about privately) revolve > > > around *ruining someone's day*, and making them feel bad > > > because she's "proved them wrong" or "made them appear to > > > look stupid" or devastated them with her oh-so-barbed > > > tongue. And NONE Of that has been working on you. > > > > > > You've been doing to her what Curtis did to Robin and what > > > I've done to Judy for some time -- LAUGHING AT HER. And > > > this drives her stark raving bonkers. She really can't > > > COMPREHEND how anyone can sit back and *not* react to her > > > ongoing taunts and insults, so you've essentially confounded > > > her and rendered her powerless and sputtering in a language > > > she (clearly) doesn't even know. > > > > > > Read my lips...if this keeps up, and you continue to just > > > laugh at her taunts and those of her groupies trying to > > > get you to react, they'll eventually move on to some other > > > victim. Possibly (and more entertainingly) they'll start > > > to turn on each other. The important thing from their > > > point of view is that they HAVE a victim, and that they > > > are AFFECTING that victim, making them feel bad, being the > > > chronic abusers they are against co-dependent victims who > > > "play along" by agreeing to feel abused. > > > > > > If we just LAUGH at them (while pitying them a little for > > > the emptiness of a life that renders this their only form > > > of entertainment or fulfillment) and go on living our > > > lives AS IF THEY SIMPLY DIDN'T MATTER, sooner or later > > > one or more of them might catch a clue and realize that > > > THEY DON'T. > > > > > > > ________________________________ > > > > From: azgrey <no_re...@yahoogroups.com> > > > > To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com > > > > Sent: Monday, April 22, 2013 6:14 PM > > > > Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: what a Sunday on FFL > > > > > > > > Dear Share, > > > > > > > > Google has a full translation function. I'm not sure that > > > > the Jerseyese section contains all of the dialects as what > > > > I came up with is she either wants to preform sanyama > > > > on your lawn or is expressing an unnatural interest in the > > > > operation of your lady-parts. > > > > > > > > Alex might be able to help as he seen to be a native speaker. > > > > He might have to first get a refill on his ointment. > > > > > > > > Hugs, > > > > > > > > azgrey > > > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <authfriend@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Share, are you familiar with the expression "Blow it > > > > > out your ass"? > > > > > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long <sharelong60@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Judy, your biases are noted. As is your continuing self > > > > > > delusion about the presence of those biases and your ongoing > > > > > > inability to see more complete truth much less express it. > > > > > (snip) > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long <sharelong60@> > > > > > > wrote: > > > > > > (snip) > > > > > > > from Judy, best expression of her *hypochondria:àI'm allergic > > > > > > > to dishonesty. > > > > > > (snip) > > > > > > > *hypochondria n. The persistent conviction that one is or is > > > > > > > likely to become ill, often involving symptoms when illness > > > > > > > is neither present nor likely, > > > > > > > > > > > > Says the person who has to her discredit an *astounding* > > > > > > number of examples of the most flagrant dishonesty--most > > > > > > recently her combined smear of raunchy and Robin today-- > > > > > > including rewriting history as documented by *her own > > > > > > posts*, and who has been unable either to explain away > > > > > > the dishonesty or acknowledge it. > > > > > > > > > > > > (And by the way, the symptoms of allergy *are* the illness.) > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >
